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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by favour32(m): 7:17am On Jul 20, 2019
Guy!
You have to go on with the marriage.
You dated her for years and knew of her low sex drive and stayed with her for years because she is been your girlfriend.
So wife issue changed how your brain was wired.
Compatibility is an underestimated theory which has a major say in any relationship.
Love is a point of attraction,the feel good factor when you meet a specific person but compatibility is a different ball game.
Most stable relationships have compatibility percentage rate higher than love.
That is 70%/30% for compatibility/love rate.

Guy!
You have accepted the lady's low sex drive over the years you have been dating her.
Therefore, treat her medically and marry her.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by DollyBig: 7:27am On Jul 20, 2019
Let her join Precious Mum Sexology class on WhatsApp. You will see the change
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by megareal: 7:28am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?...... omo... that one go tough o
Try Jaaruma Empire products. May solve her problems. Good luck.

Modified.

Just read that she was circumcised. Hmmmmmm, that one is a wah but the way I see it, you have to forget the clit and work around other zones in her body.

1. Her bweasst. Massage, light stimulation of nipples, nothing forceful just featherlight touches etc.

2. Nape of neck, under toes, ear and the likes. No 2 can be done while conversing before moving to 1.

3. Her G spot. This is inside the vag. Locate it by simple inserting a finger facing upwards. Then bend the finger like you beckoning. You will feel a mass of nerves very close to the entrance that is almost similar to the clit up there. That's the G spot. Gentle massage and stimulation will get her excited like your are working the clit. Men who do it right get orgasms from there even without touching the clit.

The entrance to the vag also has nerves that can be stimulated, best way to get a response is by stretching. Two fingers shd do the job.

Finally, shallow penetration won't work in this instance, just bend her legs to her neck, there you can hit the mouth of her cervix easily. That's another crazy spot for good orgasm. Thai also takes care of the G spot.

Try some aphrodisiac first before embarking on this journey.

Believe me, if you get it right, you will never complain again.
Good luck.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Hhenryy: 7:29am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?



I saw this topic late...

After reading your write-up i was suspecting she has been circumcised., and I can see you have also confirmed it somewhere on the first page of the thread.

There is little or nothing you can do. Even if you give her drugs to put her in the mood like you were suggesting, she will still not enjoy the sex.

I will strongly advise you follow the comment of the 2nd guy on the front page @thesicilian he has said it all.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Niyiboi: 7:31am On Jul 20, 2019
Onyi22:

Pls where can I get it?
order from jumia or u can see sellers on jiji
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by phenol33(m): 7:34am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
my brother go and buy jamiac-F, or natures made eve desire these drugs will give u the best result.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by wifeesnatcher(m): 7:40am On Jul 20, 2019
my ex own was worse but I blend her, now I don't know which actress in the world can do a stage play than her


you should have blend her since but is not too late, if you've to visit porn site video with her, you better do before marriage


get some peom love, let it be when she's on bum shot and spag that can make your hand enter her bweast easily then visit porn site. do this consistently, you will even regret for increasing her Libido because the way you go lean ehn!
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by qmd24(m): 7:43am On Jul 20, 2019
pcguru1:


Some people are asexual. Not everyone likes or craves sex

Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Hhenryy: 7:44am On Jul 20, 2019
phenol33:
my brother go and buy jamiac-F, or natures made eve desire these drugs will give u the best result.

You guys should stop recommending drugs for him. We have identified the problem. He said the lady was circumcised

Those drugs may put her in the mood, but she won't enjoy the sex. She will just lay down like a log of wood and be waiting for the guy to finish quickly and get up.! Where is the fun in that ?

And for how long will he continue to administer the the drug on her? Bro, it's not worth it!
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Babaflenjor: 7:48am On Jul 20, 2019
The lady is circumcised but there is a solution. Go and look for a leaf called KING WEED or some people called it GOAT WEED talk to her and make her to be taking it twice daily for like 30 days u will thank me later. How to prepare cut the leaf and put it in a blender or squeeze it to extract the tick juice, if u blend it with blender and u already add water 100ml size twice a day, but if it is squeezed one use the small tumbler (a cup that usually on schnapps. good luck
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by kullozone(m): 7:51am On Jul 20, 2019
Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.

No be only locate... Is it ultimate search

Abegiiismiley

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Onyi22(f): 7:58am On Jul 20, 2019
Niyiboi:
order from jumia or u can see sellers on jiji
Thanks
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by cbngov01(m): 7:58am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?


Had someone like that. Telling me sex is on request, sucking is on demand. I just press reverse. Sex is a vital part of marriage bro.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Pinuc: 7:59am On Jul 20, 2019
Seems nobody is considering she might just be a lesbian, abroad she could live her life without a man, in Nigeria the stigma will be too much to bear. Simply put it, she may be more aroused by her fellow ladies, it just may be a possibility. I may be wrong though.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by ajayiopy: 8:02am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
IS A GOOD ASSET AND U CAN INCREASE HER LIBIDO
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by ufotty2001: 8:02am On Jul 20, 2019
She has spiritual husband am saying this out of experience I may look stupidm but that is the truth
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by tyup(m): 8:03am On Jul 20, 2019
NkayStory:



This one is obviously in la la land,far away from reality....Vaiin-megalomania is written all over you.

Your type is the type that carries every kmown STD in the World looking for whom to share them..

you're such a a catatonic irredeemably narcissistic lecher and the fact that your mental viribus Is forgotten in the shades of tenebris disgust me

if you believe people can't and don't find love on the social media then your trammeled social commercium is second to none but well I know what's hitting you up cause I got no penny to waste on bitches like you

so your carentia cerebrum don't surprise me sad
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by kingxsamz(m): 8:07am On Jul 20, 2019
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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Altern8(m): 8:08am On Jul 20, 2019
dairykidd:
Dump her now or be prepared to destroy ur marriage by urself later..

Best advice.

OP should decide if sex is important to him or not. If it is, then break up. Simple. Her libido will never increase. Never.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Donchichi212(m): 8:22am On Jul 20, 2019
Bro, guys the problem is you don't satisfy her sexually that's probably why her sex drive is low towards you, try giving her some head and make her scream like never before, trust me, na you go tire for sex sef!!

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by MichaelSokoto(m): 8:32am On Jul 20, 2019
thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.
Na wa 4 u oo.

if I use my shursh mind epp u calculate d total numba of time d op gor geh sex 4 d marriage, ee nor gor pass 15 times till him enta grave oo!
grin
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Hade1004(m): 8:34am On Jul 20, 2019
Why do we take sex as serious as gold after we men claim that we love? Love entails many thing to be endure .If truly you love her don't let sex be your issue Biko.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Nobody: 8:42am On Jul 20, 2019
Onyi22:

Pls where can I get it?



haaaa, u want to kill ur hussy abi, Yo want to join kayamata to Spanish fly . Don't kill my guy o

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Ladygenny: 9:06am On Jul 20, 2019

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glb4oqghN5w
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by loswhite(m): 9:07am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
If you meet the one that likes sex now you will come and tell us she is sex addict and probably suspecting her of cheating...lol. Marriage is not about sex ok. There is no perfection anywhere, just imagine your wife to be was planning to end marriage simply because you cannot satisfy her in bed, how would you feel? When you love someone you love them with their flaws and imperfection and you have to sacrifice some of the things you like because of love... So stick to her and continue to do alot of romance

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by loswhite(m): 9:13am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
bro, sex is very very important in marriage and again i will only be deceiving myself if i say i can cope with it, the truth is; i can't
so if you can't cope end it with her. Get another girl that is good in bed simple.... Please stop using the word love because I'm not sure you understand what it means. You have been there since and suddenly time for marriage you are looking for excuse and you want us to validate it...lol

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by loswhite(m): 9:14am On Jul 20, 2019
thesicilian:

So after 8yrs he should keep looking for her weak point to activate? Even the buttons to nuclear weapons don't take that long to locate.
why waste her time for 8 years?

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by bossrillboss: 9:21am On Jul 20, 2019
thesicilian:

So after 8yrs he should keep looking for her weak point to activate? Even the buttons to nuclear weapons don't take that long to locate.
..chai,I don finish me with laff o.hehehehehe

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Onyi22(f): 9:38am On Jul 20, 2019
slimany:




haaaa, u want to kill ur hussy abi, Yo want to join kayamata to Spanish fly . Don't kill my guy o
grin grin grin
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by objobj: 9:43am On Jul 20, 2019
Nackzy:
Chaaiii if you really love her as you say, you will make do with her least libido..what we do 4 love as far as you use to put your dick deh once in a blue moon that's enough

Yet advice. In the first place who marries without sex?
To marry if you are not sexually active us a din if you ar ignorant
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Ikville(m): 9:45am On Jul 20, 2019
Bro, evryth woman is programmed to enjoy sex, she has a medical condition where sex is painful. However, dere may be certain factors dat vis make a woman not like sex, psycological - bad experience like rape, losing her virginity etc , or simply physical. Maybe u lack d skill to pleasure her during d act & as a result, she witdrew herself completely. Dere r a million ways to make a woman not only enjoy sex, but also anticipate it. Man, u just need to take dat trip & discover ur own Mungo Park. 8 yrs is a loooong time to hav discovered a way to turn her on, of I ask me!

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Uniquerecharge: 9:47am On Jul 20, 2019
My advice is for you to exercise patience and take necessary step. You cannot admit her libido is low, you can only do if you have been into her before. See those with similar experience for way out.

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