too many children on nairaland... poster is definitely one of them

Don't be a fool, forget about her and move on.
There are alot of girls out there that are better than her, I will advise you to make money first, these bitches don't worth it.

Dude, allow d pain; feel it, accept it, carry the cross....for it makes u a man, a stunch, and prepares u 4 d world u r about to enter. NB: Never go back to ur spit.

Ok

Just date her friends or ask her closest to keep you company till u graduate

Hmmmm.... Your heart, A woman, Your future, Your Life, Your End.








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SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

survive you say who is killing who? so u wan die because of totoo, so it has now come to survival mode abi....Oga if u have nothing to think of, think of graduating with a good results, think of driving d latest 2018 g wagon like patoranking, think of u and one white babe kissing in d beach in Canada... and forget expired Nigerian hoes

Take sniper

Very simple

If you u use to read 4hrs extend to 10hrs
Play more
Read more.


In all keep your self very tight..

For three months Don't stay in quiet place alone

Or you may think of her

Op I'd just advice you to:

1. Delete her number
2. Delete her friends number because you might see their pictures with her on their whatsapp status
3. Block her on FB for a while, depending on when you are sure you've moved on, then you can unblock her thats if you remember her.
4. Get busy.. its hard to do anything to develop yourself at first because the trauma comes back once you are about to start something worthwhile
5. Start talking to every chick you meet at a joint, if successful with the collecting of numbers, start calling them anytime you want to start thinking about her. There are the ones that want sex, those that want to just talk, flow with them, visit them, if you are boxed up, take them out to not so expensive places.
6. The ones that click, bang their life out. You can overcome the feeling of her under a month.

I had a nasty break up two weeks ago, the worst I've ever experienced cos she's probably or was probably the best thing that happened to me, until I redefined the term "best thing". Annoying thing is we are both very committed members of a choir, and we must just see not less than 4 times a week!

Thank God for my work and finances, free wifi and constant ladies at my beck and call at my work place...The ones that are friends with my ex go as far as consoling me with their.......................#censored.. and I'm so over the chick now!

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

If it’s a bother try dating smbody else or get busy sm a project or sports or just hangout with ur boys. U need a good distraction that all.

Better yet if u drink just down sm bottles u’ll Be fine

Just look for another nice single girl probably in your class or another department but make sure she is in her finals as well. Become very good friend with her and try as much as possible to always want to hangout with her and study with her. Get to open up with her about your ex and what you are going through, she will understand and help you overcome it while you both can still have the pleasure of focusing on your coming final exams. It works trust me.

another suicide victim spotted




dont read the book that took u there o.. continue to let one winch ex to reverse ur destiny

1st follow this guy on NL ubunja and take your time to read up all is write ups
2nd find guys that have girls I mean that date a lot of girls and female friends
3 be ready to freestyle with any kind of girl young,old,big,small ,beautiful, ugly, xtain Muslim, dark,fair... just freestyle with dem and av it at the back of your mind DAT dy are all the same just the face DAT is different
4 delete if you can everything about ur ex including phone numbers
5 please don't relate with any lady virtualy always one on one to increase your self esteem and be ready to be rejected ( count it as game you win some you lose some

I was in your shoe early diz year it was hard but with ubunja I got my game back now I have 4 ladies Bleep 2 of dem d resent 2 I Neva Bleep cuz of Ramadan ... after Ramadan I Bleep dem and move on

please don't attach emotions to any one of the and see your ex as just a game you lost but will win other games.

crafteck:


Long story, just face ur book and hustle..

dude if ur mind,heart,brain,memory,infact if you are not mentally focus after a breakup,just forget about book..
it will take the grace of God to be focus with book especially when its close to exam period..that shit hurts like hell..

even while in hustle,you may not be able to concentrate..

bigpriik:
I can bet this op did not fvck the girl till they broke up a girl you fvcked more than 10 times will not give you much heartache because you will always have that feeling that she lost not you.

It's sure always sex for y'all.
Your type no dey ever see any better thing for girl body pass her hole

Spill over to sure

NotBeenPaid:

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See you must not comment.

stupidity:
No advice here can help you. Only you can help yourself.



But to be honest, e go hard I swear. Especially that moment when you see her walking with her new guy and the guy is grabbing her asx, your heart will sink and your GP will drop instantly.

this is a suicide note for the guy

Well... You were sent to school with people's hard-earned money, and this is what you spend your time doing? Reenacting Zee World?.. The hard cold truth is only terribly few relationships in school are futuristic.

I sometimes look back on the numerous relationships, and thank heavens for the wisdom of emotional detachment. This is the number one reason why most people fail and graduate with a GP that insults their true intellect. Why invest so much in something or someone that will easily dump you during NYSC. The one that doesn't dump you, would most likely cheat on you the first chance he or she is far from you.

That said... Since you have chosen to stray from the smart players' rule of the thumb (emotional detachment), the best thing to do in order to salvage your probably declining grades is to give her the widest berth ever imaginable... i.e. If you see her coming from the opposite direction, flee to another; delete her number immediately (block if possible), detach from any social media connection or group involving her... Get involved in more extra-curricular activities (I did not say cultism o) like research, charities, politics, etc.

Time will take care of the healing process. Stay blessed.

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Go win yourself na oga, na WA o

Lildreezy:
Op I'd just advice you to:

1. Delete her number
2. Delete her friends number because you might see their pictures with her on their whatsapp status
3. Block her on FB for a while, depending on when you are sure you've moved on, then you can unblock her thats if you remember her.
4. Get busy.. its hard to do anything to develop yourself at first because the trauma comes back once you are about to start something worthwhile
5. Start talking to every chick you meet at a joint, if successful with the collecting of numbers, start calling them anytime you want to start thinking about her. There are the ones that want sex, those that want to just talk, flow with them, visit them, if you are boxed up, take them out to not so expensive places.
6. The ones that click, bang their life out. You can overcome the feeling of her under a month.

I had a nasty break up two weeks ago, the worst I've ever experienced cos she's probably or was probably the best thing that happened to me, until redefined the term "best thing".

Thank God for my work and finances, free wifi and constant ladies at my beck and call at my work place...The ones that are friends with my ex go as far as consoling me with their.......................#censored.. and I'm so over the chick now!

You missed two very important points which makes your advice not a good way out.
First they are in the same campus so blocking whatsapp facebook and all will not stop him from seeing her physically regularly.
Secondly he is close to his final exams so you don't expect him at this point to be going to joints anyhow because he wants to be chatting with people and looking for babes to collect numbers. Now use your head, think of something nicer to say and then post again.

Prove below

united442:


dude it's not by that..

i f.ucked my ex nothing less than 50-80times during our 5years dating without cds,pregnancy or abortion

we f.ucked to the extent she was the one reminding me like "love, we dnt fvck today ooh"

dude,after she cheated on me,cried 5years out of my life..
not because i can't see someone else like her 2 bleep,just that when i love someone,no AMOUNT of SEX with different can make me stop loving that person and not giving me sex still wont change anything either.

dating her wasn't all about sex, i just love her and wanted a future with her..

y am i even telling you all this self

no mind me jor..

I know that feeling, bro.

Goan kee yourself then

think of her smelling mess!!

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

Divert your attention to hustling towards building yourself a better future, U will thank me later.

Only time heals a love broken heart: no medication or advice.



Lesson:

Never love to that extent as a man.

Love her 10%. Present it like it's 90%. She'll give you her 90%, in total, both of you'll have 100% collectively

Angelfrost:
Well... You were sent to school with people's hard-earned money, and this is what you spend your time doing? Reenacting Zee World?.. The hard cold truth is only terribly few relationships in school are futuristic.

I sometimes look back on the numerous relationships, and thank heavens for the wisdom of emotional detachment. This is the number one reason why most people fail and graduate with a GP that insults their true intellect. Why invest so much in something or someone that will easily dump you during NYSC. The one that doesn't dump you, would most likely cheat on you the first chance he or she is far from you.

When you see someone with wisdom, they are always easy to spot. You are one and I have just spotted you. Nice one

By drinking sniper, fool!