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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 8:36pm On Jun 19
What is the difference between lack of courage, pride, and trying to preserve your dignity?

I think knowing the difference is my problem now.
Would have been farther than I am now if I could tell the difference.

Damn.

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 8:37pm On Jun 19
Mekenz:
how can I link up to these person?
that's his NL moniker and he lives in Abuja.
You can send him a message.
Cool guy and a fresh head too.
Y'all can work something out smiley

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Esthered: 8:38pm On Jun 19
daneni1:
Since January this year, I have lost the zeal to study for ICAN Nov diet. Once I open the study pack, its either i sleep off or I close it back and do other things. Exam is fast approaching and I am not getting ready.
I'm an ICAN Prize winner, The secret of success is in your mind and the reason you registered in the first place. Endeavour to study at your best time of assimilation as you know yourself better. All the best.

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 8:39pm On Jun 19
nwanneni:
na their way na.
To Dey throway false standards up and down grin
Once in a while na to knock them back to reality.
The one weh dey always make me vex na feminist weh no get money grin grin
Like how is that even possible undecided
N.a. wah for these women
So broke ladies can't imbibe the ideology of feminism because of their dry pockets? Chai
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Mekenz(m): 8:41pm On Jun 19
nwanneni:
that's his NL moniker and he lives in Abuja.
You can send him a message.
Cool guy and a fresh head too.
Y'all can work something out smiley
thanks you so much...have you meet with the guy? sorry to ask,just been curious.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 8:43pm On Jun 19
ThothHermes:
What is the difference between lack of courage, pride, and trying to preserve your dignity?

I think knowing the difference is my problem now.
Would have been farther than I am now if I could tell the difference.

Damn.
you just have to know that there is no such thing as dignity without substance(money)
People argue this all the time but it's true.
So bro hustle anyhow to achieve your dream.achievements give courage and makes a person fearless.
You can even go to dinners in shorts and if anyone dares to complain or look at you somehow,you give he or she the embargo of his/her life...lol.money good o baba
As for courage,that one na small thing na.
Always take alcohol and be a little tipsy when going for business deals.works for me all the time(males you a beast in negotiating) and it's my nature to be fearless somehow..lol cheesy
Guy explore and just give one thing a try and you might get surprised!this is from my personal experience.
I got the idea that helped me much in life over sharing cans of hot Heineken with my best friend at the time grin

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 8:44pm On Jun 19
Mekenz:
thanks you so much...have you meet with the guy? sorry to ask,just been curious.
not really.but we've communicated sometime ago.
Why?
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 8:44pm On Jun 19
lutherjay:


Is your mom or dad like that ?
Both my parents are ill-tempered and my dad is not the forgiving type so are most of his brothers and sisters. I inherited both characters from them which sometimes it helps and most times, I still regret my actions till today.
I guess I grew up to realise that these two things were making me to loose the people I should have held closer.

Mind you, it sticks with u for ever.You just need to learn how to outgrow it.
I think there's a solution to this -- Meditation
Try to still your thoughts. Attain vacancy. I don't think it's possible for anyone to have anger issues if this is a part of your routine.


Michelle55
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by CharlesJok3r: 8:47pm On Jun 19
nwanneni:
bad way to start your life.
Being pessimistic about things is a recipe for failure.
You start seeing little things as unachievable.
Bro everything is possible and anyone can become somebody.(I know what I am saying)
Just start hustling anyhow and now is the time to start because your parents still cater for you somehow.
So that by the time you graduate,you'll have a headway already and might just need a little push to excel.you might not even look for any damn job after school.
Truth be told,9am-5pm isn't as good as people paint it.
You can ask around.nothing as good as having your own hustle and time to yourself.
Rest well,smoke weed,Bleep hoes etc....
Making money is very easy,keeping it is the problem wink
You should chew more on that bro.
Goodluck!
Little thing now seems like a great achievement to me! I stop believing i can do anything tangible with my life

Thank you for this... I have a lot of work to do.

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 8:47pm On Jun 19
nwanneni:
you just have to know that there is no such thing as dignity without substance(money)
People argue this all the time but it's true.
So bro hustle anyhow to achieve your dream.achievements give courage and makes a person fearless.
You can even go to dinners in shorts and if anyone dares to complain or look at you somehow,you give he or she the embargo of his/her life...lol.money good o baba
As for courage,that one na small thing na.
Always take alcohol and be a little tipsy when going for business deals.works for me all the time(males you a beast in negotiating) and it's my nature to be fearless somehow..lol cheesy
Guy explore and just give one thing a try and you might get surprised!this is from my personal experience.
I got the idea that helped me much in life over sharing cans of hot Heineken with my best friend at the time grin
Strongly disagree but I get the point.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by drmikeadams(m): 8:48pm On Jun 19
Games84:
Op other of my problems can be solved and taken care of if my major is achieved which is FINANCE.

Am very very Broke ..at 35, no wife, no kids, no property, living in Lagos suburb, house rent about to expire, relocated from were I was last year to lagos thinking I could get a better life after teaching for years yet nothing ..fell into great depression last year that almost took my life but survived leaving me with stomach ulcer which will always demand food always let's I am finished . Now am afraid of my life and future and life look bored & meaningless to Me everyday..let me stop here cos I cry everyday when I see my mates.





Bro take am easy ,no go kee urself..keep pushing bro
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 8:48pm On Jun 19
AwkaetitiBabe:
So broke ladies can't imbibe the ideology of feminism because of their dry pockets? Chai
unfortunately,yes.
Like how you go dey my house dey shout equality when you don't make any money? undecided
Equality with who?
You sef think am... cheesy
So woman weh no dey make money go tell me to go wash plate and I go undecided (not like I can even do it for any woman sef)
N.a. wa ooo.
If you see am weh den dey do am to me ehn,Abeg call my mama tell am say den don jazz e pikin cheesy

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Vicyor: 8:49pm On Jun 19
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 8:49pm On Jun 19
ThothHermes:
Strongly disagree but I get the point.
ok.enlighten me then
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Mekenz(m): 8:51pm On Jun 19
nwanneni:
not really.but we've communicated sometime ago.
Why?
nothing really, just wanted to know if you guy's are related or something like that, anyways I have pm him,but the issue is that the mail I used for the registration is no longer functional,it would have been better if I could reach him via WhatsApp.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 8:56pm On Jun 19
nwanneni:
unfortunately,yes.
Like how you go dey my house dey shout equality when you don't make any money? undecided
Equality with who?
You sef think am... cheesy
So woman weh no dey make money go tell me to go wash plate and I go undecided (not like I can even do it for any woman sef)
N.a. wa ooo.
If you see am weh den dey do am to me ehn,Abeg call my mama tell am say den don jazz e pikin cheesy
Lol. Well noted.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by bigpriik: 8:57pm On Jun 19
my own problem is I got three songs recorded and I want to promote them but my funds are too small trust me this songs are dope hear download them from this link.
http://speakingentertainment.com/music-griezzy-oju-mi-eyes/
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by lutherjay: 8:57pm On Jun 19
ThothHermes:
I think there's a solution to this -- Meditation
Try to still your thoughts. Attain vacancy. I don't think it's possible for anyone to have anger issues if this is a part of your routine.


Michelle55

Believe me bruh.its not that easy.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by bigpriik: 8:58pm On Jun 19
my own problem is I got three songs recorded and I want to promote them but my funds are too small trust me this songs are dope hear download them from this link.

http://speakingentertainment.com/music-griezzy-oju-mi-eyes/

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 8:59pm On Jun 19
CharlesJok3r:

Little thing now seems like a great achievement to me! I stop believing i can do anything tangible with my life

Thank you for this... I have a lot of work to do.
bro no give up.no even try am..
When ever you feel like that,just think of me.
Bros your failure no reach my own at all... cheesy
I am from a very good family.so expectations are high you know.
But no,my journey has always been rocky grin
-Dismissed from an elite boarding school in the first year(after 5 months) for being too notorious and corrupting high profile people's kids.
-started day school and wasn't still serious and met kids from all kinds of terrible places.
-drop out of university after 3 weeks and ran to Europe.
-still didn't make any success in Europe and ran back to Africa and continued school.
-still wasn't serious with school and my education was in halves.and funny thing is I am brilliant.
Kept pushing though till my best friend and I birth the turning point in our lives over 2 cans of HOT heineken grin
Bros if I tell you d complete story ehn cheesy
Look up,shape up,smoke weed if need be and go face tbe world.
Goodluck

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by pacino26(m): 8:59pm On Jun 19
I have a rather simple one; I don't express feelings, I don't forget easily, I love my space

Had quite a chat with my heart rob of 14 years. She's married though but a lot was revealed in the course of our conversation; that I never show vulnerability or give the impression that I'm head's over heels in love.

Today was having a chat with my Berry and somewhere along the line I was reminded that I don't express love or do things which I will term; display of affection. That I seem not to want her same way she does.

NB I love and care o but I seem not to understand why all the ladies I dated keep saying same thing; you're loving but mean cold in fact they call me TEACHER!

So how do I soften up?

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 9:01pm On Jun 19
lutherjay:


Believe me bruh.its not that easy.
What is not easy

Stilling your thoughts is not easy.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 9:02pm On Jun 19
Mekenz:
nothing really, just wanted to know if you guy's are related or something like that, anyways I have pm him,but the issue is that the mail I used for the registration is no longer functional,it would have been better if I could reach him via WhatsApp.
I don't have his number tho.
But I'm sure he'll respond
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by daneni1(m): 9:03pm On Jun 19
Esthered:

I'm an ICAN Prize winner, The secret of success is in your mind and the reason you registered in the first place. Endeavour to study at your best time of assimilation as you know yourself better. All the best.


Wait oooo, while do I have feeling that I know youbin person
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Esthered: 9:04pm On Jun 19
daneni1:



Wait oooo, while do I have feeling that I know youbin person

I'm not sure you do sir.

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Jagaban880: 9:04pm On Jun 19
CaptainMitch:
I drink too much alcohol and I don't love no one

grin grin ...no go destroy ur liver by urself...easy on urself bro


u no luv ur mama n siblingz ?

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Mekenz(m): 9:17pm On Jun 19
nwanneni:
I don't have his number tho.
But I'm sure he'll respond
thanks man.......seriously man need these money sha.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Michelle55(f): 9:21pm On Jun 19
lutherjay:


Is your mom or dad like that ?
Both my parents are ill-tempered and my dad is not the forgiving type so are most of his brothers and sisters. I inherited both characters from them which sometimes it helps and most times, I still regret my actions till today.
I guess I grew up to realise that these two things were making me to loose the people I should have held closer.

Mind you, it sticks with u for ever.You just need to learn how to outgrow it.
Nah.. Mom is a definition of a true angel.. Doesn't get angry and she's quick to forgive. But Dad is a different case entirely cheesy he doesn't keep friends and if you mistakenly upset him, just forget it(thats the end grin Malice Don start be that) guess I took after him. Though I'm working on it and I'm glad I'm making sweet progress smiley
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by daneni1(m): 9:23pm On Jun 19
Esthered:


I'm not sure you do sir.

No wahala ma'am.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Michelle55(f): 9:24pm On Jun 19
ThothHermes:
I think there's a solution to this -- Meditation
Try to still your thoughts. Attain vacancy. I don't think it's possible for anyone to have anger issues if this is a part of your routine.


Michelle55
TBH.. It's not easy but I'm making progress though managing it
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Blankstare(m): 9:59pm On Jun 19
Seriously phsychological, I easily get board of every relationship,I pick the minutest of flaws to discard any woman around...and time is ticking oo
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by AngelicBeing: 10:20pm On Jun 19
CaptainMitch:
I drink too much alcohol and I don't love no one
Lol, antiriot said that you should stop doing pay as you go, meet professional ladies, on different social networking sites, take business class on British airways to different continent, earn 10 digits salary in pounds and dollars, and you will start loving people, much regards from antiriot, the chairman of Sheraton Abuja grin

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