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Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by yomalex(m): 10:47pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by VillagePipu: 10:50pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
spongeisback: Instead of you to shut up if you don't know what to say, you're typing nonsense. You think paternity is the same as custody? He owns the child 100%. The court won't grant him custody but can compel the lady to grant him access based on mutually agreed terms which are judicially enforceable. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Stillthebest: 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
spongeisback: Where is DNA, Court can claim his child for him. Even if hes never spent a dime on him before. So, long he's sane right now, responsible and have a tangible source of income. Worst that can happen is that they can share custody. Law will recognise him as the father because he's coming out so early. But i advise you have a good source of income because they would want to know if you can take care of the boy ... Get a good lawyer. 8 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by VillagePipu: 10:51pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Kehl: Don't mind the unenlightened idiot. |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by cococandy(f): 10:53pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Wrong on all fronts 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by kernniejay(m): 10:54pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
If you need quality advice on this issue, meet a legal practitioner (i.e. lawyer) and explain everything in details to him/her. The next best person to seek advice from is a marriage counsellor. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by alphaNomega: 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
You cannot take custody of the boy, unless you can proove beyond reasonable doubt that the mother is unable to care for the child. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
A son will always look for his father no matter what happens. Document how you've cared for him and leave the matter to fate because as for now, the odds are against you. Also your life may be at risk because the man that will marry your ex girlfriend, being childless will do anything to make sure you don't come to claim your someday. Be careful. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by alphaNomega: 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
kernniejay: There was no wedding. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by spongeisback: 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
You're a very very big fool. Did you read the OP? Didn't you see where he said that what the lady's family said to him? Are you normal? Who raised a useless rat like you? You just come on the internet to insult because you have access. Come on get out from here you hopeless bastard. VillagePipu: 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by linearity: 10:56pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
spongeisback: Not totally true, as there are no clear cut victories going into court. If he gets a good lawyer, the child can even be taken from the mother, if they stress attempted and actual parental alienation on the part of the mother. The courts favors the kids to have access to both parents...from his story, it appear that the mother in collusion with the step-father and her people have engaged in alienating him from the life of the child and to give the child to the step-father in the name of their tradition. Obviously the child’s continual stay with the mother under those conditions, will not foster a good relationship with father, which law requires. I understand fully well that, this is Nigeria and that, the highest bidder can sometimes buy the most favorable outcome in courts. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by chloride6: 10:56pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
You cant force them to give you the child but you can make sure the child bears your name.. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by jeyselassie(m): 10:57pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
otobasin2323:bro let me tel you a deep truth may be hard to swallow. Look focus and get yourself and your finances grounded. Ignore all of them totally. Believe me the child will come back. You don't need to disturb or stress yourself. Its a natural law I've seen playing out times without number. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by spongeisback: 10:58pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Can't you people read for crying out loud? How many minutes will it take you to read and understand the OP. Her family said traditionally the child isn't his and the He wants to take the boy from the mom. He doesn't want to be recognized as the father of the boy, he wants custody. Stillthebest: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by VillagePipu: 10:59pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
spongeisback: Your father is a bastard and you come from a long lineage of bastards. That boy belongs to the guy. The girl's parents can argue tradition all they want but the law is what it is. You like your idiotic father are a monkey that can't climb a tree. Useless on the ground, hopeless on the trees and God would punish you. Worthless mongrel, read what others are telling you and see how stupid you sound. All these Port Harcourt thugs that think life begins and ends in Rivers state. Go out and see life, una no go gree. Now, you're talking nonsense based on your local traditions in your village. Oponu 12 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by TGM2015: 10:59pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
otobasin2323:Please save your monthly 15k for 2 years, file a court case for custody and request a DNA test for evidence of paternity. Forget tradition when you have the law of the land on your side. But while filling a case look for court with high integrity judge and never file your case in Rivers state or any state that the man influential. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by spongeisback: 11:00pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
No court will award that child to the father OK? The boy isn't even up to two years old. He wants to take the child from her and he's not fighting for shared custody. linearity: 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Stillthebest: 11:01pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
spongeisback: Why he has to use the court. Except the choses to live on that traditionalism |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by namiji2598: 11:01pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
biacan:see Bianca warn Ur self ooooo,make I no come wound up,,,, try to download akpan and oduma comedy am not in the mood plz |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by wirinet(m): 11:02pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
As per getting custody of the child, that would be difficult. The court would naturally give custody of little children to the mother, except in cases where the mother is proven to be incompetent. Having said that, you can't be denied your rights as the legal father - tradition or not. The constitution supercedes any traditional law. It a good thing you have the birth certificate, with your surnames on it. It will be difficult for your wife to get another one with a different name. You can fight for visitation rights and other parental rights in the courts. Your main problem will be the corrupt and expensive judicial process. Lawyers are quite expensive and the law is always skewed in favour of of the rich. I suggest you also get human rights organisation involved. As long as you don't give up, you will get your parental rights over your son. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by kernniejay(m): 11:03pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
alphaNomega:Yeah, i know. But if he can meet any, they will give him useful advice and steps he can take based on their experiences. |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by 2mch(m): 11:03pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Even tradition cannot take over blood. That is your son. Go to the courts with media presence. |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by spongeisback: 11:03pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
See mumu. That's the way you come online to insult your parents. Hopeless dog. Read no you won't only to do drugs that you know how to. Too bad I don't believe in any version of God so I guess no punishment for me. Hahahahahahahahaha VillagePipu: |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by axglide(m): 11:04pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Generally under customary Law in Nigeria,the father has an absolute right to the custody of his legitimate or legitimated children. However for custody of Legitimate children, under common Law a father has absolute right to the custody of his legitimate children under maturity.Even at his death, the mother cannot claim custody . Source: https://asknigeria.com.ng/topic/278/child-custody-in-nigeria Guy the law favors you, but you need Money. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Olarewaju89: 11:04pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
are you okay? spongeisback:
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Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Ybaby: 11:04pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
15k cannot do nothing for that child. How much is baby food? How much is daycare? etc I will be honest with you - allow that rich man to look after that child biko and try and make money - take courses, hustle, get a job etc. A child belongs comes out of who? the father or the mother?? it is who a mother gives her child to that is the father. Ok!? No one is sure who thier true father is - it is whoever your mum tells you is your father that is your father! Ok!? Get money before you try for another baby with the next lucky lady or that one too will give your child to the highest bidder. Most woman don't know babies are expensive until they have them - a mother's job is to do what is best for her child. Try and understand. Go make some money. I have included prices of baby things below - does not contain school fees. He is mine is not the point here - It is can you give him a good life? You need to man up it is not about sperm. Once a child is on earth it is about provision. People will say otherwise but don't let anyone trick you. If you love that child you will let the rich man adopt him and use your ego to make money. Your child does not need your love as much as he needs diapers and formula The truth hurts and I am sorry 15 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by VillagePipu: 11:05pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
biacan: Biacan, the next time I see you post nonsense here about broke men, I would upload screenshot of your chat where you are begging boys on Nairaland for money. If your father worked hard when his mates were working hard, you won't be a cyber beggar, begging everyone for money. 15 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by spongeisback: 11:05pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Are you kidding me right now? Read the OP for crissake! He isn't looking for recognition as the father of the child but he wants to take the boy away from his mother! Stillthebest: |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by spongeisback: 11:06pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Yes I am. Are you? Olarewaju89: |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Martinez39(m): 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Too bad. This is why I always advise boys to hustle and make it before they get married. A lot of issues would have been avoided if you kept your pen1s one place and hustled. What is 15k? The boy is out of your reach. The rich man will do all he can to claim the boy's mind so his investment will not be in vain. Forget about the boy and set your priorities straight and go hustle. If you remain poor and that man remains rich, even your son will reject you for the rich father. Can you reject Bill Gates as your adoptive father for you biological father who is a road side mechanic that can't feed himself? The only exception is if your son makes it big and can afford to accommodate you but what are the chances that he will make it big? Beside, any man that gives birth to a child they can't comfortably take care of is a wicked and irresponsible man and not fit to be called a good father. Oga, go hustle. When you make it, you son will come back. Boys, place hustle. When you make it, you will avoid a lot of issues. Personally, I would advise men focus on themselves; forget relationships and marriage; use surrogate mums/housemaids for childbirth/upkeep; and use prostitutes/slay queens for sex. No time to waste on a gender that loves you for your money and won't hesitate to leave you for the higher bidder. Develop and enjoy yourself biko. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by axglide(m): 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
spongeisback: Bros you're wrong. Generally under customary Law in Nigeria,the father has an absolute right to the custody of his legitimate or legitimated children. https://asknigeria.com.ng/topic/278/child-custody-in-nigeria 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by deltateam: 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
biacan: Was he not working to be giving her #15000? What was she doing to supplement? 2 Likes |
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