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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by boiz2men(m): 2:23pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Sorry I don't have such mindset. If I'm in a relationship and need something I can't get on my own, I tell my boyfriend. If he can afford it, fine, if he can't, fine.

what if he can but he has other responsibilities and this happens all the time

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by FatherBona: 2:25pm On Jun 15, 2019
Mariangeles:
You have no rights to any rule.
Better yet, date yourself!
not true bro
Its his money, he calls the shot
If she refuses, there's some girl out there who will give in

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jun 15, 2019
Ostrogoth:


The same awkaetiti that dishes feminist poo and stuff on this forum?!?! These girls no get joy ooo!!
Those dudes lack comprehensive ability. They simply twisting shii to make me look bad. Typical male ego to subdue a female.
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jun 15, 2019
boiz2men:


what if he can but he has other responsibilities and this happens all the time
Why would it, I ain't paralyzed. See relationships is about understanding. When you with someone you love, you won't do things that will jeopardize it.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by boiz2men(m): 2:28pm On Jun 15, 2019
haryothosyn93:
It happens to me yesterday evening like you guys know what is happening right now

I met this girl like a month ago, we gist and bla bla like that after we exchange contact. She agree to come over to my place that week sunday wish I have prepared for it as a guy naw. I just have to call her on Saturday evening just to be sure she is still coming as well have agreed but to my surprise, she said she will be resuming back to school the very next day which is Sunday that we agreed on. I was like no problem now, when will you be coming back and she said immediately she finished her exams she is will be starting on Monday the same week we agreed to see. Fast forward to the whole scenario, she called 2 weeks after that the school had prosponed the exams till further notice, I was like what happened she said she didn't know why that i send her card which I did. She didn't called after that till when I caller her again to check on her. The next demand was card again which I did again. She flashed me the next morning to thank me for the card I sent to her.
I called her again last weekend to know when she will be coming to abuja and she was like I will be coming on Wednesday because I will finish my exams on tuesday afternoon, I said okay that I will check on her before she come to abuja. To my surprise, I called this gurl on Thursday to know if she is back to base and her response shocked me that she didn't have transport and she has been looking for a way to call me that I should send her money for her transport. I was like if I did not call you now you won't remember that you don't have transport, she has being calling me like I owe her money. She keeping sending messages and calling till around 2 am in the morning.


It is funny but crazy and I told that I don't have one naira in my account that she should call her family. She said nobody has money in her family to send to her.

ypu will send her the money for transport and she will still not come.. am i a prophetr> no. but i can read minds... if you love your emotions, dnt send her anythg

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by SlimChay: 2:29pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba I work hard for my money. I don't need change u men got to offer. How much can a guy give to me that I can't give myself? I just told u niggas the truth.. If she bills you outrageously, she ain't into you. Take that to the fuvcking bank.
Maybe you're averagely dumb like the rest of the pack rats on here oweing to the reason this thread was brought up in the first place.

What you do or earn is not in contention here, however what you opined earlier, the reason you got a lot of backlash from people is a reflection of how you truly think and act behind the canopy of anonymity. What dignity is left of a girl who scam men off their means simply because she isn't into the intending "toaster" of a guy? Or are you just unreceptive to information or truth. One thing is certain, you are pained that you fall into the category of bimbos being discussed and this is your sincerest albeit tactful way of expressing it. And it's not about what you have or what you do that erradicates your greed but bad upbringing,background and faulty mentality.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jun 15, 2019
ModelX:

See na, she even commented on the first page, spewing shït as usual .
Hungry girls chai which gods have we offended in this country.

You lucky I wasn't even online when you spewing nonsense. Asslicker. Simply because I blatantly said No to ur advances I'm not a bad person ryt. Continue

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by pansophist(m): 2:31pm On Jun 15, 2019
noah91:
I get ur point bro. The guy don lose already, so in order not to lose finally, I suggested the above. A girl no fit even play me that kind wayo. Sex is cheap even with better girls, so why spend ur monthly salary on a girl in one day in an outing

Sleeping with her is not winning, how do you guys even enjoy sleeping with women that don't find you attractive? different kind of men dey sha, una de try I swear grin

An healthy sexual intercourse is built on a solid foundation of mutual attraction, though you enjoy the sex physically, it is mentally soothing, ego massaging and refreshing to know that she was attracted to you for who you are, not what you have. Anything short of the aforementioned is dysfunctional, to put it bluntly.

The surest way to win is to go out into the world and express your masculinity, to be a conqueror, pick up a skill and try to be the best or at least a household name with it, then you will enjoy endless waves of women swaying your way because they are attracted to the kind of man you represent, without necessarily jeopardizing your self-esteem, become vulnerable to potential leeches and at the mercy of a woman's consideration.

Chase a goal and women will chase the man with a goal. That's the natural rhythm. Chasing women is not the goal, it is what happens, and come around when you are good in your game. When a woman finds you attractive because of the personality you've built for yourself, there and then, you negotiate from a position of strength because you are valuable, you have options, and a kind of man you are proud of, your family and society at large. Positive hypergamy is a good thing (I know men hate female hypergamy, but drop a mention if you want an explanation on this), and you must be better so quality women will find you a good match.

cool

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by CosmicPhoenix: 2:32pm On Jun 15, 2019
you sound pained

Lalas247:
Haha see them...
All.the low income and non earners are here telling HUGE lies with their beardless face grin

Chai

See lies.. at least we can see who attracts dregs see them shocked
If the lady makes demand on first date .. she doesn't even respect u means you trash shioor
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by FatherBona: 2:32pm On Jun 15, 2019
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Lalas247:
Haha see them...
All.the low income and non earners are here telling HUGE lies with their beardless face grin

Chai

See lies.. at least we can see who attracts dregs see them shocked
If the lady makes demand on first date .. she doesn't even respect u means you trash shioor
[/s]has this made sense to you?

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 15, 2019
SlimChay:

Maybe you're averagely dumb like the rest of the pack rats on here oweing to the reason this thread was brought up in the first place.

What you do or earn is not in contention here, however what you opined earlier, the reason you got a lot of backlash from people is a reflection of how you truly think and act behind the canopy of anonymity. What dignity is left of a girl who scam men off their means simply because she isn't into the intending "toaster" of a guy? Or are you just unreceptive to information or truth. One thing is certain, you are pained that you fall into the category of bimbos being discussed and this is your sincerest albeit tactful way of expressing it. And it's not about what you have or what you do that erradicates your greed but bad upbringing,background and faulty mentality.
I still maintain a lady demanding outrageously from you has zero respect and acknowledgement for you. I understand you might have fallen mugu but then we all learn from experience. Convenient how you guys twisted my comment so you all can feel better

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by ngwababe(f): 2:37pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Its simply stupid you just met someone and making such demands. As in what's the basis for such a demand?

The op got dumped not too long ago, pity his perceived money can't even make her stay. Silly misogynistic fool. To think his hometown is even close to mine... Age has nothing to do with maturity indeed.


Please e never reach to insult him, sorry ma! cheesy

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by SlimChay: 2:42pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I still maintain a lady demanding outrageously from you has zero respect and acknowledgement for you. I understand you might have fallen mugu but then we all learn from experience. Convenient how you guys twisted my comment so you all can feel better
Let's get one thing clear first. I belong to the stock of beings with rational mindset while you're the opposite of me. The more reason we are locking horns here.

I can't be saddled by the likes of you. I refrain from your type because we don't exist in the same world if not for social media. Which comment of yours did I twist? Lol

You're our of your depth. Gasping at straws and crying while failing to get the real picture,well you do but ego won't let you give in huh?

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by boiz2men(m): 2:44pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Why would it, I ain't paralyzed. See relationships is about understanding. When you with someone you love, you won't do things that will jeopardize it.

hmmm.....


how about when you are yet to love him but he isnt giving up?
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Austineva(m): 2:45pm On Jun 15, 2019
grin grin
WestGodspower:
This kinda rubbish happened to me twice in one week. I went out with a girl and she suggested shoprite, we got der and she was pulling everything her hands could touch from d shelf into d shoppin cart, i asked her, babe who go pay for all these things? She said you of course, i calm down and told her no p, i gat u, let me go and bring extra cart for u cos tis one is filling up already. I left and never looked back. Deleted her number asap. Kept calling me but never picked. Days later she texted and said she's sorry that she will love to see me again, me i know she just want to try again with a different format.
Second one, after d first one, i had learned my lesson and decided never to take any girl to shoprite again to avoid such stories, invited a girl out to d local bar. Called her, babe where are u, she said we are on our way, i asked who is we, she said me and my friend. And i tot to myself, if her friend looks as good as she looks that i will focus on her. She showed up with two friends both, not good looking at all. They sat down and i started laughing, they asked why i was laughing i looked at them dead on and said 'I'm about to order some expensive shits and leave them to pay for it', they laughed thinkin i was jokin. They ordered for 3 point and kill, i was like only? They ordered plenty hollandia big sized yogurt and chi exotic, i was like only? They said amarula, i said ok I will be back let me go and pay downstair and i zoomed off, never looked back.
I don't have time for arguments and i decided, no decent girls in this life again and I'm gonna hang boot on girls for now.
grin NL/dis thread swt dai

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by newdawn2017(f): 2:46pm On Jun 15, 2019
Ryan03:
I thank God for the kind of girl I have sha, no billings of any kind. I fit just use my mind when I know say she not get just give her small. she works hence doesn't need mine
Wicked, & selfish greedy man. U see now, small undecided
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Welcomme: 2:47pm On Jun 15, 2019
pansophist:


Haha, you got it. Asked anyone that has worked for a female boss before, same stories. Even all house girl brutality are done by their madam. Research was done some time ago, that 80% of women don't even want to work for women. Yes, you heard it right. Even women prefer to be bossed by men, not their own kind, women. You can watch this video below, it discussed about it.

Another thing to think about. I have never met a man in my whole life, that prefer women as a friend, than men. But I have met countless women that prefer male friends than women. It is of no surprise that every religion, tradition and most society is head by a male. Women do not make good leaders, they just cant. To be selfish and solipsistic (as oppose to being self-sacrificial and extend care outside the self) is not an attribute of a leader, rendering most women fit for the position of leadership.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C57mK0GXCas
One will see hell when working under a woman. I am working under one presently.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by scave(m): 2:48pm On Jun 15, 2019
sisilimart622:
u right babe... and some guys u date, if u didn't ask dey won't give u

Must u ask? Don't give him ur body and he should give gift anytime he feels like, then u will get into a serious relationship, there should b a reason 4 being into a relationship outside sex and money and if it is 4 those two that's then male and female starts getting different response like "all guys are the same, no wife material" etc.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jun 15, 2019
cyprus000:

lol. aunty, is this your way of prevaricating or what

Uncle, it is my way of saying your story has changed.

Your first point isn't the same as your second.
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by SlimChay: 2:49pm On Jun 15, 2019
Awkaetitibabe. Give up and change your ways. Your faulty sense of reasoning is what has the average black woman at the bottom chain of desirability.

"You earn much to care about the change we give" right? Lol

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by pansophist(m): 2:51pm On Jun 15, 2019
Welcomme:
One will see hell when working under a woman. I am working under one presently.

Like Winston Churchill said. ''if you are going through hell, keep going'' cool

Men need to put bread for the table, I get it. But try to change job lol, or start your own business. Nice female bosses are usually middle-aged, not millennials, or women born within the last 30 years. In fact the younger she is, the fire wey she go carry for head.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by hysteriabox(m): 2:57pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
And you believed B.S?
If you have proof that it's a lie, please share. Nothing wrong in being a lil less pessimistic

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Kenneth10110(m): 2:58pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
You lucky I wasn't even online when you spewing nonsense. Asslicker. Simply because I blatantly said No to ur advances I'm not a bad person ryt. Continue

Stop lying when did he toast you. You want to add sugar

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2019
SlimChay:
Awkaetitibabe. Give up and change your ways. Your faulty sense of reasoning is what has the average black woman at the bottom chain of desirability.

"You earn much to care about the change we give" right? Lol
You are insufferable. Jeez.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jun 15, 2019
Kenneth10110:


Stop lying when did he toast you. You want to add sugar
I don't kiss and tell

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019
hysteriabox:

If you have proof that it's a lie, please share. Nothing wrong in being a lil less pessimistic
Who has that time?

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by kenralph(m): 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019
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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by kenralph(m): 3:05pm On Jun 15, 2019
pansophist:


The surest way to win is to go out into the world and express your masculinity, to be a conqueror, pick up a skill and try to be the best or at least a household name with it, then you will enjoy endless waves of women swaying your way because they are attracted to the kind of man you represent, without necessarily jeopardizing your self-esteem, become vulnerable to potential leeches and at the mercy of a woman's consideration.

Chase a goal and women will chase the man with a goal. That's the natural rhythm. Chasing women is not the goal, it is what happens, and come around when you are good in your game.

cool


well said.
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Kenneth10110(m): 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2019
Babygal2020:

Aka gum!!!! I can't even date you!!!!
i can't even advise him to toast you

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Enugupikin: 3:07pm On Jun 15, 2019
donziggyman:
Lol hear my own na... Guys pardon me for any typos you may come across. I'm just an ssce holder and I'm not good in writing. Meanwhile certificate no stop me from balling weller...grin

Matter full ground. I met this babe on fb when I drop one naughty comment on her page. Later I apologize to her and delete the comment. After that boom we're friends online so close that we began to share stories. Well I pretend to be just a poverty wrecking person but I never new she check my timeline. But I have never ever post any good pictures or boosty pic cuz I have this believe that one day I might come across real white babe I might follow and travel out if God permits and sure this are going very well just as if I'm really directing but in physical and in spirit. 1 2 babe say na airtel. I simply told her that I don't have any dime cuz I haven't received my salary yet. After that I came up with a bigger hit and apologized for not being there for her when she needed me most lol. Babe Fall in again we continue. You I'm among those dude dishing it hot to materialistic ladies. I'm 100% sure she saw most of my crazy posts slamming them. When babe saw that I wasn't maga she sometimes ignore me while I play to care. Hmmm Long story but let me cut it short.
1. I monitor every first chat from 1st week to 2 weeks or 3 weeks.
2. I know how she chats so the moment she starts showing me characters I drop.
She starts forming not feeling fine when I ask she said she's fine I tried get what the problem was but she kept pretending. As a guy man who has been on the game since primary school even big brother and uncle them de use me finish work then. Lol bad guy. But now a change person.
She told me how her her exams is fast coming and needed money for her exam 2ook. I laughed in my mind I told her well let's see how it gonna be. In fact I told her that I will assist just to calm her down. Guys that's how I bullshit her off.

You just need screenshots of our long chats not even what I put up there cuz I really made mistakes and I couldn't dig out everything of head.
your story just sounded like an ssce holder, damn, no life in it

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