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nwanneni:
control him how?
Did the op tell you he is jobless?
No woman can control a man that has his own money.never!!unless the op is a sissy.
And blessing sef doesn't have much.
Stop sounding like na dangote pikin.
But she is connected and will be less of a financial burden to this op.
But no,e want go carry stress put for head.
I wish am well sha oo

I do understand Blessing will not be a burden to him as she has her own money to spend but I feel it will be hard for her to respect him as a man as she is likewise older than the Op.

Those are my concerns for Op if he decides to settle down with Blessing. Ladies like that are quite bossy.

Mcslize:
I do understand Blessing will not be a burden to him as she has her own money to spend but I feel it will be hard for her to respect him as a man as she is likewise older than the Op.

Those are my concerns for Op if he decides to settle down with Blessing. Ladies like that are quite bossy.

Yeah,she will boss him if only he wants to be bossed around.
He should never ask or receive money from her and he is good.
To tell you the truth,being with a penniless woman is more stressful.one thing i can never do.
What's up with all this submission sef?
Just don't insult me,talk to me carelessly and do the right things and be ready to take corrections and we are good.
Nwanne woman weh never see road na disease oo!

nwanneni:
Yeah,she will boss him if only he wants to be bossed around.
He should never ask or receive money from her and he is good.
To tell you the truth,being with a penniless woman is more stressful.one thing i can never do.
What's up with all this submission sef?
Just don't insult me,talk to me carelessly and do the right things and be ready to take corrections and we are good.
Nwanne woman weh never see road na disease oo!

That's the respect I am talking about. A lady that will not talk to you carelessly, do the right things and be ready to take corrections are not easy to come by let a lone an older woman. When both of them quarrel, it won't be too hard for Blessing to remind him of how she is older than him. She will constantly remind him of that and she will hardly take corrections cuz she will assume she knows better than the OP and reminds him of how she is a graduate and he is not. All those stuff are my critical concerns for OP.

But to be Frank, it's quite nice settling down with a self dependent lady like blessing. Even ma own papa advise me never to settle down with a lady that has nothing doing for herself as she will be a liability. However, no condition is permanent. That op lady will still get something doing along the line as time goes on.

Already, the op is a business minded individual. He can set up a business for her present woman after tying the knot with her so as to make her financially self dependent.

He said Blessing is lives larger than him Sir

nwanneni:
control him how?
Did the op tell you he is jobless?
No woman can control a man that has his own money.never!!unless the op is a sissy.
And blessing sef doesn't have much.
Stop sounding like na dangote pikin.
But she is connected and will be less of a financial burden to this op.
But no,e want go carry stress put for head.
I wish am well sha oo

This story just get as e be.

Esthered:
He said Blessing is lives larger than him Sir

has his OWN money is what I said.
Whether she makes or have more really doesn't matter.
If a man has all the necessaries in life,I see no reason why he wouldn't go for any woman of his dream,except the elites of course!
I've dated a woman(a doc) that was way more than what I was worth at the time,but she knew she dare not bring that up!
Made me wanted to "do pass myself" but I realised it may not work cos I did not like the way her parents(dad especially) treated me,not her!and she also wasn't sure she wanted me.
Was an on and off thing.but blessing wants the op(big difference)
Well the OP doesn't sound confident so I understand why it might be a problem for him.

I'm 24 yrs not graduate. My woman 21 yrs not graduate. Blessing 27 yrs a graduate. I'm the same tribe with a Blessing. But I start a life together with my woman... When I don't know my left and right.

You want to leave a woman who started a life with you when you didn't know your left from your right just because she is not a graduate and is not from your tribe. You forget that there are also evil graduates and evil people in EVERY tribe in the world. Even the devil can transform into an angel of light.

Ilekokonit:
You want to leave a woman who started a life with you when you didn't know your left from your right just because she is not a graduate and is not from your tribe. You forget that there are also evil graduates and evil people in EVERY tribe in the world. Even the devil can transform into an angel of light.

Emotional blackmail!
The op can still settle the said lady before leaving,shey you know?
Like pay her off or something

Okay

nwanneni:
has his OWN money is what I said.
Whether she makes or have more really doesn't matter.
If a man has all the necessaries in life,I see no reason why he wouldn't go for any woman of his dream,except the elites of course!
I've dated a woman(a doc) that was way more than what I was worth at the time,but she knew she dare not bring that up!
Made me wanted to "do pass myself" but I realised it may not work cos I did not like the way her parents(dad especially) treated me,not her!and she also wasn't sure she wanted me.
Was an on and off thing.but blessing wants the op(big difference)
Well the OP doesn't sound confident so I understand why it might be a problem for him.

Esthered:
Okay

you don't need to okay me or try to be rude and stupid at the same time.
It makes you look stupid

nwanneni:
Yeah,she will boss him if only he wants to be bossed around.
He should never ask or receive money from her and he is good.
To tell you the truth,being with a penniless woman is more stressful.one thing i can never do.
What's up with all this submission sef?
Just don't insult me,talk to me carelessly and do the right things and be ready to take corrections and we are good.
Nwanne woman weh never see road na disease oo!

It is better to marry an exposed lady than settle down with naive girl who might be worst when she sees exposure.

chidekings:
It is better to marry an exposed lady than settle down with naive girl who might be worst when she sees exposure.

your head dey there.
One bottle of chilled moet for you
No mind all these pretenders/dumbos who would jump at the opportunity if they ever find it.

Okay meant that I get your point but as you tried to sound intelligent you rather showcased the extent of your stupidity. How dare you accuse me of being rude and stupid. You have a very big problem. Just seek for help from professionals because you need it.

nwanneni:
you don't need to okay me or try to be rude and stupid at the same time.
It makes you look stupid

Esthered:
Okay meant that I get your point but as you tried to sound intelligent you rather showcased the extent of your stupidity. How dare you accuse me of being rude and stupid. You have a very big problem. Just seek for help from professionals because you need it.

nope,you were rude!!
I don't need any professional help.
Also,I am not trying to sound smart.you know why?because I am smart and I know it!I really do not need your validation.
Reason I have been able to make myself very comfortable in life this early.
Thanks in advance.
Btw how did you figure I need help
Someone has been stalking me

hmmmm ur story long nor be small. buh my brother that line of opening a joint acct with ur girlfriend jst got me talking. See this tin called love, na small small dem deh flow wit am, just like alcohol drink small small cos if u rush am or over drink am u go soak inside.
You are the one even leading thr blessing on, cos i see know reason u wud go visiting a girl that wants u to go third base wit her, call her bla bla bla e.t.c. cos if u're serious on her u already know wat to do either direct warning or avoid her totally. i have one simple advicd for u per sey weigh ur options but be very careful of desperate ppl.

I was never rude but the over bloated ego of your early success has made you think everyone should always align with you at all times. I don't stalk you Logobenz but the forum is open to all Mr Smart. I wonder what your comfort has to do with the topic of discussion. What's the essence of you singing your praise when you're not listed on Forbes List or Who is Who in the world of anything with your early comfort Logobenz.

nwanneni:
nope,you were rude!!
I don't need any professional help.
Also,I am not trying to sound smart.you know why?because I am smart and I know it!I really do not need your validation.
Reason I have been able to make myself very comfortable in life this early.
Thanks in advance.
Btw how did you figure I need help
Someone has been stalking me

Esthered:
I was never rude but the over bloated ego of your early success has made you think everyone should always align with you at all times. I don't stalk you Logobenz but the forum is open to all Mr Smart. I wonder what your comfort has to do with the topic of discussion. What's the essence of you singing your praise when you're not listed on Forbes List or Who is Who in the world of anything with your early comfort Logobenz.

she even knows I am logobenz
Don't you even dare guilt trip me because it won't work!
Did you not call me stupid?so I brought it up so you know I am far from stupid na.abi stupid people dey make am?
And yes,you were rude by saying "okay".like what the hell was That?
And yes,I am proud of my early success.call it whatever you like,I really don't care.real talk.

You were the first to use the word stupid now you take offense when I did as you did. Stupid people have capacity to make it even if it's on rare occasions Mr Early Success.

nwanneni:
she even knows I am logobenz
Don't you even dare guilt trip me because it won't work!
Did you not call me stupid?so I brought it up so you know I am far from stupid na.abi stupid people dey make am?
And yes,you were rude by saying "okay".like what the hell was That?
And yes,I am proud of my early success.call it whatever you like,I really don't care.real talk.

Esthered:
You were the first to use the word stupid now you take offense when I did as you did. Stupid people have capacity to make it even if it's on rare occasions Mr Early Success.

I never said you were stupid.i said you telling me "okay" sounded rude and stupid at the same time.
I even advised that you saying stuff like that might make you look stupid.it was an advice.
And a stupid person never makes it anywhere.not now,not ever.
Are you bothered about early success?why do you keep repeating it?
Sounds like there is an undertone to this message.is there?
If you have something to say,go ahead and say it.
You have been stalking me so by now,you should know I am a very open person.
Or do you want me to call you so that you can tell me whatever it is over the phone?

No need to call you Mr Nwanneni. I now understand what you meant earlier. I don't stalk you Sir. I only came across your thread on family section few days ago. Do have a great week ahead.

nwanneni:
I never said you were stupid.i said you telling me "okay" sounded rude and stupid at the same time.
I even advised that you saying stuff like that might make you look stupid.it was an advice.
And a stupid person never makes it anywhere.not now,not ever.
Are you bothered about early success?why do you keep repeating it?
Sounds like there is an undertone to this message.is there?
If you have something to say,go ahead and say it.
You have been stalking me so by now,you should know I am a very open person.
Or do you want me to call you so that you can tell me whatever it is over the phone?

Esthered:
No need to call you Mr Nwanneni. I now understand what you meant earlier. I don't stalk you Sir. I only came across your thread on family section few days ago. Do have a great week ahead.

I am sorry I made you feel that way too miss or Mrs?
Was never my intention to fight with anyone this cool afternoon.please accept my sincere apologies.
Truth be told,I have been really paranoid these days.
I am sorry too ok?
No need calling me sir please.i am a very young man,like you I presume?
Come on,chill a little,ok?
Are you in lagos?

Apologies accepted, I'm also sorry. I'm based in Lagos.

nwanneni:
I am sorry I made you feel that way too miss or Mrs?
Was never my intention.please accept my sincere apologies.
Truth be told,I have been really paranoid these days.
I am sorry too ok?
No need calling me sir please.i am a very young man,like you I presume?
Come on,chill a little,ok?
Are you in lagos?

Esthered:
Apologies accepted, I'm also sorry. I'm based in Lagos.

alright.can I get you a little gift at least on my way back?
I might land in Lagos though.haven't made up my mind yet but it's a possibility.come on,no vex you hear?

Goodyp, don't leave your girlfriend and don't leave Blessing. Learn how women work and how to handle them. Be a real man with control — don't shake like a sissy.

If you don't, you'll cry at last — even your girlfriend, the one you said you love, will hurt you soon.

Most Nigerian men focus on school and money making, but they never care to learn about how the opposite sex works. These men are digging their graves of heartbreak, depression, suìcidal thoughts, and frustration.

A man who falls in love without learning how the opposite gender works, falls in a pit. He may not know it yet, but that day of "Had I Known," is coming. Be wise.

I no dey vex o. Never mind about the gift. Looking forward to reading your success story and accomplishment of the purpose of the trip soonest.

nwanneni:
alright.can I get you a little gift at least on my way back?
I might land in Lagos though.haven't made up my mind yet but it's a possibility.come on,no vex you hear?

Esthered:
I no dey vex o. Never mind about the gift. Looking forward to reading your success story and accomplishment of the purpose of the trip soonest.

Alright,i understand.
Well the trip has been worth it so far.
Was suppose to go back to Africa tonight but i have been very lazy lately.
I think I will move on Tuesday instead.
Thanks a lot,I appreciate.will update the thread more when I get back.

Charanko:
♠️

[color=maroon] I didn't read the nonsense you wrote.
But it's obvious that you are a very weak sissy.
I spit men who allow women to give them problems.
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What's the matter with you ?This is wrong.This kind of negative energy would drain u.

I'm happy for you.
Do have a safe trip home.
You're welcome.
Looking forward to your update. Take care and all the best in your endeavours.

nwanneni:
Alright,i understand.
Well the trip has been worth it so far.
Was suppose to go back to Africa tonight but i have been very lazy lately.
I think I will move on Tuesday instead.
Thanks a lot,I appreciate.will update the thread more when I get back.

Thanks everyone

she hissed and hanged the call.

WOMEN WITH PRIDE... It happened when i was due for everything.
I told her i won't accept disrespect from any body that she should apologized...
this is 3 days now she has not called.
but as i speak now the love and feelings i have for her are gone.
we didn't break just that i don't want her back.....

Op you're from Ibibio.

Charleys:
Op you're from Ibibio.

How did you know?