Biglittlelois:



You have no issues with the wife being kicked to the streets? I have no more words for people like you , this ends our conversation.

False confidence

theAccountant:

My point is, the Nigerian ladies calling men scum, arguing about whose responsibility it is to cook/pay bills are not feminist.
They belong to a subculture that doesn't represent true feminist ideology. So rather than call them feminist (by so doing making the real feminist look like a joke) look for a more appropriate term. Understanding what real feminism is will help you come up with an appropriate term.

Are you a male Feminist??

MUSAPLC:
Dear great people.
This week was one of my happy week since 8 year ago, i just returned my wife back to her parents because of following reason:
1 .She don't have any atom of respect for me including all my family member.
2.she is always compliant that she don't like sex or giving you conditions and time to have sex with her
3. She believed that her decision or whatever she said is finally.
4.She wouldn't Cook, because she cook yesterday I.e would you take Tea or
5.She don't like go to church and prayer,my little child of 4 year is aware that her mother don't prayer
6.She wouldn't pick my phone call n when she pick she would asking me with high voice why call her.
7.She don't want me to talk her, let me allow to do whatever she want
This demon wife am the one feeding ,clothing, housing ,I work with a multinational company.
I want thank God for his Grace all through that trying moment

Should i sent my account number so that you drop something for me to celebrate with you. Happy survival to you for casting out a demon.

Preshy561:
Calling your wife a demon says alot about you.
You must be the chief demon.

Exactly, He's obviously the one with a problem.

Regiomontanus:
His point is getting married in Nigeria is safer and better than getting married in western countries. In Nigeria, if your wife is disturbing you and not giving you your peace, you can dump her silly ass with immediate effect unlike in the western world where marriage is a cage.

There are a lot of factors taken into consideration before alimony or child support is given.
In this case where the man is housing, feeding and clothing the wife. He has very little to nothing to lose.
The same thing if the wife was in charge of basic necessities of life ... She may not lose anything.

jasp12:
If you can't make your marriage work as a man , who should we be calling "demon"

Utterly fallacious and disappointing. The success of a marriage is based on the mutual effort of the husband and wife. Don't try the heap the blame on the man. His wife has no excuse to be toxic.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:




There are a lot of factors taken into consideration before alimony or child support is given.
In this case where the man is housing, feeding and clothing the wife. He has very little to nothing to lose.

Skmoda360:
I guess you never ask God for wife....you just picked her because she is pretty and so on....but she later relapsed back to her real self..

When did God become a match maker?. His so called servants like pastor Chris, Nginla and so many others didn't pray too and. nonsense

Ryan03:
So you want this life style for your daughters? Your sisters? Sorry, i Dont want same for the females in my life and the ones to come Hence i'll teach them to fight for themselves. Power is not given to anyone, power is taken by force

Very good........ your mum will be in the better position to explain life to you better not me..... becos I denote you still a kid.... you will understand better has you grow much older

Banzermy:

Stfu senseless mofo. People pretend before marriage and now that he doesn’t want the marriage anymore, what’s your own business? Olofo

sit your dirty ass down and allow your brain to function, you didnt divorce her after one, two, three years, you waited 8 whole years before your decide to "return her to her parents house". Your stupidity is bigger that your entire village

2buffagain:


I only argue with my intellectual peers.
Take your ilogical nonsense to the dustbin you crawled out of.

So says Albert Einstein...

Regiomontanus:
In Nigeria both can dump each other but in the western world, only the woman can dump man's ass while the husband can't try such without losing much. Gender inequality?

Marriage in the western world is a cage for men. If a woman wants to divorce a man for no reason, she will be granted a divorce, 60% of the man's networth, his house, custody of the children and he will still have to pay alimony and child support. If he cannot pay all these, he is sent to jail. Tell me why marriage is not a cage for men?

Which Western country in particular are you talking about?? .. Different Western States have different marriage/divorce laws.

Let's start from there...

Ryan03:
sit your dirty ass down and allow your brain to function, you didnt divorce her after one, two, three years, you waited 8 whole years before your decide to "return her to her parents house". Your stupidity is bigger that your entire village

Stfu. What’s your business with when he chooses to divorce the demonic wife? If you ain’t satisfied, you can go and marry her since you’re a senseless idiot. Weak ass mofo. Na heavy thunder go scatter your useless and miserable life

lefulefu:
God airpus oo
give us good understanding wives
may slayqueens and karashikas plus giirls that turn to coffin wen u want to do d do dont come our way
in jesu kristi name i pray

Bro calm down... There are always two sides to a coin...
I think the man is being economical with the truth.

Regiomontanus:
Don't mind them. Notice how every female here is talking rubbish. They are trying to turn the tables on the op and some are even advising him to go back to his wife.

Those that have been in marriage will know that being with a toxic partner is like staying in hell. Toxic partners are not worth it and should be dumped ASAP. Congratulations to the op.

You are right bro.

Regiomontanus:

Y u dey look me like that kwanu?
Na d same go happen if the woman was feeding, housing and clothing the husband. I doubt she'll lose anything.

Regiomontanus:
You are very stupid. I never said the man was a good man. How is he supposed to know that the wife is a demon before the marriage? Is he a mind reader? Don't you know that a lot women pretend before marriage only to show their true colours after marriage? For this reason, even good men end up marrying demons and that doesn't make make them demons. To say that a man marrying a bad wife makes him a bad man is to be a high ranking id1ot.

If you doubted that he was saint, why don't you go and ask his wife for her side of the story first instead of turning the tables on the op straight away. You are deserving of a psychiatric evaluation and if you continue at this rate, your children will be ashamed to associate with you or acknowledge you as their blood because your stupidity is disgraceful.

You are a disgrace to all female members of your family and your village in general. Your daughters will be too ashamed to call you father cause you are a beast.

Banzermy:

Stfu. What’s your business with when he chooses to divorce the demonic wife? If you ain’t satisfied, you can go and marry her since you’re a senseless idiot. Weak ass mofo. Na heavy thunder go scatter your useless and miserable life

Ordinary condom of fifty Naira would have saved the world from a miscreant like you. I go soon read your frustration story on NL Your own go be "my satanic wife returned me to the gutters"

Banzermy:

Stfu. What’s your business with when he chooses to divorce the demonic wife? If you ain’t satisfied, you can go and marry her since you’re a senseless idiot. Weak ass mofo. Na heavy thunder go scatter your useless and miserable life

Ryan03 has insufficient grey mater. You cannot blame him.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:




Bro calm down... There are always two sides to a coin...
I think the man is being economical with the truth.

Why do you think he is economical with the truth? I also noticed that you seemed biased against the op.

Ryan03:
Ordinary condom of fifty Naira would have saved the world from a miscreant like you. I go soon read your frustration story on NL Your own go be "my satanic wife returned me to the gutters"

Banzermy asked a logical question. It takes intelligence to give logical answers to logical questions.

It is better for a mobile police to deal with you than for a wrong wife to do so.Only people in his shoe understands.Don't remarry.Pray and be patient.Then settle.the matter to bring her back.Many factors are responsible

MUSAPLC:
Dear great people.
This week was one of my happy week since 8 year ago, i just returned my wife back to her parents because of following reason:
1 .She don't have any atom of respect for me including all my family member.
2.she is always compliant that she don't like sex or giving you conditions and time to have sex with her
3. She believed that her decision or whatever she said is finally.
4.She wouldn't Cook, because she cook yesterday I.e would you take Tea or
5.She don't like go to church and prayer,my little child of 4 year is aware that her mother don't prayer
6.She wouldn't pick my phone call n when she pick she would asking me with high voice why call her.
7.She don't want me to talk her, let me allow to do whatever she want
This demon wife am the one feeding ,clothing, housing ,I work with a multinational company.
I want thank God for his Grace all through that trying moment

Thank GOD for your life. Most women don't know that the only thing they give a man is puna. Yet some complain and give excuses. If U check very well, one guy is somewhere knacking the puna morning and night. While the husband starves of puna.


To all married women give your husband puna morning and night for a peaceful marriage. Just as you feed him daily, give him puna daily.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:




Bro calm down... There are always two sides to a coin...
I think the man is being economical with the truth.

He thinks everyone is dumb to just buy the story and start insulting the lady

sodiamond:
Na wa for Nigerian men o. So a wife of 8years can not relax and do whatever she likes again. OMG even someone going to school will graduate after 4years and a whole wife is expected to act like a maid all the days of her life. You guys are not ok at all!!
If she insults your family, insult hers too and the marriage goes on. What are you doing with respect or you want to sell it?
This life is simple o. No wonder my husband says I behave like a boy sometimes because I don't put abusive words in heart. My marriage is 8years + too

You must be joking.
Is she mad that she'll insult my family?
If your husband is often insulting your family... It's none of my freaking business that you refused to build your self worth and value instead you jumped into marriage.

Madam, you cannot eat your cake and have it.
Jejelly carry your cross.

Regiomontanus:
Banzermy asked a logical question. It takes intelligence to give logical answers to logical questions.

Excuse your ass, where is the intelligent question? Someone (both of you) who is being so emotional because his brother came online to cry, searching for sympathy and couldnt get it from everyone. Not everyone is dumb and hatred filled like you

for you to call her demon means you must be a lucifer because don't u check this act during ur courtship days and have u informed her family abt what u don't like abt her altitude, have u sat her down to talk one on one because people didn't change in oneday, something might push them which am sure u didn't find because u are an impatient man....

Now my question is this:
pls where is ur child, how did she/he feeling towards ur actions, what about her emotion recently, Are you planning of marrying another demon

delishpot:



Be rational na. I have seen many wives infected with HIV from their husbands. Some men catch VD treat their selves and hide it from their wives. Some catch HIV and hide it too. I have seen many men torment the good wives they marry. I know 1st hand of men who abuse wives one left only after her husband beat her till she lost 1 eye. Still I will not say men are evil and all girls should do is to have baby dafies and enjoy their lives. You hate women we know but don't make your disappointment a national problem.

I am advising the reasonable and the real men out there and not some shameless sissy disguising as men.

I doubt you are one of the real men...not even close.

Ryan03:
Excuse your ass, where is the intelligent question? Someone (both of you) who is being so emotional because his brother came online to cry, searching for sympathy and couldnt get it from everyone. Not everyone is dumb and hatred filled like you

So being happy that a man got rid of a toxic partner makes me hate filled? So because a man has been in a marriage for eight years means he should keep on suffering? Why should the number of years matter? You want him to keep on suffering? At this rate, your offspring would consider deleting your name from the family history as they wouldn't want to have a connection with someone so disgracefully stupid.

Regiomontanus:
Why do you think he is economical with the truth? I also noticed that you seemed biased against the op.

Biased cause he said there are two sides to a coin? But you are not biased for supporting the op without hearing from the wife? Lwkmd

delishpot:


Both men and women did. Even the bible mentioned it too. All in all sha our world is going googoo gaga and higgi hagga. We as a people must learn to treat each other with fairness and equity

No oo !! men are still as gullible as adam, please on ur way back help me buy apple 3 for #250. nice day