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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by essenceplus: 3:06pm On Jun 16, 2019
greggng:



I am not Sarz but I do preach the need for us to be legit in our dealings....who knows the victim's of scam could be our brothers, sisters and even relatives....our people say when you see a fowl using its leg to scatter faeces, one should chase the fowl away cos you never know who will end up buying the fowl....is like selling illicit drugs at the chemist shop....one day ones relative might be a victim ... I love to do the right thing cos I know one day I will account for my deeds on earth...I am not doing it to impress people


I was duped of my savings to start a project last week. It crippled the project and it couldn't take off for over 10 months. Ive been a victim so I know it hurts. But I think you're being forceful in your approach sometimes people are actively based on their little knowledge and need time to grow to act better/differently
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by 4mykids: 3:06pm On Jun 16, 2019
Out of the question. Thanks for your contribution.



thatniceguy:


The easiest and most affordable is UAE. You will have to leave your kids behind at least you are able to secure a job.
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by segzyndpep(m): 3:08pm On Jun 16, 2019
4mykids:
Help A Single Mum With Ideas

Hi everyone..as the topic states I need advise help and personal assistance too if possible.

I'm a single mum of two little kids and I really wish to start another phase of my life away from Nigeria. I feel it will greatly help I and my kids move on from the past.
I'm not too old to work as I'm in my early 30's. Finance is available though limited to a certain amount.

I would love a situation where I can leave with my kids and not have to come back for them later..somehow, they seem to be my motivation to go on.

With these information, which country do you suggest that will be easy for immigration.

If you have enough working experience and you have one or two degree canada is good but will take atleast 8months after you hwve a decent score in your english test exam.

IF you need to go fast try consider Germany or Ireland,They are great countries.

Australia is a no no except you have several qualifications and like 10years work experience.

I will suggest yoy relocate to more peaceful state in Nigeria and start yoyr relocation processing..
Ilorin is calm and great and affordable.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by delerx(m): 3:08pm On Jun 16, 2019
Okay. Nice. But I studied Pharmacy and had 2.2 grade. I have been looking for a sch without IELTS and less than 15m for whole program..
Joromi12:
hard getting residency- they may give only the best student jon der in phd level. How are u sure u will be the one And surviving with ur wife and kids . Try canada and get ur Permanent residency once and for all
... Don't mention memorial University pls. And can I do a course outside my profession
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by jy2kbeyond(m): 3:09pm On Jun 16, 2019
Omoluabi, ma bo sowo aye

sad sad sad sad sad
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by segzyndpep(m): 3:10pm On Jun 16, 2019
Olamega78:
Australia should be perfect for you and the kids. I heard that with 1m, you can get a working visa excluding ticket fare... Remember to strictly use your head and pray fervently... Best wishes

Not possible 100%
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Hadampson(m): 3:11pm On Jun 16, 2019
Suspect33:
yes, but you're black bro, think racism


Racism in Russia isn't like before but i won't advise her to relocate to Russia
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jun 16, 2019
A young woman in her 30's with 2kids

we don't even know what you are running from but It is obvious your case is not poverty related.

Anyways,
If you are running from your past, try east - like india
If you are pursuing a future, try west - like canada
If you want to start afresh, try north - the heat will melt your past - like Morocco
I know you are somewhere in the south; SW, SS, SE.

I am a wicked spiritualist in case you are wondering.
For the sake of those innocent kids
Any path you take will turn out well

But, you can drop your past anywhere nah

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Badgers14: 3:11pm On Jun 16, 2019
Suspect33:
grin, 500 wetin, oga it's 500,000 dollars, after you invest, they'd give you citizenship immediately

grin if nah $500, the country for don flood with people nah grin grin
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by segzyndpep(m): 3:12pm On Jun 16, 2019
maxiuc:
are you serious with 1m who's the Agent send me his contact

I am currently in Cyprus I want to come home then change country

No enter 1 chance oo,you cant enter Australia with 1m,and anyone saying you will migrate to any western country without ielts please check the authentication..99% na scam

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by emelda86(f): 3:12pm On Jun 16, 2019
4mykids:
My kids are 8 and 6. I was actually married and went through a bitter divorce last year. Before then we had been seperated for some years.
My kids came out of this union scarred and are very jumpy whenever anyone yells or seems angry...
Thankfully, I was given custody by the court.

I just feel a different environment would help them...help us greatly. Probably help them not look over their shoulders too often.

As I said earlier, they are my motivation for going on so leaving them behind is really out of it for me.




Madam u get time to explain o...

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by bongo4real(m): 3:13pm On Jun 16, 2019
Australia should be perfect for you and the kids. I heard that with 1m, you can get a working visa excluding ticket fare... Remember to strictly use your head and pray fervently... Best wishes

Bros that amount (1m) no too small?
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by bellong: 3:13pm On Jun 16, 2019
4mykids:
No, Trying to help us all heal better...physically and emotionally.


You don't owe anybody explanation for why you want to travel with your kids. You don't need to explain yourself. If nobody answers the question you asked, you don't need to submit yourself to the court of public opinion.

You will need to show proof of custody or consent from both parents before a permanent visa is granted anyway. I believe you already know that. So, no need to provide information not relevant to your request.

Most do not understand the trauma caused by domestic violence and how it can permanently damage a child except the child gets therapeutic care and intervention. If your explanation is true, your decision to move away from the environment is a good step towards healing. Traumatic scars take a long time to heal but I believe you will get there.

Don't forget to get them professional counseling through a child psychologist.


All the best.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by pinkygurl(f): 3:13pm On Jun 16, 2019
Olamega78:
Australia should be perfect for you and the kids. I heard that with 1m, you can get a working visa excluding ticket fare... Remember to strictly use your head and pray fervently... Best wishes

please,which working visa category class?
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by segzyndpep(m): 3:14pm On Jun 16, 2019
bongo4real:
Australia should be perfect for you and the kids. I heard that with 1m, you can get a working visa excluding ticket fare... Remember to strictly use your head and pray fervently... Best wishes

Bros that amount (1m) no too small?

Na big lie bros,check there website na
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Spetzzy7(m): 3:14pm On Jun 16, 2019
babatee90:
Canada is nice and I can help if you are a graduate


Oh really , would need help.
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by segzyndpep(m): 3:15pm On Jun 16, 2019
pinkygurl:


please,which working visa category class?

Please always read things yourself,you are about to be scam.check Australia immigration website.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Hadampson(m): 3:16pm On Jun 16, 2019
lielbree:

Pls tell me more about Germany. Pls help. I just lost my brother to sars... random killing .

I have just 1 brother left. I'd like him to relocate

Follow this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5042902/general-german-student-visa-enquiries

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by 4mykids: 3:16pm On Jun 16, 2019
Thank you.

bellong:


You don't owe anybody explanation for why you want to travel with your kids. You don't need to explain yourself. If nobody answers the question you asked, you don't need to submit yourself to the court of public opinion.

You will need to show proof of custody or consent from both parents before a permanent visa is granted anyway. I believe you already know that. So, no need to provide information not relevant to your request.

Most do not understand the trauma caused by domestic violence and how it can permanently damage a child except the child gets therapeutic care and intervention. If your explanation is true, your decision to move away from the environment is a good step towards healing. Traumatic scars take a long time to heal but I believe you will get there.

Don't forget to get them professional counseling through a child psychologist.


All the best.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Dinho20(m): 3:16pm On Jun 16, 2019
WHAT TYPE OF JOB ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABROAD?

Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Hadampson(m): 3:17pm On Jun 16, 2019
enemyofprogress:
Ghana, Benin republic, Togo, Mali, Burkina Faso, Liberia, India, Pakistan or Libya

Lol... Bro, since you know these countries as a perfect place to be... Why did you relocate to Canada angry
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Cyberknight: 3:17pm On Jun 16, 2019
I see this topic has made it to the front page, which is fitting, because I'm sure there are a lot of us Nigerians in your shoes, with varying degrees of a desire to check out like Andrew.

I will add one other thing to what I said earlier - checking out (excuse the 1980's reference) is doable, but with your children as a package, rendered more difficult. I strongly advise you to take a trip to your preferred destination or indeed any developed western country and look around and/or put your ear to the ground.

Life is organised and regulated, but not easy. It is perfectly common to see people living in the urban centres (and as a fresh immigrant you must live in an urban centre because that's where most of the jobs and the racial tolerance are) who are working but can't cover their (especially housing) bills and end up as the "working poor". Homelessness is never too far away in such cases, because you know the way the oyibo system is - family ties don't work the way they do here - and unless you have guaranteed accommodation, it is oh-so-easy to end up knocking on the door of a church for a place to sleep even while you have a pay cheque in your pocket.

And also, while we always hope for the best, we always are advised to contemplate the worst. If things take a (hopefully temporary) downturn at some point in one's life over there, it's easier to seek help alone, maybe crash in a church or on a friend or coworker's couch for a few days, than if you had 2 children in tow. Etcetera.

When things look bleak for a while, sometimes depression and other mental conditions are not too far away. In a foreign land, without support and with two dependent children to deal with, it can be easy to succumb.

This is not to discourage you but to get you to look at your alternatives clearly. Also, I see that you are divorced. You have to get their father's consent to relocate with them legally, so you might want to start working on that too.

Lastly, I've 3 children of my own. I'm not female, but saying that men think differently about such situations than women is only true to the extent that I would leave my children behind if I were you.

Not because I love them any less than their mother, but because I'm operating on cold hard reason and not emotion and realise that, just like when the aircraft instructions tell you to put on your own oxygen mask before helping any young child who cannot do so themselves, you can only help your children if you yourself are alive, and in a condition to do so, and the best way to achieve that is not to over-encumber yourself.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by deflover(m): 3:17pm On Jun 16, 2019
Hadampson:



It depends on the "abroad"

There are jobs in some abroad

Keep arguing till u reach there
U no say na lies una dey like
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Nobody: 3:18pm On Jun 16, 2019
delerx:
Okay. Nice. But I studied Pharmacy and had 2.2 grade. I have been looking for a sch without IELTS and less than 15m for whole program.. ... Don't mention memorial University pls. And can I do a course outside my profession
Pharmarcy is equivalent to a masters in canada pr. If u can get ielts score of 8777 . 8 listening 7 in the rest. Your pr is as good as sure

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by lagdmark(m): 3:19pm On Jun 16, 2019
J111333:
Yes, she can try US asylum if she must relocate with the kids.
You can seek asylum in the USA on the grounds that your president in Abuja is just a statue. So 70%of Nigerians want
Vamoose ASAP

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Denique(f): 3:19pm On Jun 16, 2019
Olamega78:
Australia should be perfect for you and the kids. I heard that with 1m, you can get a working visa excluding ticket fare... Remember to strictly use your head and pray fervently... Best wishes

How pls? Do you get a working visa with the said 1m?
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by moneymins(m): 3:19pm On Jun 16, 2019
4mykids:
No, Trying to help us all heal better...physically and emotionally.




You can never heal better by relocating another man kids to another country. My advise might be harshed, have seen ladies of your kind who indulge in such action and they 100% loss at the end. Mind you, you can never poison them against their, one things or the other will lead them to need their father more than you can imagine. You don't know the power in blood, it's very strong and it's the sovereign (God) that knows its mystery. You will be a looser at the end either you are dead or alive with this move of yours.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Relocate Abroad, Needs Ideas by Hadampson(m): 3:19pm On Jun 16, 2019
frozen70:
You have not stated your reasons for relocation

I believe you can still be happier here and make your fortune then go abroad for vacation

With time you will know if its better to relocate permanently or holidays alone

Relocation to any part of this world is expensive especially when accommodation is involved

Think twice


She wants to be in an organized society.

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