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Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by TheGiftedOne(m): 10:23am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Criticaltemp: Will you shut tha hell up with your misguided brain? Thief! 3 Likes
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Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by grandstar(m): 10:25am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Rapmoney: I'm a Jehovah's Witness Since traditional marriages are considered legal before the eyes of the law,, we are actually discouraged from conducting 2 ceremonies in order to save cost. It is considered wasteful and ostentatious to have 2 ceremonies. If the couples want, they can request a kingdom Hall talk but it isn't compulsory. What matters is that we satisfy the law, we meet Caeser's requirement (Read Romans 13:1-7, Titus 3:1) As long as those laws do not conflict with God's law, we are urged to obey them to letter. 3 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by JubrilBuhari: 10:26am On Jul 23, 2019 |
tee59:He is 100% correct, church don't conduct marriage. The white wedding is just a dedication to the sucesful marriage to the church. Marriage is done traditionally. 2 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by JubrilBuhari: 10:27am On Jul 23, 2019 |
grandstar:I agree with you. 2 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Arysexy(m): 10:27am On Jul 23, 2019 |
SIRTee15: Ok, sorry to him |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Sterope(f): 10:30am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Don't you think that is very subjective? What makes a marriage? Is it not the coming together of both families to bless the union? If that is the case, every thing else after is extra, it cannot remove or add to the traditional marriage. shadeyinka: |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Sarah20A(f): 10:30am On Jul 23, 2019 |
tee59:you might not agree but he's right traditional marriage is the real deal while white wedding is just to show off 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by degamemaster(m): 10:30am On Jul 23, 2019 |
HabaHaba: Whoever that's behind that moniker just made me angry with that stupid comment. Africans have refused to learn, if you you see how some oyibos mock us in almost every thing we do, you will understand why it's important to remain unique in your own ways. We want to overdo the "white things" even more than the white themselves. Our Africans born here in Europe or America will never want to associate with you that came from Africa, the worst are the halfcasts that want to be seen as white even when the real white sees all of us as blacks. In short, the whole thing dey vex me shaaa. 2 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by myk2mic: 10:33am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Arysexy:Oga, read ND understand , the crux of the matter is when to engage in sexual activities with ur wife. But with respect to ur issues, there are 2 recognized types of marriage ceremony in Nigeria. Traditional and court.once you do either you are married, the church marriage which we are all crazy abt is no different from the court becos if the church is licensed they will give you a marriage certificate if u haven't done the court wedding, but if u have already done the court wedding ND proceed to do church ,then all u r doing is church blessing. No certificate will be issued to you a second time and it is within the court /licensed church wedding that u have protection based on the laws of the land. If u submit yourself to only traditional marriage ,u will be subject to the laws of the tradition. But the writer is saying ND I agree that once u have completed your traditional marriage or court ,u ND ur wife can have sexual relations unless both of you agree to wait till later. 5 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by ElderIsaac(m): 10:34am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Please follow what your religion believe says, attend marriage counselling, then do the right thing to avoid regret. Available Parental guide will help you a lot. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Inspectorsuga22(m): 10:34am On Jul 23, 2019 |
TrollKiller:Lazy youth, because its not Yahoo Yahoo or bbnaija u ain't interested... |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by famouscargo4u: 10:37am On Jul 23, 2019 |
kilisi: i'm not. but if you maÿ ask, what is marriage? it is a union between a man and woman usually with the consent of their parents. You need the approval of the girl's parents and NOT pastor!. Remember when Abraham was to get a wife for Isaac, he sought Rebecca's parents! If you marry (even with pastor'pronouncement)", without the consent of the parents, it's illegality. The parents MUST give consent. Thereafter, you need to be recognised by government as married, hence, the need for certificate which can be gotten from recognised religious body or registry. 2 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Sapphire86(f): 10:38am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Nat404: You are very rude and lack decorum!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by HabaHaba: 10:40am On Jul 23, 2019 |
degamemaster: Yeah, I can relate with you bro. The way we are bleaching our skin to be like the Whites and all that shit is hurting the mind. Especially the ladies, they are so eager to drop anything black. I had a girlfriend in secondary school that was so after me (she see fine Boi na). After her Tertiary education, she hustled to leave the country just to go and marry a white man. Now, she doesn't even respond to me on Facebook. I Taya for our Bla k girls. But it's both male & female attitude. We all want to be the "Wanna Gonna, thingy)" Even our lingua has been bastardized to neglect our native language. So disappointing. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by wellmax(m): 10:41am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Criticaltemp: Wrong. Several introductions that leads no where. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 10:43am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Criticaltemp: Introduction is not marriage and never will be........... So in the instance where the introduction does not lead to paying of bride price, what's happens? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 10:44am On Jul 23, 2019 |
You are an hypocritical feminist if you want your Fiance to pay your bride price |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Grupo(m): 10:44am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Graduateacher: Where did your God tell you to wear white dress and go to church for you to be married? 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 10:46am On Jul 23, 2019 |
famouscargo4u: There's no such law as needing a certificate as proof of marriage....... You need to read about how the customary court acknowledges traditional marriages. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by missimelda01(f): 10:48am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Making your intentions know doesn't equate with paying the dowry of a lady.. let's be guided please Criticaltemp: |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Michelle55: 10:49am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Comedian2019:lol.. Honestly, that's their business. Na only one wedding Jesus attend and I take it that it's traditional marriage( everyone with his or her own belief) white wedding is what we adopted from the white and it's has become a bone of contention here.. Here in Nigeria, if you never do white wedding, you never marry be that. 2 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by kilisi(m): 10:50am On Jul 23, 2019 |
famouscargo4u: OK. Yes, although it depends on the law of the land. In Nigeria for example, the law recognises traditional marriage as valid. Therefore, you can choose to do either of the two. It is however a double marriage rite if one decides to do tradional wedding and religious (church) wedding at the same time. That's why as a Jw, you can choose to do either traditional wedding or court wedding. Both are recognised by the Nigerian law. Just that if you go for traditional wedding, it is good to register your marriage with the government at your convenience (Romans 14:1) for future use which may arise. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 10:51am On Jul 23, 2019 |
zainaboo19:what is honey moon |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 10:51am On Jul 23, 2019 |
lexy2014: There is no such law given. You only need to take a cue from all the marriages done in the OT and that in the NT that Jesus Christ was in attendance to understand what is needed and required of one. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by emelda86(f): 10:52am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Pentecostal people will not like this 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by SIRTee15: 10:52am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Arysexy: See utterances coming from the foul mouth of someone assuming the role of Christ advocate.... Claiming he's fighting for the church... mhenn... Christianity in nigeria has lost it.... And this one will pray wants to live long quoting the scriptures..... |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by kilisi(m): 10:52am On Jul 23, 2019 |
bixton: This is absolutely true. Although it is good to register your marriage with government for future necessities. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Sonnobax15(m): 10:56am On Jul 23, 2019 |
The op is right on point....na traditional marriage sure pass,confirmed 2 odds...in fact,saying the white wedding is "A MUST DO" in our present day african communities simply indicates how deeply enslaved we've been despite the departure of the europeans....Buh just like i once told my gf,immediately after i have linked my ancestors to yours,that's all;ain't gona do any shiit called white weddinq! 2 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by FuckThaMod: 10:57am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Ritaokafor:No oo.. No time for patience. Immediately I'm dropping the bride price we heading straight to the bedroom, Man blood dey hot. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by zomoears(m): 10:57am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Arysexy: I think you should read the Marriage Act. Traditional institutions are empowered to join marriages and issue certificates under customary law, which are also recognised for visa applications. Where a traditional institution fails to exercise this power, they are short changing their people. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Mike4S: 11:01am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Rapmoney:The day a man releases his daughter to a man is the day agreement has been struck. Whatever that transpires after that is not illegality 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 11:02am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Rapmoney:Thanks for this piece. Personally, I call it neo-colonial effect. Christianity, Islam and white wedding are on the same train of neocolonial apparatus of the west. How do we know how gullible and how 'imbecilic' Africans are? By their total subscription to this western and alien culture of the white. Call them black monkeys and they start emotional mastubation. 1 Like |
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