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AwkaetitiBabe:
It's possible the guy is simply just a Maga to her. But seems she don't wanna get tied down by marriage just yet.

Be a man and deal with your relationship. You can't just sit around and watch another man steal your joy.

BlueAir:
I feel like collecting ur account number

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.
]]For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year[/b]. I refused.
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See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

Modphase:
That is exactly the right thing to do beta now than later. I had to ditch a 7 year old relationship n am talking a relationship I talked her into writing WAEC,paying her tuition for at least 2 session plus accommodation n more.

The signs were all there but foolish people keep giving me reason such as yours to continue until it finally dawn on me the relationship was a waste. When a guy pay your tuition 200% loyalty should be given because that is what you give you father when he does the same.

No way should you allow yourself in the mud to suggest a chance of being in modest. You are suppose to be 100% upright n seen to be 300% upright.

OP, here is what you should do hang on to the relationship since she suggested you shift the wedding plan, let her know you suspended it indefinitely. Withdraw all of your financial commitments to her, turn your affair to an inactive one to ascertain the true color of her cheating.

Discovery from above would possibly lead you to start hunting for another relationship. Don’t force or beg a lady into marriage, trust me it is not worth it.

mecury21

KevinDein:
How is the said girl his joy? She's obviously a big source of emotional pain for the op.

Michelle55:
The moment you start suspecting your partner, the bond between you two has been broken.. For you to check her phone(you already knew what awaits you) so asking us now is like seeking for validation on what to do next

QueenSekxy:
Please, shut up.
You doctors and cheating are like bread and butter.

You only became faithful for a year and your head is swelling up, mtchew.

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

DonnyE:
My candid option is, if things doesn't work out eventually, make sure she doesn't leave without a proper beating. Some gals need to be taught some lessons to change. But Op never train a gal in school or spend excessively on a gal, they end up taking you for granted. You must always put a gal in want and in check at the same time.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Beating?

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

DieselGen:
So, your point is no need checking out on your fiancee's phone, because there'll always be poo to see.
It indicates infidelity is a norm now.
Wrong people everywhere...

Modphase:
That is exactly the right thing to do beta now than later. I had to ditch a 7 year old relationship n am talking a relationship I talked her into writing WAEC,paying her tuition for at least 2 session plus accommodation n more.

The signs were all there but foolish people keep giving me reason such as yours to continue until it finally dawn on me the relationship was a waste. When a guy pay your tuition 200% loyalty should be given because that is what you give you father when he does the same.

No way should you allow yourself in the mud to suggest a chance of being in modest. You are suppose to be 100% upright n seen to be 300% upright.

OP, here is what you should do hang on to the relationship since she suggested you shift the wedding plan, let her know you suspended it indefinitely. Withdraw all of your financial commitments to her, turn your affair to an inactive one to ascertain the true color of her cheating.

Discovery from above would possibly lead you to start hunting for another relationship. Don’t force or beg a lady into marriage, trust me it is not worth it.

mecury21

DBestDoc:
The only sensible post here so far.
Stop flattering yourself oga, the babe has already dumped your useless cheating as.s but your overbloated sense of self worth wouldn't let you see it.

You've cheated on her for 3 years and only decided to take a one yr break, enough to let you tie her down in marriage before continuing your dirty life style.

Now you understand how it feels being in her shoes.

End the relationship, she deserves better.

babyfaceafrica:
1.you don't have a GF

2.when you start checking ladies phone prepare for the worst

3.she is obviously lying about something's

4.you better cancel your proposed wedding,if anybody ask you why,just say you are not ready yet,that you need to solve some personal issues out..if they probe further,just say..no comment.


5.start finding how you will quit that thing you call a relationship

6.There are better ladies ,start shopping for one but don't be in haste.

7.don't let anyone coerce you into proceeding with the wedding

8.Finally, this one that you brought this simple matter online shows you are not even ripe for marriage

J111333:
Guys what do you think, do we tell him?

skywalker240:
Menh, am guessing am going tru same, i have nothing to say, God will see us tru, and wisdom will confuse foolishness.

hatbricker:
The signs are there for you to see...
Why you gon stress yourself over a girl that is probably not thinking about you right now? A girl who doesn't appreciate she has a gem, a girl who doesn't know your worth.

You're the bag, you have a good job and a career, you're ladies dream and you deserve so much better.

Know your worth.

Netanyahu1:
She might not be cheating yet but she’s getting there. You need to call her and tell her what you need from her as regards the wedding. If she’s still hesitant move on bro. Her heart is with someone else.

Michelle55:
Please don't get me wrong! Dude already knew in his heart that there's something amiss(suspicion) but he just needed to confirm(proved) of which he got the answers he's looking for so what's the need of coming to SM to seek validation even when the red flags are all glaring?
NOTE The moment you start suspecting your partner of infidelity, everything you think you know about the person will be in question, so why not save yourselves the stress by going your separate ways? Remember that a Broken Relationship is better and more bearable than a Broken Marriage

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

blizzers:
Happy birthday

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.