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Eziokwugbaoto:
I can bet my armpit hairs that if Fatoyinbo had not become successful and popular this rape incident won't be shaking the internet like it's doing.
Mind you any form of rape is demonic and unacceptable if the accused actually perpetrated the crime for which he is accused then he should face the full wrath of the law if not the Lady should also be charged for defamation of character we should learn to balance this things mbok

ikevictor:
Even Basketmouth’s wife is a co-idiot amongst the idiots!!!

When does being a married woman to “whoever” translate to credibility or proof?

Provide proof or shut up please!!

I don’t like the pastor sef but I refuse to be bamboozled by average Nigerian idiots!

I have seen false accusations on daily basis from women against men, and even when I love women so much I have resolved to seeing PROOF before I believe their tears again!!!

engrelvis:
no b yr fault sha.is because we r living in lawless society ( we will get there with women coming out).if Na abroad ving sex with a minor (17yrs) don first finish d pastor.u r nt getting it.is nt d issue of busola being willing or unwilling .is about an adult taking undue advantage of a minor because he has power to do so.by d way is nt all girls DAT r close to their mother. going by her public status busola knows she has alot to lose n yet she came out? My brother dis girl must v been suffering for a long time. I v read where girls eventually kill their molester after how many yrs.at d time of molestation dey even willingly had sex with d idiot because he was able toconvince dem.When those girls finally grow up n realise dey v been taken advantage of because of their young age hatred will start.

Johnkay01:
Hmmm...

I want to ask questions too
Why did it take her so long to reveal this crime against humanity?

I heard she was even a chorister at the same church before, why was she comfortable serving God in the Church of raper?

Why now that she's having issue with COZA that she decided to spill the beans (that's if there's beans in her mouth at all)?

Something she claimed happen over 15 years ago, why now? Why not when you still worship with the Church? Why did you harbour such thing and still remain a chorister there?

I'm not just getting it at all.

As much as I hate rape I also hate false accusation.

I stand with the truth, let facts decide it in court not sentiment.

HitSong:

As much as I don't support Rape, I think those whole stories has a loop....

Bukola is not totally honest and Timidakolo is just pained.
The thing dey even pain the guy pass Bukola.
Person rape you for your house, you still go him house make he rape you again...hmm

HE RAPE YOU IN YOUR HOUSE WHILE YOUR SO SISTER WAS ASLEEP IN ANOTHER ROOM. AND YOU CLAIMED TO BE A VIRGIN YET, YOU COULDN'T SHOUT NOR REJECT HIM.
At 17
YOU DESERVE DIDN'T INFORM YOUR SISTER NOR MOTHER..
And for the fact that The Man continued to be their pastor and Timi was even a choir master in the same church for a very long time even after he married the girl...

SOMETHING IS DEFINITELY WRONG SOMEWHERE.

GraGra247:
1. Her story simply didn't add up. Reno Omokri logically broke it down.

2. Why did she wait this long to come out. Ese Walter saga should have emboldened her to speak if she was truly raped.

3. She claimed she was raped multiple times. This was her biggest flaw. If the first one was rape, the rest wasn't as long as she wasn't living with the man. She was at least 17 and can reason.

4. Why didn't she report to her parents. At least to her mother if she was shy.

5. How could he rape her in her own parents house with relatives present and there was no ruse.


MY CONCLUSION:

She wasn't raped. She "unwilling" allowed him to have sex with her multiple times but she was disappointed with him as a so called pastor.

It haunted her and she felt so ashamed and chose a rape claim as escape route.

Samsonklin:
If you have ever been accused of rape before, you would not take side easily. Stand against rape. Criticise it. Report it to the police immediately. But please, try to be neutral small until the accuser has been found guilty with obvious facts.

Me and my paddy go see my babe, from dere we go see my babe friend. My girl just hook dem up normal. You know as e Dey be.

Do you know that, after they started seeing each other for a week. The girl slept over once and after dat day, news hit me dat my G tried to rape her? Even my girl was angry. She supported her friend and called my G a rapist even to his face. The girl wanted to report, we begged, I told my guy to chill. I went to see her and begged her thorough cos rape case nor be beans matter for court. That matter died.

After a while, when my girl and that her friend quarrel nai she dey tell me say dat girl tell am the whole thing say she nor know when she talk am. She say my guy nor rape her. She says it’s just a normal “try your luck guys do with a girl first time. She resisted a while and later gave in. She said she actually told my babe that it’s rape because she does not want her friend (my babe) to go about telling people she was cheap. However, She tried to apologize but her ego won’t let her. And since we have settled the issue. She decided to let sleeping dogs lie. Now if to say she and my babe nor quarrel even my babe for nor tell me.

I dunno if this one is true or not. So since I don’t know, I will just stand neutral and wait for law to take its course. I advice y’all do same. #peace

Hipsofagoddess:
I have not watched the video o, but from the few things I've gathered, her mother and sisters travelled at the time. Moreover, she stated her mum was reluctant when the pastor requested that she(Busola) join him for some errands.

Now, imagine your mum have been suspicious about something, which mouth you wan take tell am say the same person rape you? Even when on a normal day its difficult for mothers to believe their daughters.

Moreover, people saying why did she remain in the church should understand the church is not just one person. She might have found someone genuine in the church who persuaded her to remain. That person might be Timi or someone else.

Rape is a broad issue you can't judge from one angle. I had wanted to remain silent on this issue until when all the evidence were out, but when I started seeing people saying she is lying and comparing it to naymar's case, I couldn't hold myself.

I have always been an advocate against rape. The way I carry the matter, some people have asked if I've been raped before and the answer is no. I'm just an empathy driven person.

GistConnect:
Hours after COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo denied raping Busola Dakolo, Basketmouth's wife,
Elsie Okpocha is asking him a very important question.

Read it below...



See more here; http://gistmore.com/see-the-important-question-basketmouths-wife-is-asking-fatoyinbo-after-denying-rape

Estellie:
rape is now likened to stealing meat from pot??

Have u ever been raped in the ass?

Rape is not an extreme crime?

This one is gonna be a dad someday o..nawa

Johnkay01:
Hmmm...

I want to ask questions too
Why did it take her so long to reveal this crime against humanity?

I heard she was even a chorister at the same church before, why was she comfortable serving God in the Church of raper?

Why now that she's having issue with COZA that she decided to spill the beans (that's if there's beans in her mouth at all)?

Something she claimed happen over 15 years ago, why now? Why not when you still worship with the Church? Why did you harbour such thing and still remain a chorister there?

I'm not just getting it at all.

As much as I hate rape I also hate false accusation.

I stand with the truth, let facts decide it in court not sentiment.

rayopt:
honestly, from a psychologist point of view, the timing of this kind of revelation is pointless. I know it is necessary from a lawyer perspective. If this is the argument in court, believe me, nothing will be achieved.



again this kind of thought won't go far. The fact is this, it might not entirely be rape after all. Listen to the video carefully and you will doubt if she was certain that it is rape.

what you should know is that the same issue that Ese Walter pointed at is same here. manipulation!!

these stories are not exactly a picture of someone forcefully tearing off her clothes and forcing himself.



@bolded tho

celebs own social media but the pastors owns the crowd abeg.

Las las i see biodun fatoyinbo coming out of this safely. But pls let's stop shutting people who speak up. let's hear them out and listen.

GraGra247:
My friend if you're raped at 17 when you are very sensible and fail to report it and get justice when evidences are fresh, a lot of people won't take you seriously when you decide to report it 20 years after.

I'm among those people and I have no apology.

There were many rapists and armed robbers that have beat their ugly past and positively turned their lives around and are inspiring people with their story and helping the society and positively changing lives more than irrational self righteous gays like you.

I'll choose them anyday more than self righteous people right now that will constitute nuisance tomorrow.

capitalzero:
1.His opinion does not count
2. Shame
3.She was young,naive and confused. She was psychologically traumatised and attached to him-Stockholm syndrome
4. Her parents may not believing her accusing the pastor.
5. Very possible. Most rapists are acquaintances of victims.
Conclusion:
Rape is most under-reported crime in the world. All accusations must be taken seriously and properly investigated especially if victims have nothing to gain and are doing fine in their endeavour.

Born2Breed:
I will help her to answer your question mbok.

Let me finish my makeup

Hipsofagoddess:
You may choose them, God may choose them, but remember, Absalom slept with all David's wives on the rooftop.

Moreover, think of all the decisions you made when you were 17, we're they sensible?

Toks2008:
The guy fatoyinbo is a predator but these ladies are not entirely innocent too.

Fatoyinbo is extremely cute which made it easy for the ladies to fall prey cos ladies too like fine guys...the guy should just leave pastoral work and become a pop star.

Hipsofagoddess:
I have not watched the video o, but from the few things I've gathered, her mother and sisters travelled at the time. Moreover, she stated her mum was reluctant when the pastor requested that she(Busola) join him for some errands.

Now, imagine your mum have been suspicious about something, which mouth you wan take tell am say the same person rape you? Even when on a normal day its difficult for mothers to believe their daughters.

Moreover, people saying why did she remain in the church should understand the church is not just one person. She might have found someone genuine in the church who persuaded her to remain. That person might be Timi or someone else.

Rape is a broad issue you can't judge from one angle. I had wanted to remain silent on this issue until when all the evidence were out, but when I started seeing people saying she is lying and comparing it to naymar's case, I couldn't hold myself.

I have always been an advocate against rape. The way I carry the matter, some people have asked if I've been raped before and the answer is no. I'm just an empathy driven person.

GraGra247:
Thank God you said God may choose them. If God chooses them, who are you to judge God.

GraGra247:
1. Her story simply didn't add up. Reno Omokri logically broke it down.

2. Why did she wait this long to come out. Ese Walter saga should have emboldened her to speak if she was truly raped.

3. She claimed she was raped multiple times. This was her biggest flaw. If the first one was rape, the rest wasn't as long as she wasn't living with the man. She was at least 17 and can reason.


This appears to be the exact picture of what happened.


4. Why didn't she report to her parents. At least to her mother if she was shy.

5. How could he rape her in her own parents house with relatives present and there was no ruse.



MY CONCLUSION:

She wasn't raped. She "unwilling" allowed him to have sex with her multiple times but she was disappointed with him as a so called pastor.

It haunted her and she felt so ashamed and chose a rape claim as escape route.

GraGra247:
1. Her story simply didn't add up. Reno Omokri logically broke it down.

2. Why did she wait this long to come out. Ese Walter saga should have emboldened her to speak if she was truly raped.

3. She claimed she was raped multiple times. This was her biggest flaw. If the first one was rape, the rest wasn't as long as she wasn't living with the man. She was at least 17 and can reason.


This appears to be the exact picture of what happened.


4. Why didn't she report to her parents. At least to her mother if she was shy.

5. How could he rape her in her own parents house with relatives present and there was no ruse.



MY CONCLUSION:

She wasn't raped. She "unwilling" allowed him to have sex with her multiple times but she was disappointed with him as a so called pastor.

It haunted her and she felt so ashamed and chose a rape claim as escape route.

obinnawhyte:
Many girls fall so cheap to these Mr nice, repented, smooth talkers guys. And once they give their body to them and the guy leaves them they feel hurt and hatred for the guys and each time they see girls around him they feel either jealous or the fact that the guy is easily getting away with the hit and run but never the issue of CONSENT but present it under the disguise of rape because it's very easy for anyone to believe
She never mentioned the kind of girl she was growing up in secondary school. We all went to secondary school and most of the girls then were even more rotten than many adult girls outside and some too were caught and noted for being loose

SEGLIZ:
that your makeup nobi here at all.

Hipsofagoddess:
I have not watched the video o, but from the few things I've gathered, her mother and sisters travelled at the time. Moreover, she stated her mum was reluctant when the pastor requested that she(Busola) join him for some errands.

Now, imagine your mum have been suspicious about something, which mouth you wan take tell am say the same person rape you? Even when on a normal day its difficult for mothers to believe their daughters.

Moreover, people saying why did she remain in the church should understand the church is not just one person. She might have found someone genuine in the church who persuaded her to remain. That person might be Timi or someone else.

Rape is a broad issue you can't judge from one angle. I had wanted to remain silent on this issue until when all the evidence were out, but when I started seeing people saying she is lying and comparing it to naymar's case, I couldn't hold myself.

I have always been an advocate against rape. The way I carry the matter, some people have asked if I've been raped before and the answer is no. I'm just an empathy driven person.

Johnkay01:
Hmmm...

I want to ask questions too
Why did it take her so long to reveal this crime against humanity?

I heard she was even a chorister at the same church before, why was she comfortable serving God in the Church of raper?

Why now that she's having issue with COZA that she decided to spill the beans (that's if there's beans in her mouth at all)?

Something she claimed happen over 15 years ago, why now? Why not when you still worship with the Church? Why did you harbour such thing and still remain a chorister there?

I'm not just getting it at all.

As much as I hate rape I also hate false accusation.

I stand with the truth, let facts decide it in court not sentiment.

Hipsofagoddess:
Yet I mentioned they will still pay for their crimes. And you were talking about people who have repented. What makes you think the accused has repented?