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SaucyBenks:
you don't keep such from a bro... Bros always must gat another bros back.

shut up with that Una bro code.. no be bro dey scam and steal from bro? abi bro code no reach there

Bro jus mind yur biz Na de best tin to do

firstly I commend your maturity and continue to do like that but you have to tell her to stop monitoring you like shadow.
bottom line
this same shit have happen to me too i just keep quite IL after all it doesn't concern me...

DonKalidon:
Oh I see. And when they settle themselves or one kill the other I will be the enemy. Check my post very well to see if I mentioned anywhere that he is my brother or my friend. If it were you and I was just your neighbor then I told you something like that about your GF just like that, how will you react.

You should have captured their romantic moments in Abuja on camera just in case you change your mind in the future and want to expose her, there will be solid evidence

Now lemme burst your bubble....

What if she tells her boyfriend this night that you have been asking her out?

That will CHANGE EVERYTHING..... FOREVA

If I were you, I'd keep a camera(with voice) somewhere and call her for a chat..... Get everything on tape and move on with life....
Make sure u act all religious ET all, preach heaven and earth and make sure the discussion is interactive..

Things can get complicated really fast.
The earlier you call her to order the better for u...
Right now she feels seriously insecure and she'll do anything to keep her handbag

Where do you guys see all this kind of ladies?

How much time he saves who does not look to see what his neighbor says or does or thinks

DonKalidon:
I have this neighbor that we stay in same apartment in Lagos and he is dating one very beautiful girl that likes forming good girl. Although she is a nice girl and very loyal to the guy but I have always been suspecting that this babe will definitely be doing coded runs because the babe is just too fine.
For like a week I noticed she had not come around because she always comes around almost everyday and sometimes stays over so I asked him and he said she travelled to visit her parents in Benin. Not like I had any business with their relationship because the guy and I are not friends just normal neighbors stuff that you always greet each other because you see everyday.

So I travelled to Abuja for a business and I was lodged in a hotel somewhere in life camp area. It's a nice place and I observed a lot of big men come there. I was at the bar one evening doing something on my laptop and to my greatest surprise I saw this my neighbors girlfriend with one fresh senior man obviously the man looks like excess money. Immediately she saw me I could see the shock in her face and obviously there was no lie she could tell me because of the way they romanticly held themselves. Even while they sat I observed the way the guy was romancing her and she couldn't tell him to stop because he is a big man and she knows she has been busted.
I already had it in mind that there is no way I will tell the guy anything of such because it's none of my business but the fear the girl has is now turning into something else.
First of all later that night I decided to chill in the pool and enjoy myself and I was surprised when she came to the pool as well to join me. Imagine her telling me not to tell her man and offering to do anything I want and you all know what that means but I knew what she was driving at and resisted her to the core. I noticed the senior lodged her in the hotel and comes like in the evenings then goes home because he obviously has a family at home, so you can imagine this girl that this my neighbors wants to marry. Anyways she became very close to me throughout our stay in the hotel till I left her there back to Lagos. I know she would have been calling her man anyhow to observe if maybe his behavior had changed and she will know I have told him but I didn't mention a word to him.

After some days she returned and I could see how excited my my neighbor was to see his GF again so in my mind I was like if only this guy knew what's up with this girl. The problem now is that the girl and I hardly talk before, just greet each other just but now the way she greets me and want to ask me questions or talk to me is even making the BF surprise and I am trying to avoid her in the best way I can.

What do you guys advice I do in this sort of situation?

kai God!!! Why am I not you? Kai!!!
The way I for use fvck that girl eh!!! I for fvk her shegge her 2 legs for dey shake for ground!!! When I am done, I'll mind my business like nothing happened!!!

Vega100:
kai God!!! Why am I not you? Kai!!!
The way I for use fvck that girl eh!!! I for fvk her shegge her 2 legs for dey shake for ground!!! When I am done, I'll mind my business like nothing happened!!!

you can't fvck it all bro, few minutes you lay and the urge is gone!

What to do is very simple. When eva u get a chance with her, assure her that u ain't gonna tell her so called guy anything. That u would appreciate she keeps her distance from you. Simple. If this doesnt work, leme know.

agohmamuda:
What to do is very simple. When eva u get a chance with her, assure her that u ain't gonna tell her so called guy anything. That u would appreciate she keeps her distance from you. Simple. If this doesnt work, leme know.

Yeah nice one. Exactly what I have decided to do.

haaaaahaaa!!!I met my female cousin in such place in Abuja ,she nearly fainted,this girl is my father's brother last daughter,a small girl that supposed to be in school ,she's in Abuja doing olosho work,I was so angry and told her to leave immediately,she agreed ,but guess what!she went and bought another of her pretty friends to beg me to keep my peace.

DonKalidon:
I have this neighbor that we stay in same apartment in Lagos and he is dating one very beautiful girl that likes forming good girl. Although she is a nice girl and very loyal to the guy but I have always been suspecting that this babe will definitely be doing coded runs because the babe is just too fine.
For like a week I noticed she had not come around because she always comes around almost everyday and sometimes stays over so I asked him and he said she travelled to visit her parents in Benin. Not like I had any business with their relationship because the guy and I are not friends just normal neighbors stuff that you always greet each other because you see everyday.

So I travelled to Abuja for a business and I was lodged in a hotel somewhere in life camp area. It's a nice place and I observed a lot of big men come there. I was at the bar one evening doing something on my laptop and to my greatest surprise I saw this my neighbors girlfriend with one fresh senior man obviously the man looks like excess money. Immediately she saw me I could see the shock in her face and obviously there was no lie she could tell me because of the way they romanticly held themselves. Even while they sat I observed the way the guy was romancing her and she couldn't tell him to stop because he is a big man and she knows she has been busted.
I already had it in mind that there is no way I will tell the guy anything of such because it's none of my business but the fear the girl has is now turning into something else.
First of all later that night I decided to chill in the pool and enjoy myself and I was surprised when she came to the pool as well to join me. Imagine her telling me not to tell her man and offering to do anything I want and you all know what that means but I knew what she was driving at and resisted her to the core. I noticed the senior lodged her in the hotel and comes like in the evenings then goes home because he obviously has a family at home, so you can imagine this girl that this my neighbors wants to marry. Anyways she became very close to me throughout our stay in the hotel till I left her there back to Lagos. I know she would have been calling her man anyhow to observe if maybe his behavior had changed and she will know I have told him but I didn't mention a word to him.

After some days she returned and I could see how excited my my neighbor was to see his GF again so in my mind I was like if only this guy knew what's up with this girl. The problem now is that the girl and I hardly talk before, just greet each other just but now the way she greets me and want to ask me questions or talk to me is even making the BF surprise and I am trying to avoid her in the best way I can.

What do you guys advice I do in this sort of situation?

Boss I v seen life and trust me it's not straight forward

The lady in question from your story loves and holds the guy in high regards

But no one is perfect, she's lazy and among the girls that can't ask their lover for money cuz of fear of losing him but will charge and sleep around for it


I v said it before if your not financially capable of handling your woman n she's wearing latest fashion, wearing latest hair style bros just know she's not only dating you.

Finally I see she has a conscience, some girls will dump him n you as you said she's very beautiful and replace with a guy that can afford her needs

It's so simple but she chose to stay with the guy!

They love each other so don't mess it up rather talk with the girl, let her pick up things and start selling so she won't be lazy n depend on guys for money

DonKalidon:
How did I break the bro code

You should have fvcked the hoe... Except ur married or in something serious & there was never a bro talk more of a code that was broken

I will say it again in nearest future every potential husbands will have to settle for ex/current olosho
For now, more than 50 percent of single involving in transactional sex ( sex with different benefits) . Then, it was only certain campus girls but now even secondary sch girls do runs.

Advent of android phones lead to watersheds in promiscuity in the world generally. Just stay in ur room, go online girlS /ladieS will knock your door for sexual fantasy without single stress provided you hold ur cash.

yeye boy, person wey u for nyash sharp sharp clean mouth

Michelle55:
How did he break the so-called bro code? They ain't even friends, just neighbors. What made you think that the said neighbor will believe him over his girlfriend? Besides even if he wants to tell the guy, what proof will be provide to ascertain his claim?

With d way d girl is currently moving suspicious table, the neighbors are gradually and unknowingly becoming friends.

uckennety:
Boss I v seen life and trust me it's not straight forward

The lady in question from your story loves and holds the guy in high regards

But no one is perfect, she's lazy and among the girls that can't ask their lover for money cuz of fear of losing him but will charge and sleep around for it


I v said it before if your not financially capable of handling your woman n she's wearing latest fashion, wearing latest hair style bros just know she's not only dating you.

Finally I see she has a conscience, some girls will dump him n you as you said she's very beautiful and replace with a guy that can afford her needs

It's so simple but she chose to stay with the guy!

They love each other so don't mess it up rather talk with the girl, let her pick up things and start selling so she won't be lazy n depend on guys for money

I understand u bro, but lets not give infidelity an excuse. The word love is expensive to mention. That niggaa called love endures everything and of all, does not give room for infidelity for whatever reason. She might be a fiancee to d guy becos of lust and not love. Bless.

owowa145:
With d way d girl is currently moving suspicious table, the neighbors are gradually and unknowingly becoming friends.

Then the Op should severe such ties.. That girl can rope him in making it look like he's the one pestering her. Girl never do you something abi?

Michelle55:
Then the Op should severe such ties.. That girl can rope him in making it look like he's the one pestering her. Girl never do you something abi?

U sabi

Op all I see is that she has a conscience and maybe love the guy, I will advise you not to tell the boyfriend and also assure her that you will not inform her boyfriend also tell her that she should stop familiarizing herself with you you don't like it
like someone said try and get evidence incase things go south in a bid to salvage the relationship
don't mind those saying you broke yeye guys code :'

owowa145:
U sabi

na you teach me na so I learnt from the best

okoroemeka:
haaaaahaaa!!!I met my female cousin in such place in Abuja ,she nearly fainted,this girl is my father's brother last daughter,a small girl that supposed to be in school ,she's in Abuja doing olosho work,I was so angry and told her to leave immediately,she agreed ,but guess what!she went and bought another of her pretty friends to beg me to keep my peace.

So what did u then do?

Op you are in confusing situation whether to be a Brother's keeper by simply telling the dude or keep minding you business like you mentioned. That girl will never feel at ease around you. Anyways i dey fear fine girls from Edo and Imo.

uckennety:
Boss I v seen life and trust me it's not straight forward

The lady in question from your story loves and holds the guy in high regards

But no one is perfect, she's lazy and among the girls that can't ask their lover for money cuz of fear of losing him but will charge and sleep around for it


I v said it before if your not financially capable of handling your woman n she's wearing latest fashion, wearing latest hair style bros just know she's not only dating you.

Finally I see she has a conscience, some girls will dump him n you as you said she's very beautiful and replace with a guy that can afford her needs

It's so simple but she chose to stay with the guy!

They love each other so don't mess it up rather talk with the girl, let her pick up things and start selling so she won't be lazy n depend on guys for money

Aside from you and me, there's no other reasonable or sensible person on this thread!!! U have said it all...

dairykidd:
You should have fvcked the hoe... Except ur married or in something serious & there was never a bro talk more of a code that was broken

Wellsaid, exactly my thought, exactly what I had earlier adviced.

Vega100:
Wellsaid, exactly my thought, exactly what I had earlier adviced.

Yeah... ur moniker though. I used to pop that sh1t back then with some mkt

i feel pity for most dudes when i see them parading some flashy looking girl with iphone x, expensive hair and fake supreme/gucci dress as their serious girlfriend. 95% of girls in this category are into runs.

Lies every where

We all know what would've happened if it was a girl that saw her neighbour's dude with another girl.

DonKalidon:
I have this neighbor that we stay in same apartment in Lagos and he is dating one very beautiful girl that likes forming good girl. Although she is a nice girl and very loyal to the guy but I have always been suspecting that this babe will definitely be doing coded runs because the babe is just too fine.
For like a week I noticed she had not come around because she always comes around almost everyday and sometimes stays over so I asked him and he said she travelled to visit her parents in Benin. Not like I had any business with their relationship because the guy and I are not friends just normal neighbors stuff that you always greet each other because you see everyday.

So I travelled to Abuja for a business and I was lodged in a hotel somewhere in life camp area. It's a nice place and I observed a lot of big men come there. I was at the bar one evening doing something on my laptop and to my greatest surprise I saw this my neighbors girlfriend with one fresh senior man obviously the man looks like excess money. Immediately she saw me I could see the shock in her face and obviously there was no lie she could tell me because of the way they romanticly held themselves. Even while they sat I observed the way the guy was romancing her and she couldn't tell him to stop because he is a big man and she knows she has been busted.
I already had it in mind that there is no way I will tell the guy anything of such because it's none of my business but the fear the girl has is now turning into something else.
First of all later that night I decided to chill in the pool and enjoy myself and I was surprised when she came to the pool as well to join me. Imagine her telling me not to tell her man and offering to do anything I want and you all know what that means but I knew what she was driving at and resisted her to the core. I noticed the senior lodged her in the hotel and comes like in the evenings then goes home because he obviously has a family at home, so you can imagine this girl that this my neighbors wants to marry. Anyways she became very close to me throughout our stay in the hotel till I left her there back to Lagos. I know she would have been calling her man anyhow to observe if maybe his behavior had changed and she will know I have told him but I didn't mention a word to him.

After some days she returned and I could see how excited my my neighbor was to see his GF again so in my mind I was like if only this guy knew what's up with this girl. The problem now is that the girl and I hardly talk before, just greet each other just but now the way she greets me and want to ask me questions or talk to me is even making the BF surprise and I am trying to avoid her in the best way I can.

What do you guys advice I do in this sort of situation?

What if your neighbour was a fellow nairalander...and right now he's reading all this shii

DonKalidon:
I am never going to tell the guy that's for sure. What am asking is how to make the girl stop this unnecessary sudden over familiarity which might soon make the BF suspect something is not right.

Tell her to her face I plain words " I not going to say anything, I won't say anything because I didn't see anything"