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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:00am On Jun 22, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Don't tell me you are also guilty of number 1 grin

You don't sleep.

I'm very guilty as charged. You're an introvert so it's expected. You can always try to be a little receptive as I have been doing for sometime now. It helps. You can't always stay enclosed in your shackles.

It's character. You cannot evade it, but you can improve it.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by QueenSekxy(f): 6:34am On Jun 22, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


You don't sleep.

I'm very guilty as charged. You're an introvert so it's expected. You can always try to be a little receptive as I have been doing for sometime now. It helps. You can't always stay enclosed in your shackles.

It's character. You cannot evade it, but you can improve it.
Lol. True!!

Thank you. I'm trying my of recent.

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by dia4iam(m): 7:50am On Jun 22, 2019
Hello sir, I don't feel you are doing as badly as you have made yourself belief. Misfortune is a part of life that knocks at every man's door from time to time, and it is how one reacts to it that makes one a survivor or a victim. Again, life is a mind game and it is how one has resolved to keep ones mind and attitude towards whatever might come one's way that makes one lose or win. One whose mind is set at winning all the time is already a loser up front. So, i daresay we are not meant to win or lose at life. We are meant to live it, embrace and appreciate lessons from its ups and downs and immerse ourselves in the simple things that sets our soul on fire, something like loving what one does and doing what one loves. The oldest man in America(deceased now) who was a war veteran once said something similar to these words in an interview headed to inquire about his secret to longevity; The moment a soldier turn his back on the war his chances of getting hit by the bullet increases.Therefore, a soldier should only turn left ,right dodge and roll while moving forward fighting the war. He also said a bullet that was not meant to kill you will not hit you on the forehead.
More importantly, when your mindset is set at "win some, lose some" and you learn to count your blessings no matter how little and insignificant they might be, you give yourself an upper hand at life because you suddenly stop guaging how well you are doing by societal standards because you already have a scale that works for you. In the end, you realize you are not overweight or underweight, you are simply not of this world.
bouncin04:
im 31 been working with a beverage company with a beverage company for 10 years now as a quality personel ... recently rounded up a BSC program ... problems are I feel been stagnant working with a comnpany ... ive tried looking for a better job ... found none ... soime of my colleagues that started together with me already got kids and are even planning to get properties while I was busy using money for school , believing by the time Im out with my kpali , I will be better ... but its still same story ... I have tried business .. it turned out to be a wrong investment ... I have tried traveling outta the country .. it was a negative .. I lost 1.2 million naira recently to another wrong investment ... and I just got of depression after that loss ... now i care less .. I ve lost the ability to save money due to all these ... I am now a chronic womanizer ... my girl noticed and left me ... its getting worse as days pass by ... as Im typing this right now i have less than 5k in my account ... help please

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by exstreve: 7:56am On Jun 22, 2019
financial issues: Well there are many people here who have no financial problem, but due to the high rate of scammers today, they tend not to help, therefore I'm openly asking if you have an upper Hand to help, remember a thousand naira to you might be a chicken change, but I swear to you all, it is hard for me to get it a day, even in two...please if you are touched please help, Nigeria is hard, I'm still a dependent student
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by patosky3310(m): 8:07am On Jun 22, 2019
I am just tired of my job. I need someone to connect me to a better job.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Frankicent(m): 8:34am On Jun 22, 2019
ayomikuolatunji:
Please how can i stop been jealous whenever i see my babe with one guy she called friend. It gives me headache almost every time . she even told me she just like the guy and nothing more. Both of them will be playing and talking as if there is something between them. I want to save myself from emotional problem. please help me


simple see her as a b*tch or sister or child hood friend. and find a replacement
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by bouncin04(m): 10:17am On Jun 22, 2019
dia4iam:
Hello sir, I don't feel you are doing as badly as you have made yourself belief. Misfortune is a part of life that knocks at every man's door from time to time, and it is how one reacts to it that makes one a survivor or a victim. Again, life is a mind game and it is how one has resolved to keep ones mind and attitude towards whatever might come one's way that makes one lose or win. One whose mind is set at winning all the time is already a loser up front. So, i daresay we are not meant to win or lose at life. We are meant to live it, embrace and appreciate lessons from its ups and downs and immerse ourselves in the simple things that sets our soul on fire, something like loving what one does and doing what one loves. The oldest man in America(deceased now) who was a war veteran once said something similar to these words in an interview headed to inquire about his secret to longevity; The moment a soldier turn his back on the war his chances of getting hit by the bullet increases.Therefore, a soldier should only turn left ,right dodge and roll while moving forward fighting the war. He also said a bullet that was not meant to kill you will not hit you on the forehead.
More importantly, when your mindset is set at "win some, lose some" and you learn to count your blessings no matter how little and insignificant they might be, you give yourself an upper hand at life because you suddenly stop guaging how well you are doing by societal standards because you already have a scale that works for you. In the end, you realize you are not overweight or underweight, you are simply not of this world.
Thanks fam.... that war part delivered the message... thanks Once again

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Chigirl042(f): 12:46pm On Jun 22, 2019
I'm too emotional and I tend to over think things.
I'm still a student and its not easy for me considering the fact that my mom caters for my siblings and I. I hate begging people for help even when I'm in dire need of it.
Lastly,I need a boyfriend... I'm tired of waiting but no reasonable guy is coming my way and I don't want to jump into a relationship out of boredom and loneliness
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Heineken(m): 1:19pm On Jun 22, 2019
Offpoint1:

Mine greatest problem is: I'm too broke, age is running fast and desperation is setting in.
that's the same problem I have..
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Heineken(m): 1:41pm On Jun 22, 2019
My own problem is that I need a job..
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jun 22, 2019
Chigirl042:
I'm too emotional and I tend to over think things.
I'm still a student and its not easy for me considering the fact that my mom caters for my siblings and I. I hate begging people for help even when I'm in dire need of it.
Lastly,I need a boyfriend... I'm tired of waiting but no reasonable guy is coming my way and I don't want to jump into a relationship out of boredom and loneliness
post your pictures here.
You might just get lucky
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jun 22, 2019
Chigirl042:
I'm too emotional and I tend to over think things.
I'm still a student and its not easy for me considering the fact that my mom caters for my siblings and I. I hate begging people for help even when I'm in dire need of it.
Lastly,I need a boyfriend... I'm tired of waiting but no reasonable guy is coming my way and I don't want to jump into a relationship out of boredom and loneliness
Ah ah
You don't need a boyfriend. Just try and develop yourself in a very valuable skill that sells (I always suggest programming). A boyfriend will come along the way. Don't just make it your focus
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Chigirl042(f): 2:56pm On Jun 22, 2019
Ccanyanwu:

Ah ah
You don't need a boyfriend. Just try and develop yourself in a very valuable skill that sells (I always suggest programming). A boyfriend will come along the way. Don't just make it your focus
Awnn...thanks alot for your kind words. I appreciate and will take your advice.

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Chigirl042(f): 3:22pm On Jun 22, 2019
Logobenz:
post your pictures here.
You might just get lucky
lol
Uncle I've heard
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jun 22, 2019
Chigirl042:
Awnn...thanks alot for your kind words. I appreciate and will take your advice.

Uwc
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Offpoint1: 4:17pm On Jun 22, 2019
Heineken:
that's the same problem I have..
No worries, we gonna overcome
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by SkinnyNigga: 4:53pm On Jun 22, 2019
Chigirl042:
I'm too emotional and I tend to over think things.
I'm still a student and its not easy for me considering the fact that my mom caters for my siblings and I. I hate begging people for help even when I'm in dire need of it.
Lastly,I need a boyfriend... I'm tired of waiting but no reasonable guy is coming my way and I don't want to jump into a relationship out of boredom and loneliness
boyfriend for what exactly?
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Rtopzy(f): 7:59pm On Jun 22, 2019
It's like my self esteem is totally gone...... I keep to myself and I don't like it.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Chigirl042(f): 9:06pm On Jun 22, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
boyfriend for what exactly?
for companionship
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by SkinnyNigga: 9:08pm On Jun 22, 2019
Chigirl042:
for companionship
boyfriend will only use and mess you up... are you ready for That?

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Chigirl042(f): 9:41pm On Jun 22, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
boyfriend will only use and mess you up... are you ready for That?
No...I certainly don't want that but tbh its not easy being single especially when all my friends are dating
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by SkinnyNigga: 9:55pm On Jun 22, 2019
Chigirl042:
No...I certainly don't want that but tbh its not easy being single especially when all my friends are dating
peer pressure.. you don't do things because your friends are doing it..
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Chigirl042(f): 10:55pm On Jun 22, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
peer pressure.. you don't do things because your friends are doing it..
You are right.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by SkinnyNigga: 11:44pm On Jun 22, 2019
Chigirl042:
You are right.
i guess your school is ESUT
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by kellytuns(m): 3:58am On Jun 23, 2019
My own problem is that i need God to be answering my prayers cry
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by cassbeat(m): 12:17pm On Jun 23, 2019
nwanneni:
I dey tell You baba.
The guy go first go collect one sharp Benz,rent better flat and start dicking all those women that treated him bad cheesy
Las las bro street don save our boys wella oo grin grin
Like the kind things weh for dey happen no get part 2.
If you hustle for bread e no come,baba drag am cheesy
Bro I get motivated when I post like this... The help wey I need now na phone and sub to run this ish.... Is it possible to run run it on an android 4.4 device? And if possible can I have ur contact?
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jun 23, 2019
cassbeat:
Bro I get motivated when I post like this... The help wey I need now na phone and sub to run this ish.... Is it possible to run run it on an android 4.4 device? And if possible can I have ur contact?
no.iphone only
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Kola5281(m): 4:16pm On Jun 23, 2019
I'm currently in my final year though and clocking 21 dis year. Sometimes I just get afraid of the future, I'm just scared that once I graduate I'll join d queue of unemployed graduates

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Jagaban880: 5:00pm On Jun 23, 2019
all those where don make legit money make una show persin de ways or epp person biko
lipsrsealed
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Mcslize: 6:18pm On Jun 23, 2019
ayomikuolatunji:
Please how can i stop been jealous whenever i see my babe with one guy she called friend. It gives me headache almost every time . she even told me she just like the guy and nothing more. Both of them will be playing and talking as if there is something between them. I want to save myself from emotional problem. please help me

Lol don't feel jealous just act like you are cool. Never monitor her. Don't ask her who is this guy whenever she upload a guy's pic on her WhatsApp status. She can use that to manipulate your emotions, and if she senses that you are the jealous type, she can use that against you to be in control in the relationship. Because you are the jealous type, any time both of you quarrel, she will just rush and put a guy's pic on her status to make you feel the jealousy the more.

Thus, I will suggest you never to allow another guy she samples before you, bother you. She will see you as the mature type if you do so and she will know that she will be fighting a futile battle if she is planning of using that to manipulate your emotions.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jun 23, 2019
kellytuns:
My own problem is that i need God to be answering my prayers cry
Have u tried going naked and praying to him?

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