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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Samyj247: 3:41pm On Jun 30, 2019
asarila:
see me here oo bro put me for line emilyhow69@gmail.com
na u b the person I quote?
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Techcrunchng(m): 3:45pm On Jun 30, 2019
AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me
those that graduated how far? Hope they all working in the oil company?

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by ardeks(m): 3:45pm On Jun 30, 2019
Dothraki:
bro i have a university degree , mechanical engineering for that matter and i aint using it for nothing.
I made so much money doing business, i have several friends who are worth over 200m and they only have school cert.
My friend who graduated with a 4.35 cgpa earns 18k a month working as a secondary school teacher in lagos.

Trust me, university degree is getting worthless day by day as the school kept churning out graduates and there is very few job opportunities. Imagine having over 300 thousand graduates yearly with only 800 job openings per year.

Killing yourself will be the most stupid thing you can ever do.
Can you put me through, sir? I mean shedding more light on the business part of this your story. It's like this thread is actually about me.
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by asarila(m): 3:48pm On Jun 30, 2019
Samyj247:
na u b the person I quote?
nah bro but really need help pls

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Samyj247: 3:50pm On Jun 30, 2019
asarila:
nah bro but really need help pls
go to my profile and send me a mail
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jun 30, 2019
Samyj247:
send me a pm again.
Done

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by seanwilliam(m): 4:03pm On Jun 30, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Don't compare yourself, you unique, you have your own special time to succeed. Don't let silly pressures push you into doing what you'll regret. Keep calm and wait for your time.
in as much as i still want to beat u( u remember wat u did), i have to thank u for this response.. m so frustrated seriously.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jun 30, 2019
akaahs:
Been born in Nigeria is the greatest regret and the most depressed
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jun 30, 2019
Taniaa:
my biggest regret is coming to this world in the first place,
can't sleep at night and when i finally do i wake up feeling worse
Why?

abuuzy:
I don't say much am very secretive,been depressed God knows how long,lost my mum 300level,couldn't finish up on school,school fees,c.o,e.t.c just find a way of smiling among friends acting all is well. Anybody with info on making little change online will be helping me big time.
My condolences re. your mom. Chin up.

RAGGA40:
My greatest regret was being born into a sadist family where quarrels, curses, fights occur on a regular, my dad beats my mom anyhow, my dad left my mom to be sleeping around with women, both married and unmarried. Although he is still training me he hates me so much, i'm the first son, this is my 6th year(extra year) in the university(university of nigeria, nsukka) i ave attempted succide severally i'm nt
I will automatically lose respect for anyone who beats a woman. Do your best to make your mom proud and take care of her. Suicide isn't the option. Stay strong.

xcaliber:
At 38, I can't have my-type of woman to love me in return...life is so boring without love. Despite rounding off PhD degree in Nigeria and just won a scholarship award to start another PhD in UK; an opportunity to relocate permanently. Finding true love is so difficulty! I'm a very good person, physically okay and all so why shuld true love be as this scarce? I only wish I can get married b4 getting out of this country.
True love takes time to find, but I hope you find it soon. I'm sure there are lots of single women there in Nigeria who are also looking for true love.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Mcslize: 4:18pm On Jun 30, 2019
xcaliber:
At 38, I can't have my-type of woman to love me in return...life is so boring without love. Despite rounding off PhD degree in Nigeria and just won a scholarship award to start another PhD in UK; an opportunity to relocate permanently. Finding true love is so difficulty! I'm a very good person, physically okay and all so why shuld true love be as this scarce? I only wish I can get married b4 getting out of this country.

I can relate with what you are experiencing right now. Love will come on its on. Never expose your plans to any girl you meet instantly, so they won't think that's what you want to use to get them to marry you.

Set dates and go on little dates with any of the opposite sex you fancy. Things normally work from there. Yes, the mistake some people made was that they never engaged in any social lifestyles during their undergraduate days. They are so occupied with books that they left out their social life to suffer.

But I believe, that is not your case. To find someone, you need to start going to social gatherings, go to church if you are a christian and strike little conversations with the sisters. If you like anyone, ask for numbers and start little conversations on the phone.

Go on little dates with any girl of your choice and be plain and genuine in your conversations with her. If a girl starts calling you on the phone, it means she is beginning to like you already. Take things from there and in no time, you may find the one that really likes you.

But do not make the mistake of coming off too early with a marriage discussion with any girl you go on a date with. It may appear too needy to them. So allow things to play out by itself. It's when you are sure that the girl likes you, that you can now let the cat out of the bag and make your intention known to her.

Please, do not spend on a girl with the intention that she will like you through that. The most you should do is pay for foods when you go on dates with a gal. Go on many dates with various girls not just one because you don't know the one that will genuinely pick interest in you. Just a date to get to know them. Don't focus on just one girl, cuz you are trying to pick a soul mate so u need to have this abundant mentality during this period. You will eventually meet the one that will like you the way you never expected. It's when you've seen the right one that likes you and you like, before getting committed to her.

Success in your mission bro.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jun 30, 2019
seanwilliam:
in as much as i still want to beat u( u remember wat u did), i have to thank u for this response.. m so frustrated seriously.
No I don't remember
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Hussle(m): 4:39pm On Jun 30, 2019
AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me
Take it easy
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by bigpriik: 4:40pm On Jun 30, 2019
Kirchhoff01:
I lost my virginity to a runs babe.
E dey pain me if I remember the event. And she no do me well.

That' has been my only sex
sad
grin
Kirchhoff01:
I lost my virginity to a runs babe.
E dey pain me if I remember the event. And she no do me well.

That' has been my only sex
sad
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jun 30, 2019
My biggest regret was not being friendly and exploring relationship at an early age. Now I feel so alone most of the times as am too old to be going out that much. And mostly indoors. I wished I had more friends too undecided

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by iLegendd(m): 6:34pm On Jun 30, 2019
My regret is going to school. My happiness is learning 20+ skills.

In summary, school is a scam. Digital skill is the deal. We only live once, so every day is a happy day for me.

When I'm in a difficult situation, I say to myself, "God, let the worst happen, but let me be alive to write a book about it and sell it on Amazon." Sounds funny, but that's what I do. Any challenge I face or any new thing I learn today is a new book.

Yesterday, I just published 2 books on something bad I went through last year and today, they're already making money. No, they are not the books below — they are different. I don't reveal those ones to the public for a personal reason. I write under different pen names.

So, share your difficult times in form a book with advice and solution on how you handled it and millions of people around the world who are currently going through such will purchase it.

Money money money and mental health is the cause of most regrets and depression. You can overcome if you believe.
...

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Ngenge(m): 6:45pm On Jun 30, 2019
Don't waste time in seeking for a university admission. Learn a trade or skill immediately after your secondary education(You can get admitted after that). Work must come before play. Business must come before pleasure. Seek for advice from people who has gone through any endeavour you intend to embark on.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by iLegendd(m): 7:37pm On Jun 30, 2019
xcaliber:
At 38, I can't have my-type of woman to love me in return...life is so boring without love. Despite rounding off PhD degree in Nigeria and just won a scholarship award to start another PhD in UK; an opportunity to relocate permanently. Finding true love is so difficulty! I'm a very good person, physically okay and all so why shuld true love be as this scarce? I only wish I can get married b4 getting out of this country.


It's your fault and this is why.

Let's assumed you're a Christian. Don't you read the Bible to know God more?

Let's assume you're a farmer. Don't study the best time to plant your crops and don't you go to farm with farm tools?

Let's assume you went to school. Don't you read text books to pass exams? Don't you study?

Let's assume you want to travel abroad. Won't you read one or two things about the country you want to travel to?

For me, the first time I traveled, I spent hours surfing the net to know more about the country.

So, if you want your type of woman, you'll need to study how women work, else you'll end up with a woman who will take you for granted because you're a wuss, despite being educated.

Knowing about how women work is not complex, but it is if you refuse to study how the dating world works.

I'll save you the stress and I promise you, after reading what I'm about to recommend to you, you'll come back here to give testimonies in a week time. GUARANTEED.

Click this link https://www.nairaland.com/5259717/ and download the second and last book. They are not free, but read the free version and your eyes will open to reality about how to get any woman of your choice.

Have a nice day.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Double194(m): 7:41pm On Jun 30, 2019
EkperemoEgbabi:


My biggest regret be say I be militant. I graduate from rsust but the lack of job drove me to militancy. I done make money in millions wella from bunkering but I no fit live normal life again. 6 days inside creek, 1 day on land.
Egbesu, which kain life be dis?

You seriously need to relocate, no excuses, just pack your bags and move, come down to Enugu or move up to Lagos.
Get your life on track first and then you can restablish contact with your family and loved ones.
Dont waste your life in the creeks.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by TheGenius001: 8:48pm On Jun 30, 2019
It sure feels good to pour out your mind of all those things weighing us down.

Now it is so clear to us that as far as there is life, there is hope. Like someone said here, "Start moving from where you are"

I just hope this thread has been meaningful to everyone here.
All the best.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by zed7: 9:03pm On Jun 30, 2019
I have a loving wife and kids, extended family and friends who love me. I have a great job, cars and properties. I'm educated, outgoing and sociable. People tell me I'm lucky to have things going well for me. I don't feel lucky, I actually wish most times that I wasn't born. Life is challenging, stressful and sometimes meaningless. I don't really think that a lot of the fun stuff we do are actually fun, they are just temporary distractions. There is too much suffering physically, emotionally and economically in this world. I wish I never had the opportunity of knowing there is such a f^^ed up place called earth.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by asarila(m): 9:09pm On Jun 30, 2019
Samyj247:
go to my profile and send me a mail
here is my whatspp number pls leave a message for me 08027177193 I tried mailing through your profile I guess it's not going through thanks
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by dollytino4real(f): 9:17pm On Jun 30, 2019
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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by TheGenius001: 9:22pm On Jun 30, 2019
zed7:
I have a loving wife and kids, extended family and friends who love me. I have a great job, cars and properties. I'm educated, outgoing and sociable. People tell me I'm lucky to have things going well for me. I don't feel lucky, I actually wish most times that I wasn't born. Life is challenging, stressful and sometimes meaningless. I don't really think that a lot of the fun stuff we do are actually fun, they are just temporary distractions. There is too much suffering physically, emotionally and economically in this world. I wish I never had the opportunity of knowing there is such a f^^ed up place called earth.



This is the weirdest I've seen here so far sir. Wow

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Iogobenz(m): 9:44pm On Jun 30, 2019
zed7:
I have a loving wife and kids, extended family and friends who love me. I have a great job, cars and properties. I'm educated, outgoing and sociable. People tell me I'm lucky to have things going well for me. I don't feel lucky, I actually wish most times that I wasn't born. Life is challenging, stressful and sometimes meaningless. I don't really think that a lot of the fun stuff we do are actually fun, they are just temporary distractions. There is too much suffering physically, emotionally and economically in this world. I wish I never had the opportunity of knowing there is such a f^^ed up place called earth.
when person don chop up wella,e go begin to dey ask this kind of questions lol.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by ThothHermes: 9:55pm On Jun 30, 2019
Jerkules:
Well I think mine is Jerking off to Shyla Styles Videos not knowing she was Dead..I had sex with a dead woman undecided
Before I embark on any other Jerkney grin I have to consult Wikipedia fess grin
Hilarious grin grin
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by ThothHermes: 10:14pm On Jun 30, 2019
Can't have regrets.
The lines are fallen unto me in pleasant places.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by generationz(f): 10:49pm On Jun 30, 2019
traihit:
I have issues with the family I was born into as well. If I trace any limitation in my life presently, it always go back to my family. But I've promised myself that I won't be like those people whk have offended me. Don't spend your life on the offences of people or else, children will come, they'll meet you in that state and you'll be worse than the people you were criticizing.
There's always somewhere to begin life no matter the juncture that you are. Find yours and look ahead. You'll be adding more to the sorrow on ground if you commit suicide or you allow depression to limit you. You're going to be really bright, just move on.





I love your positivity

You are set for greatness

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by generationz(f): 10:57pm On Jun 30, 2019
pcguru1:
My biggest regret was not being friendly and exploring relationship at an early age. Now I feel so alone most of the times as am too old to be going out that much. And mostly indoors. I wished I had more friends too undecided


Too old to go out ?


Are you 70 years old

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by iCauseTrouble: 11:33pm On Jun 30, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Well, I'm warming up to telling its over. Regret starting the whole ish in the first place... Learn never to start what u can't finish.



Today is my birthday. New beginnings ND all tongue
Happy birthday dear
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by FreeMejoor1(m): 12:03am On Jul 01, 2019
zed7:
I have a loving wife and kids, extended family and friends who love me. I have a great job, cars and properties. I'm educated, outgoing and sociable. People tell me I'm lucky to have things going well for me. I don't feel lucky, I actually wish most times that I wasn't born. Life is challenging, stressful and sometimes meaningless. I don't really think that a lot of the fun stuff we do are actually fun, they are just temporary distractions. There is too much suffering physically, emotionally and economically in this world. I wish I never had the opportunity of knowing there is such a f^^ed up place called earth.
your words doesnt strike any balance just look out for your family cause you are already favored by this bleeped up world..for real thank your stars for what you own and stop bickering about our bleeped up this world is..

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Bignuell(m): 12:53am On Jul 01, 2019
Samyj247:
go to my profile and send me a mail
Can i also pm you?
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by PapaZeus(m): 2:49am On Jul 01, 2019
Samyj247:
no kill ursef bros. if u kill ursef ur enemies go laf u. inbox mk I teach u one or two things to do online make money.
bro pls how can i contact you for info abeg

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