lexy2014:


So non-muslims outside Africa don't cheat on their wives& d non compatibility responsible 4 high divorce rates isn't due to infidelity?

Lmao. This nigga, open your mind. You are refusing to understand the meaning of "polygamous mentality". Not cheating not polygamous marriage. The mentality that it is your RIGHT, what did I say, your RIGHT to cheat when you are already married. Cheating without remorse. Cheating and expecting your wife to shut the fvck up about it and just perform her wifely duties because "you are taking care of your responsibilities as a man afterall"

ebonyggurl:


When a couple realises they aren't compatible, they go their separate ways. The only reason the divorce rate in nigeria is less than theirs is because of the stigmatization attached to being a divorced women

Are u aware that d reason y non-muslim men outside Africa particularly in d US& Europe don't practice polygamy is because it is outlawed& not because d men there are saints are u think?

ebonyggurl:


Lmao. This nigga, open your mind. You are refusing to understand the meaning of "polygamous mentality". Not cheating not polygamous marriage. The mentality that it is your RIGHT, what did I say, your RIGHT to cheat when you are already married. Cheating without remorse. Cheating and expecting your wife to shut the fvck up about it and just perform her wifely duties because "you are taking care of your responsibilities as a man afterall"

Pls define polygamy for me& tell me if polygamy has anything to do with what u just wrote up there except u are using a different dictionary. Meanwhile, u still didn't answer d question I asked:

lexy2014:


So non-muslims outside Africa don't cheat on their wives& d non compatibility responsible 4 high divorce rates isn't due to infidelity?

Do non-muslims cheat on their wives? Yes or No? Do they seek divorce based on infidelity on d part of their men? Yes or no?

lexy2014:


Are u aware that d reason y non-muslim outside Africa particularly in d US& Europe don't practice is because it is outlawed& not because d men there are saints are u think?

I never said the men are saints. I simply said they do not claim they have a RIGHT to cheat even though they do it

The worse that can happen to a Nigerian woman is to 'suffer' with a Nigerian man. I pirry you. Na why I dey tell y'all to date the ones wey get money at least. Make you no suffer gbasgbos.

Dropsmic

trapQ:
This trash no longer holds water. This is what y'all use in pressuring young women into wrong marriages and only daft men think in this pattern nowadays. Tiwa is 39 and Don Jazzy is 36 yet Don Jazzy looks like he is her Uncle. Simi is 31 and Olamide is 30, yet Olamide looks much older. Jennifer Lopez is fvcking 49. I mean 49. Would you have guessed that in a million years? Yet she looks like a woman in her 20s. Keep deluding yourself.

If I overlooked your rants, you would think of yourself a genius. Anyway you can continue in your ignorance and self-denial. It is condescending trying to enlighten you.

ebonyggurl:


I never said the men are saints. I simply said they do not claim they have a RIGHT to cheat even though they do it

Is claiming right to cheat d definition of polygamy? Ur comment still brings us back 2d initial question I asked u:

lexy2014:


Were u able to interact with all d non-muslim men out side Africa to have come 2d conclusion that only Nigerian men have a polygamous mentality?

lexy2014:


Pls define polygamy for me& tell me if polygamy has anything to do with what u just wrote up there except u are using a different dictionary. Meanwhile, u still didn't answer d question I asked:



Do non-muslims cheat on their wives? Yes or No? Do they seek divorce based on infidelity on d part of their men? Yes or no?

Yes non-muslims cheat and yes they divorce due to infidelity. Better a divorce than having to endure your husband parading his side chick around you though, isn't it?

Look I've got things to do...stop quoting me. it's a public forum and it's my opinion. If you don't like it, ignore it. Bye

Go hide your face in shame. Cure your ignorance before trying to enlighten someone above your mediocre train of thought.

mastermaestro:


If I overlooked your rants, you would think of yourself a genius. Anyway you can continue in your ignorance and self-denial. It is condescending trying to enlighten you.

You have Google for that na.

lexy2014:


Oga what is polygamy?

lexy2014:


Is claiming right to cheat d definition of polygamy? Ur comment still brings us back 2d initial question I asked u:

This is my last reply. Polygamy is the legal right to more than one wife. Multiple mating that is legally allowed. the mentality part is the mindset. The belief that you should have multiple "mates" . As you know non-muslims in Nigeria are not legally allowed or supported to have more than one wife...so the men keep them as side chicks and yes it happens abroad too. But the difference is our men take it as their right. And that no one can tell them otherwise. I'm off. Not replying anymore

ebonyggurl:


Yes non-muslims cheat and yes they divorce due to infidelity. Better a divorce than having to endure your husband parading his side chick around you though, isn't it?

Look I've got things to do...stop quoting me. it's a public forum and it's my opinion. If you don't like it, ignore it. Bye

its now u no u have things 2do. U wan run. if I now quote u, what will happen? I thought u said it is a public forum?


So if they cheat& they divorce based on infidelity, then how come u said its only Nigerian men that have polygamous mentality?

khiaa:
This whole write-up is nothing but a fantasy/fairytale created in the mind of the op. "Nigerian men are the sexiest men in the world", "are well built" (with those big fat tummies)? Thanks for the laugh.. You guys are overbearing, controlling, possessive, oppressive, insecure when it comes to your woman and just all out exhausting. Oh, I can't forget unfaithful. All of you are like this, yes I mean ALL of you, except Alezy. Who agrees with with me?

The problem is y'all take Niggerians too seriously. If you listen to Niggerians long enough they will tell you that shithole is the no.1 economy in the world and everyone in that dump is an angel and they shít gold dust.
Signed : A Niggerian

trapQ:
Go and read what he wrote again. That's not what he meant.

Also, do you know that as a man, the quality of your sperm reduces at about 45 thereby increasing the risk of having unhealthy offspring? What about erectile dysfunction and prostrate enlargement?
Lol, these are some age related problems affecting men but most men don't even know and think women are the only ones affected by age?

Let me ask you, can a man of 50 truly satisfy a girl in her 20s without having to depend on Viagra which could even adversely affect his heart in the long run?

If your answer to the bolded is yes then the joke is on you.

Weldone

trapQ:
You have Google for that na.

Ah ah. Y should I use Google when I have u? Abi u dont have google? Aren't u d one who was giving me lecture "there is a difference between cheating and having polygamous mentality"?

How many European men beat their wives? Are you kidding me? You think European men see their wives as below them or inferior?

Listen even if that happens it's very very rare and everyone including men condemns him thoroughly and even the long arm of the law catches up with him.

But in Nigeria he feels his wife is his property and he can beat her whenever and however he likes. You men also support the wife beaters saying, "the woman was running her mouth" and deserves it.

Most of the wife battery cases you even hear in America are done by AA and when it comes to wife battery we know you're not different from the African Americans.

Let me tell you something, I met an igbo man who was married to a white woman sometime ago in Europe and do you know what he told me? He said the very day he lays his hands on his wife and the authorities find out, his deportation process will begin. If a citizen does it, he'd spend time in jail. All the while I was there I never saw on the news nor heard that a man beat his wife up. Not saying it doesn't happen. It is just very rare among Europeans.

lexy2014:


Do European and American men not beat up their wives? Pls define polygamy & tell me whether polygamy has anything 2do with apology or wife beating

lexy2014:

its now u no u have things 2do. U wan run. if I now quote u, what will happen? I thought u said it is a public forum?


So if they cheat& they divorce based on infidelity, then how come u said its only Nigerian men that have polygamous mentality?

You obviously don't understand what the term "polygamous mentality" means even after it has been explained to you a number of times by more than one person. Ain't your fault. Some people find it hard to assimilate certain concepts that do not conform with their way of thinking

Apologies. Never knew I've been conversing with a kid.

Run along.

lexy2014:


Ah ah. Y should I use Google when I have u? Abi u dont have google? Aren't u d one who was giving me lecture "there is a difference between cheating and having polygamous mentality"?

Lol, chop knuckle sis

AmazonHippolyta:

Weldone

Yes

Freehuman:


Is that your Daughter at your DP?

ebonyggurl:


This is my last reply. Polygamy is the legal right to more than one wife. Multiple mating that is legally allowed. the mentality part is the mindset. The belief that you should have multiple "mates" . As you know non-muslims in Nigeria are not legally allowed or supported to have more than one wife...so the men keep them as side chicks and yes it happens abroad too. But the difference is our men take it as their right. And that no one can tell them otherwise. I'm off. Not replying anymore

So multiple mating is what? Let me guess "monogamous mentality". If u have more than one partner at a time, what is that? D prefix "poly" in polygamy means more than one& d prefix "mono" in monogamy means one. So if a man is doing more than one, what mentality is that? If a non-muslim man as u said keeps side chicks apart from his wife, is that "monogamous mentality"? What u saying is that non-muslims outside Africa have a right to keep side chicks and engage in multiple mating which is cheating. And u c nothing wrong with it.

ebonyggurl:

Multiple mating that is legally allowed. the mentality part is the mindset.

ebonyggurl:


But the difference is our men take it as their right.

What is d difference in d mindset behind multiple mating that u say is legally allowed in countries outside Africa & polygamy that is allowed in Africa?

trapQ:
Apologies. Never knew I've been conversing with a kid.

Run along.

A "kid" that asked u a question that u can't answer that u have 2 use Google to run away from answering d question? How are u now better than d "kid"?

ebonyggurl:

You obviously don't understand what the term "polygamous mentality" means even after it has been explained to you a number of times by more than one person. Ain't your fault. Some people find it hard to assimilate certain concepts that do not conform with their way of thinking

U haven't been able to define d term "polygamous mentality" my dear. So define it first then we can start talking of understanding or not understanding

TanyLoe:
This is zeeworld

Extraordinary everyday

Phenomenal16:
... Wat a risky bf

El Fenomeno

khiaa:


You are right, nobody is perfect but those are too many flaws for a woman to tolerate. Try and be better.

Try and be better? Like you know me? How about you find out about me? If you have seen and witnessed all that from men, then maybe you should check yourself and your circle of influence dear. I need not tell you whether or not I exhibit those attributes but i'm always a better version of myself as each day passes

trapQ:
How many European men beat their wives? Are you kidding me? You think European men see their wives as below them or inferior?

Listen even if that happens it's very very rare and everyone including men condemns him thoroughly and even the long arm of the law catches up with him.

But in Nigeria he feels his wife is his property and he can beat her whenever and however he likes. You men also support the wife beaters saying, "the woman was running her mouth" and deserves it.

Most of the wife battery cases you even hear in America are done by AA and when it comes to wife battery we know you're not different from the African Americans.

Let me tell you something, I met an igbo man who was married to a white woman sometime ago in Europe and do you know what he told me? He said the very day he lays his hands on his wife and the authorities find out, his deportation process will begin. If a citizen does it, he'd spend time in jail. All the while I was there I never saw on the news nor heard that a man beat his wife up. Not saying it doesn't happen. It is just very rare among Europeans.

You can't speak for the totality of men in Nigeria. Some bad attributes exhibited by an individual doesn't necessarily connote that such individual is bad. Talking of European, an European murdered his Nigerian wife and daughter last year and it was even recently brought up. You are citing domestic violence as being an African/AA thing where as it ain't. Ain't a respecter of nationality or persons

agbonkamen:
Most Nigerian guys are rugged the sensible ones are rare.......

I think a man born you too.

I never inferred that the totality of Nigerian were like that.

Haven't you been here on NL. Do you know how many of such murder cases have graced FP in the past month alone? Do you know how many of them go unreported. I know of one who allegedly beat his wife to death and went into hiding but that's a topic for another day.

Yes domestic violence is an African/AA and also a middle eastern thing. These cultures don't value women and see women as inferior and that's why women going through domestic violence in the above societies who dare speak out or leave the marriage are seen as evil, devilish women who only left their homes because they wanna sample different d!!cks.

A typical European man doesn't see his wife as inferior or just a baby making machine like y'all do.

vicardino:


You can't speak for the totality of men in Nigeria. Some bad attributes exhibited by an individual doesn't necessarily connote that such individual is bad. Talking of European, an European murdered his Nigerian wife and daughter last year and it was even recently brought up. You are citing domestic violence as being an African/AA thing where as it ain't. Ain't a respecter of nationality or persons

agbonkamen:
una just quote person without seeing my post in different angles. I said "some" meaning not all the guys. There are good girls and guys but they are rare, and many good girls have gone bad as a result of your fellow guys wickedness.....

I knw my dear, nothing is 100% right or wrong. We all can't be equal

ebonyggurl:


Thanks...but I already enjoy my life

na xo d

SageMK:
I still and I've always respected all my exes.

My concern for their growth & development drove me to introduce them to my family. At some point, I planned my life with some, and when ever I misses them or got a little concerned about their well being, I do visit them. In short, I am always there for them.

We do talk about marriage related issues and I've never had a problem visting their family. Whenever there's a misunderstanding, I always reassured them of my love, apologize and we settle our differences... yet I never planned to marry any of those bìtches.

Woooooow