GiantParrot:


This is hilarious. Simps have truly enabled female narcissism now more than ever, and have made many young women very shortsighted. That is why someone can believe that a vagina makes her a prize. Perhaps a short term prize for Chads who are ever ready to pump and dump. The thread is intended to promote the idea of mutual respect/regard by both parties in a relationship. But you managed to reduce it all to males spending to get into "prized" female pants. You must be very young. Remember this post in the next 10-15 years when you realize that a woman's physical appeal diminishes rather quickly with time, and that decency and maturity are what make a person of long term value.

ubunja:
Jojo thats the truth I tell you. They have not grasped the full equation of relationships: being bad gets you women AT THE BEGINNING WHEN THEY ARE FRESH AND SWEET.
Being good gets you women AT THE END WHEN THEY ARE DAMAGED TRASH.

Saffi:
No beautiful young girl with many options, is going to chase you. Especially if you don’t have money, or some kind of noticeable status in society. You will be forgotten as they're richer and more reasonable guys willing to get her. please stop being delusional. This method can only work on ugly women who are unwanted anyways and will do anything to have the bare minimum of attention from any guy, or women with extremely low self esteem. Wake up from your dreams please.

It can only work if you have moneeyyyy, and most of you don’t have it. Sorryyyy lol

ubunja:
well she started chasing me when she was a virgin. So I know what I'm talking about.
About her looks don't worry. Get my WhatsApp details on my profile and one of these days you'll see my daughter. I usually put her as my profile pic. Judging by her looks you'll estimate her mother's looks.

Polchiz:

In the end those men will dump the so-called beautiful girl and go in search of a marriageable girl.
There are many beautiful and single ladies in their 30s. They have 50 boyfriends but no husband.

Saffi:
Your ex girlfriend is either average or unattractive or has extremely low self esteem and will receive any type of validation from a man. You probably didn’t spend a dime on her and she opened her legs to be your baby mum? Not matter what you say, you can’t compare her to desirable ladies in society. Now that she’s your babymama her value has decreased so of course, she will chase you endlessly. I can assure you that she’s not a high class woman with many options, that men crave to have. So keep on feeling good about yourself because you have the lowest of the lowest class of woman as your babymum begging for your attention. The fact that she’s your baby mum already tells me the type of woman she is.

Saffi:
But they’re hundreds of weddings going on every Saturday? Umm okay then.

Saffi:
This is why as a woman it is important to take advantage of your youth, it’s the easiest tool to get what you want in life. Who still wants to be dating at 50? By that time, that chapter should be closed in any woman’s life. So Biko, yes you are right. Physical appearance diminishes as you age you’re right, that’s why you must do all you can now to reap the benefits later. If a woman cannot see that she is the prize now in her 20s and 30s, she will be on an endless search till old age trying so hard to please a man. She will be used and abused, and in return will become bitter.

ubunja:
you don't have to put another woman down whom you don't even know just to make a point that doesn't exist.

ubunja:
lmfao.
It's everywhere. It's just that guys don't go for the girls who really love them but force themselves on girls that never really love them. When a girl loves you she puts effort. She never sits on her hands.
It's sad but most guys will die never knowing the love of a girl that is pure and self-generated.

Saffi:
Well no high class confident sensible desirable woman in her 20s will become a babymum to a man who doesn’t even have money. I need you to stop being delusional. Your baby mum is not extremely desirable and she never has been. Stop feeling yourself for no reason. Your tricks can only work on below than average women.

Saffi:
But they’re hundreds of weddings going on every Saturday? Umm okay then.

Onliie:
Most girls that love me look like shit

GiantParrot:


Interesting.

What exactly should a young woman do now to reap the benefits later?

What do these benefits look like?

What makes you think a woman in her 30s still has a high sexual market value when a new set of young women turn 23 every year?

Kingjames:
na me dem dey talk to honestly

have learnt a lot from this thread

most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

catwalq:


For pie's sake what kinda people have you been dealing with? I mean,how can you put someone in a box and only refer to em when it suits you and it somehow increases their desire for you? I don't get how that works...

ubunja:
then it means two things:

1) fvck them by the truckload and dump them

2)improve yourself. You'll see the class of ladies that give you the eye improve also. Improve your warddrobe. Hit the gymn. Such things.

Saffi:
Wait. Do you know how many 23 year olds look 31 in this generation? You won’t even be able to tell the difference between at 24 year old and a 30 year old woman so what the hell are you saying?. But realistically, 23,23,25 to 30 the difference is relatively 5 years. I’m sorry but are you telling me in 5 years a single woman will just crumble into an old woman that automatically becomes undesirable to all men? You guys really need to grow up. Realistically most women do not start losing their looks until they start having children and add weight, but age wise, I’ll say after 36/35 the looks start to fade and aging begins. And this depends on the person. Listen, I’m a realist I don’t have to lie about nothing, I see things for what they are. But I need you guys to stop being delusional and actually wake up.

Acidosis:
Truth is if you enjoy the kind of attention the average woman enjoys on a daily basis, you wouldn't give a flying fck about who calls you or not.

If you want to understand the trick, try and date at least 4 women at the same time. It would take you around 2-3 days to realize you haven't heard from one of the four women. Why should you care or remember when 3 have gotten you overwhelmed with calls and chats?

Bottom line is many of you guys are nothing but mere OPTIONS. That you make them your priority changes nothing.


[NB: This analogy is not applicable to those in serious and committed relationships though]

frozen70:
Don't get it wrong

If you want to act on ladies behaviour, be prepared to be miserable

Just accept them the way you can and if you can't tolerate it, just ignore or look for another one

They are different but with similar attributes

If you remove a cat and bring in a dog, they are all domestic animals

kikelomojessy:


Babe, stop stressing yourself. Stop teaching how to love.
You see on nairaland, whenever women issue comes up guys will start calling ladies all sort of names ( sebi Dem get sisters).

It's only a girl that does not love herself that'll allow a guy treat her anyhow.

The bottom line is that if there is love they won't count all these.

Imagine the op saying he ignored her whatsapp chats, good for him.

There is no way in naija a relationship will be 50-50. If you finally get a 50-50 relationship by chance, don't forget to share chores oh. Or dnt get mad when the lady feels she is equal to you.

All I know is that in any relationship if you feel less appreciated please leave.

GiantParrot:


Your response does not surprise me. Suit yourself. Nature does not care about anyone's delusions. Good luck.

QueenSekxy:
Biko, what type of garbage do we have today as men?
Lool.
Especially the ones I see on romance section, obviously kids in their early 20s.

kikelomojessy:


Babe, stop stressing yourself. Stop teaching these guys how to love.
You see on nairaland, whenever women issue comes up guys will start calling ladies all sort of names ( sebi Dem get sisters).

It's only a girl that does not love herself that'll allow a guy treat her anyhow.

The bottom line is that if there is love they won't count all these.

Imagine the op saying he ignored her whatsapp chats, good for him.

There is no way in naija a relationship will be 50-50. If you finally get a 50-50 relationship by chance, don't forget to share chores oh. Or dnt get mad when the lady feels she is equal to you.

All I know is that in any relationship if you feel less appreciated please leave.

ubunja:
yet the pandemic of babymamas continues to trend
Women know only to talk about what's good. But their actions oppose their words

Saffi:
Well no high class confident sensible desirable woman in her 20s will become a babymum to a man who doesn’t even have money. I need you to stop being delusional. Your baby mum is not extremely desirable and she never has been. Stop feeling yourself for no reason. Your tricks can only work on below than average women.

kikelomojessy:


Which one is baby mama in this now. You are a female right? Are you someone's baby mama.

Don't generalize your tots. Please stick with a guy dat treat you like you don't matter provided you are happy it's non of my business.

ubunja:
Jojo thats the truth I tell you. They have not grasped the full equation of relationships: being bad gets you women AT THE BEGINNING WHEN THEY ARE FRESH AND SWEET.
Being good gets you women AT THE END WHEN THEY ARE DAMAGED TRASH.

catwalq:


And that feeds your egoist appetite.