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Leave her jare. 90% chance you won’t even marry her. So don’t kill yourself.

2special:
is either you belong or you run for your life.... if those guys drop you now, the girl will move on to another guy better than you.

that girl is a trap.... those cultist are using her to geto whoever they want

marvelous000:
I'm really fighting hard not to insult you, but ask yourself this question; if peradventure, those cultist use you as statistics (kill you). what will become of the girl you're staking your life for? I bet, 6yrs from now, she must have forgotten your name. probably, married to your killer who is a changed man and a born again.
conversely, if you survive. what will be the benefit of it all. pússy? you mean; you want to use your life as quid pro quo for pussy?


My sympathies are with your parent, since you want to waste.

Ogbeni calm down, i don deal with things like this befor. Cult boys are humans too

Run for your life

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Guy u well so? Love each other abi? No worry wen they come for you, u go know how much u love each other that's if u survive it..
Call her, explain why your leaving her cuz ur life is at stake here, n bounce....
U'r at risk here not her, so cuz she looks undisturbed...u should b disturbed bro n help yourself b4 it's too late

Young man I guess your parent send you to school to study isn't If yes is your answer then face your studies and end that deadly Romeo and Juliet nonsense ok.

Have you ask yourself a very honest question *why only cult guys keep hitting at her always* Then why did she felt not worry about such ugly situation Young man use your head.

Since she is always cultist sweet pie then let go possibly herself is a trap laid to catch you bro use your brain. But if you think you want to give a good fight then quote me and I will tell you what to do via your email but be man enough to fight the battle that is all I can say.

Young man use your head.

ritmek:
My brother run for your life....this life no get part 2 oo

No leave am make him still de do lover boy.see u are 4inch close to d ground if you don't cut this relationship. 60%of cult related killings in campus has to do with girls related issue with cultist. If you love ur life, u will stay away from that girl for gud. Cultists hate sharing there girls with fellow cultists not to talk of non. Dem go smoke u like gbomga fish with out wasting time.you are warned. I lost a course mate as a result of such. Fly weh no gree hear word go folo death body enter grave oh

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Keep running and never look back

franklingud:
@Timil

Don't ever listen that shiit of an advice saying run for your life.

Life itself is a risk, take it.

Be with your girl no matter what, if they persist on her then do the needful and report them to a nearby anti-cult or SARS.

Let them deal with those boys.

Its not as easy as you think bro but thanks for the advice.

Timil let her go.

The fact that she's going around showing you multiple cult members interested in her, and the number keeps growing the more you hang out with her. Why does she keep telling you? Is she proud of it? Is she boasting about it?
I find it weird, before you know the number will reach 20 cult guys all asking her out. only her.
Ask yourself if they are just asking her out or she has something more with them. Think.

ojuu4u:
According to your story,
A girl been pursued by 4 known cultists, ( what of unknown and other innocent rivalries?)

A girl (not guy o) that mistakenly invited to cultists anniversary not christian or Muslim gathering

A girl mistakenly found herself among cultists and those that have been disturbing her (potential rapists n killers) yet was comfortable enough to stay there . *What you don't want to eat do not smell it*. An adage!

An innocent girl that can identify sooooo many cultists on campus (she was the one pointing to you the other guys whc are also cultists. From conversations, joke or serious. One can easily says what the other party has passed through or doing at present.)

All the points listed above say a lot about her personality

Exactly

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Better Run from that relationship... Your dream will come to pass if you don't

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

My friend run for ur life ok, don't die bcus of love that will not even last and u guys will still breakup.. these life na akanuche oooo

ojuu4u:
According to your story,
A girl been pursued by 4 known cultists, ( what of unknown and other innocent rivalries?)

A girl (not guy o) that mistakenly invited to cultists anniversary not christian or Muslim gathering

A girl mistakenly found herself among cultists and those that have been disturbing her (potential rapists n killers) yet was comfortable enough to stay there . *What you don't want to eat do not smell it*. An adage!

An innocent girl that can identify sooooo many cultists on campus (she was the one pointing to you the other guys whc are also cultists. From conversations, joke or serious. One can easily says what the other party has passed through or doing at present.)

All the points listed above say a lot about her personality

Don't mind the idiot .. that girl is just using his head . Soon that cultist will turn him to an office and always ransack his hostel , carry laptop , collect phone . Any where they see him na to obtain am .. mumu boy

Or the girl lead them to initiate the this mumu boy join ..that is what's gonna happen ..or you stay away from the babe

Timil:
Thanks for the advice bro.

You simply do not love yourself.Do You think twice in Such situations.
If your only sibling comes to You for advice,will You encourage him?

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Abeg gbe body e. life no get part 2. I understand you perfectly... YOU CAN'T BEAT THEM, BUT DON'T JOIN THEM. WAKA JEJE/ STUMBLE NOT

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Imagine!!! You are busy talking of love when your life is at stake. Its very obvious u have not mended before. They there they profess love until u spend weeks in the hospital.

This op must be Afonja.

How does a man do to fear fellow men?

If they come with knife, get a gun.
If they come with gun, get a bigger gun.
If they insist, fight them wella.
If you lose, die like a man.

You have only one life. Live it fully. Don't let others decide for you.

Truth is they won't kill you just because of that... I once had such issues.. I flex them, then I told my babe to stay low. Girls that like gallivanting about attract those kind of boys...

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Your life is in your hand, make a choice now. Choose to live and fulfill your purpose of why you are in school? Gir
with a female is not one of those purpose, God loves you and had warned you to flee from sin and impending danger in your dream,
life has no duplicate.

Above all seek Jesus! For the wages of sin is death.

First and foremost, let me take you as my own brother.

Now, the Advice I have for you.

Bro, remember the greatest love is the love in the family. Think of how mum or dad who sent you to the institution to make them proud would feel if you got shot or killed.

Life is the first, forget all those philippians movies we watch, in reality, there is nothing like such nowadays.

That moment you knew she was dating a cultist or a cultist has interested in her should have been the day you broke up with her.

Those cultist have rules and regulations, what concerns a member concern other members. They can easily gun you down or kill you as long as you are a hindrance to their possession.

Forget about her love and move on with your studies. When you get to NYSC camp, you would find a better one or still as time goes on while you are still at school, a better one would come.

Call the girl, you both should meet in a discreet place, talk to her about what is on and quit the dam relationship or friendship.


Be a man, focus on your studies, pray and know God more, attend services and you would have this new spirit in you of being emancipated.

If you are doubting me


Attend a service this night, fall in love with the preaching /sermon, feel the chorus and hymn of the choirs, feel the spirit in you, take it that you are now a powerful being, open your eyes and say,"Satan get behind me".

That's all I have to say.

yankison:
Don't mind the idiot .. that girl is just using his head . Soon that cultist will turn him to an office and always ransack his hostel , carry laptop , collect phone . Any where they see him na to obtain am .. mumu boy

Or the girl lead them to initiate the this mumu boy join ..that is what's gonna happen ..or you stay away from the babe

if the guy no carry, he might be killed. 2ndly she might be used to lure him in. this I believe is the trick

3rdly, all her stories is to make the guy fear her

Daeylar:
Timil let her go.

The fact that she's going around showing you multiple cult members interested in her, and the number keeps growing the more you hang out with her. Why does she keep telling you? Is she proud of it? Is she boasting about it?
Are they just asking her out or she has something more with them?
I find it weird, before you know the number will reach 20 cult guys all asking her out. only her.

Those two bolded above is also given me a great concern cos i'm starting to feel that she's been used as a bargaining chip to make me belong in their nonsense group.

Most of these cult guys are guys with low self esteem and are trying to compensate for it. They might come to intimidate you. Though I'm sure they'll first warn you before they make any serious move on you, plus I am assuming you are not part of a rival gang, so any harm on you would be minimal.

But please use your head, leave that girl like. Dem no dey tell person. Secure your future and that of your family

Bro the only thing I can deduce from this is that your girlfriend is cheating, believe me.

In any case, run bro, it's not worth it

I remember when one yeye cult boy dey threaten me because of my babe.
The guy regreted for his life.

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

My broda run,e nu make u ju man. Confra go easily kill u because of pusssy. Life nu get duplicate. Ladies plenty for street.

Timil:
Those two bolded above is also given me a great concern cos i'm starting to feel that she's been used as a bargaining chip to make me belong in their nonsense group.

Since you know what are you waiting for. I wish you all the best. You know what to do

Timil:
Its not as easy as you think bro but thanks for the advice.

People should stop advising this one. He wouldnt hear.
He replies to advice that tells him to continue but neglect all those 'run' ones.
Goodluck on your venture.......either you make it alive or dead.

SageMK:
Your goal in that school is to —

1. Read your books.

2. Make it out alive.

You are not there to play Romeo and Juliet at the cost of your life. That girl will leave you if she was in your shoes.

I strongly advise you abort mission!
Drop her like hot potatoes and face your books.

lols nice one

My frend, move ahead cos u cant risk ur life for a lady you have nt married. Frat no b boys scout oo especially the kind of guys u mentioned first,(egede) dey dnt JOKE ooo.

I will speak from a personal experience bro and tell you what is going to happen.

first of all your girl likes the obvious attention she is getting at your expense and the truth is she is in the clear with this guy's meaning they can't harm her in anyway so she is okay trust me on that I don't know much oh but I know that because that's how my ex started.


secondly it is useless talking to your girl about been careful and all that lol my ex used to call my talk lecture 101 I dy even beg join am lol listen bro take this advice from someone who actually has been in your shoes and clothes lol and stay away from her. (yes she did sir)

the day one of them will take her up seriously lol my guy they will come for you first as they did for me, it's God's mercies and common sense that's how I can still give you advice.

sir, save your life and run!!

Kalashnikov102:
1- Avoid PDA

2- Stay Sharp

3- Don't move around isolated areas around the school alone

4- Don't keep late nights

5- Pray to God about the relationship and your life

6- Cult guys are scared too!! exhibit confidence when walking

7- Watch the body movements of the guys hitting on her whenever you spot them

8- Have some friends who are cultists too.. Especially those in your area or class.. Jus learn to Crack jokes with dem and move on.

9- Always have an update from her about the guys hitting on her

10- Do you plan on settling with this girl or you jus want relationship wey go end for school gate



Note!!! I ain't a cultist.. I did same while in school and it paid off!

Kudos to all the graduates on Nairaland.. E no easy especially when you school for South

No na bro that lady is not being truthful, that young needs to run, die nr get part 2 ooo, abeg life is sweet bro tell that young man to quit bcus my brother life sweet..