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Good day guys
I have a story to tell
No wasting on time let me go straight to the point
I'm a very caring loving and honest guy when it comes to relationship and when I love I love deeply with anything I have and I also care too
My relationship with my ex girlfriend lasted for 4 years plus I created a thread on that the link is [url]here[/url] https://www.nairaland.com/5120723/love-story-ended
My ex was the only girl I invested so much energy and time and fund on which she ended up breaking my heart thou I had to quit the relationship my self because my peace of mind was being disturbed so we broke up 4 months after I met a girl that was experiencing the same pain as mine in her relationship we get talking we talked for months we talked for about 5 months we were just friends then as time goes on she started getting attached to me so I decided to give her a try which she accepted that she will date me well this girl is ready to do anything for me and she has a good heart but me as person I get scared sometimes that I would hurt her because I felt I gave the best part of my self to someone who doesn't deserve it sometimes I just feel like quitting the relationship and being alone but due to the way I'm treating her she believe and trusted me to be inlove with her because I do give her any thing she want which her ex never care about her but the thing is I don't want to loose her because she's very submissive and honest if you ask her to stop something she will immediately do that because she knows if the thing she's doing is not affecting you in anyway you won't complain she has a good heart my whole family loves her mostly my mum because she's friendly and mingle with everyone and now I'm just confuse may be it's because of my past I'm just so confuse

So you want to dump her?
Well, why did you asked her out in the first place?

You of all people should know how it badly hurts when someone you trust, turns around and backstab you bro.

Focus on what attracted you to her in the first place and try everything you can to make it work. Confide in her, let her know your fears.

So, out of all the problems in this country, what’s bothering you is how not to hurt a girl you claimed you love

Xaos:
So you want to dump her?
Well, why did you asked her out in the first place?

You of all people should know how it badly hurts when someone you trust, turns around and backstab you bro.

Focus on what attracted you to her in the first place and try everything you can to make it work. Confide in her, let her know your fears.

thanks bro it's not up to a year we started but I know and believe with time things will fall in place I personally tell other girls I have a girlfriend because I don't want her to feel in secure

Davash222:
So, out of all the problems in this country, what’s bothering you is how not to hurt a girl you claimed you love

calm down bro I don't just want to be another pain to her after the pain she has gone through

Most men are wicked...i mean very wicked...you guys got talking for five months,be una 2 begin fvck...na u don chop bellefull,u wan run..."she's submissive,honest and listens to you".yet,you cant keep her...na God go judge.

umu nwoke na confusion. U don see the one wey love you now, you wan dump am.

You feel that way because you didnt really give yourself time to heal and now, its like a rebound that's beginning to stick..

Ask yourself if you'll feel bad if you both aren't together. Let your answer fuel your decision. Don't be bothered àbout hurting her if you leave her,she'll still hurt if you stay with her not because you love her but because you are scared of hurting her. Don't keep her out of pity or fear.,it never ends well.

If you're having doubts,then you shouldn't be doing it. You deserve to be happy too.

Lol. You think your relationship is jinxed?

Nothing will happen jare. Continue to enjoy yourselves.

I understand. Due to your past relationsship....
YOU DONT TRUST LOVE
What you shud do is damm everything and love

Your Confusion Has Graduated from normal level to Next Level of Confusion

catwalq:
You feel that way because you didnt really give yourself time to heal and now, its like a rebound that's beginning to stick..

Ask yourself if you'll feel bad if you both aren't together. Let your answer fuel your decision. Don't be bothered àbout hurting her if you leave her,she'll still hurt if you stay with her not because you love her but because you are scared of hurting her. Don't keep her out of pity or fear.,it never ends well.

If you're having doubts,then you shouldn't be doing it. You deserve to be happy too.

@businessman7

This.

I was travelling, I got robbed by armed robbers and also had a slight accident the same night in the same car, I came down, picked a new car and left for my destination without thought of all the bad things that happened the previous night. I got home safely, how ever you interpret this is your problem but learn to move on. open your heart and love her back it wont hurt both of you.

Your mind is messed up man, you were too quick to rush into another relationship , but the way you feel is normal, give the relationship more time to build

[quote author=Deepfeel post=79037371]Your mind is messed up man, you were too quick to rush into another relationship , but the way you feel is normal, give the relationship more time to build [/lquote]thanks man

Na them...

Davash222:
So, out of all the problems in this country, what’s bothering you is how not to hurt a girl you claimed you love

u can imagine.....lazy youth

To me
It looks like you don't love her as much as she loves you
U asked her out cuz u feel like she s get attached to u n to move on from ur previous relationship...
If that's the case bro
U don't deserve her