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Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by VillagePipu: 11:32pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
fireback: Story. That's if the child's father is an idiotic illiterate. The same Igbo tradition that doesn't allow women inherit property is the one you're referring to. It's from High Court the mother's people would start receiving judicial beating. Nigeria's laws supercede Customary laws. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by mizzy007(m): 11:32pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
keep a close tab on the man's name n surname.. if u can't get ur son now, u might be needing the surname to track him n explain ursef n situation to him in the future. good luck 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by wirinet(m): 11:32pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
fireback:That is why we have courts. You go to the court to claim your legal rights. As long as the child possess half your DNA, you are legally the father. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Noblefirstlady: 11:33pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Even the so called rich man will never really accept him as his son or is he addopting him 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by spongeisback: 11:35pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
You're not even clever at all. Are you normal? Did you see this part of the OP? otobasin2323: I never said he shouldn't fight for his place in his son's life. The OP wants to take the child from his mom and I am trying to let him know that no court will give him 100% custody of a two year old. You and your likes are just so stupid. You just come on here to insult without even understanding. sacx: |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by mkoabiola: 11:35pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
No court will grant the father d custody of d son Face ur huzzle and u claim ur child layer 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Ybaby: 11:35pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Where did I mention the court? I am not talking about the law. I am talking about this 15k man's ability to feed and clothe his own son. The matter on ground is not that they are stealing his son. It is that he cannot provide for his son. Don't let him hoodwink you. If you want to help him - get hima skill, a job, a hustle etc Let him send 200k worth of baby formula and clothing to the mother and see of he will not be allowed to see his son. It is not by sperm - without the right nutrition that child can become retarded. To put it bluntly this man is too boy to raise a child. He keeps saying she left him because he is a pauper then why cann't he fix his poverty. Go and get some money biko then fight for your son and impress the mother. I feel sorry for his ego but he can fix it by getting money rather than this pity party he asked us to organise for him. Again find below some costings for a child. Please be guided before you insert your peepee and litter the earth with kids to struggle. The human race does not need more hungry kids..... biko. To whom it may concern. morpheus24: 3 Likes
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Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Olorunnim: 11:35pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
A customary court Won't grant you custody of and infant, Being that he needs More attention now, which can only be granted by the mother,So I'll just advice you to keep contact with him, have an agreement with the Man who's marrying your Ex, that he'll grant you visiting rights and if he or she doesn't agree LAWYER THE Fvck Up and GO TO COURT. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by khadii1: 11:36pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
If you live in Lagos and she lives in Lagos, go to your nearest local government, meet the media lawyers (media Centre). You need her current address. They will send her invitation letter. Tip the delivery man (usually police) Good luck! otobasin2323: |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Ybaby: 11:39pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
morpheus24: Cost ke someone that only has 15k for his son's upkeep - all his problem is his inability to provide. |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by wirinet(m): 11:39pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
VillagePipu: Nigeria: Supreme Court Invalidates Igbo Customary Law Denying Female Descendants the Right to Inherit |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by JIDECAC: 11:40pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
otobasin2323:contact me, then we can discuss on how to get a competent lawyer. Check my profile for my number. |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Ybaby: 11:40pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
khadii1: Tip ke Where do you want him to get the money from?? |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Heartbender: 11:41pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Check my signature and call me otobasin2323: |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by kushme: 11:44pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
MANGAM: Fvck your mentality and the fickle dog of a female you're supporting, low dirty shameless cock... By your reasoning and support for the female gash, what makes her worthy of the child all alone, traditionally, legally and religiously? Answer me real man.. Men(pussy niggaz) like you made these laws and beliefs.. Don't be surprised that bonehead like you would still come out to fight for gender equality after writing this sh***t. Cos, all most of you males live for is how to please a pussy, either consciously or unconsciously.. |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Ybaby: 11:46pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
JIDECAC: Will you pay for the lawyer or it is the 15k you want him to use ba?? |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by VillagePipu: 11:46pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
MANGAM: Is this according to the law or according to your useless backwards tradition? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Graduateacher(f): 11:47pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
You don't have enough money even though you're trying your best, you should have impregnated a girl with level head instead, why didn't you marry her first? my advice is for you to go and hustle, your child will look for you later |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by sacx: 11:48pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
spongeisback: I wouldn't have had issues with anything you've typed so far if you were drawing your hinge from the law. But it's the same 'traditionally' all over. Again, our society is run by laws, not traditions. His desire to get full custody of his child is based on the threat to transfer ownership of his child to another man by way of traditions. This is unacceptable in the eyes of the law and could help his case. Remember, he never made this move until he started getting the threats. Though securing full custody of the child would be extremely difficult if not impossible since he is a toddler, but he would get rights of claim to him and reasonable access, which is something his baby mama and her family are trying to deny him citing their tradition. Now if this doesn't make sense to you, oya take am 2 Likes
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Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Ybaby: 11:50pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
kushme: Muscle does not solve any problem now. Puffing up and down doesnot solve any problem, a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel says the holy book. Do you think the girl is happy to go and look for a provider for her child while the child's father is alive. Use this anger to make money. The only supremancy is money - he who pays the piper ? dictates the tune. He does not have money to pay piper so the tune is for the step dad. it hurts but the only solution is to understand that as a young man you have a financial clock and get to work making that money - even your mother will not respect you if you cannot provide for your child. curse all you want or provide or keep your peepee away from women. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by morpheus24: 11:50pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Ybaby: It is essential to provide for your offspring however if you believe this is the only thing necessary for the well being of a child's psychology then the society you live in in regressing faster than you even realize. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by wirinet(m): 11:50pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Graduateacher:So you are advising him to abandon his child and not to participate in the upbringing of his son. Raising and loving a child is not only about money. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by morpheus24: 11:52pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Ybaby: Do you think the girl is happy to go and look for a provider for her child while the child's father is alive. Use this anger to make money. The only supremancy is money - he who pays the piper ? dictates the tune. He does not have money to pay piper so the tune is for the step dad. it hurts but the only solution is to understand that as a young man you have a financial clock and get to work making that money - even your mother will not respect you if you cannot provide for your child. curse all you want or provide or keep your peepee away from women.[/quote] Nigerian values are no more. We are a doomed people for real. See what an improverished society has led people to ponder. SMH in shame! 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Nobody: 11:54pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Edet Vs Essien is enough case law for this case. Get a good lawyer. Just google the case. All Law Students know this case. Your son can never bear another man's name. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Ybaby: 11:55pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
morpheus24: Mr ! a child needs alot of things beside food and diapers - they need love and care BUT they need food and diapers first and that is the job of the father and the mother nurtures while dad is away hustling. Heaven gave the man bigger muscle so he can work and provide for his family- if he is not doing that he will come into disrepute as seen by poster because the mother will be forced to find a provider so she can nurture her son. Look at animals in the jungle it is the same thing. I hate lazy fathers who donot understand thier role - kids are hungry and sufferng and thier father is alive. It is a big shame! Use that ego of na my son to get a job because even your son will avoid you or not respect you when he is grown if you are still poor. Children tolerate a poor mother but never a poor father. Be aware! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by David6sh: 11:56pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
That is a nice idea |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Ybaby: 11:58pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Graduateacher(f): 11:59pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
wirinet: Are you willing to be his lawyer in this case? I don't think he should spend all he has to pay one. The boy is his son but he's single and can't cater for a child under two alone, no court will grant him sole custody as he wants. If the lady is wicked she can claim abuse and with a good lawyer he might be denied his rights entirely. Sometimes it's better to settle out of court especially in Nigeria where even our president doesn't obey court orders. If he can't settle with her family my advice is for him to relax, the boy will surely look for him later on. |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by spongeisback: 12:00am On Jul 13, 2019 |
I would've ignored you because I find people that use memes juvenile but the fact that you're not intellectually sound doesn't mean I should ignore your baseless write up. You're such a slooowwwwwww learner. how did I support the family using their tradition to deny him of his son? I only rephrased his comment. Are you so silly to understand that or you just feel like typing and muddling rubbish together? Can you point out where in my comments I supported or tried to impose traditions? You're very very very MAD. VERY MAD. sacx: |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by shogsman(m): 12:00am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Na you go east go look for trouble. |
Re: How Do I Take Custody Of My Beloved Son? by Nobody: 12:04am On Jul 13, 2019 |
kushme: The case is a walk over in court. The judicial precedent of Edet Vs Essien(browse the case) is enough to grant him the paternal right of his child. Giving a child to another man to father without the consent of his biological father is illegal and therefore not in the best interest of the child. If OP's lawyer proves that the paternal Grand parents of the child, that is, the parents of OP are capable of taking care of the Child, the Court can grant custody to the grand parents of the child since the very act of the child's mother partaking in illegal adoption itself is not in the best interest of the child . Please notify the OP. -From a senior lawyer and Son of a senior Judge 4 Likes |
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