koyyes:
Don't worry. Relax and wait for your husband to be to land Naija first. Then you and her can plan together. She will take care of all expenses.

Always be submissive to your husband to be okay? When you get there, be a loving wife and show her you are well domesticated.

Good luck.

koyyes:
Don't worry. Relax and wait for your husband to be to land Naija first. Then you and her can plan together. She will take care of all expenses.

Always be submissive to your husband to be okay? When you get there, be a loving wife and show her you are well domesticated.

Good luck.

kings59:
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Very bad english.

AwkaetitiBabe:
I know you?

good4all40:
bro u have a point


I don't think our man can afford such amount of money according to his message. I will suggest he look for a cheaper hotels online from 10k downnward, check jumia and other hotel portals online. The reason l mentioned you should delay your marriage till her second or third visit, is that it will surely makes your immigrant visa less complicated, Nigeria is rated as high marriage fraud country, so marriage at first visit will be viewed as such except mountainous and convincing evidences are provided by you.

AwkaetitiBabe:
I want! Find one for me Monsieur

myddmodnabastard:
mumu prof

sonnie10:
Ignorance, must it be on social media?

calddon:
u get married and fly back together, how is that even possible within 2weeks?

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

paroh137:


I said beg

AngelicBeing:
Hmmmm

koyyes:
Don't worry. Relax and wait for your husband to be to land Naija first. Then you and her can plan together. She will take care of all expenses.

Always be submissive to your husband to be okay? When you get there, be a loving wife and show her you are well domesticated.

Good luck.

GodCovenant:
if you don't have money. it is mission impossible. both of you will regret everything. you need money to host a foreigner and protect her.

koyyes:
Don't worry. Relax and wait for your husband to be to land Naija first. Then you and her can plan together. She will take care of all expenses.

Always be submissive to your husband to be okay? When you get there, be a loving wife and show her you are well domesticated.

Good luck.

Adakintroy:
My advice is take a chance with yourself. Be calm. Some women over there have a heart of gold. They have seen it all in there world. They probably looking for something different and true Stay calm free you mind (although its easier said than done) ).You from a poor a
third world africa. She knows this more than you. She expecting to see poverty, so don't deny her that.Chances her she has consulted with her friends about this and she has gotten all kind of advice.


If she is coming to marry, let her come. Am guessing you were honest about your financial position. She is the one pushing. Stay calm let her do all the work. Na so God take DE bless at times. Just be honest with yourself and with her.

Show her your parents your envirioment. However poor it may look. Introduce her to ukhodo.(local urhobo delicacy).Make sure it comes with lots of the spice. Cant have ukhodo without the spice.

Don't take her to "shopright".that's the direction she is coming from. Rather take her on nite street walks and buy her suyer and peppers soup in the open. Let her feel the gaze and the silent side talks it will helps to make her feel special.

it's a once in a life time experiance. Let her have all of it. Boy kill her with your Africa as you know it. The local way. But do it it with enough conviction, with cheer on your face. She needs all edges off. She need to know that happiness does not live in wealthy nations. You were happy growing up on these parts.

Give her the local name of foreign object. engage that woman. Tell her stories late into the nite. Folklore, myth. They already farcinated by African folktales.

She is meeting you for the first time. Don't disappoint her. I mean Na love carry her cross sea. No be money. Again Let her feel it. We are nigerians. God knows we deltans. On our day the thing be like "follow come" for our body. Just no fear. No shake. She is already your woman. One things I do agree with though, two week is a short time to stunn her..but believe me guy. I believe you.

..blessings.)

ziondaughter247:
Look at them. Hungry inferior men getting excited because of this scam. if it was a woman that was doing this, they will have started shouting olosho

Amuocha:
But where is lalasticlala sef

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

mmadu5:
bro please what ever you do dont marry her on first visit maybe second visit or third , because if you marry her right away the embassy will know your only after green card and they will deny you visa

PrinceCharmings:
how you carry convince her make she come Nigeria?.

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

Adakintroy:
My advice is take a chance with yourself. Be calm. Some women over there have a heart of gold. They have seen it all in there world. They probably looking for something different and true. Stay calm free you mind (although its easier said than done) ).You from a poor a
third world africa. She knows this more than you. She expecting to see poverty, so don't deny her that.Chances her she has consulted with her friends about this and she has gotten all kind of advice.


If she is coming to marry, let her come. Am guessing you were honest about your financial position. She is the one pushing. Stay calm let her do all the work. Na so God take DE bless at times. Just be honest with yourself and with her.

Show her your parents your envirioment. However poor it may look. Introduce her to ukhodo.(local urhobo delicacy).Make sure it comes with lots of the spice. Cant have ukhodo without the spice.

Don't take her to "shopright".that's the direction she is coming from. Rather take her on nite street walks and buy her suyer and peppers soup in the open. Let her feel the gaze and the silent side talks it will helps to make her feel special.

it's a once in a life time experiance. Let her have all of it. Boy kill her with your Africa as you know it. The local way. But do it it with enough conviction, with cheer on your face. She needs all edges off. She need to know that happiness does not live in wealthy nations. You were happy growing up on these parts.

Give her the local name of foreign object. engage that woman. Tell her stories late into the nite. Folklore, myth. They already farcinated by African folktales.

She is meeting you for the first time. Don't disappoint her. I mean Na love carry her cross sea. No be money. Again Let her feel it. We are nigerians. God knows we deltans. On our day the thing be like "follow come" for our body. Area no de carry last no be just metaphor.

Just no fear. No shake. She is already your woman. One things I do agree with though, two week is a short time to stunn her..but believe me guy. I believe you.

..blessings.)

Ranchhoddas:


Zion's daughter, now you heart is full of joy

You have done the same thing by calling him an hungry inferior man. It's the reverse.

koyyes:
Don't worry. Relax and wait for your husband to be to land Naija first. Then you and her can plan together. She will take care of all expenses.

Always be submissive to your husband to be okay? When you get there, be a loving wife and show her you are well domesticated.

Good luck.