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| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Nobody: 2:32am On Jul 02, 2019 |
livebyday:One of the best answers in my opinion. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Nobody: 2:35am On Jul 02, 2019 |
spiritedtete:Another great answer! |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by namiji2598: 2:44am On Jul 02, 2019 |
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| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Morenigbenga(m): 2:55am On Jul 02, 2019 |
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| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by felicialee: 3:13am On Jul 02, 2019 |
You have two choices: First, resign and maximize the potential negative impact on your uncle. Second, you have to work hard, show your ability in the company, let others convinced! This will also improve the influence of your uncle. https://www.netclipart.com/pp/m/52-522903_hard-working-clip-art-hard-working-women-clipart.png. https://www.pinpng.com/pngs/m/89-899956_strong-arm-png-strong-arm-cartoon-transparent-png.png. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Nobody: 3:15am On Jul 02, 2019 |
It will pass! Just maintain ur lane Me77: |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Nobody: 3:24am On Jul 02, 2019 |
i blame your uncle for helping you secure the job in the first...... he soon loose his job cos he help you |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Gandokii(m): 3:25am On Jul 02, 2019 |
U did well bro, I understand u cos I am in a similar situation but not as bad as ur case. Don't ever think of leaving the job, becos at the end. Ur uncle will blame you for leaving while that's wat he wishes for....In most work places colleagues or managers oppress their fellow colleagues for no reason, especially those the see that knows their no6 on the job. The see them as threat. Don't blame ur uncle much, seems he is not well placed to fix u in a better unit or influence changing u when you complained. The dust will go down with time, just try and please ur new unit head at ur best, mind ur biz at work, greet always with a smile especially to ur former unit head and put it in prayers. Then try and save up....in case it gets as bad as u resigning. But I pray it won't. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Dewisedick: 3:30am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Don't let their treathening and talk way you down from doing your normal duty well. And do not because of how people in that company behave to you you stop greeting anyone. Do your work well and make sure you are not part of anything that could implicate you (remember, they can plan a set up). Most importantly, I remember have thuff issues as this some 2, 3 years ago. I used to settle it in the secret place of prayer. Believe me if you go to God secretly in your room I discuss what you want with HIM, you will come out stron in the purblic. There is this peace you will have over the matter and be rest assured, you will come out victorious at the end. Those days I used to Narates how every body is working against me to God in my prayer and I never had time to discuss such issues with any one at work place, not even at home. I behave nothing is happening at all. Ant the end when they have all row and tired they came telling that I should keep holding to my God saying that my God is good. Today i enjoy my work like you don't want to know. Pray, pray and pray... At midnight, early morning and while at work let your heart be talking to God always. And please, do not make quarrel with anyone because the are acting against you in the matter. Best luck!!! |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Nobody: 3:32am On Jul 02, 2019 |
SarkinYarki:exactly |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Nobody: 3:40am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77:Hold on. . . What type of job makes someone work a seven day week? That is ENSLAVEMENT |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Beercentsguru(m): 3:53am On Jul 02, 2019 |
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| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Plebian(f): 3:57am On Jul 02, 2019 |
forget what sisioge told you. do not be humble. I repeat, do not be humble, crazy Nigerians always expecting people to be humble so they can massage their bruised Ego. so long as you can deliver on the job you owe no one humility, they will take your humility and force you to the ground. stand proud, be bold, have fire in your eyes, it's just a job, nothing on earth is worth your dignity. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by clemzo101(m): 4:03am On Jul 02, 2019 |
That is why it is never advisable to let people know about your relationship. I once worked for a company that has my sister as a major contractor, she got me the job but we never behave like we know each other, no greetings, nothing nothing except on official grounds, I just refer to her as Madam, lol. I give her info concerning the company, I even advise against some supplyies and so on. There was a time I was in a meeting and they planned asking her to make supplies with the assurance that she will be paid under 1month whereas they don't intend to pay her till like 6months. I quickly called her to give her the info. She didn't make that supply. The mistake was letting everyone know he is your uncle. Just be careful and do your job diligently. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by fidkel: 4:42am On Jul 02, 2019 |
My brother you have done nothing wrong. Desperate times call for desperate measures and so what you did is just what's obtainable in such situations. When a man is running for his dear life, he unconsciously does things he would not be able to do under normal circumstances. You took the bull by the horn and I dare say you have added a feather to your own nest. Did you not say that they testified that you have done the impossible? Be proud, but also be humble and careful and dedicated. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by emkz: 5:29am On Jul 02, 2019 |
What I dont understand is how someone creates a toxic and hostile environment and expect optimal output. When people work in fear, productivity takes a huge blow. Managers know this, yet they adopt intimidation as a tool for control, yet I wonder why companies retain them. You did the right thing. If I was in your shoes, I'd probably do the same. I have observed such behaviour in the work-place (not done to me though), and these pricks will carry on until you hold a candle to them. You are not living because you work, you are working because you live; so your self-preservation is critical for your success at work. And IF you can in the future, get a job where the people do not know your family. This can reduce complications that may have required tact to deal with. Time being, realize that you are a marked man, and any mishap can land you on the exit door. Be careful and pray. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by smasher1(m): 5:36am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77:You betrayed him. Work involves politics and has effects on you and your uncle |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Ten06(m): 5:39am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Guy stay tight there, don't go anywhere. The devil know that you will attain a very top position in that company within a short time that is why all these are happening. The deed has been done, keep a low profile, something will happen that will turn everything around and your uncle will be happy for the action you have taken so far |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Nobody: 6:03am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77:I looked 4 d betrayal with a microscope - I can't find any. Ur uncle knew he wasn't in good terms with dat bross... yet gallant ly packaged kasala give u by acceeding to his request ![]() U just did what any career counselor would have advised u to do. It is called: Survival Tactics Not everyone has it. Not everyone knows how to find his way around his boss. Not everyone knows how to network his way up around d executives. Its a social skill that can.facilitate ur way up - as fast as d speed of light. If u have it, cherish it. Those that are gonna be jealous of u and prob. start ganging up against u. Here're my pieces of advice: 1. Be honest in ur works. Leave no dark trace behind u. 3. Be diligent 2. Be prayerful. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Bet9ja15157: 6:15am On Jul 02, 2019 |
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| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Taich(m): 6:25am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77:Hello man up, this is life, is it not always rosy, smooth or a cool, if the salary is cool, stay there, form your own cartel, start by using what you have to influence some of your colleagues. Fortune still favours the bold , be bold as you have been and increase your performance, show your new manager what an asset you are to him, with time, he will be the one speaking good things about you. Shalom |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by inspector1(m): 6:28am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Ur mama hard earn money which she used in sending you to school was never a waste. Never blamed urself for what happened, relax ur mind and enjoy ur work but u must be careful not to fall into trap. Never be shy to stand up for ur right....... |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Jaqenhghar: 6:39am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77:It seems you spend a lot of time listening to people and worrying about what people think about you. Why not focus on doing your job. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Jaqenhghar: 6:41am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Sounds like a typical Niggerian organization where gossip and small talk overrules hard work and productivity |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by DavidEsq(m): 6:41am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Theyoungmatron:Now this is Power. I just love this. So dope. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by themanderon: 6:44am On Jul 02, 2019 |
I love people that take the bull by the horns and shake boundaries. People like you are what this country is lacking that's why everything is in a complete mess. They will rather protest against a pastor but put their tails in between their legs while this government continue to take away their liberties and rights on a daily basis. Just focus on your job and be good to everyone. You will eventually be okay that's all. You have done the impossible and there will always be opposition to what you have done that's Nigerians for you, natural born cowards. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Olasty(f): 6:49am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77: |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by deltateam: 6:49am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77:Op to be honest. I am beginning to like you in a Godly way. You shouldn't quit, just be careful and don't eat or drink anything in that evil company. I hope the pay is worth it. For your Uncle, let him face the music he was encouraging you to dance with time it would cool You didn't intend to hurt him but what kind of sycophantic company that managers can't see the Director? Stay safe, mind your work. You are emancipated from mental and work slavery. Chill with Bob Marley's "Redemption song". |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Juicybreed(m): 6:51am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77:Please be careful not to make another mistake that you Will regret. Your not loyal to your Supposed Uncle. It is a big betrayal.What you did was so wrong and show of arrogance. Your a Man and can make your decisions. You could have decided to quite your Job. Your Mother won't kill you. Better stick to him and your God, that's the best you can do. |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Juicybreed(m): 6:53am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Me77:Please be careful not to make another mistake that you Will regret. Your not loyal to your Supposed Uncle. It is a big betrayal.What you did was so wrong and show of arrogance. Your a Man and can make your decisions. You could have decided to quite your Job. Your Mother won't kill you. Better stick to your Uncle and your God, that's the best you can do. I pray you survive it. Wish you Luck |
| Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Wallade(m): 6:59am On Jul 02, 2019 |
ChrisTeck:It is a wrong advice. |
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