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generationz:
Never heard of the Thai footballer, you sure her was giving up to that amount?

Ah I am sure oh. Infact it caused a lot of issues because many women were starting sending him messages.

Even some married women with evidences. Some even send messages openly that they would like to have dinner with him. Married women, Gods know i ain't lying. This actually happened.

To the point that the Blessing_CEO warned her commenters to stop that rubbish, because the Footballer's Wife started complaining already.

He stopped coming to the platform in mid 2018.

truthsayer009:
I have heard so many bad stories about her dating site. It is simply a secret Instagram page that you have to pay for.

But yeah, i also like her too. She's seems like a fair person in judgment as she doesn't make cases just because you're a lady or guy. Atleast she try for that one.

Apart from that, she is a full time hustler Lmao. Police officer + Instagram guru + magazine owner and other business we don't even know about.

tell me one of the storie

generationz:
tell me one of the storie

I really cannot pinpoint any particular story, but all the the bad stories are sumed up as Runs girls looking for Men using relationship as a cover up, Men on the other hand looking for Sex partners in the name of marriage as well.

Issue escalates when a good guy meets a Runs girl or vice Versa. The come crying to Blessing_CEO that they were scammed lol.

Also because the dating site is free for ladies and Paid for Men, lots of Runs girls are there. So i heard sha.

truthsayer009:
I really cannot pinpoint any particular story, but all the the bad stories are sumed up as Runs girls looking for Men using relationship as a cover up, Men on the other hand looking for Sex partners in the name of marriage as well.

Issue escalates when a good guy meets a Runs girl or vice Versa. The come crying to Blessing_CEO that they were scammed lol.

Also because the dating site is free for ladies and Paid for Men, lots of Runs girls are there. So i heard sha.

Lol

generationz:
Lol

Wetin I do na?

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

If you are Christian involve your Pastor or any respectable cleric, but in the case of Muslim dont even attempt telling Imam cos according to Islamic jusrispridence there is no marriage between u guys.

Dont even look at suicide angle; Think about what will happen to your little kids in your absence.

Suicide? That'll be extreme. I wish I could have a platform to discuss with u more extensively.

Look I want u to calm down. Your situation is not the worst possible thing that could have happened. Ure only human. We all make mistakes. Let's not even call urs a mistake. Let's say it was a yearning that landed you in trouble.

But I want u to understand that it's not the end of the road. There's nothing that time cannot heal.

1) Your husband may forgive u (my instincts tell me this would happen but it'll take time) however the sweetness of your marriage may not be restored fully due to your mind.

2) Point 1 above would possibly occur if you involve both families to intervene. But the man may grudgingly accept u back which u may not like


3) Even If he doesn't come back to u, life goes on. Some women become widows at younger ages than u and it was the end of their lives. So why should yours be?

4) If he doesn't come back you may find love somewhere else. Love that may even supersede this

U just have to be open minded.

THERE'S NOTHING THAT TIME CANNOT HEAL

Wish I could talk to u more but stop beating yourself. You'll be just fine

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with myee husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

....hello marbella can we talk .....

Just continue having the mindblowing sex that you want with random, young studs, nothing stops you now. You are young and free, your ex husband is old and can't get it up. Beware of STIs/HIV though. Goodluck.

The world will be a better place if we all take responsibility for our actions.


You knew sleeping would destroy your marriage, but you still went ahead.

I have no pity for you.


If you take your life, rest in peace.

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

Eeyah, sorry my dear sister! I remember that thread, and I remember not advising you to tell your husband, because I was initially stunned that you enjoyed the other guy more than him and that makes you keep thinking about him even when you are with your husband...I knew it's something bigger than you, bigger than your marriage self. But now bubble don burst and you are claiming that you loved your husband, why didn't you think about that before committing sacrilege with the guy at work! Now he also has partially disowned you!! Well my advice, if your husband refuses to take you and your kids back, then you will have to go back to that your guy at work and let him continue from where he stopped, there's no go area and there's no escape!! Both of you are main actors in destroying your marriage on the first day you both consent to sleeping with each other. You are now his cross, make him realize that and don't give him any loose gap. He must carry his cross, he must pay for the destruction he has caused!! You both enjoyed yourselves isn't it? Good! So let the enjoyment continue without interference.

And also don't commit suicide, everyone that commits suicide are known as murderers!! And no murderer that doesn't even have opportunity to ask for forgiveness of sin can make heaven, Such people have no rest in afterlife!! They are forever tormented! And I'm sure you don't want such for your eternity.

It's broken doesn't meant its spoilt, get yourself together and forge for way forward. You can pm me and I will add you to my prayer list!
Remember - SUICIDE IS NO OPTION
YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK!!

Fake story. No nigerian wife would dare confess to their husband abeg

U wanted him feast on your pus*y ni? I am not understanding.

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

Nollywood stuff

nairalanders have ruined another home, u shouldnt have told him, what did u expect

Some restitution and confessions should be directed to Jesus only . Because, if you can predict the reactions to your confessions, silence would have been better in retrospect.

Even guys that cheat on their wives won't want to be told of their wives' doing same


He may or may not forgive you.

So be realistic in knowing that he may not forgive you . If he does take you back , things will never be the same for a long while .

Some maggot said "take it to the grave" but u proved better than them. To every action there is an outcome. U have done the right thing and have no right to feel guilty. Accept ur husbands decision as an outcome and not a punishment and move on. U are freed from ur guilt. Let ur husband deal with his own outcome. Either it will be good or bad outcome, it's not for u, any man to say but God.imagine u try to "take it to the grave" and the truth had to come out because of blackmail Or other means... Do u think u would have any defence against ur husbands reaction but now u have confessed,regardless of ur husbands reaction, u will always have a say on why u should remain in that marriage against ur husbands opinion because u came out with the truth urself .



.ur confession make u better and innocent.u can take the advice above and seek people to appeal on ur behalf. Jasonscoolari. What do u think

Bro how can I give u one bottle of origin?

Beckham14:
When you were spreading your legs like blue band you never thought of the love you had for that innocent man who put a roof over your head, you never thought of the "marriage" you wish to protect, Now you have lost the trust your parents had for you, and might as well lose the love of your kids when your "ex" husband tells them how promiscuous their mother is and how adventurous she can be with the dick in an hotel room.
Some mistakes are avoidable and you don't have any excuse to give for this silly mistake you brought upon yourself.
May God bless that your "ex" husband for handling that heart shattering news with such calmness, not all men can wait till you finish your sexcapdes without registering some thunderous blows on your face.
The m0ron who fuucked you like a cheap slut has dump you like a piece of trash.
Before you think of killing yourself by yourself, take those innocent children to your parents. I won't stop you from doing what you feel best for you, After all, you didn't seek for our opinions when you wanted to collect the dick.
Put yourself together and accept your fate.
Rest well.

So this fake story actually made fp

Beckham14:
When you were spreading your legs like blue band you never thought of the love you had for that innocent man who put a roof over your head, you never thought of the "marriage" you wish to protect, Now you have lost the trust your parents had for you, and might as well lose the love of your kids when your "ex" husband tells them how promiscuous their mother is and how adventurous she can be with the dick in an hotel room.
Some mistakes are avoidable and you don't have any excuse to give for this silly mistake you brought upon yourself.
May God bless that your "ex" husband for handling that heart shattering news with such calmness, not all men can wait till you finish your sexcapdes without registering some thunderous blows on your face.
The m0ron who fuucked you like a cheap slut has dump you like a piece of trash.
Before you think of killing yourself by yourself, take those innocent children to your parents. I won't stop you from doing what you feel best for you, After all, you didn't seek for our opinions when you wanted to collect the dick.
Put yourself together and accept your fate.
Rest well.

as in , that tossing around got it , oshey IndecentStar Marbella!! , Marbella gets drilled and tossed around by big black c**k . Pls she shouldn't do anything that would affect those kids abeg.

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

Not everyone or every man can handle a confession. Then again why shud he forgive just like that? Kicking u out is Smwhat normal bt with the kids I’m not so sure. While it’s gud to confess u must apply wisdom also. Personally if u know u won’t commit the act again I wud have advised u keep mute about ur cheating, i told u all those young office boys are shallow dumbies looking for excitement anywhere and with anything.


Pray and trust God to help u get over ur present issues. Ur husband shud forgive u if he loves u. He is obviously very hurt. Marriage isn’t High skol.

You should've stfu.

MY ADVICE TO YOU, IS THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW YOUR HUSBAND IS HURTING DONT PUSH FOR FORGIVNESS JUST LET HIM HEAL FOR NOW. AND SINCE YOU HAVE A PLACE TO LAY YOUR HEAD WITH YOUR CHILDREN, CONCENTRATE ON YOUR JOB AND KEEP LIFE GOING, PRAY FOR FORGIVENESS FROM GOD AND ASK FOR PEACE OF MIND WITH YOURSELF. HOPEFULY IF ITS GOD'S WILL, YOU TWO WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN WITH YOUR KIDS. AND TRY TO TALK TO SOMEONE HE RESPECT ALOT TO PLEAD ON YOUR BEHALF AND PRAY FOR HIM TOO.

last thing anyone should be doing here is judging her... we all do bad things at some point of our lives, we have no right to judge.

OP, right now keep working on yourself to escape your present state of having suicidal thoughts. if not for yourself, do it for your children.


maybe just maybe your husband forgives you, but you shouldn't stop living before he does

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

well am sure with time he will be calm just continue begging him..... Every good man will react this way but some won't take so much time... Tell him how much you love him �� and all what you're experiencing without him..... Remember killing yourself will change nothing


But we just don't know why you will be opening legs up and down

Beckham14:
When you were spreading your legs like blue band you never thought of the love you had for that innocent man who put a roof over your head, you never thought of the "marriage" you wish to protect, Now you have lost the trust your parents had for you, and might as well lose the love of your kids when your "ex" husband tells them how promiscuous their mother is and how adventurous she can be with the dick in an hotel room.
Some mistakes are avoidable and you don't have any excuse to give for this silly mistake you brought upon yourself.
May God bless that your "ex" husband for handling that heart shattering news with such calmness, not all men can wait till you finish your sexcapdes without registering some thunderous blows on your face.
The m0ron who fuucked you like a cheap slut has dump you like a piece of trash.
Before you think of killing yourself by yourself, take those innocent children to your parents. I won't stop you from doing what you feel best for you, After all, you didn't seek for our opinions when you wanted to collect the dick.
Put yourself together and accept your fate.
Rest well.

Damn

Chubhie:
Your husband lack compassion. That's too extreme from him. Regardless, you should stay strong. Its not the end of the world if your husband seeks divorce and wants nothing to do with the kids. You could go far away and start a new life with your kids.

Hopefully, you've learnt your lessons albeit in a very painful manner. Be open to love again. A man that matches your energy could come along and see you as the centre of his universe.

u must be very stupid , no?

Keep apologizing to him. Time will heal his wounds. You too, you bad no be small. If he refuses to forgive you, you deserve it.

Beckham14:
When you were spreading your legs like blue band you never thought of the love you had for that innocent man who put a roof over your head, you never thought of the "marriage" you wish to protect, Now you have lost the trust your parents had for you, and might as well lose the love of your kids when your "ex" husband tells them how promiscuous their mother is and how adventurous she can be with the dick in an hotel room.
Some mistakes are avoidable and you don't have any excuse to give for this silly mistake you brought upon yourself.
May God bless that your "ex" husband for handling that heart shattering news with such calmness, not all men can wait till you finish your sexcapdes without registering some thunderous blows on your face.
The m0ron who fuucked you like a cheap slut has dump you like a piece of trash.
Before you think of killing yourself by yourself, take those innocent children to your parents. I won't stop you from doing what you feel best for you, After all, you didn't seek for our opinions when you wanted to collect the dick.
Put yourself together and accept your fate.
Rest well.

God bless u

chiboy1116:
u must be very stupid , no?

Very stupid...