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Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by highbee02: 2:45pm On Jul 13, 2019
Offpoint:
Work place relationship is the best, employers don't know it.

You'll work 10x times harder to impress your babe, you get exhausted and stress out you'll quickly do some quickie in the restroom and baaam... you're OK Las Las.

There's a reason why they said "Men only reason well after the released and a woman feels happier after orgasm"


Employers should use their heads
Employer or employee?
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by diehard1: 2:45pm On Jul 13, 2019
Love story with someone in same organization as you is a no, no. You are concerned that she may loose her job, but it may not be so if a big oga is interested in her. You may be the one to loose your job if it happens. Have you considered what will happen if you guys date and relationship turns sour? Just forget her for now and face your career
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by bonnyhope: 2:46pm On Jul 13, 2019
donbachi:
U again?..what about ur 22yrs old girlfriend u've been dating for six months...now na ur colleague..dem use women swear 4 u?
monitoring spirit
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Damiflow: 2:46pm On Jul 13, 2019
grin
donbachi:
U again?..what about ur 22yrs old girlfriend u've been dating for six months...now na ur colleague..dem use women swear 4 u?
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by sulasa07(m): 3:01pm On Jul 13, 2019
Offpoint:
Work place relationship is the best, employers don't know it.

You'll work 10x times harder to impress your babe, you get exhausted and stress out you'll quickly do some quickie in the restroom and baaam... you're OK Las Las.

There's a reason why they said "Men only reason well after the released and a woman feels happier after orgasm"


Employers should use their heads

Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by lastempero: 3:20pm On Jul 13, 2019
E be like say your calling na women
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Bbbwings: 3:28pm On Jul 13, 2019
Cioccolata:
[color=#008080]Don't shit where you eat.
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cheesy grin grin cheesy
Short and concise
I like you
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jul 13, 2019
I am also in that situation though it's the opposite. I know what I want and can never compromise irrespective of the beauty and pressure. She has refused to back down, insisting she gets my attention but I plan to let her understand the reality; it's not possible. Office romance is the worst thing you can ever imagine. It's dangerous for both of you most especially for men. You can never trust a lady in that circumstance because she will get herself acquainted and deny you when you least expect it. Don't poo where you eat!
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by thunderbabs: 4:17pm On Jul 13, 2019
DateMynd44:
as in eh.
see below
Truly, you sabi am
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by deltateam: 4:37pm On Jul 13, 2019
Olanireti:
If your aum is getting married to her, you still have to make your intention known to her. If she feels the same way with you, then you ppl should start dating but must be very professional in work environment. Highest one of you resigns after marriage.
There are very few organisations in the world that don't allow marriage between colleagues.
I don't think that organization is among.

Op merely said the organization doesn't encourage romantic affair among colleagues but he never said that there's a rule which states a colleague must never marry another colleague.
Who does that?

My advice for op is to keep your hands by your sides while at work but you can date her during weekend. Act professional while at work but romantic during weekend. I hope you intend to marry her within 6 months from now to avoid a blowup in your face.

I hope you are not playing games either cos you will regret it. Yes, I said it!
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by deltateam: 4:41pm On Jul 13, 2019
donbachi:
U again?..what about ur 22yrs old girlfriend u've been dating for six months...now na ur colleague..dem use women swear 4 u?
Seems you even know the bastard. Him never jam. Until dem cut his blocckus.
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by donbachi(m): 4:46pm On Jul 13, 2019
deltateam:
Seems you even know the bastard. Him never jam. Until dem cut his blocckus.
you shall know him by his threads.
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Etsyl: 4:47pm On Jul 13, 2019
You again

Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by dfrost: 5:44pm On Jul 13, 2019
I still don't understand why people can't keep their private and intimate issues off public domain.

Damn.

Oga, you need to man up on certain things. Some people said you like woman a lot. I checked your threads and boom! they were correct. Sex is not everything. Control your mental powers and face life squarely. Omò, if you marry, the thing go tire you.

Se.x this, put in this, finger this, touch this. Are those the only words in your vocabulary?

Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Ofklaw: 5:45pm On Jul 13, 2019
My wife today was my colleague, MD found out, we were both sacked one after the other. I was the last to be sacked, today we have great Jobs and blessed with a beautiful girl... Dont be afraid love is a beautiful thing grin
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by manny4u(m): 5:47pm On Jul 13, 2019
The crocodile once said he doesn't eat the fish inside the same pond as himself for a reason.
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Offpoint: 5:56pm On Jul 13, 2019
macklef:
My guy, only me understands you better. Since she left. I have 6 months work still unposted. Work tire me. But when she was here. I dey do next week work join
I'm a very wise mangrin
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jul 13, 2019
Olanireti:
If your aum is getting married to her, you still have to make your intention known to her. If she feels the same way with you, then you ppl should start dating but must be very professional in work environment. Highest one of you resigns after marriage.
Wait wait.... How do u aim at marrying someone without dating them at first. Isn't that the purpose for dating someone huh
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jul 13, 2019
Office romance is a no no; if you both feel the same, someone has to resign
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by cooleo(m): 6:51pm On Jul 13, 2019
Offpoint:
Work place relationship is the best, employers don't know it.

You'll work 10x times harder to impress your babe, you get exhausted and stress out you'll quickly do some quickie in the restroom and baaam... you're OK Las Las.

There's a reason why they said "Men only reason well after the released and a woman feels happier after orgasm"


Employers should use their heads
Hmm another angle
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Unlimited22: 6:59pm On Jul 13, 2019
rosy1992:
You don't just believe you are in love with someone because you both are close to each other. There is this natural tendency that you get infatuated with someone who is always close to you, it could be in your work or house, especially If that person is attractive.

Scrutinized yourself well, are you in love or lust? if it is love then follow your heart.
You, mon Cherie, are beautiful.
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Joystark(f): 7:09pm On Jul 13, 2019
donbachi:
U again?..what about ur 22yrs old girlfriend u've been dating for six months...now na ur colleague..dem use women swear 4 u?
He's an attention seeker.
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by meobizy(m): 7:47pm On Jul 13, 2019
Is this guy in the friendzone?
Seriously, is this guy not in the friendzone yet?

You can't start jumping into conclusions where women are involved.
You will hit a very huge obstacle.
You like your friend/colleague, ok, make a move on her.
I can't help you there because for you to have a job means you are old or mature to a certain level and hence have an idea of the human mating game.

Good luck.
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by ucnotjustok: 7:50pm On Jul 13, 2019
[quote author=DateMynd44 post=80224598]as in eh.
see below[/quote
Lol, dem don open dis one profile

Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jul 13, 2019
Offpoint:
Work place relationship is the best, employers don't know it.

You'll work 10x times harder to impress your babe, you get exhausted and stress out you'll quickly do some quickie in the restroom and baaam... you're OK Las Las.

There's a reason why they said "Men only reason well after the released and a woman feels happier after orgasm"


Employers should use their heads
funny idiot
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jul 13, 2019
[quote author=ucnotjustok post=80234572][/quote]dis is y I luv nigeria
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by stubbornman(m): 8:22pm On Jul 13, 2019
rosy1992:
You don't just believe you are in love with someone because you both are close to each other. There is this natural tendency that you get infatuated with someone who is always close to you, it could be in your work or house, especially If that person is attractive.

Scrutinized yourself well, are you in love or lust? if it is love then follow your heart.
You're right my dear!!!
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by calculator123(m): 8:32pm On Jul 13, 2019
Nacoss25:
Good day nairaland.

There is this colleague of mind whom we were employed the same period to different department in the same organisation, after about a month i began to observe her and i discovered some good qualities that i need in any woman to be called mine. Thats how i started crushing on her and we do relate very well.

I feel discourage asking her out due to the fact that we work in the same establishment and romantic affair with a colleague is not allowed there especially any person occupying her position due to the sensitivity and confidentiality of her position, it might cost her job.

After about two months this babe started crushing on me seriously, from the way she talks to me, looks at me, respects me, most time i will just playfully hold her seductively in the office, she will just be calm of which am very sure any other person that holds her that way she will repel the person ehh!

I love this girl but my problem is the organization we both are working for and the risk of her losing her job if the boss finds out about our relationship. What or how do u think i should handle this matter?
You spend most hours of your life in the office thus it's only natural that you get attracted towards one of your colleagues.
Whatever you do, avoid office romance at all cost
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Meti99(m): 8:55pm On Jul 13, 2019
I can bet my 2 foot-BALLs.. You guys are not in love, you are in lust
Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by DateMynd44(m): 9:51pm On Jul 13, 2019
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Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by Shalommy(f): 10:02pm On Jul 13, 2019
DateMynd44:
that shalommy na guy oh be careful oh
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Re: I Am In Love With My Colleague by DateMynd44(m): 10:04pm On Jul 13, 2019
Shalommy:
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