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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 3:03am On Jul 01, 2019
Kirchhoff01:
I lost my virginity to a runs babe.
E dey pain me if I remember the event. And she no do me well.

That' has been my only sex
sad



Ewo oooo...
Sorry bro
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 3:25am On Jul 01, 2019
I regret those days I was a Christian. When I believed in an all powerful, all knowing creature.
Was the SCRIPTURE UNION president in my neighborhood,attended all the annual Easter conference, youth holiday camp, Bible quiz competition(crammed a lot of memory verses ) was the Secretary of SUCF in my school. When I don't miss midweek and Sunday service of RCCG. did all the annual February fasting. Attended the yearly August convention.

However, even when I did all those things. I still had doubts about the existence of FSM.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 6:27am On Jul 01, 2019
Wit God all things are possible.Keep chasing ur dream,u will get dere.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 6:29am On Jul 01, 2019
iCauseTrouble:

Happy birthday dear
Gracias
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 6:34am On Jul 01, 2019
Y dnt u consider Jupeb or predegree??wic is an easy way to get admission.
Donniefred:
It's been 8yrs now, no admission yet cry
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 6:45am On Jul 01, 2019
D main tink u shld do is getting along wit ur siblings,always make dem see u as deir brother.Get a lady dat will luv u d way u are,make frds wit dose dat will add value to ur life n finally,wen u are married,vow nt to be lykk ur fada n work toward achieving it.knw wat u wat in life n go for it.Remmeber to always pray daily.Best of luck
ezedioranma9:
I don't even know how to start. Gosh! I hate my life.

From the fact that my father had 2 women and nothing reasonable came from it. Leaving them, and my mother for dead, and never cared. The fact that he only talks religion, the fact that he didn't marry my mother, leaving us to be seen as worthless all over.
He was educated. Why pick my mother up and start knacking, when he had no intention of marrying.
My mother couldn't pick herself up to marry again, it left her emotional and I'm so disappointed in both of them. And he never married my mother. It's disappointing how an educated man did that.

No one lives as a family.
I'm here, my mother lives there, my sister lives there, father lives there, step-mother and son live together...
Everybody just living in different places. No love, no communication, no desire to even communicate. Na my sister dey even try dey ask me how far, and she also suffered her own. I'm almost 30, and nothing. I feel depressed but because of hard life and torture from the people I've lived with, e no dey too be like anything. I just hope I don't drown into it.

I don't even know how to love a woman because of that. All my compound neighbours think I'm weired.
I went to school with no idea of what I wanted to become. So much confusion. Today, na doctor, tomorrow, na soldier, next na police, another time na footballer.

Gosh!
A broken home is a terrible thing.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 6:55am On Jul 01, 2019
It is a mystery.D more u try to study God,d more u get confuse.Just knw dat dere is a supreme being dat we make reference to.
TheGenius001:



Wow!!! This is so amusing.

Learning more about God and religion is almost my story too. I am also confused j

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 6:59am On Jul 01, 2019
Peer presure.Move away frm bad frds.
Celestial777:
Bad circle of friends bro
staying when I should have walked away
long ago
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 6:59am On Jul 01, 2019
generationz:



Too old to go out ?


Are you 70 years old

Let me explain more on that, I grew up with that mentality from my family because at this age now, it's mostly about making money and planning towards the future. So things like clubbing and hanging out for no reason ceases at this time that's usually for the 20(s) . I dont mean I dont go out but too old to be just hanging out for no reason esp when you have something productive to do. That's how I was raised

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by zed7: 7:09am On Jul 01, 2019
FreeMejoor1:
your words doesnt strike any balance just look out for your family cause you are already favored by this bleeped up world..for real thank your stars for what you own and stop bickering about our bleeped up this world is..
You are still a child if you can't look beyond material things. Happiness is a state of mind, money or no money.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by abdeiz(m): 7:39am On Jul 01, 2019
zed7:
I have a loving wife and kids, extended family and friends who love me. I have a great job, cars and properties. I'm educated, outgoing and sociable. People tell me I'm lucky to have things going well for me. I don't feel lucky, I actually wish most times that I wasn't born. Life is challenging, stressful and sometimes meaningless. I don't really think that a lot of the fun stuff we do are actually fun, they are just temporary distractions. There is too much suffering physically, emotionally and economically in this world. I wish I never had the opportunity of knowing there is such a f^^ed up place called earth.

This sort of existential dread is what I hope to avoid when I finally have it all. The thought that we are in earth for what reason, is it to be happy? to have all what you want?
Deep down you'd feel like it isn't worth it all, in the end nothing matters and we all die so what's the point of being born to die huh?

May not be exactly what you feel but this right there scares the heck out of me.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 01, 2019
blissgregory:
Peer presure.Move away frm bad frds.


Thanks bro.
I have done that long ago
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 8:44am On Jul 01, 2019
Am a female...gud.
Celestial777:


Thanks bro. I have done that long ago
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 8:47am On Jul 01, 2019
blissgregory:
Am a female...gud.

Oh I checked your profile just now
Omo you set pa
Kisses
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 8:54am On Jul 01, 2019
Okkk...bye
Celestial777:

Oh I checked your profile just now Omo you set pa Kisses
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Starz825(m): 9:07am On Jul 01, 2019
Apeshy101:
My only regret is being a play boy.




Toyed with several girls' emotions and now I'm in a total confusion
I used to be a potential play boy before but ever since I realized it's not good to joke with people's heart and future..so I just let it go ...
Just mere friends with Dem girls now..I don't want wahala grin

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Aabheaven(m): 9:22am On Jul 01, 2019
ezedioranma9:
I don't even know how to start. Gosh! I hate my life.

From the fact that my father had 2 women and nothing reasonable came from it. Leaving them, and my mother for dead, and never cared. The fact that he only talks religion, the fact that he didn't marry my mother, leaving us to be seen as worthless all over.
He was educated. Why pick my mother up and start knacking, when he had no intention of marrying.
My mother couldn't pick herself up to marry again, it left her emotional and I'm so disappointed in both of them. And he never married my mother. It's disappointing how an educated man did that.

No one lives as a family.
I'm here, my mother lives there, my sister lives there, father lives there, step-mother and son live together...
Everybody just living in different places. No love, no communication, no desire to even communicate. Na my sister dey even try dey ask me how far, and she also suffered her own. I'm almost 30, and nothing. I feel depressed but because of hard life and torture from the people I've lived with, e no dey too be like anything. I just hope I don't drown into it.

I don't even know how to love a woman because of that. All my compound neighbours think I'm weired.
I went to school with no idea of what I wanted to become. So much confusion. Today, na doctor, tomorrow, na soldier, next na police, another time na footballer.

Gosh!
A broken home is a terrible thing.
If u need counselling i can help u out
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by zolapower: 10:20am On Jul 01, 2019
Dothraki:
bro, i am formally a deist now an agnostic.
Being a freethinker is the best thing that has ever happened to me.as a businessman I think more rationally than my fellow competitors which gave me a huge advantage.
I see things more clearly, and i am not subjected to bias
My rationality have fetched me so much money in my business shpere. I think more deeply before i made a business move
I know there is no God to save me. I dont discuss my religious convictions with anybody. I go to church if necessary and even i say good things about churches in most cases.

Bro, knowing the truth is a blessing. Trust me
You will have a very big advantage and will most certainly be more successful than religious folks if you are smart sha.
Dont discuss your beliefs unless you are sure the person is also a freethinker. And dont argue.
I need to learn from you please , I want to send u pm right away . So you can teach me more about deist and agnostic . I wanna be a free thinker too
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 10:55am On Jul 01, 2019
Maryjane001:
I v been best friends with these set of twins since first year.
Being an introvert,i became so used to them and we couldn't do without each other.
They knew me so well, and knew i was a very emotional person and that i hated insults.
One of them started liking me, and i liked him in return though i made it clear to him that i couldn't date him.
This guy was so addicted to me that he couldn't stay without hearing from me in a day.
During Vacation,the parents noticed and warned me to stay away from their son. That was odd because i was close to the parents. They even threatened to involve my parents if i didnt stay away.
I was confused because i didnt do anything wrong. But i stayed away for about 4 months. I blocked their lines. Even if we see each other in school ,we behave like strangers.
But i m a kind of person that hates having beef with someone particularly people i m very close to. I was the one wronged here but i just wanted to settle everything and have a clear head. That was when i received the greatest insult of my life.
I called them and told them that we had to meet in person so as to clear issues up. The one that liked me agreed but the other kept bringing excuses. I met with the one that liked me and talked about the issue and settled. But i told him not to tell his parents about it and he agreed. Later on, the twins fought each other and the one i wasnt too close to called me and was blaming me for the fight. Something i knew nothing about. That he was badly injured because of me. That anytime my name is mentioned in the house, his other twin just gets violent and told me to stay away. I called the one i liked and begged him to apologize to his brother.
I didnt want the matter to be one-sided so i offered to come to their lodge so as to talk with the other twin. I didnt know the location but they promised to come pick me. I waited for so long but none showed up, later their mom called me and was like she was looking for her son that she was sure he was with me. I told her i haven't seen him and also reminded her that she told me to stay away from her children. She warned me and the next thing i was seeing on social media was that i insulted their mother,that i called her names. As if i dont v a loving mother that i respect. They called me all manner of names on social media. I was reduced to an object of ridicule on their timelines.
I wasnt myself for months. I never cried but i was hurting badly inside.
My friend was there when i answered that call and was shocked herself.
I shared everything i had with these boys. I sacrificed so much for them as my friends. Even when sometimes they had nothing to eat,i will give them my food. Looking back at the things i sacrificed for them, i realized i was stupid.
I v moved on and thank God i have a better set of friends.

so sad ... Good intentions are always misunderstood

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 11:08am On Jul 01, 2019
Of all the bad things I've done, my biggest regret is the day I engaged in masturbation for the first time. It has reduced my self esteem to bits and wounded my conscience. The first day I did it, I was filled with so much guilt and promised my self not to do it again. That promise didn't last a day. I did it the following day, and till today, it seems almost impossible to get out of it. This crappy habit is ruining my life.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 11:51am On Jul 01, 2019
zed7:
I have a loving wife and kids, extended family and friends who love me. I have a great job, cars and properties. I'm educated, outgoing and sociable. People tell me I'm lucky to have things going well for me. I don't feel lucky, I actually wish most times that I wasn't born. Life is challenging, stressful and sometimes meaningless. I don't really think that a lot of the fun stuff we do are actually fun, they are just temporary distractions. There is too much suffering physically, emotionally and economically in this world. I wish I never had the opportunity of knowing there is such a f^^ed up place called earth.

Asin that's why I came up with a quote
#pleasure is illusion cos pain is constant#

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jul 01, 2019
GeniusWannabe:
Of all the bad things I've done, my biggest regret is the day I engaged in masturbation for the first time. It has reduced my self esteem to bits and wounded my conscience. The first day I did it, I was filled with so much guilt and promised my self not to do it again. That promise didn't last a day. I did it the following day, and till today, it seems almost impossible to get out of it. This crappy habit is ruining my life.
pls try find a way to stop it. Masturbation can destroy ur destiny. If u watching porn stop it cos that's the only way out.
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 01, 2019
GeniusWannabe:
Of all the bad things I've done, my biggest regret is the day I engaged in masturbation for the first time. It has reduced my self esteem to bits and wounded my conscience. The first day I did it, I was filled with so much guilt and promised my self not to do it again. That promise didn't last a day. I did it the following day, and till today, it seems almost impossible to get out of it. This crappy habit is ruining my life.
hahahahaahahaha.
I can relate with you.
But in my case,I got no shame again, after researching and found no side effect apart from self guilt.

I do pound pvssies that comes my way nonetheless.

Been doing it for almost 11 years and I don't see myself stopping anytime soon unless I marry.

No shame at all from my end.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by diji04(m): 2:36pm On Jul 01, 2019
Bad parenting during my childhood, couldn't do well at the University and finally dropout because of carry overs, bad friends and weed smoking, gambling, impulsive spending and seeing the sorry state of my family which finally got separated i was helpless, plus the constant reminder of my failed academic career by my aged Father and all the money he wasted why I was in school, seeing all these things is more depressing that sometimes I do curse the day I was given birth and how the rest of my siblings had suffered because of me. I just hope things would be alright cause age is still not on ma side.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by lateefGRDT(m): 3:39pm On Jul 01, 2019
Samyj247:
no kill ursef bros. if u kill ursef ur enemies go laf u. inbox mk I teach u one or two things to do online make money.
bro teach me too oo
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by diji04(m): 4:06pm On Jul 01, 2019
we just need to put our pass behind and focus on the present.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Iogobenz(m): 4:09pm On Jul 01, 2019
diji04:
Bad parenting during my childhood, couldn't do well at the University and finally dropout because of carry overs, bad friends and weed smoking, gambling, impulsive spending and seeing the sorry state of my family which finally got separated i was helpless, plus the constant reminder of my failed academic career by my aged Father and all the money he wasted why I was at school, seeing all these things is more depressing that sometimes I do curse the day I was given birth and how the rest of my siblings had suffered because of me. I just hope things would be alright cause age is still not on ma side.
school is not for everyone smiley
Las las na who make am,no be by degree!
Dust yourself up,forget about any damn education and move on to make money.it is all that matters.
Me sef no take school serious at all,but today,men dey on steady ballership cool

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Satan66(m): 4:12pm On Jul 01, 2019
traihit:


Do you also feel God has been so useless to your life? Is that why your moniker bears Satan in it? smiley
Trials are a part of life but it shouldn't be overwhelming and that's where our problems comes from. There are so many overwhelming challenges. But you have what it takes to rise university or not. Find time with yourself, retrace your faith back to God because He's the only solid support. He won't do your work for you, but He will strengthen you to overcome challenges.
Omfg
Bleep off with your useless God.
Y'all haven't seen god or even know if he exist.
All y'all have as evidence is a 10000 year old book with a shit ton of lies and garbage.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by diji04(m): 4:14pm On Jul 01, 2019
Iogobenz:
school is not for everyone smiley
Las las na who make am,no be by degree!
Dust yourself up,forget about any damn education and move on to make money.it is all that matters.
Me sef no take school serious at all,but today,men dey on steady ballership cool
yeah I am doing well now mentally son of man not fit carry last. thanks man.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by traihit: 4:25pm On Jul 01, 2019
Nope, what I have as evidence is not in a book, it's in my heart. Before I even knew a book about God exists, I knew God exists. Unless you've been blocking Him in your heart.


Satan66:

Omfg
Bleep off with your useless God.
Y'all haven't seen god or even know if he exist.
All y'all have as evidence is a 10000 year old book with a shit ton of lies and garbage.
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Heineken(m): 4:59pm On Jul 01, 2019
Since I served 2014 till now no job. It hasn't been easy...some of my friends dey really try for my life.

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