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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 6:58pm On May 09, 2019
luminouz:

Lefu...leave me jor...I.wan spend my tuition fee on onyeka...that's how to show her I love her...once I finish that,I will come borrow from you.. grin
onyeka haff given my friend decimal 10:10 to chop cry
buhari whyy?

Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by luminouz(m): 7:16pm On May 09, 2019
lefulefu:
onyeka haff given my friend decimal 10:10 to chop cry
buhari whyy?
Its love jor...not decimal 100:100 grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 7:18pm On May 09, 2019
luminouz:

Its love jor...not decimal 100:100 grin

Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Deji63: 7:30pm On May 09, 2019
ubunja:
what makes YOUR OWN wife, mother, sister and unborn daughter special from every other woman?

You are a fool Ubunja to talk to a man with the fear of God like that.

Every female in your lineage are low budget stinking hoes. You are bitter because Karma has dealt you blows you cannot survive.

Lucifer worshipping sore loser.

Your children will all die of incurable cancer one after the other.The world doesn't need devils from the loins of the dying monster, Ubunja. Watch before your very eyes how cancer snatches them away to HELL where they belong.

You think say you don hide behind computer. Na cancer go kill you and all the devils you bring come this life with your homosexual dick.

Sick narcissist.

People can now see through your demonic write ups. Thank God for that.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by aytuns(m): 8:57pm On May 09, 2019
ubunja:
its everything you are not
sigh... at this juncture, I rest my case.. You'll be fine
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by aytuns(m): 8:57pm On May 09, 2019
ubunja:
its everything you are not
sigh... at this juncture, I rest my case.. You'll be fine
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Raalsalghul: 9:31pm On May 09, 2019
aytuns:


sigh... at this juncture, I rest my case.. You'll be fine
Granted Ubunja might be extreme in his approach, you could learn one or two things from him.
Just saying...
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ojuwura(f): 11:58pm On May 09, 2019
highcollide:
Gentlemen. This is the modern woman for you. They twist your every statement against you. Every truth claim becomes a political statement that will be used against you. They hate the truth and will manipulate you at any moment. This thread has been all about our relationship with women, how they react when you're a nice guy and when you're a bad guy. When have we bashed women on this thread? can you see how the truth gets them angry? Can you see why the easiest way to get into a womans legs is to lie to her because she's very much comfortable with lies? Her hair, nails, face, bra, height etc they're all lies. All fake...


Nietszche wasn't wrong when he said "The great art of women is the LIE"....

If you make good use of your vision, you would have seen where ALL women were referred to as whores. If that's not bashing, can you give it a description?

The truth could be approached in a sensible manner. Let's not keep basking in credulity and think we are wise. If EVERY woman is fake, EVERY man who has ever gotten married to a woman from the beginning of time is a FOOL. Because only FOOLS see FAKE and go for it. I won't be surprised if you got a girl that makes your feet crumble but you are too afraid to tell her. AWON ONLINE WARRIORS.

Theodor Reik wasnt wrong when he said ''Even the wisest men make fools of themselves about women, and even the most foolish women are wise about men''.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ojuwura(f): 12:08am On May 10, 2019
aytuns:


sigh... at this juncture, I rest my case.. You'll be fine

Amen bro....its all we can do for him. Don't drag words, reply nor give him attention. Just PRAY.
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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 7:52am On May 10, 2019
ojuwura:


Amen bro....its all we can do for him. Don't drag words, reply nor give him attention. Just PRAY.
have you seen the number of people who follow me? Lmfao. Keep your attention.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by nwachukwu9(m): 9:06am On May 10, 2019
This thread is so real, i discovered that there is this guy that normally disturb my sister with phone calls, she treats him like poo and always tell him she is busy, meanwhile she is not busy, i even pity the guy. While there is another guy my sister normally calls all the time, and i observe that any time that guy calls her she would be very happy to pick his call and treat him as king.
Moral lesson: Girls love attention and would never reciprocrate to a sissy, i mean guy that treat a lady as if everything depend on her. Girls love guys that can correct her when she makes a mistake, sissy guys would not correct her because the treat her like heaven and are afraid to loose her, beat her very well and she would love u forever

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by delectablegyal(f): 9:12am On May 10, 2019
ubunja. give us a new miseducation. seems your popularity has been spiraled up with this thread. I see that people are surprised at the quote you give out. they must be newbiescheesy. a new miseducation for the weekend. let men be emancipated from pvssy slaverycheesy.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:13am On May 10, 2019
ojuwura:


If you make good use of your vision, you would have seen where ALL women were referred to as whores. If that's not bashing, can you give it a description?

The truth could be approached in a sensible manner. Let's not keep basking in credulity and think we are wise. If EVERY woman is fake, EVERY man who has ever gotten married to a woman from the beginning of time is a FOOL. Because only FOOLS see FAKE and go for it. I won't be surprised if you got a girl that makes your feet crumble but you are too afraid to tell her. AWON ONLINE WARRIORS.

Theodor Reik wasnt wrong when he said ''Even the wisest men make fools of themselves about women, and even the most foolish women are wise about men''.


After crying Wolf and opening one part of your mouth to accuse men of bashing women, you open the other side of your mouth and bash men.....

Your hypocrisy will continue to look at you in the eye.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by maak400: 12:55pm On Dec 24, 2019
pansophist:
This female behaviour is completely understood when you understand the underlying female psychology. Female psychology is in reverse to the Male.

Men are hardwired to care and be sacrificial for others, meanwhile, women are hardwired to be cared and catered for. Their psychology is in reverse to the Male, hence, the observation the poster described accurately. Treat a woman nice, she will think she is better and awesome, and might consider you undeserving of her, it appeals to her self centeredness and narcissism. Conversely, Treats a man nice and he will think you're awesome, and treat you like the best thing ever. This is also why some men are stuck in the friend zone, since they are judging a woman from their own worldview. They think that when you are like a saviour to her, she will honour and wants you, just as a man will behave. That's a fatal mistake.

To break yourself through and not be a victim of her psychology, you have to put yourself first, treat yourself nice and focus all the energy in making yourself like the best thing. In other words, be as selfish and self centred as her, and set your standards high, that's when she interpret such as a sign of a quality man, and sit up to get your commitment. Dont worship her, shower her with attention and dont even spend much on her, it's a death sentence and an instant attraction killer. Thank me later.
This is so true. I decided to focus my energy on improving myself and making more money, giving less attention to my girlfriend who craves for too much attention and worship. The result was simply surprising because she started showing more commitment and affection towards the relationship. All men must strive to make themselves better and focus on achieving their dreams and aspirations because the truth is that you will become more attractive to women when you start achieving your goals and financial dreams.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by AlphaSoul: 1:26pm On Feb 20, 2021
ubunja:
this is the reason why we always tell guys STOP SIMPING. STOP BEING NICE GUYS. The problem is the sexual market has been oversaturated with Beta Mangina Simps who are competing to worship women.
When we tell Martin0 to stop idolizing women it's like we are bad guys. But worshiping women gets them mentally spoiled. On Social Media, guys desperate for pussy will tell an average girl who is a 5 that she's a 10 just to flatter her. And the same idiots complain that average girls on the street are forming like 10s. Yet these same niggahs are responsible for that behaviour in women. Men need to stop simping and everything will revert back to normal.

Stop giving compliments everywhere. Stop validating these whôrés. You're making things difficult for yourselves
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by AlphaSoul: 1:32pm On Feb 20, 2021
pansophist:
This female behaviour is completely understood when you understand the underlying female psychology. Female psychology is in reverse to the Male.

Men are hardwired to care and be sacrificial for others, meanwhile, women are hardwired to be cared and catered for. Their psychology is in reverse to the Male, hence, the observation the poster described accurately. Treat a woman nice, she will think she is better and awesome, and might consider you undeserving of her, it appeals to her self centeredness and narcissism. Conversely, Treats a man nice and he will think you're awesome, and treat you like the best thing ever. This is also why some men are stuck in the friend zone, since they are judging a woman from their own worldview. They think that when you are like a saviour to her, she will honour and wants you, just as a man will behave. That's a fatal mistake.

To break yourself through and not be a victim of her psychology, you have to put yourself first, treat yourself nice and focus all the energy in making yourself like the best thing. In other words, be as selfish and self centred as her, and set your standards high, that's when she interpret such as a sign of a quality man, and sit up to get your commitment. Dont worship her, shower her with attention and dont even spend much on her, it's a death sentence and an instant attraction killer. Thank me later.
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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by AlphaSoul: 7:19pm On Feb 20, 2021
catwalq:


That's trauma that affect one's psychic. And treating them badly isn't gonna help. Sometimes women show you their vulnerability so you can show them their strength. Putting them down isn't helping,that's abuse. While it further shatters their ego,you are also being a jerk..

I don't believe in reverse psychology (though it can be thrilling to work it on people grin). If you like someone be nice,if you don't like em still be nice and let em go. No benefit in playing God.
Vulnerability displayed by women... So that men can show women their Strength? For real?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Santinho: 8:11pm On Feb 20, 2021
ubunja:
in definitely writing on this.
Kindly mention me when you drop next bomb Ubunja.
Thanks Amigo

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