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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jun 15, 2019
nonxo007:

Bro how's married life like ? I want to settle down but fear of the unknown no gree me.
Honestly marry as soon as u can, I never knew how reach iam until i got married.
NB: make sure u find a gentle and loyal Gal otherwise...

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by luvyaself95(m): 10:15pm On Jun 15, 2019
zeb04:
Lol. Funny thread.

First date with my boyfriend,I don’t ask for nothing really because “as a big girl concern” anyway I even paid for some smoothie and popcorn when we later to the cinemas.

My boyfriend said. “Baby my money is yours oh, better enjoy yourself. Ahh first date. Okay oh uncle, at least this one get sense.

Dated, got married every every in 6months because uncle no go let me rest.

2years now. Still eating my money and his money. Naso.

Marriage been good so far, the fights been crazy too. Because the Igbo girl get sharp mouth and witty tongue.

Una thank you
Lemme Marry Your Sister Virtue Woman..
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by DonX001: 10:26pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Guy don't take my comments here seriously. But to b sincere, I didn't like u snooping and posting my picture for all. It's disrespectful. I wouldn't never insult or mock anyone just like that. Forget we on nairaland and you feel u can behave anyhow.
Simply report him to a mod.
Posting someone else's picture on a forum is a bannable offence.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by kushercain: 10:35pm On Jun 15, 2019
pansophist:
kennygee



In as much that I empathize with the lady, you are missing the whole point of this thread. Of course, there are pocket of cases of genuine need by women, and men usually always help, unless you're being dishonest. The vast relationship and marriages in Nigeria has the men spending to keep it floating, so whayts your point?



Shaming tactics. It is a known fact that women who are financially successful than their men always look down on them and lose attraction, thats if they gave you attention in the first place. Women are hypergamous naturally, your mating strategy is to secure the commitment of a high statu man, and anything below that is treated with scorn. The romance section of nairaland is littered with threads of men jilted by their gf when they lost their means of subsistence. smh



Typical. Victimising yourself to garner pity, you know that it is not black and white as you implied. You are cherrypicking, exaggerating and blowing things out of proportion. I do not know of any man that will not appreciate an educated woman, hell, even uneducated businessmen sponsors their women to university, who in many cases, jilt them afterwards (hypergamy at play), so what's your point? can you point out any well known Nigerian lady that is educated and well mannered that lacks men? don't mention Tonto Dike, please.



Well, let me put it this way. If you think to make their money, staying off fornication, achieving their dreams etc, serves as a shield to look down on men who are not rich enough, or a pass for men to ignore her bad attitudes, then you just prove my point along. It is the lack of self-reflection, introspection, to examine one behaviour, many ladies lack. They believe if they have money, even with an attitude worse than the devil, that men should worship them. Sorry but NO.

Dude you're fucking brilliant....following you straight up

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Ostrogoth(m): 10:42pm On Jun 15, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Guy don't take my comments here seriously. But to b sincere, I didn't like u snooping and posting my picture for all. It's disrespectful. I wouldn't never insult or mock anyone just like that. Forget we on nairaland and you feel u can behave anyhow.

Sincerest apologies dear, cos whatever I am, I believe in mutual respect. May have taken this nairaland thing a little too far. Once again, my apologies. Shalom.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 10:45pm On Jun 15, 2019
nwanneni:
read before making shady Assumptions!
I was at a wedding and met her there.what the he'll are you trying to say?
When the "manliness" button is pressed ... grin grin grin grin grin
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 10:46pm On Jun 15, 2019
Ostrogoth:


Sincerest apologies dear, cos whatever I am, I believe in mutual respect. May have taken this nairaland thing a little too far. Once again, my apologies. Shalom.
After wrecking havoc abi ? grin grin grin
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jun 15, 2019
Mariangeles:
When the "manliness" button is pressed ... grin grin grin grin grin
it's like you want to see more of my manliness.
Just open up and come to daddy.that is if of course,you're pretty cheesy

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 10:50pm On Jun 15, 2019
nwanneni:
it's like you want to see more of my manliness.
Just open up and come to daddy.that is if of course,you're pretty cheesy
Not for all the Benz in the world dude !

Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by femi4: 10:53pm On Jun 15, 2019
Ostrogoth:


Sincerest apologies dear, cos whatever I am, I believe in mutual respect. May have taken this nairaland thing a little too far. Once again, my apologies. Shalom.
kindly take down her pix.....this is why some people don't put their pix on their dp
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jun 15, 2019
Mariangeles:
Not for all the Benz in the world dude !
talk is cheap!
I never get your time yet cheesy
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 10:59pm On Jun 15, 2019
nwanneni:
talk is cheap!
I never get your time yet cheesy
You know why you dey only attract leeches ? Because you too dey show yourself dude!
Dem go soon suck you dry !
grin

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jun 15, 2019
Mariangeles:
You know why you dey only attract leeches ? Because you too dey show yourself dude!
Dem go soon suck you dry !
grin

suck me dry?na if I gree to give na cheesy
I dey give person money undecided
And I say make you come make I show you my manliness.
Could be many things wink
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 11:24pm On Jun 15, 2019
nwanneni:
suck me dry?na if I gree to give na cheesy
I dey give person money undecided
And I say make you come make I show you my manliness.
Could be many things wink
e hi nam biko!
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jun 15, 2019
Mariangeles:
e hi nam biko!
wow!so e bu onye igbo?
Ebe ki no?
Gwagodum ife na nne grin
And e hope si na e buro feminist undecided
Maka na achoro m onye ga bia nu unom enyem order cheesy
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by luvyaself95(m): 11:42pm On Jun 15, 2019
Esthered:
I wonder how some ladies feel entitled to a man's money. Just as my boss confided in me yesterday of a lady he's interested in and she turned him down but still accuses him of not showing her care and went as far as demanding for him to support her to further her education. I was appalled as I can't imagine myself stooping low to take advantage of men. What's the essence of working as a female? I'll be a mother to sons one day and will be pained when women take advantage of them but I'll train them to set high standards in dating game. I'm accused of being strange as I'm usually told if I have your body type, being a calabar babe.... I would have gone far and I'll start asking myself if I'm normal but I know there's dignity in labour for both sexes so I prefer to work to meet my needs and wants.
You're one in a billion Too much dignity...
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jun 15, 2019
luvyaself95:
Oh are you talking here or being arrogant like other girls.for your mind you want to make excuse..
you girls are HUNGRY GOAT AND LEECH shikena...
You late to the party dear. Bye
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 12:03am On Jun 16, 2019
nwanneni:
wow!so e bu onye igbo?
Ebe ki no?
Gwagodum ife na nne grin
And e hope si na e buro feminist undecided
Maka na achoro m onye ga bia nu unom enyem order cheesy
egwu ona tu gi ?
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Nobody: 12:10am On Jun 16, 2019
Mariangeles:
egwu ona tu gi ?
mmu?egwu?mba o.
Ne anya ehn,o ga di mma si mgbwe mechalu olu for the day,m bia na yard si kam bia e zulike small,e bia ne nyem nsogbu?
Check Ifanwa,o make sense?
Ndum bu abum onye peace.achoro m nsogbu na ndum.
Obulu na inwelike e nyem udo,mmu na gi ge bi nudo na onwu.mana obulu ni si na obu nsogbu ka gi cholu,m hapuru gi uno ka gi bili so nginwa.
Olu m na lu di so stressful that agam a like e add stress untop biko.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Laurene: 12:34am On Jun 16, 2019
Kenneth10110:
it was officially announced to be released November 2013. And was officially released in Japan February 2019. Don't tell me your were so rich then to get it even before it got to Nigeria. grin grin grin grin
who told you it was officially released in Japan 2019?
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Laurene: 12:37am On Jun 16, 2019
Mypeople2:
The funny thing is that most of these ladies won't marry a guy better than the ones they scammed
very true. I ve witnessed it even in my family
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by sweettinz20(m): 1:08am On Jun 16, 2019
missyojo:
After carefully reading through the comments up-to page 6 before it was derailed with insults by some people, I have this to say. Ladies who demand on a first date have NO CLASS AT all and it's very bad of them. A first date should be a quite place where both parties get to know each other better and discuss, not the other way round. If a lady isn't interested in a guy she should let the guy know in a peaceful manner not demanding excessively on a first date and subsequent ones.
Be that as it may, I guess the way guys portray themselves to be who they are not gives the ladies that do so upper hand to demand from the person they are meeting for the first time. Ladies please let's stop it, it's not good. Find something doing so that you can get whatever you want with your money, not you waiting on a guy to do so for you. I for example take myself out once in awhile and pamper myself, then come home and relax. My Ex once told me that I should let him know whenever I need something because he knows I'm not the demanding type, thou that doesn't mean I don't have needs to met.
And to Awkaetitibabe, please take it easy. Have been seeing your comment right from the first page of this post till the 14th or 15th page. Life would be a bed of roses for all of us if we take things easy.
Cheers to you all.
Happy Sunday in advance!!!!
nice one, you are really brilliant

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Mariangeles(f): 2:28am On Jun 16, 2019
nwanneni:
mmu?egwu?mba o.
Ne anya ehn,o ga di mma si mgbwe mechalu olu for the day,m bia na yard si kam bia e zulike small,e bia ne nyem nsogbu?
Check Ifanwa,o make sense?
Ndum bu abum onye peace.achoro m nsogbu na ndum.
Obulu na inwelike e nyem udo,mmu na gi ge bi nudo na onwu.mana obulu ni si na obu nsogbu ka gi cholu,m hapuru gi uno ka gi bili so nginwa.
Olu m na lu di so stressful that agam a like e add stress untop biko.
grin grin grin
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Austineva(m): 6:10am On Jun 16, 2019
Esthered:
I wonder how some ladies feel entitled to a man's money. Just as my boss confided in me yesterday of a lady he's interested in and she turned him down but still accuses him of not showing her care and went as far as demanding for him to support her to further her education. I was appalled as I can't imagine myself stooping low to take advantage of men. What's the essence of working as a female? I'll be a mother to sons one day and will be pained when women take advantage of them but I'll train them to set high standards in dating game. I'm accused of being strange as I'm usually told if I have your body type, being a calabar babe.... I would have gone far and I'll start asking myself if I'm normal but I know there's dignity in labour for both sexes so I prefer to work to meet my needs and wants.
no be u get sense like that. Others no d reason like that o. They no de remember say one day they go born sons who will in return face d repercussions of all d atrocities they have committed against men. Today u will hear abt a guy who committed suicide because of his girlfriend etc and it is increasing every day. There are d payback but, they never know and never want to know. Kudos to u if u re such a reasonable woman
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Austineva(m): 6:57am On Jun 16, 2019
queenpin:
Life is hard, but it is hard for the guys too. I adviced a lady that goes through life leeching guys and see told me her issues and problems etc,my response was there is a guy going through all this too right now,should he resort to yahoo etc and justify it with his problems etc. If he does you will call him out.

Had an impromptu date with a lady o was meeting the firat time and she showed up with a friend,I had no issue. She ordered the most expensive fish. I just said to myself " you just ordered your transport fare" After consuming the fish she call the bar guy and was asking for the most expensive smoothie. I allowed her to finish ordering and after the barman left I told her" see lady my beer cost 300card anything above that,u will pay yourself"She became quiet and her friend started laughing. She quickly called the barman back.
I like ur boldness grin
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Austineva(m): 7:25am On Jun 16, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba I simply commented like everyone else. Is that why you boys be pissing testetorone all over my mention

I simply gave u niggas expo ni. I don't use such method to discharge though
am beginning to like dis gal o. Can we be friends babe. Just friends! Let me know and u have my fb user name. Just normal friends o
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Esthered: 7:57am On Jun 16, 2019
Austineva:
no be u get sense like that. Others no d reason like that o. They no de remember say one day they go born sons who will in return face d repercussions of all d atrocities they have committed against men. Today u will hear abt a guy who committed suicide because of his girlfriend etc and it is increasing every day. There are d payback but, they never know and never want to know. Kudos to u if u re such a reasonable woman

You have a point there about repercussions. I hope the ladies step up their game and be contented with what they have or work harder to earn respect from the male folks as gone are the days of men being fooled except those that refuse to be wise.

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Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Esthered: 8:00am On Jun 16, 2019
luvyaself95:
You're one in a billion Too much dignity...

[i][/i] Likewise you. Thanks
Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Kenneth10110(m): 8:40am On Jun 16, 2019
Laurene:
who told you it was officially released in Japan 2019?


You want to come and be feeling like PS4 profs abi you bought yours 2013 too ?

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