omochelsea004:
yes she was circumcised... the person that did it no even try at all, & i knw that's the problem with her, but if there are medications that can help improve her sexual drive, i am ready to take it as one of my responsibilities, as a matter of fact i heard about one "Spanish fly" but i don't know much about it & i don't want anything with side effects

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

Unrated900:
Marry her

Every man want a good woman who won’t be fucking outside when ever we are off the country or state.

My advise goes thus

Don’t talk about the sex life to her anymore

Marry her and

After marriage try and have two side chicks that would be satisfying you all the time.

Do this and thank me later

omochelsea004:
yes she was circumcised... the person that did it no even try at all, & i knw that's the problem with her, but if there are medications that can help improve her sexual drive, i am ready to take it as one of my responsibilities, as a matter of fact i heard about one "Spanish fly" but i don't know much about it & i don't want anything with side effects

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for 8 years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.
The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie. Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.
Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

omochelsea004:
are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?...... omo... that one go tough o

omochelsea004:
nothing bad about her past, she told me everything before we even started at all, she had a secondary schl lover then which was her first love, we met in higher institution & am her second nothing more & i believed because she is a kind of girl that doesn't like anything secret

omochelsea004:
exactly my fear bro, if she is like this with no burden or pressure whatsoever, how will it be when she start taking care of kids, & other burdens that come with marriage, at that time will i even be relevant at all?

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

Nackzy:
Chaaiii if you really love her as you say, you will make do with her least libido..what we do 4 love as far as you use to put your dick deh once in a blue moon that's enough

omochelsea004:
initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's already affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it

Unrated900:
Their is one Trebor I would recommend to you

When ever she licks it

She will always be in the mood.

My concern is that if she is in a public bus and lick it,then sorry is her name

If you want it let me know.

Only for mature minded person


Just trying to help your marriage.

BoboKush:


Spanish fly come to my mind

BoboKush:


Spanish fly come to my mind

Munzy14:

Check if she had a past, to me it appears she has a past that comes in the moment u want to...
She really need to open up, if she is not using that to fast forward the marriage.
let her understand marriage is life issue. U need sanity to be the best man for her in it.
Her problem might be a case of mindset.

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for 8 years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.
The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie. Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.
Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Gerrard59:


Is that not adultery? Which bible do you folks read these days sef? And why do you believe the man should cheat but the wife shouldn't? What about him contracting diseases and infect the wife, some of which have no cure?

Besides, having a side chick let alone two is very expensive. I see most men having side chicks these days when they don't have at least $10K as liquid investment; coupled with children's school fees, rent, health care, entertainment, clothing etc. Side chick is not for the financially fainthearted.

Unrated900:


You made a point

But my words are proverb to him

If I ask him to dash his foot in fire

Must he do that

One should always used his or her discretions

In life.

Side chicks cost money

While some don’t cost

Go for educated one who has a job and not the jobless ones out there

If u spend 10k ur side chick will spend 7k

That’s what I meant

Gerrard59:


Is that not adultery? Which bible do you folks read these days sef? And why do you believe the man should cheat but the wife shouldn't? What about him contracting diseases and infect the wife, some of which have no cure?

Besides, having a side chick let alone two is very expensive. I see most men having side chicks these days when they don't have at least $10K as liquid investment; coupled with children's school fees, rent, health care, entertainment, clothing etc. Side chick is not for the financially fainthearted.

thesicilian:

So after 8yrs he should keep looking for her weak point to activate? Even the buttons to nuclear weapons don't take that long to locate.

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for 8 years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.
The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie. Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.
Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for 8 years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.
The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie. Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.
Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?