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omochelsea004:
please i need to know more about this ... how does it works? where do i get it? is it affordable for middle class? can i get it in pharmacies around [b]please i need to know more about this ... how does it works? where do i get it? is it affordable for middle class? can i get it in pharmacies around [/b]please i need to know more about this Spanish fly... how does it works? where do i get it? is it affordable for middle class? can i get it in pharmacies around

It affordable for low class sef... She won't use it every time tho..... Btw check local stores/ chemist or even jumia

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.
The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie. Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.
Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Show her this thread, she should what people are saying.

Gerrard59:
Apologies for being pedantic, but the bold are false. No side chick will spend her money for something someone else bought. Why spend on an outing when there are gazzilions of men willing to spend the entire 10K on her? Is she a wife to spend 7K for a 20K bill? It is not her responsibility. A side chick is an expensive baggage and most men spend double (both family & side chick). The educated ones are even more expensive (rent, shopping, recharge cards (both calls & data), schooling etc). Like I opined, only financially buoyant men should have side chicks. It makes no sense to have a side chick or chicks yet the family suffers both short-term & long term. It smacks of irresponsibility.

Yes once again you are right and I will keep saying you are right.

Am not saying it’s good to have side chicks but I can tell you categorically that 75% of Nigerian men who are married has side chicks.
even the so called believers and the church goers has more.

Am not saying is a good thing sir,but at times you cannot help it.

Some side chicks see you as potential,they can spend for you and believes in the nearest future they will gain from it.

Above all sir only the wise one plays the games of thrones.

But no one is more wiser except our creator.

Honesty pays in marriage

When I was in Dubai for work,the work wasn’t going on well I had to pay bills and other basic amenities,no Money to make this happen side chicks apparently helped me which she knew I was married.

Upon my arrival to my country I actually told my wife all that happens and she says such is life

She was sent to assist you at the moment

Once again we learned everyday

Side chicks isn’t that good but to few they are good.

Op you have very low self esteem which explains Why you would remain in a relationship where your needs are not being met.

Love conquers all

I can't marry a woman with a low sex drive even if I love her. If you ain't ready to fûck, fûck out. Though, I'll teach her the thing, but if she isn't ready to learn, I'll use my hand and search for another man for her.

Wait! Are you sure you're great in bed yourself? If you're all about your personal pleasure and you only last for 5 — 10 minutes, then you are the cause.

I'll recommend you read Lasticle, then read TheDAVIDO Fûck Guide.


Download the free version here https://shop.wetclef.com/download-lasticle/ and thank me later.

A man's prowess in the bedroom increases a woman's libido. Also, teach her Kegel exercise.

If you can't try to be selfish even for once in your life, how are other people supposed to like and appreciate the unique individual that you are?

Op, you caused your problems the moment you started to put up with this lousy behavioir. The best you could have done as soon as you noticed this should have been to end the dead relationship and move on to something fresh so that she too could connect with somebody she is more in tune with.

But, unfortunately, you stayed and now you're even planning to wife somebody who obviously no longer has any sexual desires for you. How long more do you really believe you can cope with this before you completely lose it?

I used to be like this but that was in my early twenties when I didn't have much understanding about how life works.

If you would learn to always put you first before any other consideration (except of course in situations that are to do with your work and your boss), you wouldn't have this problem. Think.

omochelsea004:
are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?...... omo... that one go tough o

Guy, The only solution i will want you to test on her is a mixture some Nairalanders often talked about which spanish fly or something relating to these. i can't really remember the name of the drug but it has fly in it .Pour the drug in her juice and see if she is gonna get aroused or not, if she doesn't get aroused, guy,, japa be that o. It means she's not gonna feel anything sexually and thats a great concern in your marriage .

Cut off that relationship, you're about to marry a lesbian

Buy sexdoll

Don't Marry her,she's probably getting it from somewhere else,play a lesbian porn and watch how she reacts.if you love her enough to marry her find yourself a side chick she'll understand.

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

She's either asexual, or she's a rape victim

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Cut off that relationship, you're about to marry a lesbian. I am talking from experience, don't be a victim before you wise up

1x2x3:
Be giving her Spanish fly till she develops wings and fly away.
Bro there are 2 things you can do here..... 3 things actually.
1. Marry her and manage it like that 2. Marry her and have an alternative for sexual desires. 3. Don't marry her.

lol. u mean Spanish fly can make a lady fly away. abegi , be serious o.

No go find tramadol buy
200mg is the best deal.

Incompatible sexual life has d capacity to wreck the marriage. If u want to go ahead to marry her, then u must learn to take as she is. Its up to u

Where she dey, na my type of woman be that, because ma libido na -3.... I like that know and of woman wella, sexing like once in a year; only to make babies not for fun.

omochelsea004:
yes she was circumcised... the person that did it no even try at all, & i knw that's the problem with her, but if there are medications that can help improve her sexual drive, i am ready to take it as one of my responsibilities, as a matter of fact i heard about one "Spanish fly" but i don't know much about it & i don't want anything with side effects

That is the problem right there. She was circumcised.
Circumcised women generally have very low sex drive ..
I would advise you Google "how to increase sexual desires in circumcised women"..
That practice need to be banned
Prof Lekan Oyefara of Unilag wrote a Journal on it.. google nd read it..If you plan on getting married to her, you need to know what you getting into

Op, please run when you can.

Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.

But sorry to say that 94% of naija girls only have financial weak point. Doesn't matter if the man is an imbe self.

Upon all the shout wey you dey shout

Longtime ago, when we start you dey do like say you no wan do...... Omo!!!

Right now, I enjoy d time am spending with you ...Omo!!

When we make love, I love d way you dey doooo,

When we drive pass I like d way you put that thing on me

When I do you one kilometer per hour

Let's increase d tempo, babu wahala
9ice ft Banky w

Let her take foods or some stuff like dark chocolate. It will make her feel Hot and want it. You can read more about stuff that improves sex drive

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuu_aLGt4CY

Introduce her to Kata Mata.... You will surely thank me....

omochelsea004:
exactly my fear bro, if she is like this with no burden or pressure whatsoever, how will it be when she start taking care of kids, & other burdens that come with marriage, at that time will i even be relevant at all?

my oga truth is bitter but I will tell in simple term DROP THE MARRIAGE or going on with your plan if you are planning to have second wife soon

Bro, pls call her, speak with her, and break up with her. I am telling u, this sex issue will cause u serious frustration. I know many many people in this mess..

It js good u discovered on time. There js nothing u can do to help her except medication. If u love her so much, locate a good doctor or sex specialist or browse and get medication that can help improve her sex drive. This means u guys need to agree together.

She takes it often to increase her drive. A-side this, there js nothing else u can do bro. It is natural. And this is the most frustrating thing that can happen to anyone in marriage.

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Break the relationship

omochelsea004:
are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?...... omo... that one go tough o

Maintain good hygiene, learn her love language, communicate with her, be kind & patient. No woman can resist these qualities

Is she a virgin? If yes marry her.