Stay with her pls since you love her. Nothing will happen

HarkymTheOracle:

Been expecting someone to say this.
You took the words right out my mouth.
That girl is a cultists whose aim is to initiate him.

exactly

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Wat advice do u need again pls? Ehen? 3 weeks ago u had a nightmare and so on , no continue with her to see if ur nightmare plays out matches.

Nigeria and everything within have gone down the drain. This is happening in a university? Apart from the 13 old federal universities, the rest are just breeding ground for cults and violent criminals.

;Drrf

marvelous000:
I'm really fighting hard not to insult you, but ask yourself this question; if peradventure, those cultist use you as statistics (kill you). what will become of the girl you're staking your life for? I bet, 6yrs from now, she must have forgotten your name. probably, married to your killer who is a changed man and a born again.
conversely, if you survive. what will be the benefit of it all. pússy? you mean; you want to use your life as quid pro quo for pussy?


My sympathies are with your parent, since you want to waste.

Kalashnikov102:
1- Avoid PDA

2- Stay Sharp

3- Don't move around isolated areas around the school alone

4- Don't keep late nights

5- Pray to God about the relationship and your life

6- Cult guys are scared too!! exhibit confidence when walking

7- Watch the body movements of the guys hitting on her whenever you spot them

8- Have some friends who are cultists too.. Especially those in your area or class.. Jus learn to Crack jokes with dem and move on.

9- Always have an update from her about the guys hitting on her

10- Do you plan on settling with this girl or you jus want relationship wey go end for school gate



Note!!! I ain't a cultist.. I did same while in school and it paid off!

Kudos to all the graduates on Nairaland.. E no easy especially when you school for South

Honestly, it is not especially in a school like AAU, my Mom gives me extra stipends for remaining clean in the face of the pressure.

Bro since you guys love each other my only advice for you is that go for consultation in the terms of your religion before making any decision

Kalashnikov102:
1- Avoid PDA

2- Stay Sharp

3- Don't move around isolated areas around the school alone

4- Don't keep late nights

5- Pray to God about the relationship and your life

6- Cult guys are scared too!! exhibit confidence when walking

7- Watch the body movements of the guys hitting on her whenever you spot them

8- Have some friends who are cultists too.. Especially those in your area or class.. Jus learn to Crack jokes with dem and move on.

9- Always have an update from her about the guys hitting on her

10- Do you plan on settling with this girl or you jus want relationship wey go end for school gate



Note!!! I ain't a cultist.. I did same while in school and it paid off!

Kudos to all the graduates on Nairaland.. E no easy especially when you school for South

All these precautions, for what? One line measure is just better: leave the girl.

Timil:
Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

I've been in a more serious situation.
Truth is if your girlfriend loves you the way you say she claims, she will limit and even stop association with cultists.

Guy, don't be afraid of any cultist. If you really love the girl, then you have to man up. No shaking

Freehuman:


Bro Dem fear army pass salt to fear water. Man, one time like that them mend one big man pickin join do the necessary initiation rites, The guy return home so he go fit heal make he follow go party wey dem go show am way and men wey dey game. The guy sick for house. Him old boy discover wetin Sup carry three hilux of army wey dem dey chain enter hostel pack boys wey join him pickin. Others hear story Japa from town. The guy bin dey 300 level so he no fit comot school like that. Those guys sign undertaking drop school ID and their parents come carry them for Army Base. The guy old boy vex reach the guys parents now, yan say make dem hold their children say the drilling wey happen so na small. Say anything wey happen to him pickin dem go hold the guys responsible.
The guy return to school no body even greet am.

Wahala dey when you invite another family make dem come settle another family matter . Bring DSs or soldier no man go worry you again.

This is what I call "a true father"

ritmek:
My brother run for your life....this life no get part 2 oo

Op don't doubt this...if she is yours, your path will cross again.

[quote author=Techcrunchng post=80133083]She is a cultist as well, her mission is to initiate you! Don't neglect the power of dreams, dreams usually come to reality in a case like this, though it might not happen exactly as seen but believe you me, it will surely happen in a similar way, human soul is powerful and I have experienced the power of dream. [/quo

Bro right aw can more Dan 4 cultist be after her if she is not one it u they r after better open ur eyes well well ohh b4 dey will accuse u of going out with their galfrd is either u join dem or dey harm u
And if dix is not the case even if u leave the gal now if one of the cultist is aware of u already dey can still harm u make sure u put tings in place if u r ending the relationship make sure both party's kw of dat

Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take shit from nobody.

Aint worth it please.

Be a warrior man, stand up for your woman. Be a hero

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

The choice is urs........feel free nwanem
Its a free world.
For those Geez telling u 2 form Shaolin master, they WON'T be there when d poo hits d fan!

Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take shit from nobody.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Be a warrior man, stand up for your woman. Be a hero

https://www.nairaland.com/5302339/crutech-student-shot-dead-immediately

Timil:
Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

Fool like you still asking questions when 4 to 5 people gave you good advise on leaving the girl yet you are still here talking trash.

Don’t leave her go and die for her like jack mugu

Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take shit from nobody.

Dont listen to this man with 103 fake likes oo. You can only get the sweetest and most beautiful ladies when you have cool cash. Las las she might leave you if things no quickly plum after graduation oo. Graduate in peace biko.

Freehuman:
The question now is if she loves you not if you love her.
She's definitely not innocent and she's definitely stupid is she's innocent. When a girl is in a relationship and keeps telling you her male friend invited her and she went out with him dump such girl . She can't take decisions for herself and doesn't know what she wants.

If she loves you and is innocent of cultism, let her tell the cult guy that she doesn't want him for a boyfriend and if he insists or threatens find 50,000 naira go pack 25 soldiers armed to their teeth for barracks make them arrest the cultists wey dey worry the girl place them for guard room make them sign undertaking say if them rape the girl or anything do am them go shoot them. No do make dem sabi say na you. The Girl fit yan the guy prior to this raid that her favourite uncle who always shower her with gifts is a high ranking military officer. Believe me guys go distant from the girl.
Na Egede men dey find your girl lol.
You also have to exercise patience and don't court her openly. Give her a break and resume when the tension has reduced. But after all these the girl would leave you. Take heart in advance.

Good. I like this. You gave a good advice. Girls like the James Bond kinda guy, he that can catch a grenade for Her, forgetting she has a vital role to play in a young relationship. Please my Bros use your head. Go your school and graduate with flying colors women full this earth, surpluse number; intact everyday more are coming up from all angle. The truth is this, at the right time, Love ill find you.and love ill fight for you. Focus on the needful now; tomorrow ill take care of himself. Bye

Hm. See as you qualify the relationship at the end "young, fresh and filled with love" e remain make you leak am join..mmlem

Hm..I hope you're still alive to read this sha.. LEAVE THAT GIRL ALONE!!!!!
cult boys dont announce their coming at you sometimes.
Now, you dont have only 1 but 4 deadly rivals!!!. Hm. If possible buy drink go meet all of them wen don see you with her and beg them say, your hands are off ooo. That its not what they're are thinking.
Then tell the girl to stop coming around you, physically, spiritually consciously and unconsciously. Please.
Thats my candid advice for you as a sisterlander o...
We will not read bad news about you in Jesus name ooo..

Timil:
A friend actually suggested that I should stay in the relationship but we should stop with the PDA and limit how we communicate in public for some time just to confuse the gang members.

Oh really? ... So that she'd now agree to "openly" date the unsuspecting frat boy abi? Then when he discovers what's going on, it would seem as if he's being cheated on. And when he takes vengeance, of course no one would argue against that, since people only saw what was "official". Your friend must be really smart, you're so lucky

Freehuman:
The question now is if she loves you not if you love her.
She's definitely not innocent and she's definitely stupid is she's innocent. When a girl is in a relationship and keeps telling you her male friend invited her and she went out with him dump such girl . She can't take decisions for herself and doesn't know what she wants.

If she loves you and is innocent of cultism, let her tell the cult guy that she doesn't want him for a boyfriend and if he insists or threatens find 50,000 naira go pack 25 soldiers armed to their teeth for barracks make them arrest the cultists wey dey worry the girl place them for guard room make them sign undertaking say if them rape the girl or anything do am them go shoot them. No do make dem sabi say na you. The Girl fit yan the guy prior to this raid that her favourite uncle who always shower her with gifts is a high ranking military officer. Believe me guys go distant from the girl.
Na Egede men dey find your girl lol.
You also have to exercise patience and don't court her openly. Give her a break and resume when the tension has reduced. But after all these the girl would leave you. Take heart in advance.

egede boi

iif you're still alive...did you break up ??