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My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 6:09am On Jul 20, 2019
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by ITbomb(m): 6:43am On Jul 20, 2019
If I were you, I would give her "the kind of victory that she wants" and move on (as long as it doesn't cost me anything) .
It's a small world bro.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by eezeribe(m): 7:17am On Jul 20, 2019
Op, don't give her any fuccking victory... She can even die from hating on you, no problem...
Since you have moved on, forward ever... Backward never

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 8:32am On Jul 20, 2019
She deserves no fuvking victory... Heck! You said this girl was cheating on you.

Don't give a damn about what she says to people and don't let anyone manipulate you.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Skmoda360(m): 10:46am On Jul 20, 2019
Never be manipulated by a bitch...a bitch remains a bitch. undecided

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Charleys: 11:18am On Jul 20, 2019
Send her Recharge card. That's all she wants.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 11:26am On Jul 20, 2019
tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear. I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.
Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.
My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.
My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.
Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.


Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jul 20, 2019
She wants you back

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Unik3030: 1:33pm On Jul 20, 2019
Celestial777:



Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las
u self dey date ondo girls, they too like sex n money n they see no big deal about having multiple partners. the worst thing is if ondo girl born 10 children for u e no mean say she no go leave u

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Blackfire(m): 1:47pm On Jul 20, 2019
Unik3030:
u self dey date ondo girls, they too like sex n money n they see no big deal about having multiple partners. the worst thing is if ondo girl born 10 children for u e no mean say she no go leave u




Are you OK, why area you dissing ondo people like that?

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by SaucyBenks(m): 1:48pm On Jul 20, 2019
tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear. I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.
Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.
My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.
My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.
Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.
listen... Listen bro... Lemme tell you what everyone here is scared to tell you...

She has become obsessed with you and won't mind if she gets to Bleep you again and again, she doesn't just want to say it... I bleeped my pastor's daughter who was so mean to me.. Guess where I bleeped her the very first day we talked "in an incompleted building" and it continued till she left for school... She misses you bro, use your head, invite her over and let the rest be history

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by businessman7(m): 2:46pm On Jul 20, 2019
She's like that because she knows she can't get what she just lost
But how about you ignoring what everyone is saying and focusing on winning and slap her fucking face with money

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 3:04pm On Jul 20, 2019
Unik3030:
u self dey date ondo girls, they too like sex n money n they see no big deal about having multiple partners. the worst thing is if ondo girl born 10 children for u e no mean say she no go leave u


I never know say they bad reach like that
Na now I know ....i dey date her friend now and her younger sister na my sure prissy now wey sure gidi

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by tunjilee003: 3:06pm On Jul 20, 2019
I'll advice you to drop ego and beg her, begging her won't cost you anything

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by akaahs(m): 3:31pm On Jul 20, 2019
Hope we aren't dating the same girl. My ex used to have the same character and attitudes not until I decided to frustrate her till she quit the relationship by herself.
Till up to date, she is so pained after 3 years each time my friend called her , she keeps lamenting what I did to her thinking I ll come back and apologise.
Ops don't ever apologise, there type ll never apologise but rather they think they have what it's takes to attract their kind of guys. Just live ur life nature has a way of resolving such issues. Move on.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Texman21: 7:02pm On Jul 20, 2019
just let it goooooooooo
just let it beeeeeeeee
why dont you be youuuuuu
and i will be me





just singing

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by BareFacedLies(m): 9:38am On Jul 21, 2019
tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear. I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.
Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.
My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.
My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.
Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

Did you ever promise her marriage?

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by boiz2men(m): 11:08am On Jul 21, 2019
Hey make peace with her but don't beg.

You never know what will happen tomorrow. Make peace with all men

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by carter009(m): 11:18am On Jul 21, 2019
WTF!!!!!!!! Did u just say, 9!!!! guys plus you making it 10, Jesus!!!!!!!!! What is really wrong with girls, this is madness,,you are very lucky she did not infect you with disease., that's why we have broke greedy,hungry, poverty stricken hoes everywhere.
Celestial777:



Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jul 21, 2019
BareFacedLies:


Did you ever promise her marriage?
Yes I did....

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jul 21, 2019
Firstly all those ppl wey dey carry her matter come give u about her being bitter and angry about u and bla bla make u tell them to stop carrying her matter to u. Dem wan get something for ur mouth wey u go yarn and dem go carry wetin u talk to her. Just use sense roll with dose ppl. This is why sometimes wen u dating or u break up with a girl its best not to let ur friends into d issue. Be careful about those ppl dat gossip her matter to u..they are dangerious.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by clive2u(m): 12:03am On Jul 22, 2019
Its normal for girls to hate their ex especially when he's moved on and not still begging them to come bk

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Defenderalert(m): 12:06am On Jul 22, 2019
If you know you wronged her apologise so she can get closure and you both can move on and bear no grudges.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Deicide: 1:00am On Jul 22, 2019
Don't they all?

If only you knew what ex's say about us behind our back esp to their new B.f.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 7:13am On Jul 22, 2019
I think it is safer to sleep with a sex worker than our so called girlfriends.
A sex worker will always insist on a condom but our so called GF's will go about sleeping around with multiple BF's without condom then return to share whatever she has accumulated to one Innocent boyfriend.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by BareFacedLies(m): 7:30am On Jul 22, 2019
tommyken:

Yes I did....

In that case she has every reason to be bitter towards you cos she probably turned away other potential suitors cos of your promise

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by T3ndrils: 7:36am On Jul 22, 2019
tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear. I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.
Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.
My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.
My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.
Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

See... if you beg/apologize to this girl, i assure you that things will never remain the same if you plan on getting together[/b]which is a very fvcked up idea[/b]. Even if you don't plan on getting together again don't because it ll make her feel that what she did to you was not wrong as she ll keeping doing it, not just to you but to every other niqqa she comes across... women have this stupid attitude of never admitting to their faults... Is she so immature to notice that she fvcked up big time...? WHO GIVES HALF A FVCK IF THE B!TCH HARBOURS A GRUDGE AGAINST YOU...? she ll die and burn in hades with her silly unforgiven nature for all the fvcks the universe can give...

Don't even think about whatever she says... it's good you've moved on, leave it that way..

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by T3ndrils: 7:44am On Jul 22, 2019
BareFacedLies:


In that case she has every reason to be bitter towards you cos shr probably turned away other potentiol suitors cos of your promise

Niqq... the moment the girl cheated on the guy, she lost every reason to vex... would you have allowed him to marry a slut, or would you even like to marry one?... i think not dude. She should have comported herself based on the fact that she ll soon become someone's wife.. but the b!tch didn't..

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:10am On Jul 22, 2019
Your mistake is listening to gossip

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by placeofallure(f): 8:37am On Jul 22, 2019
akaahs:
Hope we aren't dating the same girl. My ex used to have the same character and attitudes not until I decided to frustrated her till she quit the relationship by herself.
Till up to date, she is so pain after 3 years each time my friend called her , she keeps lamenting what I did to her thinking I ll come back and apologies
Ops don't ever apologies, there type ll never apologise either they think they have what it's takes to attract their kind of guys. Just leave ur life nature has a of resolving such issues. Move on.

Sorry bro, but your post gave me a lot of headache trying to figure out You can hire me as your English tutor. No malice intended.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Preciousgirl(f): 10:00am On Jul 22, 2019
Pay alimony to her embarassed

U can pay it through my account

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by BareFacedLies(m): 11:19am On Jul 22, 2019
T3ndrils:


Niqq... the moment the girl cheated on the guy, she lost every reason to vex... would you have allowed him to marry a slut, or would you even like to marry one?... i think not dude. She should have comported herself based on the fact that she ll soon become someone's wife.. but the b!tch didn't..

Can the guy swear that he too never cheated on yhe lady?

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