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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 12:04am On Jul 02, 2019
franchasng:
Hahahahahaha your last statement wants to burst my belly oh cheesy cheesy


God will see you through bro lol

You are very correct, but keep on dreaming. Find way to migrate that your distribution business online and leverage on the advantage internet and social media gives now.

Research and personal development plus goals helps too.

Do u know I rarely sleep cos it has become a habit for me for me stay up late reading, researching, jumping around foreign business forums to learn new ideas and digging up any idea that comes into my head and it has been helping me get to the little place I am today.

Branding is key, rebrand your business, take it online, do something different from the traditional, try it and see
Yes.you are right!
I do a lot of research but distribution has a limit.
It gets to a point where it reaches and start imploding.
Reason I tried to MOVE ON so many times but I haven't succeeded in making that leap yet.harsh truth I must be honest.
I tried marine business.wanted to partner with someone who has a functional company already and bankroll some activities.
But dude proposed a model where I will sit back and do nothing while I wait for 5% ROI every 23 days like I am some housewife lol.
I almost want break the bottle of beer he offered me in that meeting on his oblong head.to me,any business that I don't get to participate in it's activities is a bad business.
I went into wood exploitation some months back too but i needed machinery to be profitable which I couldn't afford and will take a very long time for the business to get to that point,say 10 yrs and i wasnt that patient and i jumped ship.
But I have re-strategized what i know too well successfully and will have different results hopefully before October.
Still on the dream though,infact,i will dream of Tony today and i will be putting on his black tracksuit angry
grin grin grin no mind me.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by franchasng: 12:04am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
This thread has lost focus, no thanks to antibrutus(don't know howvyou came about the moniker), franchasng, logobenz ....suddenly became a dreamers, class and networth tread, now people are talking about kitties... cheesy...please back to where we started!
that is why we where where we where we where where shocked

Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by CaptainMitch: 12:05am On Jul 02, 2019
Bossjakande:
am not gay pls

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 12:06am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
This thread has lost focus, no thanks to antibrutus(don't know howvyou came about the moniker), franchasng, logobenz ....suddenly became a dreamers, class and networth tread, now people are talking about kitties... cheesy...please back to where we started!

How exactly did this thread lose focus? How did I make it lose focus? Because most contributions so far have been on point.

Looks like you will be a problematic person.
Better change grin
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by franchasng: 12:10am On Jul 02, 2019
Iogobenz:
Yes.you are right!
I do a lot of research but distribution has a limit.
It gets to a point where it reaches and start imploding.
Reason I tried to MOVE ON so many times but I haven't succeeded in making that leap yet.harsh truth I must be honest.
I tried marine business.wanted to partner with someone who has a functional company already and bankroll some activities.
But dude proposed a model where I will sit back and do nothing while I wait for 5% ROI every 23 days like I am some housewife lol.
I almost want break the bottle of beer he offered me in that meeting on his oblong head.to me,any business that I don't get to participate in it's activities is a bad business.
I went into wood exploitation some months back too but i needed machinery to be profitable which I couldn't afford and will take a very long time for the business to get to that point,say 10 yrs and i wasnt that patient and i jumped ship.
But I have re-strategized what i know too well successfully and will have different results hopefully before October.
Still on the dream though,infact,i will dream of Tony today and i will be putting on hid black tracksuit angry
grin grin grin no mind me.
lol

Let me give you a clue to work on. That distribution business, is there an internet network for the distributors to connect with buyers or clients

I am sure none!

How about starting a project on how to develop a local platform with mobile app for distributors to connect with buyers from the comfort of their home or office or wherever

Honestly, there must be a way around it.

Same with the wood or timber business, you can create similar platform for them or a database for it.

Think differently.

Most times to make money you don't really need money but genuine practicable idea and skill
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:14am On Jul 02, 2019
AntiBrutus:


How exactly did this thread lose focus? How did I make it lose focus? Because most contributions so far have been on point.

Looks like you will be a problematic person.
Better change grin
I have changed oooo...a whole lot sef. You guys did the topic a great disservice. Ukwu i s already gaining prominence in the thread no thanks to franchasng et al

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by franchasng: 12:16am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
I have changed oooo...a whole lot sef. You guys did the topic a great disservice. Ukwu i s already gaining prominence in the thread no thanks to franchasng et al
without ukwu, what else are u going to discuss in woman romance matter bikozie shocked
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Adakintroy2: 12:16am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
And when you have a low opinion, people like you will say the guy has low self esteem or he is inferior...

No one is perfect. Marriage is more about you than the other person. Test of your forgiveness, love l, patience perseverance.

Mind you I never said one should have low opinion.

I only said .."TOO high..

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:20am On Jul 02, 2019
Iogobenz:
Yes.you are right!
I do a lot of research but distribution has a limit.
It gets to a point where it reaches and start imploding.
Reason I tried to MOVE ON so many times but I haven't succeeded in making that leap yet.harsh truth I must be honest.
I tried marine business.wanted to partner with someone who has a functional company already and bankroll some activities.
But dude proposed a model where I will sit back and do nothing while I wait for 5% ROI every 23 days like I am some housewife lol.
I almost want break the bottle of beer he offered me in that meeting on his oblong head.to me,any business that I don't get to participate in it's activities is a bad business.
I went into wood exploitation some months back too but i needed machinery to be profitable which I couldn't afford and will take a very long time for the business to get to that point,say 10 yrs and i wasnt that patient and i jumped ship.
But I have re-strategized what i know too well successfully and will have different results hopefully before October.
Still on the dream though,infact,i will dream of Tony today and i will be putting on his black tracksuit angry
grin grin grin no mind me.
Entrepreneurs are the future, you guys drive the real sector of the economy. It is good to have a big dream but try to understand if your business is a small Cale enterprise or a start-up...a small scale entreprise is not scalable. This may thwart your Elumelu dream. But all the ventures stated here are small scale though.
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 12:21am On Jul 02, 2019
franchasng:
lol

Let me give you a clue to work on. That distribution business, is there an internet network for the distributors to connect with buyers or clients

I am sure none!

How about starting a project on how to develop a local platform with mobile app for distributors to connect with buyers from the comfort of their home or office or wherever

Honestly, there must be a way around it.

Same with the wood or timber business, you can create similar platform for them or a database for it.

Think differently.

Most times to make money you don't really need money but genuine practicable idea and skill
I see.
These all add up now.you are an IT man right?
Well,more like taking people's brands that they have sole distributorship for and have built a name for it(purchase is from same manufacturer though),import it and claim it is going to other countries,when it gets to Africa(lands in transit country),reload it and SMUGGLE it into that restricted market or country.
Make easy,very volatile money grin
Now would you build an internet based network for that kind of business and stand at the forefront? undecided
Like meet Mr E,the founder and CEO of smuggled commodity xyz distribution inc that the distribution rights solely and rightfully belongs to Guinness grin grin grin
You want enter panti(prison) abi grin grin
Well,things are changing now like I said and I am building my own brand.lol

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Kwinesther: 12:21am On Jul 02, 2019
Lol see thinking...so because you have once successfully slept with a lady that asked for money on Instagram automatically means any lady that says e nu gbe on Whatsapp is a CONFIRMED prostitute? Come on!!! Laziness has reduced SOME ladies to zero worth and materialistic nonentities but its so so unwise to think every lady that asks for help on every sm platform is one. So you are saying there a no females that genuinely solicit for financial help on social media at all? (Not too good but doesn't change the fact that it isn't in anyway related to prostitution) Or there are no people that posts stuffs online just jokingly or for attention? Just like saying a person that posts inspirational/motivational quotes on social media is automatically doing well in life or my daily bible quotes on Instagram automatically means I'm a child of God...Lol smh.

I'm not surprised my comment sounds foolish to your hearing, with this your myopic sense of reasoning it sure will. Irrespective of that, I am still on my stand that everything we post on social media doesn't reflect who we truly are in life and also when it comes to socialising, especially in relationships thorough study of the partner should be observed with patience. Suuru lere!!!
Modphase:
Not sorry to say this but this is also a foolish comment. We all must not reduce every standard of being both moral or otherwise to celebrate foolish people. Human should strive to have a minimum level of foolishness they exhibit on line.
Imagine being married to an idiot that type e nu gbe as WhatsApp status ?!

Isn’t that a confirmation she a career olosho in disguise ?! I once met a pretty lady “complete stranger, we ain’t even friends” proffering she was broke on instagram, ask her for her account n sent her 15K. I ended sleeping with her few weeks later cos her interest in me grew but like every long throat I knew she was not to be kept.
because he listed rubbish he chose not to tolerate. You expect him to reduce his standard to date fools that lack self worth or respect to themselves n others ba ?

calgaryFriend
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 12:23am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
Entrepreneurs are the future, you guys drive the real sector of the economy. It is good to have a big dream but try to understand if your business is a small Cale enterprise or a start-up...a small scale entreprise is not scalable. This may thwart your Elumelu dream. But all the ventures stated here are small scale though.
It is what many people say till we start talking money smiley
Then you find out that all what you read in economics is bullshit kiss
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:23am On Jul 02, 2019
Adakintroy2:


No one is perfect. Marriage is more about you than the other person. Test of your forgiveness, love l, patience perseverance.

Mind you I never said one should have low opinion.

I only said .."TOO high..
sadly we only have extremes in life, left or right, right or wrong, good or bad . so it is high opinion or low opinion...
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:26am On Jul 02, 2019
Iogobenz:
It is what many people say till we start talking money smiley
Then you find out that all what you read in economics is bullshit kiss
it is good you start making money, the more money you make, the more money I make... So you see why I want you to make more
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 12:26am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
I have changed oooo...a whole lot sef. You guys did the topic a great disservice. Ukwu i s already gaining prominence in the thread no thanks to franchasng et al

I have gone through my comments. What were you expecting everyone to comment on? Strictly how hard it is to find partners

Of course it is normal we touch areas that influences this difficultly in finding and keeping partners. This includes work, location, ukwu...etc. Please, chill, life isn't that hard.

Are you a perfectionist?
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by franchasng: 12:29am On Jul 02, 2019
Iogobenz:
I see.
These all add up now.you are an IT man right?
Well,more like taking people's brands that they have sole distributorship for and have built a name for it(purchase is from same manufacturer though),import it and claim it is going to other countries,when it gets to Africa(lands in transit country),reload it and SMUGGLE it into that restricted market or country.
Make easy,very volatile money grin
Now would you build an internet based network for that kind of business and stand at the forefront? undecided
Like meet Mr E,the founder and CEO of smuggled commodity xyz distribution inc that the distribution rights solely and rightfully belongs to Guinness grin grin grin
You want enter panti(prison) abi grin grin
Well,things are changing now like I said and I am building my own brand.lol
Hahahahahaha hahahahahaha cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 12:30am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
it is good you start making money, the more money you make, the more money I make... So you see why I want you to make more
Hmmm..this one is in finance.
The more money I make,the more money you make can be true no doubt.
But does that really mean the more i HAVE=the more you HAVE?
You know MAKE and HAVE are 2 different things,especially in this context wink
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:35am On Jul 02, 2019
AntiBrutus:


I have gone through my comments. What were you expecting everyone to comment on? Strictly how hard it is to find partners

Of course it is normal we touch areas that influences this difficultly in finding and keeping partners. This includes work, location, ukwu...etc. Please, chill, life isn't that hard.

Are you a perfectionist?
Do I sound like one? Definitely not...if you read some of my topics here on nairaland you go know say I craze well....and for the ukwu part, I was once the king of ukwu but I have retired now angry
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:36am On Jul 02, 2019
Iogobenz:
Hmmm..this one is in finance.
The more money I make,the more money you make can be true no doubt.
But does that really mean the more i HAVE=the more you HAVE?
You know MAKE and HAVE are 2 different things,especially in this context wink
the more you make, the more I earn. Look at it this way, the more you make, the more you store (bank). The more you store, the more deposit I have. The more deposit I have, the more deal I close. The more deal I close, the more bonus I earn...it is a chain reaction
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 12:39am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
the more you make, the more I earn.
I got that now.
There is money in local,just that too many people can't see it,are feeling too big to see it or too dumb to see it.
I know what I am saying VERY VERY WELL. smiley
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by damzy88: 12:41am On Jul 02, 2019
Iogobenz:
I dey port harcourt o.
N.a. my sister dey Canada smiley
She's a doc and a CANADIAN wink
hahahha. I guess she is taken? embarassed cry
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:43am On Jul 02, 2019
Iogobenz:
I got that now.
There is money in local,just that too many people can't see it,are feeling too big to see it or too dumb to see it.
I know what I am saying VERY VERY WELL. smiley
you guys are supposed to access funds from bank to grow your business but oftentimes you guys font keep records and carryout simple bookkeeping. Some font even register their businesses
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 12:43am On Jul 02, 2019
damzy88:
hahahha. I guess she is taken? embarassed cry
unfortunately,yes.
But you can always find someone better,come on...cheer up!
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Adakintroy2: 12:45am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
sadly we only have extremes in life, left or right, right or wrong, good or bad . so it is high opinion or low opinion...

Sadly thats not true.. You a good mathematicians when you find balance for your equaltions. We do have extremes but also Points of convegence.

Like hot, cold and warm



Right left and center




High opinion, low opinion, balanced opinion.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 12:46am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
you guys are supposed to access funds from bank to grow your business but oftentimes you guys font keep records and carryout simple bookkeeping. Some font even register their businesses
There is so much volatility in international trade,hence you'll hardly find a person in it that's got balls enough to run such business on structured credit.
For me,no.even though I've been proposed deals like these many times.
It has rendered so many of my peers bankrupt.
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:46am On Jul 02, 2019
Kwinesther:
Lol see thinking...so because you have once successfully slept with a lady that asked for money on Instagram automatically means any lady that says e nu gbe on Whatsapp is a CONFIRMED prostitute? Come on!!! Laziness has reduced SOME ladies to zero worth and materialistic nonentities but its so so unwise to think every lady that asks for help on every sm platform is one. So you are saying there a no females that genuinely solicit for financial help on social media at all? (Not too good but doesn't change the fact that it isn't in anyway related to prostitution) Or there are no people that posts stuffs online just jokingly or for attention? Just like saying a person that posts inspirational/motivational quotes on social media is automatically doing well in life or my daily bible quotes on Instagram automatically means I'm a child of God...Lol smh.

I'm not surprised my comment sounds foolish to your hearing, with this your myopic sense of reasoning it sure will. Irrespective of that, I am still on my stand that when it comes to socialising, especially in relationships thorough study of the partner should be observed with patience. Suuru lere!!!
you shouldn't ask for help. It is wrong by all standard. You shouldn't beg. It is the lowest ebb of living. Unless one has a terminal illness then begging to pay hospital bills is understandable. Else on no account should you beg.bit is very wrong and shameful

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:52am On Jul 02, 2019
Adakintroy2:


Not absolute yout take. You a good mathematicians when you find balance for your equaltions. We do have extremes but also Points of convegence.

Like hot and cold and warm.



High opinion, low opinion, balanced opinion.

hmmmmmmmmnnnn cheesy...nice one. A balanced opinion is relative
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Kwinesther: 12:53am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
you shouldn't ask for help. It is wrong by all standard. You shouldn't beg. It is the lowest ebb of living. Unless one has a terminal illness then begging to pay hospital bills is understandable. Else on no account should you beg.bit is very wrong and shameful
I don't and will never beg, just saying hasty conclusions which we mostly do is wrong.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Adakintroy2: 1:05am On Jul 02, 2019
bluskyee:
hmmmmmmmmnnnn cheesy...nice one. A balanced opinion is relative

Even so low/high opinions. lol

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 2:04am On Jul 02, 2019
gift3d:
Finding a life partner can be so tasking. I pray we don't make mistakes
let marry.
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by RedCapChief(m): 5:23am On Jul 02, 2019
calgaryFriend:

Hey brotherly , thank you for your response. I have attended a few cultural events but I stopped attending cos most ladies I see are over 30 years old.
I can tell you I am yet to see a <30year old single Nigerian lady , not that they dont exist but I have yet to meet them.
I am sure even you may not know too many, so I just got tired and decided to give up on the option of finding my category of people here, cos truly before a lady will be able to be set for express entry and stuff they will either me more than 30 years or very close.

So it is quite complicated....

It's because you're in Calgary na. Come down to Ontario smiley Yet you are right. I live here and know how difficult it is to find what you are looking for. For them to be brought up in Nigeria, less than 25years and LEGAL, her parents would have brought her here after secondary school. If they did that, she would definitely be in University/College and not thinking about marriage in the near future. You may not find the youth you are looking for (< 25yrs) but down-to-earth Nigerian ladies dey here sha

Besides, I don't think you stop attending cultural events. Somebody may know somebody who knows somebody. This is summer o! You should be out every weekend.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by gift3d(f): 6:00am On Jul 02, 2019
dancok:
let marry.
shocked shocked just like that shocked where is the venue? grin

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