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Young man, what happened is just a sample. You can still go ahead to live with an addict. The next time will be obituary, thank God you survive
food poising and stabbing. You may not be lucky again. How many drug addict can stop it willingly without God intervention. You better take a radical decision today. The change you are expecting may never come. I wish you quick recovery.

NGO will maintain perfect silent now but its other way round protest will start from all over the country, bunch of hypocrites

Donald95:
He married beauty without considering Compatibility. If you find a wrong woman, Then , Truly you have been sentenced to hell B4 judgement.

Stay away Feminists, They are terrible in marriage. They will never bend to correction but rather always see as being held against her wish. Young non-Feminists, Stay away from Rant HQ

Thank God for you survived to clarify this because Dead man tells no tale and will always carry the blame levied on it.

Her mother some how likes him

Godoverevery:
You should be the one to use ur brain better than emotions and sentiment.
By law all over the world 18yrs is still consider an adult not a child and in 2016 she was 19yrs there about....from the the man narrative she from a well to do home and her parents are actually not illiterate since both parents can be on whatapp....so I don't think they actually force her.....the Bible didn't specify any age for marriage but I also disapprove any lady getting married at 18-23.....but what I never accept is you equating bad behaviours or anger issue to age.
I don't get what you trying to prove but don't you think is stupid for anyone to take anyone life over such a matter.
like who justify someone also getting killed by is wife because he took her phone away......I guess the dick heads.

Where did you read that she got married at 18 or 19?

Even if individuals are considered adults at 18 years, does that make each and every 18 year old female mature enough or ready for the rigors that comes with marriage and parenting?

Besides, this is his side of his story which you obviously believe which means you are the one being subjective here.

What are you saying?

Use your head for once before I start insulting the living day light out of you.

See as she fine

There you have sharia people who pose as holier than thou.
So promiscuity prevails in hotels in Kano even with their Hisbah sharia police ?
I tthought sharia states should be holy lands !

Acjohn:
Most times it's better you save yourself than your in-laws image or your marriage

You are absolutely right.

Donald95:
He married beauty without considering Compatibility. If you find a wrong woman, Then , Truly you have been sentenced to hell B4 judgement.

Stay away Feminists, They are terrible in marriage. They will never bend to correction but rather always see as being held against her wish. Young non-Feminists, Stay away from Rant HQ

Thank God for you survived to clarify this because Dead man tells no tale and will always carry the blame levied on it.

Best comment I've read on Nairaland this beautiful morning. Feminist are terrible people indeed, met one couple of months ago and decided to give us a trial if possible we could work out,loz bbe begin show me some traits..i asked madam "are u a feminist? She said partially" Naso I carry my life run commot o!..coz dating her and trying to raise shoulder with me been the man is irritating and might lead to beating and the society will term u a woman beater. Most of this ladies doesn't understand what feminism is all about.

koyyess:
Where did you read that she got married at 18 or 19?

Even if individuals are considered adults at 18 years, does that make each and every 18 year old female mature enough or ready for the rigors that comes with marriage and parenting?

Besides, this is his side of his story which you obviously believe which means you are the one being subjective here.

What are you saying?

Use your head for once before I start insulting the living day light out of you.

Read the man post again but this more slower with ur glasses on with using intellectual part of ur brain.... you will see were he said his wife and mother have first posted several video and messages about this incident while he was still on hospital bed.
most of us here Have actually read the wife side of the story lsomedays back(I advise you go find the post and read aswell).....which made no sense.
Even marrying a lady at 30 does that guarantee a peaceful marriage......stop using the age as an excuse here to justify anything .....what is wrong is wrong.

LilMissFavvy:
''even on the day before the marriage, her father sat her down and told her this is her last opportunity to chose a husband''. Stupid father/stupid husband/stupid culture. He forced himself on a 21 year old student for marriage. It is only bad parents that pressurize young students into marriage. You were busy checking your wife's phone. Open your own phone and show her what you have been hiding as well . When a girl is not mentally ready for marriage, it's a risk forcing her into marriage.

This is very shameful madam!!! Better retract this.

Hedonini:
"You were busy checking your wife's phone" means what? You're very stupid.

I was surprised with such a pathetic submission from that girl.
She must be a feminist.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]I suspect there is a sexual angle to this ruckus....The apparent lack of oxytocin induced bonding between both parties must have triggered the lady's juvenile deliquencies. The lady might have pent up energy which the man isn't interested in satisfying maybe due to his conservative nature as a Muslim or whatever ( I didn't say impotence). As it is,they have no kid which is quite unusual for a Muslim couple which also elucidates our point of lack of good satisfying-sex-induced oxytocin for emotional bonding between the couple or maybe there is no sex at all...[/color]

lol like seriously, this kinda makes sense

Feminist won't say anything now ooo, is like very soon men will turn marriage to become monarchy system��� no forgiveness

Godoverevery:
Read the man post again but this more slower with ur glasses on with using intellectual part of ur brain.... you will see were he said his wife and mother have first posted several video and messages about this incident while he was still on hospital bed.
most of us here Have actually read the wife side of the story lsomedays back(I advise you go find the post and read aswell).....which made no sense.
Even marrying a lady at 30 does that guarantee a peaceful marriage......stop using the age as an excuse here to justify anything .....what is wrong is wrong.

I see you have refused to use your head.

It is obvious you are very passionate about this story because you and the man have the same IQ and behave like blind bats. That is why you both make horrible decisions when it comes to relationships/marriage.

If you knew the essence of dating/courtship, you wouldn't have displayed your ignorance here.

At least, you would have been smart enough to weigh the pros and cons to know why child marriage 'generally' is a bad idea.

Look up again at the term 'generally'.

Ode.

Nobody should believe this man, even though am against the woman stabbing him, this man is lying, he's just talking trash

koyyess:
I see you have refused to use your head.

It is obvious you are very passionate about this story because you and the man have the same IQ and behave like blind bats. That is why you both make horrible decisions when it comes to relationships/marriage.

If you knew the essence of dating/courtship, you wouldn't have displayed your ignorance here.

At least, you would have been smart enough to weigh the pros and cons to know why child marriage 'generally' is a bad idea.

Look up again at the term 'generally'.

Ode.

I just actually just took a look at ur profile..... didn't know ooo.
Now I understand better

One thing is that Muslims are not trying for their female children. They are always monitored and once they have any means they instantly go gaga. I know of one tina who's a slot in onitsha. Most of them are lesbians. No doubt. I know a lot of them but that ain't my business. Muslims is a no no no. The girl had little opportunity she have to use it cuz she didn't enjoy her youth age

pcguru1:
On the flip side both parties could be lying too anyway we humans are messed up

Both parties always lie... It's the way of the world.

I'm surprised all these happened in kano state.
The so called sharia state where promiscuity if frowned upon heavily.
Do we need say more that we keep deceiving ourselves in the name of religion? I hope they'll put their sharia law in practice this time.

Apus:
Unfortunately the world listens and believe women more than it does to men.

but so unfortunately the revise is d case...women are all wh*res...so scared of gettin married sumday cos d married 1s are even worse.

After reading both sides of the story, I totally believe this man's story. I had my reservations while the wife's story was being peddled as facts with people saying it serves the husband right.

All of you that swallowed the lady's tale, you see yourself now?

Yes, she must have been 18 when she forced into marriage.

freemi:
I agree wit u. See fire go put leg. BTW she was even arnd 18yrs wen der married cuz he accused her of cheating in 2016

koyyess:
Where did you read that she got married at 18 or 19?

Even if individuals are considered adults at 18 years, does that make each and every 18 year old female mature enough or ready for the rigors that comes with marriage and parenting?

Besides, this is his side of his story which you obviously believe which means you are the one being subjective here.

What are you saying?

Use your head for once before I start insulting the living day light out of you.

an 18 year old is an adult anywhere in the world and they are held fully accountable for their actions, unless they have proven mental disability.

Is immaturity an excuse for crime for an adult? Is being female a mental disability?

I wonder the day you ladies would start being accountable for your own mess up. You blame everyone and everything else but yourselves.

LilMissFavvy:
''even on the day before the marriage, her father sat her down and told her this is her last opportunity to chose a husband''. Stupid father/stupid husband/stupid culture. He forced himself on a 21 year old student for marriage. It is only bad parents that pressurize young students into marriage. You were busy checking your wife's phone. Open your own phone and show her what you have been hiding as well . When a girl is not mentally ready for marriage, it's a risk forcing her into marriage.

u are talking arrant nonsense.

Bahddo:
an 18 year old is an adult anywhere in the world and they are held fully accountable for their actions, unless they have proven mental disability.

Is immaturity an excuse for crime for an adult? Is being female a mental disability?

I wonder the day you ladies would start being accountable for your own mess up. You blame everyone and everything else but yourselves.

I repeat, where was it written she got married at 18?

You say she should be held accountable for her actions. Do you know if her so called marriage to the man was an action made solely by her?

Are all 18 year olds mature enough for marriage and parenting?

Use your head.

She must have married at 18 or 19. As a guy can you marry at 21? Times have changed, women are supposed to chose whom they want to marry at the age they desire. Highest parents can do is to advice and pray for them, not to force or threaten. But I can't possibly expect a pudding-headed sun-of-a-gun like you to understand this.

greenguy:
You're sick. Where in the whole story did u read that she was forced into marriage and taught you that a 21year old is too young for marriage?

It is actually said that those who support a particular evil are often actors of the same evil. I'm sure you don't have regard for men yourself and probably have dreams of a happy marriage. Perhaps you're so generous with your pus.sy and don't want to be accountable for your generousity.

zicoraads:
Kano man stabbed by his wife opens up, shows evidence of her sending nudes to boyfriends

Hussain, whose 21-year-old wife Fatima Musa almost killed him by stabbing, has finally recovered to narrate his own side of the story.

The incident occurred at 1:30am on June 22 at the couple’s residence at Unguwar Mai Kalwa, Naibawa, Quarters, Kumbotso Local Government Area of Kano State, according to a Daily Focus report.

The family of the wife had earlier painted a picture of self-defence, accused Mr Hussain of wife battery, and released a video of injuries inflicted on her by him before she escaped to pick a knife and stab him.

Fatima, a student of Law at Bayero University Kano, BUK, was immediately arrested by the police.

But at a press conference he organised in his residence, Mr Hussain accused his wife of infidelity and denied accusations of wife beating.

“I caught my wife dancing indecently in my parlour where she was recording the dance on her phone and sending the video clips to her boyfriends,” he told journalists.

“I told her mother about it and she asked me if my wife’s elder sister and grandmother knew what was happening and she pleaded with me not to reveal it to anyone so as not to soil the image of their family.



“Also I challenged one of the boyfriends with whom my wife was exchanging voice notes but said he was not aware that my wife was a married woman.

“This is one of over 30 voice messages I found,” he said, turning on a recorded audio conversation he had with his wife’s alleged boyfriend on an his phone.

“I also have evidence on how my wife invited her lover from Abuja and had a session with him in a hotel in Bompai, which name I will not reveal. She did this precisely on 26th April, 2016 while being married. She was at the hotel from 10:13 a.m and stayed up to 12:16 pm. And the CCTV camera of that hotel captured this information I’m talking about.

“Also on that same day, a Friday, I caught her taking drugs in my house. She was taking Shisha with some substances that include high concentration of narcotic. During the last Ramadan fast, she sprinkled drops of poisonous insecticides in my food, a meal of fried eggs. I have the evidence of that too.



“When the problem became so serious, we had to seek audience with Dr. Bashir (Umar), chief Imam of Al-Furqan Jumuat Mosque, who is a well respected marriage counsellor in order to get advice and save the marriage.

“We went to see Dr. Bashir along with my wife, her mother and her elder brother in my car. I narrated all my accusations against her including her infidelity, promiscuity and drug abuse which she all admitted to Dr. Bashir.

“But it was on the same day after we returned home that she stabbed me with a knife after I seized her phone, which she used to send her nude pictures and videos to her boyfriends. I was already in bed when she picked two knives from her kitchen and came to the room. She sat in front of my bed, with her back facing the mirror as if she was meditating. At that moment, she raised the first knife and stabbed me on the side of my stomach and then threw the knife behind her.

“I woke up fully to see her raising the second knife to strike me but I attempted to hold her hand, getting injured in the process. This is the scar as you can see.


“She raised the knife again to strike me but I dodged, forcing the knife to sink into the mattress. At that moment, I stood up and held her hand in an attempt to seize the knife. She bit my hand during the struggle, warning me to release. It was in this struggle that I pushed her and she fell and hit her head against the side drawer and subsequently on the rough floor tiles which made her face swollen.

“It was not true that we fought in the kitchen. The trail of blood stains could be seen only from the floor of my room to the parlour.

“Therefore I challenge her family members from both her mother’s and father’s side to bring any evidence that I was beating their daughter every day. The video clip they were circulating were from the scene of this particular incident we are talking about.

“So, my friend Lawali rescued me on that day with the help of Allah and took me to the hospital. As he was holding my feet while I was writhing in pains, the third face I saw on me was that of my mother-in-law and I warned her not to touch me. My friend Ustaz can testify to this.



“I complained to her that she was aware of my wife’s promiscuous behavior and her attempt to poison me but they didn’t take action. At hearing this, my mother-in-law started gesturing to me to keep quiet, pleading with me not to expose her daughter’s bad behavior to the world.

“Before leaving the hospital, my mother-in-law sought for permission from my friend Ustaz to privately see and discuss with her daughter.”

Making reference to Zainab Sanda saga and how evidence is allegedly destroyed by wife’s family, he said the family of his wife concocted the story of wife battery in order to make their daughter the victim and portray him in bad light.

“There was a similar case in Abuja where the husband died. So my mother-in-law conspired with her daughter to destroy evidence and sponsor campaigns of calumny against my person on social media.



“They sponsored video clips and other materials in which I was accused of alcoholism, drug abuse and wife beating. This was done in order to tarnish my image and make me look like I was wicked so that my wife would get public sympathy. But I have evidence of their daughter’s immorality, unfaithfulness and drug use,” Mr Hussein said.

When asked if he had ever reported on his wife’s alleged immorality to her parents he said:

“I have been reporting my wife to her parents. And every time I report her, I normally send them the evidence of what she does online. I sent them via Whatsapp to the father and to the mother. If they don’t have the records of what I sent, I have them here.

“These are some of the nude pictures; she normally did videos and send to her boyfriends despite being married,” he said, showing video clips of his wife in compromised poses on his phone.

“But the response of the parents is that I should please cover them, I should keep it within myself, I should not expose them because it will tarnish their image. My wife was even exchanging porn videos with some of the friends she has,” he said.

Hussain also claimed that he was not aware that his wife was “immoral” before he married her and that even after the marriage he could not discover her strange behavior in time because he didn’t have access to her phone.

“Even a day to the marriage, her father sat her down and told her that it was the last opportunity she had to choose a husband. She was asked if she loved me and she answered yes. I gave her gifts which she accepts and even sent me messages. We had a very good courtship,” Mr Hussein said.

Mr Hussein also said he did not opt for a divorce despite her alleged infidelity because her parents were always giving him hope that things get better and that he himself was anticipating changes.

“I had no plans to divorce her because as a Muslim I was always anticipating changes. I prayed during the holy month of Ramadan for Allah to make things better between us,” he added.


https://dailynigerian.com/kano-man-stabbed-by-his-wife-opens-up-shows-evidence-of-her-sending-nudes-to-boyfriends/

I knew this was most likely to be from day one. If u as a man gives a soft spot to women on issue of domestic violence, then u are probably digging your grave with your own tooth.

Women would initiate a high level of violence and abuse and they are always the first to cry out to have been physically abused.

Funny enough, the World always give them audience and convict men without trial..

He's lucky to be alive, many had died as a result of similar occurrence. I lost a naval officer friend to something like this, the lady stabbed him with his own commando knife while he was asleep and locked him up in the house in his pool of blood.

May God save us from known and unknown evil..

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Didn't you see the beginning part of what I wrote? The one I put in quote, she was pressured.

Rajman45:
Even if u can't read properly, I believe u should have common sense. Wher did u see in his post or hers that anyone mentioned being forced into the marriage.
Common sense is no longer common...

LilMissFavvy:
''even on the day before the marriage, her father sat her down and told her this is her last opportunity to chose a husband''. Stupid father/stupid husband/stupid culture. He forced himself on a 21 year old student for marriage. It is only bad parents that pressurize young students into marriage. You were busy checking your wife's phone. Open your own phone and show her what you have been hiding as well . When a girl is not mentally ready for marriage, it's a risk forcing her into marriage.

Madam if you are not ready to let your husband check your phone (unless he decides not to), please don't bother to get married. Just remain single, and save somebody's son from your drama.

LilMissFavvy:
''even on the day before the marriage, her father sat her down and told her this is her last opportunity to chose a husband''. Stupid father/stupid husband/stupid culture. He forced himself on a 21 year old student for marriage. It is only bad parents that pressurize young students into marriage. You were busy checking your wife's phone. Open your own phone and show her what you have been hiding as well . When a girl is not mentally ready for marriage, it's a risk forcing her into marriage.

I actually wanted to call you a boorish swine, but nature did a perfect job accentuating it with your look. so, continue. you're only living up to who you're.

Bryan88:
but so unfortunately the revise is d case...women are all wh*res...so scared of gettin married sumday cos d married 1s are even worse.

Oh don't worry. You will overcome your fear of marriage. Its just a matter of time.