kennygee:
Hmmn. One man's food is another man's poison.

Me that want low budget wedding and I'm prepared to offend a lot of people in the process self.

Do it coded, go for honeymoon, buy a land and start building it small small.

If you do big wedding, there are still people that will have something negative to say so use the money for more productive things.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Wasnt meant to be. Dust your slippers and move on.

After wedding comes the marriage proper. Would b silly to impress people on your wedding and go home to soak garri.

Cocao:


What do you want her to do for you biko? You declined her. Emotionally you are not ready, financially you are not ready. You did not give any indication how you intend to be ready

Girls like her are strong enough to recognize time wasters and move on

Eroms4life17:

Instead of you to say you that want low budget wedding and you're ready to foot some of the bills nor see husband to marry. *runs out*

GoodBoi1:
I tried so hard to make her reason with me but the more I tried to convince her the worse it got. I told her that there is life after the wedding, bills, expenses but she did not agree with me. It's not that I can't afford a big wedding but I want to cut my coat according to my size. One thing led to another and I brought up a past issue where she wrecked her finance because of her friend's wedding she said I was judging her and she can't live with me because of that so she broke up with me.

Eroms4life17:

Instead of you to say you that want low budget wedding and you're ready to foot some of the bills nor see husband to marry. *runs out*

KingSatan:



Unfortunately my friend, that is the mentality of most Nigerian Women.

I am more concerned about the next Lady you will meet because that's exactly how she will react to the request of a budget wedding.

African Women have been stereotyped to believe that they have no role to play in the preparations of a wedding/marriage celebration. As a matter of fact, the man is seen as a poor/stingy man whenever he proposes a budget wedding celebration.

The most annoying is the belief that untill you have a "Luxurious" wedding celebration (A white man's traditional wedding) with some light skin ladies as a part of your bridal train, your husband dancing like a clown and crying like a baby when asked to kiss his bride (Who obviously have been kissed by Jide the Mechanic for free and Straffed by Balogun the cultist), then you haven't had a wedding.

Would you blame the women? No, I blame the men. Because a man like you is somewhere spending millions to marry a woman who is not a virgin.

In this age and time, the society clearly defines a woman's responsibility in a relationship as "SEXUAL INTERCOURSE".


I PITY FOR THE NEXT GENERATION OF MARRIED COUPLES.

Ray97:
"time wasters". U just judged me. Just like dat. Because u feel am the villian. U think we dont have emotions too or we dont think.

Skmoda360:

Leeches everywhere my brother

AntiBrutus:
You created a thread on same girlfriend who talks to you in a disrespectful manner

https://www.nairaland.com/5032083/girlfriend-talks-me-disrespectful-manner

Yet you wanted to go ahead and marry her,

If not that God used her, to remove herself from your life, you would have married her.

2yrs after the marriage, you will turn philosopher + alfa male, dropping nuggets upandan. Disturbing us on NL.

Cocao:


So why are you complaining after turning her down and telling her you are not ready.

She should be chasing you up and down and wasting her time.

Oga be guided

GoodBoi1:
I tried so hard to make her reason with me but the more I tried to convince her the worse it got. I told her that there is life after the wedding, bil
ls, expenses but she did not agree with me. It's not that I can't afford a big wedding but I want to cut my coat according to my size. One thing led to another and I brought up a past issue where she wrecked her finance because of her friend's wedding she said I was judging her and she can't live with me because of that so she broke up with me.

kennygee:
Hmmn. One man's food is another man's poison.

Me that want low budget wedding and I'm prepared to offend a lot of people in the process self.

Do it coded, go for honeymoon, buy a land and start building it small small.

If you do big wedding, there are still people that will have something negative to say so use the money for more productive things.

babatunx:


lol... I catch you... so this is your plan? we no dey gree.... me must shutdown everywhere on that day...

Ray97:
u dont get. One minute she loves me and then the other she dosent pick my calls dosent reply my text. Just because i said i wasnt ready. Its nuh like we r fighting or anything. How is(was) that love.

dawnomike:
You were wrong to have brought up the past... But, very right on insisting on a low budget wedding. Don't feel too bad about it.

Cocao:


Goodnight. She sha dodged a bullet

Eldavis:
If dere is one tin i have learnt ,is that never bring up your partners past mistakes as a means of tryin to make ha see reason to a current situation........


Dats were u went wrong..... Last last wen everybody don come down u can use style trash d mata... Bt nt wen d issue still hot....

Let tinz calm down abit... N u guys nid too talk

If she still no won see reasons to wah u sayin, my brother let it go n move on

GoodBoi1:
I tried so hard to make her reason with me but the more I tried to convince her the worse it got. I told her that there is life after the wedding, bills, expenses but she did not agree with me. It's not that I can't afford a big wedding but I want to cut my coat according to my size. One thing led to another and I brought up a past issue where she wrecked her finance because of her friend's wedding she said I was judging her and she can't live with me because of that so she broke up with me.

Oyindidi:
I dey wait you

deltateam:


He needed to make reference and it happened that the situation had happened before so he used the analogy to try to convince her to rethink.

Truth is they are incompatible. Op lives for the future while his fiancée lives for now, tomorrow can go to blazes kind of person.

kennygee:
Hmmn. One man's food is another man's poison.

Me that want low budget wedding and I'm prepared to offend a lot of people in the process self.

Do it coded, go for honeymoon, buy a land and start building it small small.

If you do big wedding, there are still people that will have something negative to say so use the money for more productive things.

ImaIma1:
You and your lady have to be on the same page. A small wedding is easier to manage. It depends on what exactly you want to do.

But when you say low budget, is it the lowest of the low like court and bye bye everybody?

ImaIma1:


Someone will still complain that the food was too sweet..lol. People will always complain, so there's no point trying to impress.

GoodBoi1:

Just something moderate

kennygee:
Hmmn. One man's food is another man's poison.

Me that want low budget wedding and I'm prepared to offend a lot of people in the process self.

Do it coded, go for honeymoon, buy a land and start building it small small.

If you do big wedding, there are still people that will have something negative to say so use the money for more productive things.

GoodBoi1:
I tried so hard to make her reason with me but the more I tried to convince her the worse it got. I told her that there is life after the wedding, bills, expenses but she did not agree with me. It's not that I can't afford a big wedding but I want to cut my coat according to my size. One thing led to another and I brought up a past issue where she wrecked her finance because of her friend's wedding she said I was judging her and she can't live with me because of that so she broke up with me.

KingSatan:


Exactly! But we shouldn't blame the women who invest so much in physical appearance (Including going under the knife) instead of investing the the content of their personalities.

We should blame the MEN WHO INFLUENCED THE SOCIETY AND SACRED TRADITION.

You see most of this girls, they are only skilled in sexual intercourse. That is their only area of specialization.

They have no handiwork but live above their means, they can't construct a sentence without obvious errors, they can't communicate or keep a sound conversation, etc

They can only discuss sex when single and Babies when Married.

Beadex1:
boss that's a lie I will always bring it up especially if I were also involved in the decision making and she did ITK ,we learn and live by experiences boss sweeping such thing under the carpet is not cool. As for low key wedding, we cut our coat according to our sizes wedding is only few hours event the real marriage starts after the wedding how you prepare your self in respect to that makes you a man