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peerless0012:
I have been thinking about this for long. Why are many Nigerian men crazy about dating and marrying women from developed countries such as US, UK Germany, etc. They don't even care about skin colour so far you live in such a country you become an object of attraction to them.


Over the years I have been privileged to meet many whites and I'm still alarmed at the number of Nigerian men, specially from Edo state dating and marrying foreigners. They don't even care if the women are divorced, widowed and with kids.
This has become a common trend these days.


Let discusss. What could be responsible for this. Do people do this to escape poverty in the country or what?

What are the pros and cons of this craze.


Let rub mind together, dear Naira landers.

franchasng:
Any foreign chick that resemble any of the ladies below should DM let's help Nigeria grow, say no to black monkeys melanin popping with mediocre and corruption, black race need white blessing to escape the nature's curse on black race


Why are all black nations backward technologically, scientifically, economically, developmentally, everythingcally, why My black brothers pls if you see a white lady u like that accepts to marry u, pls marry her asap and help the black race evolve

lilwetdick:
you are dumb..so you think the woman will give you her wealth when the children are alive...how old are you, learn to think with your brain

sisipelebe:
That's not even my problem, my major concern is that they should marry someone younger, than marrying someone that is old enough to be their granny.

franchasng:
Any foreign chick that resemble any of the ladies below should DM let's help Nigeria grow, say no to black monkeys melanin popping with mediocre and corruption, black race need white blessing to escape the nature's curse on black race


Why are all black nations backward technologically, scientifically, economically, developmentally, everythingcally, why My black brothers pls if you see a white lady u like that accepts to marry u, pls marry her asap and help the black race evolve

franchasng:
Vote me President of Nigeria come 2023 and watch out the transformation that will set in, but will you backward, tribalistic, terrorist loving, suffering smiling Nigerian youths support me and my campaign to grab the seat of power along side my team of young successful intellects being assembled from around the world and from all fields of life That I doubt and reason I give up on the black race, if not tell me why a terrorist loving, uneducated jihadist, tribal bigot Buhari will become the President of 200million reasonable humans

aseosa:
You're disgusting.
You are just a sex starved animal.

You should ask yourself which black woman will fall for a fool.
If is not just because of their love of money.

In other words you're dumb

AkataWoman:
I’m curious: How did you meet?
What kind of work do you do?
What are your job plans in America?

(And be honest: I don’t know you.) Why are you marrying this foreigner? What are your plans after getting the green card?

franchasng:
You know the problem you black monkeys have You think I am talking about acquiring filthy paper called money....anybody can acquire money even a fool can become rich by luck and chance....I am talking about collective national progress...collective progress and advancement of the black race in technology, science, innovation, economy, infrastructure, etc....not about paper money because money is nothing and that is why you black monkeys are so backward....all your mission is to make money and start to showoff and brag....but collectively, the black race is a failure, kiss the truth

iammiracle1:
Lol, that was before abeg, now only mostly lazy day-dream unaspiring men do it, most have realize that befriending whites asides the feeling of smashing a white skinned person they aren't all that, their rules mostly favor them especially when you are not a black athlete or celebrity, and most hardworking men now know there are easier ways of getting permits, passports, citizenships etc without engaging in short corners, my bro in Aussie called me the other day to help him look for 9ja babe wey dey educated and hardworking, the white millenials wey get prospect no dey to gbadu blacks, the ones wey gree, you go dey under their thumb because any f.uck up dem go report you drop one allegation for your head, and the guy don see say he fit school finish, get PR, become citizen so why him go come dey dull himself? Las Las black dey sweet sha, nah porn & movies dey make guys them think white nah all that, some of them their skin dey get spot & craw craw things.

We abuse & demean black women but the truth still remains if you find a relatively good woman and truly love, care, show kindness and treat her right 99% of the time she would remain loyal to the last, its when you treat a woman like dirt & still expect her to act sane...love knows no color sha, anyone wey person jam, take am

khiaa:
Whites are no more intelligent than any other races, what in the world is wrong with you? That inferiority complex is very unattractive.

The difference in these white countries is the wealth they gained through slavery which gives them the opportunity to create new ideas in technology and many other ideas which a lot of these inventions were created by super intelligent blacks.

AkataWoman:
As I read through this thread, a revelation that I had recently struck me again: Nigerian men and women are one and the same. The whole world knows about the scamming Nigerian man who marries for a green card then acts an ass and leaves or brings his real wife over from Nigeria. We also know that the real wife and the man’s entire family will be in on the scam. We’ve even heard of the man moving the Nigerian wife in with the foreign wife, pretending she is his sister or cousin. The lack of humanity and regard for others is astounding to us foreigners. But we have known African men to be this way for a long time.

Lately I’ve learned Nigerian women are just as deceitful. They’ll chase anything white or foreign they see in Nigeria because he represents a green card. They’ll also sleep with anybody and particularly love married men because they’re established and can give money.

So it seems this greedy, user mentality is a Nigerian/3rd world desperation thing. It’s not just men who lack integrity but a societal thing. I’m sure it’s not EVERYONE but it’s enough that you should be able to realize you really can’t insult one another about this issue because both of you-the men and women-are equally horrible and perfectly matched.

khiaa:
Wow!!! Unbelievable!! I'm flabbergasted right now but I will get at you later about this post.

grandstar:
The answer is simple: poverty or severe poverty. A foreign wife is perceived as a ticket to prosperity by them.

When China was still poor, many were eager to marry Westerners but with a per capita income now about thrice Nigeria, they've lost a lot of that interest.

Poverty is the primary issue

The urge to travel abroad for a better life falls drastically when per capita income touches $8,000. Nigeria is barely $2,500 so the country still has a long way to go

martineverest:
Nigeria men marry white because of passport of permanent residency..most of the naija men who are married to white have naija wives in naija or some secretly marry naija woman while still married to white

princfred:
If the average white chick that will help a poor black man get visa is high on that orientation like their black counterparts they wont be nearing poor black guys and even offering anything as well.

Example: how many naija chicks ugly, fat or beautiful come to pick (lets say get picked by) a local dude to marry after making it abroad? While their white counterparts not necessarily all ugly ones, pick naija guys.
Your average back babe is not interested in offering you anything you cant offer yourself but more interested in what material things you have to offer especially more than she already has while the average poor white chick come in trying to offer whatever she has. If the man decided to remain lazy after the life changing opportunity she has offered him then she has every right to throw him out.
I'm trying to make you see the reality that there is a difference in mental approach towards a relationship by white chicks and naija ones not from theory but in practise.
What does the average niaja babe aspire or do willingly offer akin to visa which the average poor white chick do offer? More often than not the naija babes are have hypergamic not symbiotic orientation towards relationship.

peerless0012:
I have been thinking about this for long. Why are many Nigerian men crazy about dating and marrying women from developed countries such as US, UK Germany, etc. They don't even care about skin colour so far you live in such a country you become an object of attraction to them.


Over the years I have been privileged to meet many whites and I'm still alarmed at the number of Nigerian men, specially from Edo state dating and marrying foreigners. They don't even care if the women are divorced, widowed and with kids.
This has become a common trend these days.


Let discusss. What could be responsible for this. Do people do this to escape poverty in the country or what?

What are the pros and cons of this craze.


Let rub mind together, dear Naira landers.

lilwetdick:
the stuff is this if you dont have anything to offer while should they also offer you something....so are telling me that in this Nigeria, no woman has ever offer any man anything, what about the case of a woman that paid the husband house rent, what about women here in Nigeria that take care of their broke bf and at the end he eventually left her for amaka down the street there are lot of women here in Nigeria willing to help but will think twice because of how Nigerian men behave...

Ugosample:
a lot of women in Nigeria were raised to collect and not give

Why are you denying this?

Every one knows

I grew up and spent my early years in NiggerArea so I know

I will not join to bash the ladies tho

Nigerian ladies are largely victims of their environment and upbringing
This is to blame for a lot of things

lilwetdick:
that is because we live in a traditional society where society believes the man has to provide... some women also give, i have seen it often and we shouldnt deny that fact.

you said nigger area, arent you a nigger in front of white people

Ugosample:
there is no such thing as "traditional"

ultra conservative is more like it

Bigcowhorn:
Lack of knowledge kill monkey

AkataWoman:
As I read through this thread, a revelation that I had recently struck me again: Nigerian men and women are one and the same. The whole world knows about the scamming Nigerian man who marries for a green card then acts an ass and leaves or brings his real wife over from Nigeria. We also know that the real wife and the man’s entire family will be in on the scam. We’ve even heard of the man moving the Nigerian wife in with the foreign wife, pretending she is his sister or cousin. The lack of humanity and regard for others is astounding to us foreigners. But we have known African men to be this way for a long time.

Lately I’ve learned Nigerian women are just as deceitful. They’ll chase anything white or foreign they see in Nigeria because he represents a green card. They’ll also sleep with anybody and particularly love married men because they’re established and can give money.

So it seems this greedy, user mentality is a Nigerian/3rd world desperation thing. It’s not just men who lack integrity but a societal thing. I’m sure it’s not EVERYONE but it’s enough that you should be able to realize you really can’t insult one another about this issue because both of you-the men and women-are equally horrible and perfectly matched.

franchasng:
lol, I love white people generally cos of their super intelligence especially in technology and innovation, their ability think what's not existing bring it into existence, their ability to make so many impossibilities to become possible.

On women issue, I love all women from all races that have nice curvy shape and ukwu; be it black, white, Indian, Arab or Caribbean


So me supporting black guys dating white women is because I want us to have mix population and see if it can help develop and evolve the black race

lilwetdick:
, what are you offering the white woman that feeds, house and cloth you? pls tell me

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AkataWoman:
Yet you responded to me.

You know, you coulda just scrolled on.

khiaa:
It's too bad you don't have the intellect of a monkey.

lilwetdick:
but then again lets be thoughtful..some of the homeless men, is it not the white women that make them homeless, now she brings in a new boy from africa, recycle him then after usage throw him out to the street to join his fellow brethen, then she gets another one, it goes like a cycle until she is old

you are acting let black women are only the problem, black men should also check themselves.. also white women are no different, they are opportunist, gold diggers and leach agents that will dry you off your money, control your lives, report you to the police and harass you when the times comes. go ask their men and some african guys that got married to them, what they will tell you will suprise you, they act like babies because their destiny is in the hand of the white woman.

urahara:
This explains why citizens of south Africa , Botswana and Namibia aren't as desperate as west Africans to travel to obodoyibo.

grandstar:
The answer is simple: poverty or severe poverty. A foreign wife is perceived as a ticket to prosperity by them.

When China was still poor, many were eager to marry Westerners but with a per capita income now about thrice Nigeria, they've lost a lot of that interest.

Poverty is the primary issue

The urge to travel abroad for a better life falls drastically when per capita income touches $8,000. Nigeria is barely $2,500 so the country still has a long way to go

grandstar:
The answer is simple: poverty or severe poverty. A foreign wife is perceived as a ticket to prosperity by them.

When China was still poor, many were eager to marry Westerners but with a per capita income now about thrice Nigeria, they've lost a lot of that interest.

Poverty is the primary issue

The urge to travel abroad for a better life falls drastically when per capita income touches $8,000. Nigeria is barely $2,500 so the country still has a long way to go

AkataWoman:
As I read through this thread, a revelation that I had recently struck me again: Nigerian men and women are one and the same. The whole world knows about the scamming Nigerian man who marries for a green card then acts an ass and leaves or brings his real wife over from Nigeria. We also know that the real wife and the man’s entire family will be in on the scam. We’ve even heard of the man moving the Nigerian wife in with the foreign wife, pretending she is his sister or cousin. The lack of humanity and regard for others is astounding to us foreigners. But we have known African men to be this way for a long time.

Lately I’ve learned Nigerian women are just as deceitful. They’ll chase anything white or foreign they see in Nigeria because he represents a green card. They’ll also sleep with anybody and particularly love married men because they’re established and can give money.

So it seems this greedy, user mentality is a Nigerian/3rd world desperation thing. It’s not just men who lack integrity but a societal thing. I’m sure it’s not EVERYONE but it’s enough that you should be able to realize you really can’t insult one another about this issue because both of you-the men and women-are equally horrible and perfectly matched.

lilwetdick:
why are you more interested in what the white woman has to offer..is that not gold digging and entailment mentality, why arnt you thinking of what to offer her, now, i will like to ask you, what are you offering the white woman that feeds, house and cloth you? pls tell me

as Nigerian women are gold digging so as white women, there are no saints here or who is better.