Davash222:

It rains everywhere, Chief.

And some places get flooded while others don't.

Hmmmm.....and his close relations didn't take it serious....too bad...depression is real..RIP

Davash222:
We’re glorifying suicide these days. Back then, when one commit suicide, the corpse will be dumped at the evil forest. The family will do some sacrifices to appease the gods of the land.

Now, we always blame depression and even give them a befitting burial.

What are u trying to say exactly

PopeFlatino:
U know one thing I realize in this present world,, People expecially Relatives won't pay attention to u until u die..am a Living testimony,Since this year I have been suffering massively like never before but no one cares,suicide isn't an option yet but with d way am depressed and broke I pray I survives it..

I will go on Facebook to make a post like "so depressed" or any possible message accross to interested ones,all of them will start famzing u publicly , asking u on comment "Nna wats d problem?"... but once u inbox d relative that u need little cash to solve ur problem he /she will snub u or block u.

To d extent dat I even begged for 2k here on nairaland and a guy messed me up with joke..

But once u die ,all of them go just contribute #10k or more for ur burial...

In summary,We should learn to detect signals earlier,if u have help a brother before it turns soar

Dear popeflatino,
Just as I read your comment I felt like helping, but I need to know what message you are spreading with your supposed moniker if not hate thereby causing someone somewhere to be depressed too.
You oppose what you preach so get it redressed.
If that 2k will still go a long way for you Dm me.
#iwasoncedepressed

Joromi12:
When u have a curious mind this is bound to happen. When many of the falsehood and lies of the world becomes glaring to u. It is bound to happen. Rip boy. I stopped digging at a point cos it made no sense

The solution is, don't allow the society decide your happiness for you. Find happiness within. Don't stress yourself trying to impress anyone; they will forget you as soon as you die.

tydi:



You truly are the most ignorant one here.. What was our mind given to us to make use of. As you thinketh so you are.. If you think you are hopeless. Hopeless you would become.. Life is not bed of roses.. And if you think life could conquer you take a bow out.. By the way sniper is cheaper than a bottle of beer.. Ignoramus being!!!

Howcan you ever be confortable talking in this manner and some people even liked your post therefore giving it creedence everyone wasnt born with the same mental strenght as you, therfore you shouldnt be ignorant to that fact and please try to show some empathy. You dont know yet if this occurence is closer to you.

rheether:
He left a lot of clues on his wall.

and nobody could spot them

Mariangeles:
Jesus Christ is the real cure to depression .
Accept Him into your life and be at peace even the midst of a storm .

What do you do when you feel that hollow in your soul? You feel so cold and numb...even your tongue loses it ability to taste
You feel so lifeless and helpless... You need help but you don't want help

How do you fill that emptiness ?
Your best days are the days you feel indifferent
Your soul is yearning for something but you don't know what it is ....

Jesus Christ is the answer! Jesus Christ is calling you...yes you ! He's waiting for you with open arms .
Jesus Christ said "come to me all you that labour and are heavy laden, and I'll give you rest "

Jesus Christ is not asking you for anything, not your money, your house, your car...just you .

This is a very dumb contribution!

As a Christian, I'm not disputing the place of faith in solving physical problems, but saying Jesus Christ is the only solution to depression is very dumb!

You are supposed to WORK and PRAY, in this context if means seek MEDICAL HELP and SPIRITUAL HELP.

Yes, suicide is very bad and it sometimes affect those left to mourn for the rest of their lives. It is bad enough to kill someone else let alone one’s self. However, mental and emotional breakdown is a serious problem. That you’re strong enough to overcome life’s challenges does not mean everyone is: even the good book says the strong should help the weak: Everyone has a breaking point. Even in the Bible Great men like Elijah, Job, David, Jeremiah, etc got to the point when they wished to die and prayed so but God refused. No one should boast in this brutal stage we are on that is called Life. For those that are hurting, who feel they are alone: you have a friend here willing to communicate. This too shall come to pass.

Davash222:
We’re glorifying suicide these days. Back then, when one commit suicide, the corpse will be dumped at the evil forest. The family will do some sacrifices to appease the gods of the land.


Now, we always blame depression and even give them a befitting burial.

That was in Igbo precolonial era. Nigeria is made up of many tribes and not just the Igbo.

At least in Yorubaland, suicide was largely honorable.

If Okonkwo of Things Fall Apart was a samurai of Japan, he would have been honored for committing suicide rather than letting the white man get him.

Every culture is different on many things.

PopeFlatino:
U know one thing I realize in this present world,, People expecially Relatives won't pay attention to u until u die..am a Living testimony,Since this year I have been suffering massively like never before but no one cares,suicide isn't an option yet but with d way am depressed and broke I pray I survives it..

I will go on Facebook to make a post like "so depressed" or any possible message accross to interested ones,all of them will start famzing u publicly , asking u on comment "Nna wats d problem?"... but once u inbox d relative that u need little cash to solve ur problem he /she will snub u or block u.

To d extent dat I even begged for 2k here on nairaland and a guy messed me up with joke..

But once u die ,all of them go just contribute #10k or more for ur burial...

In summary,We should learn to detect signals earlier,if u have help a brother before it turns soar

Is it cos of money u want to commit suicide. Pls don't even dat person u r asking for money from wat makes u think he or she has, or doesn't have a problem greater dan ur need.
If u are broke today does not mean u will not have tomorrow. For it shall all come to pass.

EVILFOREST:
Hmmmm
HONESTLY !!!
NAIRALAND needs to create a SUICIDE SECTION for those who are intending and also for those who have made up their minds to kill themselves.

-The Intending Ones should have a section.
-The established Ones should also have theirs.
-While the ALREADY DEAD, that’s the ZOMBIES should have theirs as well.

It’s like any bad thing weh waka for the world tire, then enter for Nigeria, dey make Nigeria its permanent Residence.
What’s all this Abeg...??

PLEASE, we need SUICIDE SECTION let’s see if we can address the problems of these SUICIDEES

Co-sign

i was extremely near that point until someone came to my aid , may God bless my helper with all his heart desires, God please add good health , peace , joy and happiness for him, he rescued me from the highest point of my depression.
people are going through a lot.

igbohausayoruba:
I ain't scared of Death

But life after death

So we die here

I ain't going anywhere

Where were you before you were born, and why would you want to live for eternity? (That's such a long time bro).

But whatever keeps you going is cool.

SlimOpsy:
At this junction, this path doesn't require any description. It is vivid for all eye to see. The guy have been battling all sought of unknown depression. May his soul rest in peace. What profit does a man gain from commit suicide ?

Eternal peace
Away from a world of pain

PopeFlatino:
U know one thing I realize in this present world,, People expecially Relatives won't pay attention to u until u die..am a Living testimony,Since this year I have been suffering massively like never before but no one cares,suicide isn't an option yet but with d way am depressed and broke I pray I survives it..

I will go on Facebook to make a post like "so depressed" or any possible message accross to interested ones,all of them will start famzing u publicly , asking u on comment "Nna wats d problem?"... but once u inbox d relative that u need little cash to solve ur problem he /she will snub u or block u.

To d extent dat I even begged for 2k here on nairaland and a guy messed me up with joke..

But once u die ,all of them go just contribute #10k or more for ur burial...

In summary,We should learn to detect signals earlier,if u have help a brother before it turns soar

It is well with you

Uyi168:
Not being born is the best thing ever..
To die immediately u are born is the second best thing

Even you see life this way, that's serious. Looking forward to your comment on that guy question on religion thread.

gbosaa:


No one is glorifying it. You are very ignorant and have no idea what those people go through.
Mental health issues are real. Those going through such struggles need help.

lvu4this

tydi:



You truly are the most ignorant one here.. What was our mind given to us to make use of. As you thinketh so you are.. If you think you are hopeless. Hopeless you would become.. Life is not bed of roses.. And if you think life could conquer you take a bow out.. By the way sniper is cheaper than a bottle of beer.. Ignoramus being!!!

It’s too early for such negativities. Do you think such people just wake up and decide to take their lives. Do not be judgemental of other people’s weaknesses because you do not know what’s going on in their lives. Their mental states are more complex and more complicated than you think hence why I said you were ignorant of that. It wasn’t meant to be offensive.
I have seen and interacted with some of them and I know their lives are complicated in a dark way.
No normal person will just take his life. The thought in itself is scary. If it were that easy, nobody will be getting depressed. Their issues are way beyond depression.

Some will self harm when they get into that state, some will cause destructions, some will harm other people. There are people who pick up weapons and go on mass shootings. Do you think such people are reasoning things like you. Everything isn’t about taking snipers etc. You could be fed the snipers by someone in that dark state.
That you can make certain decisions or stand resilient in the face of certain turbulence doesn’t mean others can withstand the storm and no that isn’t cowardice.

A certain man poured petrol all over himself and lit himself up to protest some socio-political issue in Tunisia, another person will moan and carry on like nothing happened in Nigeria.
Not every thing could be treated or explained by simple lay man’s logic. Mental health sufferers need help.

kremlin01:


Howcan you ever be confortable talking in this manner and some people even liked your post therefore giving it creedence everyone wasnt born with the same mental strenght as you, therfore you shouldnt be ignorant to that fact and please try to show some empathy. You dont know yet if this occurence is closer to you.

You're getting it all wrong bro.. I was actually referring to the person that was supporting suicide by not fighting it..
Read what he wrote and my reply to hin maybe it will help you grasp

Gmajor:

please stop disgracing yourself.
you are clearly very ignorant about this topic and shouldn't be making any contribution towards it

What do you know.. Did you even understand the point of discussing here?

for me People who commits Suicide are forced spiritually to do so, and it's almost in the Lineage, God help US all

gbosaa:


No one is glorifying it. You are very ignorant and have no idea what those people go through.
Mental health issues are real. Those going through such struggles need help.

Depression is very bad. If you've not been there, you won't really understand. It's damn crazy....many things dry happen sha.

Gmajor:

please stop disgracing yourself.
you are clearly very ignorant about this topic and shouldn't be making any contribution towards it

What do you know.. Did you even understand the point of discussing here?

PopeFlatino:
U know one thing I realize in this present world,, People expecially Relatives won't pay attention to u until u die..am a Living testimony,Since this year I have been suffering massively like never before but no one cares,suicide isn't an option yet but with d way am depressed and broke I pray I survives it..

I will go on Facebook to make a post like "so depressed" or any possible message accross to interested ones,all of them will start famzing u publicly , asking u on comment "Nna wats d problem?"... but once u inbox d relative that u need little cash to solve ur problem he /she will snub u or block u.

To d extent dat I even begged for 2k here on nairaland and a guy messed me up with joke..

But once u die ,all of them go just contribute #10k or more for ur burial...

In summary,We should learn to detect signals earlier,if u have help a brother before it turns soar

The problems u facing shall pass, u simply need to b smart. U need to engage ur brain to make money, think outside the box

Heineken:
Depression is very bad. If you've not been there, you won't really understand. It's damn crazy....many things dry happen sha.

How far? Customs and civil service dey recruit. Have u applied?

kenddys:


when you are hit with malaria dont take drugs abeg

@the bolded part "if you think you are sick, sick you will become"

MPAMA

Yes.. Just as I think you have degenerated to insults which are known for touts instead of cognitive intelligent arguments.. Tout you have become .

Bigmikedagod:
before opening ur mouth to abuse suicide victims just remember that u probably had it easier than them. i go through my own depressed moments but the thought of my family who love me keeps me going. there are others who arent so lucky to have a loving family or real friends...ppl like that see no use to continue living

Exactly!

A good family is what keeps many people going

That is why it is good for parents to ensure they create bonds among their children.

eventsmallchops:
i was extremely near that point until someone came to my aid , may God bless my helper with all his heart desires, God please add good health , peace , joy and happiness, he rescued me from the highest point of my depression.
people are going through a lot.

Thank God for your life .

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How far? Customs and civil service dey recruit. Have u applied?

thanks madam, I have applied for customs. Don't know of civil service. I'll check it now.

Bostin:
Please help my Baby Mama , though we're seperated for the past 1years. Her mum is in charge of her life , She's been frustrated and depressed. Her dad is late long time ago .. I will text her number to you .

Will work on it...