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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by kinzation(m): 12:09am On May 26, 2019
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Heartbreak sucks


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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by mhizminna(f): 12:18am On May 26, 2019
IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.

Na dem! Heartbreakers!
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by googlZa86e5(m): 12:22am On May 26, 2019
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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by nonstan(m): 12:23am On May 26, 2019
IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.


I wish I saw this post earlier starting my current relationship, now am In and don't know how to come out
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by LordKO(m): 12:29am On May 26, 2019
Well, my POV as someone who haven't been heartbroken before is that, the best way, or only way, to avoid heartbreak - it's better to avoid it than experiencing it and learning how to handle it - is by conquering oneself first and by extension mastering the art of giving one's best without losing anything/having a feel of losing anything in the end. This entails being altruistic and conscientious - giving genuine love (goodness) without indulging nonsense/petty attitudes from your partner. Only the used and/or an entitled (one with an entitlement mentality who didn't succeed in subjugating his/her target perpetually) do experience heartbreak, where death of a partner of good standing isn't the cause of the separation or breakup.

Meanwhile, it's absurd to hear anyone says that love (human love) doesn't exist. Every sane person loves unconditionally, however, unconditionality of love/loving doesn't negate conditionality of falling in love and staying in love, and once the conditions are mutually based on immaterial things (good attributes, not just good attitudes), oneness and its benefits are assured.

Only death of one's partner of good standing ought to cause him/her heartbreak.

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Nobody: 12:39am On May 26, 2019
I don't know about women but Men who have things or a thing they are addicted to can not be heart broken by women. Gamblers and extreme football fans or extreme political ideologists and even those who practice chronic masturbation may never be heart broken.

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by dochenaj: 12:42am On May 26, 2019
My friend says that the only heartbreak he knows is when one game cuts his bet to win 10 million naira.

But if you hold to the notion that everything happens for a reason, and it might seem like a terrible thing now but in the course of time, it will manifest as a blessing in disguise. Then you will always see the low points as a hit on the spring to go higher than you've ever been.

For a Christian it is even much more easier, "For all things work together for good to them that love God..."

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by PrinceCEE(m): 12:46am On May 26, 2019
GrabHisBalls:
If you're of the opinion that love doesn't exist, but self interest. I pity you 'cause you may never know what love is with that mentality. On the other hand, It's not your fault. You've just been unfortunate when it comes to love.

Maybe, those poor men and women who end up cohabiting and at some point start giving birth were motivated by 'Self-interest'. If yes, what is it?

Nairaland is the only forum where someone would type something with so much confidence. Whereas, he's not an authority in that field. Anyone who says to you "Love doesn't exist", check his/her antecedent. They're mostly people who were hurt, but haven't gotten over the hurt.

Can you prove love exists?
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Nobody: 12:53am On May 26, 2019
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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by united442(m): 1:02am On May 26, 2019
mubarak001:
Replace the person with two more friends, ensure u use them to heal by distraction. Get busy, cut ties from tins you guys do togeda, be on low-key, engage ursef in productive matter, each time tot of your ex drop, don't fight it, smile and reach out to other person's with topics of relevance. Ensure you don't fight the feelings, Just follow the ride while...

thanks alot for this..

its not as easy the way people thinks..

it hurt sooooo much..
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by MrMou: 1:15am On May 26, 2019
maynation:


Sorry to disappoint you.
When it's time to settle down, real men will come. Besides, not like it's a most sef.
My peace of mind first.
Enjoy your delusion!

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Nobody: 1:24am On May 26, 2019
Buy icecream, go to the cinema.

What doesn't kill ya make u stronger
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by kense88: 1:32am On May 26, 2019
IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.
Too much sense

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by lewis512(m): 1:34am On May 26, 2019
chiommy123:
I find it difficult to believe people kill themselves cos of failed relationship.
My sister its real Oooo, if girls imagine what dem don go through for lust, having uncountable abortions, domestic violences and still sticking to the relationship and other factors, Sniper na their instrument , Make God no just make us victim of circumstances
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by STENON(f): 1:35am On May 26, 2019
Best way to handle a heartbreak is to sleep and wake up everyday without your phone for three months, then plan something good for your life.

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by malele(m): 2:09am On May 26, 2019
IzzyyUnique:
Heartbreak can be a bad thing especially when its someone you cared for, someone you ready to take a bullet for and shoot a for their sake. oops! Love is stupid! Blind! Inconsiderate and can be biased at times.

That's how I've been feeling unwell since weeks ago because my girlfriend been acting nonchalant.

Grins! Love is a good thing tho! It feels good when you love someone and you have the feeling they love you back in return and they make you feel loved!

Damm! it feels good to be in love. .

Act nonchalant too
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Nobody: 2:21am On May 26, 2019
Who else noticed that this post was made in 2008- ABOUT 11yrs Ago?_ shocked
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by malele(m): 2:23am On May 26, 2019
Offpoint1:
She broke up with me yesterday night and this evening she saw me Dancing to "Zero Problemè" by Patoranking in my Nigga's Saloon.

I feel more hurt when MtN deduct N50 for a caller tone I didn't subscribed for, than when anyone break up with me.

Like I always said "The moment I asked you out, that very moment I start preparing for breakup so when it finally happens you'll be wondering if I was ever in love with you in the first place"

Precisely, the only time I've ever considered suicide was when I was trying to download a porn video of 5mb with Glo network.

Bad guy
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by AussiePlayboy(f): 2:51am On May 26, 2019
PUSSYHOE:
the fastest way to deal with break up is to fvck the hoe's sister
Or her best friend

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by AussiePlayboy(f): 2:55am On May 26, 2019
Best way to handle a heartbreak is to be the heartbreaker

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by driand(m): 3:00am On May 26, 2019
I support anyone who decides to take his own life because a woman left him.. �
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by emoney2012(m): 3:17am On May 26, 2019
I am currently heartbroken. To help myself I erase everything that would make me remember her. Her contact etc. I don't need to cry to the world that am suffering from emotional trauma. A cheat will always be a cheat.

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by jeff1607(m): 3:31am On May 26, 2019
IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.


we do not choose who we love


true love still exists
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Heineken(m): 3:36am On May 26, 2019
Toks2008:


Only about 1% of the world's population have this notion but unfortunately the rest still believe human love exists.
love actually existed then but not now bro.. Our mothers bin love wholeheartedly na.
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by freethesheeple(m): 4:31am On May 26, 2019
IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.

lol..dem break ur heart new?
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by GeneralShepherd(m): 4:33am On May 26, 2019
Toks2008:


Only about 1% of the world's population have this notion but unfortunately the rest still believe human love exists.

Besides in situations where a partner was abusive or cheated on the other person, the truth of the matter is that sometimes relationships don't work for either or both people involved.

It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the rejected person, it just wasn't meant to be. I have had my heartbroken and I have broken other people's heart but it was always for the best

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Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by pinkygurl(f): 4:43am On May 26, 2019
IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.

grin grin
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by Giant777(m): 4:46am On May 26, 2019
[quote author=Toks2008 post=78703322]

Only about 1% of the world's population have this notion but unfortunately the rest still believe human love exists.[/quote) 1% what cos for my side nobody is loving anything even 9 years old girl would tell you love is scam
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by cooltola(m): 4:51am On May 26, 2019
Get busy , do not blame yourself, learn from your mistakes and try not commit suicide. If you are lonely, hang out with your friends, family and get busy with work. Have fun also, take time to focus on yourself and never get a rebound immediately.
Re: Best way To Handle A Heartbreak. by silifat11(m): 4:57am On May 26, 2019
Heartbreak won't kill you , but it can makes you feel like dying. Nevertheless, the only people you need in your life are those that need you in theirs.

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