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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by olawooro: 11:09pm On Jul 19, 2019
Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.
Where is your own weak point located? Tell me abeg.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Abfinest007(m): 11:11pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at too much she will cheat on you,marry her ,but least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
to me i like these kind of ladies bcoz if she love sex ,she will cheat
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by macho44(m): 11:11pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
Give her "KREST"

Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Jchi9876: 11:11pm On Jul 19, 2019
ask Atiku how he is screwing ipobs, yeebos and pdp pigs in the yansh all the time

he has the secret

thank me later
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Sonofthunder9(m): 11:11pm On Jul 19, 2019
Wat den have u been enjoying in her since huh huh
Just asking for a friend though tongue
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by otherway:
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
you will be amazed when you eventually realize she has even a stronger drive than you..

Just focus on giving her pre-intimacy without asking for sex and she will be the one begging for it.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by dehi: 11:13pm On Jul 19, 2019
One thing that should come to your mind is,,, marriage is a life time thing... You have to tell her what's in your mind that you don't like it and it will affect the marriage if you continue with it. Just imagine person like me that is crazy over girls with better backside and front. I can never never make the mistake of marrying someone without those qualities because I will end up cheating on her
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by godwon01(m): 11:14pm On Jul 19, 2019
Search for Chinese herbal cream on the internet .Use it to rub your penis an hr before sex.She will definitely ask for more. If U are a Yoruba man from Ogun state ,go to Oja Ifo ask of Iya alagunmu from Saki. The woman sell good adodun U will drink it about 3hrs before the action.Or ask for the one to rub the site . She will ask for more after. Good luck.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Jchi9876: 11:14pm On Jul 19, 2019
Unrated900:
Yes once again you are right and I will keep saying you are right.

Am not saying it’s good to have side chicks but I can tell you categorically that 75% of Nigerian men who are married has side chicks.
even the so called believers and the church goers has more.

Am not saying is a good thing sir,but at times you cannot help it.

Some side chicks see you as potential,they can spend for you and believes in the nearest future they will gain from it.

Above all sir only the wise one plays the games of thrones.

But no one is more wiser except our creator.

Honesty pays in marriage

When I was in Dubai for work,the work wasn’t going on well I had to pay bills and other basic amenities,no Money to make this happen side chicks apparently helped me which she knew I was married.

Upon my arrival to my country I actually told my wife all that happens and she says such is life

She was sent to assist you at the moment

Once again we learned everyday

Side chicks isn’t that good but to few they are good.
If I happen to screw your wife in her time of need

will you also take it as "such is life"?
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by BareFacedLies(m): 11:15pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
If I were you I would quit this relationship now and save myself a lot of headache later
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by ItsJagaban: 11:15pm On Jul 19, 2019
Asexual reproduction grin
People mad for this thread o
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Unrated900(m): 11:18pm On Jul 19, 2019
Jchi9876:
If I happen to screw your wife in her time of need

will you also take it as "such is life"?
Cos i know nothing can
Make u screw her cos the family is planted on the rock that can’t be shaketh

What’s so ever ways

So
That is it
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by donfeluche(m): 11:19pm On Jul 19, 2019
your wife is suffering from HORMONAL IMBALANCE, it happened to my wife for 5years. In fact at a point I used to call her wood, and named her a lot of things, I even went out to look for a girlfriend which nearly cost me my marriage, but finally I was able to get a herbal solution to her problem, and now am running for sex, because my wife wants it more and more.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Afflalo(m): 11:22pm On Jul 19, 2019
why u con dey report am on social media,,,next time u shld reason well
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jul 19, 2019
Michelle55:
No one is ever complete/perfect.. Op, that's her own imperfection, either you deal with it and accept her like that or let her go to avoid strain and infidelity during the course of your marriage.
And if this case were to be reversed??
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by aomolola: 11:27pm On Jul 19, 2019
Well, I feel she's just not comfortable with having sex before marriage. I had that experience too . But I became so comfortable after our wedding
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 19, 2019
pocohantas:
After 8 years,

Local man suddenly remembers the BUT he can't live with.

The BUT he has lived with for 8yrs.


Do you know how many awards Ronaldo has won in the past 8yrs?

I would never understand why women date a man for years. Never!
Feminists with sense of humor grin
Your are a lowkey wife material tongue
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by guvngige: 11:33pm On Jul 19, 2019
Or she's getting it elsewhere
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Jchi9876: 11:33pm On Jul 19, 2019
Unrated900:
Cos i know nothing can
Make u screw her cos the family is planted on the rock that can’t be shaketh

What’s so ever ways

So
That is it
you be confirm hypocrite. You still haven't answered the question.
Your wife gree without no pushback and that is not a sign that someone else is not screwing her real good

My man use your head ooo
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Lexusgs430: 11:35pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
Are you sure she has not been a victim of FGM?...... huh
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by themonk(m): 11:39pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's already affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it
Visit a psychologist and a psychiatrist with her. Sexual arousal and pleasure is a brain thing than any other thing.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by KingBaba1(m): 11:40pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
Try and get old or new sunday punch newspaper and turn to the last 5 pages of the paper or there about, and u will find this quater page colum/advert about your wife predicament and the solution. There are pills she can use and she will feel sexual urge as soon as she takes it, and there are also adult movies and lot more from the colum.. Peace
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Unrated900(m): 11:40pm On Jul 19, 2019
Jchi9876:
you be confirm hypocrite. You still haven't answered the question.
Your wife gree without no pushback and that is not a sign that someone else is not screwing her real good

My man use your head ooo
Thanks na you gan gan needs to use your head

If you marry your wife in the club,you will be given club attitude

If you marry her else expect the result

Safe God bless
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by wizod(m): 11:41pm On Jul 19, 2019
[color=#990000][/color]buy honey and sugar, mix dem together and rub into her vagina. She'll begin to have itchy and sex driven pussy, get ready for sex everyday.

Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by you4or: 11:42pm On Jul 19, 2019
Seems you are not meant to be together.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Andrez123(m): 11:44pm On Jul 19, 2019
She might be a lesbian. She does love you alright but perhaps not sexually attracted to you or men.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by biggy26: 11:44pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
Marriage will increase her libido. You're eating stolen bread, and it has become like gravel in your mouth.

But a piece of advice, some women have high libido now until you get married. After kids, knock off. What will do, run?
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Jchi9876: 11:47pm On Jul 19, 2019
Unrated900:
Thanks na you gan gan needs to use your head

If you marry your wife in the club,you will be given club attitude

If you marry her else expect the result

Safe God bless
but you fuckkkk another woman outside and you no want another man to Bleep your own woman

which kain person you behuh grin grin
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by wellmax(m): 11:47pm On Jul 19, 2019
Guy she's tired of your free passage. Marry her first and stop fornication
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by jaxxy(m): 11:48pm On Jul 19, 2019
Op ask other circumcised gals how they did it. This is a hard one. At the end of the day life isn’t about sex or is it? I know I just sounded like a hypocrite in sm way I’m sorry
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Herolly(m): 11:49pm On Jul 19, 2019
This happened to me couple months ago... it’s either you let her be since you cannot cope with her or find this simple solution. The only advice I can give to you is just to walk to any pharmaceutical store to buy SPANISH GOLD FLY. It helps a lot
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