My girlfriend has the attitude of not taking correction. Me too I know I have my own flaws. There has been some guys toasting her. She told me about it. She said she told them she already has a boyfriend but just wants to play along and eat their money. At first I said nothing. Then some days back the issue came up again . Then I calmly told her that she should stop it . That I don't like it. When I told her she became angry that I was giving her rules and regulations because she was in my house (she's on holiday. So she's staying at my place) that if she was at her parents. I won't be able to tell her what to do and who's call no to answer. So that day passed . Then like two days later we were just playing and she said she'll slap me(I've warned her about such statements before) then she told me again that she was in my house that's why I was telling her such things. We have had some issues in the past before where she was wrong and I corrected her and she took offense to my correction and we quarreled about it. Those Times I even had to apologize for peace to reign. Now she's leaving saying she doesn't want me to talk to her since it's my house . So I asked her why she was quarrelling with me "She Said I was Too Proud And Authoritative"

How should I handle this ?

"How will i handle her" I hope both of you are not babies

Stand your ground bro. If she insists, tell her that if she think she could find someone out there better than you, she should go ahead, and you too start shopping for replacement.

CyberWolf:
Stand your ground bro. If she insists, tell her that if she think she could find someone out there better than you, she should go ahead, and you too start shopping for replacement.

Perfect advice

Bro, your girl wants to play along and chop their money That's exactly what she's doing with you. Wish you could see the signs.

Leave the girl for your own good

better walk from the relationship, she is gonna cheat on you and you won't know cuz she will do that when far away from you....

willace:
My girlfriend has the attitude of not taking correction. Me too I know I have my own flaws. There has been some guys toasting her. She told me about it. She said she told them she already has a boyfriend but just wants to play along and eat their money. At first I said nothing. Then some days back the issue came up again . Then I calmly told her that she should stop it . That I don't like it. When I told her she became angry that I was giving her rules and regulations because she was in my house (she's on holiday. So she's staying at my place) that if she was at her parents. I won't be able to tell her what to do and who's call no to answer. So that day passed . Then like two days later we were just playing and she said she'll slap me(I've warned her about such statements before) then she told me again that she was in my house that's why I was telling her such things. We have had some issues in the past before where she was wrong and I corrected her and she took offense to my correction and we quarreled about it. Those Times I even had to apologize for peace to reign. Now she's leaving saying she doesn't want me to talk to her since it's my house . So I asked her why she was quarrelling with me "She Said I was Too Proud And Authoritative"

How should I handle this ?

let her go....


Oh! If only you know what God has just done for you

If the story is as you told it.
Put your foot down and if she refuses to take heed, let her go.
You are being manipulated and you seem to be okay with it.

I don't know how some people tolerate toxic relationship all in the name of love
that will fade with time.

Red flag!

That girl is not ready for a serious relationship. She'd definitely cheat on you, that's if she has not started already. Cos I don't understand why she wants to eat other guys' money. Stupid gold digger.

She has an entitlement mentality and lacks manners. When next she threatens to leave, allow her.
And get yourself a better girl. Dis one go soon give you hypertension.

You are not authoritative. Your gf wants to eat her cake and have it.

kennygee:
You are not authoritative. Your gf wants to eat her cake and have it.

Respect.

Na Red flag u dey see now ooo and later u will now get married and be disturbing us with unna Problem, better go find another girl abi all the signs wey God dey show u now no dey enough

lol you don enta am bro. Lemme ask you few questions.

1: is your gf a Yoruba girl?
2: How old is she?
3: is she too materialistic type of girl no lie?
4: Is she money conscious?
5: How did you toast her self. With money or normal guy level... no lie oo

6: Is she Endowed front and back?
7: Is she your wife ni or you have plans on marrying her?
8: Does she like too eat outside ? Buy me this and that.
9: Has she invest on you with sex and money. Like give you better money oo.... 5k +

OK bro no reasonable girl will tell her bf she just want to chop other guys money. She thinks does guys are foolish abi..

My guy someone or some guys are banging her ooo no just bother yourself like acting you married to her ..

My advice bang and dumb her cause she has already dumped you one day you go see am...


If one gee guy toast her bro that's the end oo...

Anyway answer my questions.

kennygee:
You are not authoritative. Your gf wants to eat her cake and have it.

You're Rare Gem To Say These Words.. Had an ex like that i later dump her ass...

Cc: Op Dump That girl Now Or Else You Regret Later

JasonScoolari:
She said she told them she already has a boyfriend but just wants to play along and eat their money.








Now, this is where it started from.

How best do you describe a girl who see it as fun eating other guys money when she has a boyfriend? Is that not an insatiable gold digger? Don't fall for that trick that she wants to eat their money because there's a high chance that she's also eating their dick in appreciation.

Saying you're "AUTHORITATIVE and TOO PROUD" is just another excuse for her to leave you and launch herself into the world of gold digging and dick taking.

There's a huge difference between VALUE and WORTH, and your girlfriend don't have any of them.

You still have your own flaws you need to work on, though you did not stated it here.

Finally, I will advise you to leave her before you start seeing what will make you drink 3 bottles of SNIPER.

outstanding!!! Now this is what I call a mature mind saying the way it should be. Kudos!!!
OP should know that the girl is just looking for a slight opportunity to leave the guy.

willace:
My girlfriend has the attitude of not taking correction. Me too I know I have my own flaws. There has been some guys toasting her. She told me about it. She said she told them she already has a boyfriend but just wants to play along and eat their money. At first I said nothing. Then some days back the issue came up again . Then I calmly told her that she should stop it . That I don't like it. When I told her she became angry that I was giving her rules and regulations because she was in my house (she's on holiday. So she's staying at my place) that if she was at her parents. I won't be able to tell her what to do and who's call no to answer. So that day passed . Then like two days later we were just playing and she said she'll slap me(I've warned her about such statements before) then she told me again that she was in my house that's why I was telling her such things. We have had some issues in the past before where she was wrong and I corrected her and she took offense to my correction and we quarreled about it. Those Times I even had to apologize for peace to reign. Now she's leaving saying she doesn't want me to talk to her since it's my house . So I asked her why she was quarrelling with me "She Said I was Too Proud And Authoritative"

How should I handle this ?

She clearly doesn't respect you, your opinion or your feelings. Let the ho go

My advice to you.... learn to read the writings of women. Most don't... but this one is writing in big bold letters.... others write in very fine print. She told you what she is about.... and keeps reminding you that is what she does when she's at her parents' home. She's staying with you.... and speaking with other guys. When she is not with you.... you really believe she be at her parents?...or be at other guys ehmmm.... chopping their money? Ask yourself... how many guys you know that girls be chopping their money .... and the guys not chopping back something? You spoke to her... doesn't matter.... is like trying to make a lion a vegetarian. And don't for a moment think you can beat her to change... take that thought completely out of your head. You don't like her style... move on.

Your girl is a prostitute. No offence.

Frankicent:
lol you don enta am bro. Lemme ask you few questions.

1: is your gf a Yoruba girl?
2: How old is she?
3: is she too materialistic type of girl no lie?
4: Is she money conscious?
5: How did you toast her self. With money or normal guy level... no lie oo

6: Is she Endowed front and back?
7: Is she your wife ni or you have plans on marrying her?
8: Does she like too eat outside ? Buy me this and that.
9: Has she invest on you with sex and money. Like give you better money oo.... 5k +

OK bro no reasonable girl will tell her bf she just want to chop other guys money. She thinks does guys are foolish abi..

My guy someone or some guys are banging her ooo no just bother yourself like acting you married to her ..

My advice bang and dumb her cause she has already dumped you one day you go see am...


If one gee guy toast her bro that's the end oo...

Anyway answer my questions.

wetin bring yoruba girls come unto dis matter now?

Ahmed0336:

wetin bring yoruba girls come unto dis matter now?

dey ask me

CyberWolf:
Stand your ground bro. If she insists, tell her that if she think she could find someone out there better than you, she should go ahead, and you too start shopping for replacement.

No one can ever say it better

Relegate her to second division and promote another to division one......lobatan!

I don't support her keeping multiple males friends to extort money from them like she claims guys don't give girls money for free

But on the thing of her playfully saying she will slap you etc I will say you two don't really understand each other, true lovers are also best of friends playmates
You two are not just compatible so no need of you two being together

Wrong statement

Acidosis:




Your girl is a prostitute. No offence.

Blade21:
Wrong statement

She told me about it. She said she told them she already has a boyfriend but just wants to play along and eat their money

Na their work na abi? To play along, even in bed.

kennygee:
You are not authoritative. Your gf wants to eat her cake and have it.

I love this comment I was waiting for a lady to come to the defence of the Girl but you said the truth

willace:
My girlfriend has the attitude of not taking correction. Me too I know I have my own flaws. There has been some guys toasting her. She told me about it. She said she told them she already has a boyfriend but just wants to play along and eat their money. At first I said nothing. Then some days back the issue came up again . Then I calmly told her that she should stop it . That I don't like it. When I told her she became angry that I was giving her rules and regulations because she was in my house (she's on holiday. So she's staying at my place) that if she was at her parents. I won't be able to tell her what to do and who's call no to answer. So that day passed . Then like two days later we were just playing and she said she'll slap me(I've warned her about such statements before) then she told me again that she was in my house that's why I was telling her such things. We have had some issues in the past before where she was wrong and I corrected her and she took offense to my correction and we quarreled about it. Those Times I even had to apologize for peace to reign. Now she's leaving saying she doesn't want me to talk to her since it's my house . So I asked her why she was quarrelling with me "She Said I was Too Proud And Authoritative"

How should I handle this ?

The truth is that lady hates authority...that's why she's with you and not her parent's house. Trust me, you will look back 5 years from now and see that you've only been living in fool's paradise with wasted years. Leave her and count your losses. She is a serious red flag...run while you still can!

Still don't know the benefit of having a girlfriend...
You can still drill and service different engine oil week in, week out.. without the emotional, mental, financial and time wasting venture called *relationship/girlfriend*