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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by aviato(m): 4:33pm On Jul 24, 2019
1x2x3:


You are taking life too seriously cheesy. Drink some krest and relax a bit. You must stop ranting like a woman
You are the one who came here to gossip like a jobless house wife and you are accusing someone of ranting like a woman.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jul 24, 2019
1x2x3:


See me see wahala ooo.... Did I tell you I'm with anyone's wife? Are you married?
You said you stayed longer with your client and got the contract... Uhmmm duuhh

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by 1x2x3: 4:35pm On Jul 24, 2019
aviato:
You are the one who came here to gossip like a jobless house wife and you are accusing someone of ranting like a woman.

cheesy cheesy cheesy I pissed you off too?
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by 1x2x3: 4:37pm On Jul 24, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
You said you stayed longer with your client and got the contract... Uhmmm duuhh

I'm not sure how that translated to doing anything with a married woman cheesy cheesy. Nwanyi Awka take it easy.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by carter009(m): 4:38pm On Jul 24, 2019
Your right.
lefulefu:
these are runzgirls turned married women. One thing about runzgirls is dat u cant just turn them into acting like a married lady just because u made her ur wife. How e wan happencheesy?

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jul 24, 2019
1x2x3:


I'm not sure how that translated to doing anything with a married woman cheesy cheesy. Nwanyi Awka take it easy.
Well, that was the impression I had. cheesy
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by lukui: 4:52pm On Jul 24, 2019
that Lady that is giving you sleepless nights, someone else is giving it to her 24/7

you want to die because of her?
she will be happy that you just did!!!

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by bluefilm: 5:01pm On Jul 24, 2019
1x2x3:


Bluefilm calm down. I'm not judging them I only narrated my experience and even gave them benefit of doubt.

Still, the fact remains that based on your narrative, your experience about marriages is still pretty much limited.

It's like picking one or two students from a university and then judging the rest of the students in that university based on what you concluded/observed from those two students.

It doesn't just make any sense.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by emkz: 5:14pm On Jul 24, 2019
This is not new. Cheating by women is common-place and every woman is decent until the day she is caught.

What I don't fully understand is why they do it. For those who have comfortable husbands, I think it is the desire to feel a different prick inside them, just like men justify theirs on the desire to taste different soup. But no go taste the one wey go destroy you, i.e., cheat wisely and prepare an alibi to crystallize the risk incase you are caught. Still remember karma would catch up with you when you least expect.

Like most people said to you, stay on your lane and do what keeps you alive by ignoring what doesn't concern you.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jul 24, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
grin grin.....that's exactly why I liked the comment. I wish I could like it a thousand times. It is a pity that men take delight in cheating on their wives, now women are also playing games undecided. Don't be surprised that those ladies husband's may be doing worst. What has marriages turned into? Hmm!



it as turn into do me i do kindof marriage but the facts remain, only a woman can be chase out of a matrimonial home.
in nigeria the man owns the house ,owns the kids ... so married woman wey go cheat with mechanic or wassup guy like me ... if ur husband chase you out do you think mokaliki or eric types will accept you in.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by 1x2x3: 5:17pm On Jul 24, 2019
bluefilm:


Still, the fact remains that based on your narrative, your experience about marriages is still pretty much limited.

It's like picking one or two students from a university and then judging the rest of the students in that university based on what you concluded/observed from those two students.

It doesn't just make any sense.

Okay ready the comment below yours and also tell me he has limited experience about marriage. I can tell you you are the one with limited knowledge about marriage. That you are yet to discover doesn't mean its not happening.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:29pm On Jul 24, 2019
A man owns the child? Husband/wife own children, and in some cases child custody is given to the wife. A wife once upon a time came from her father's house. She can go back there or rent a place. I am not encouraging divorce, but if you feel that a man throwing a woman outta marriage is the end of her success/happiness, you are wrong.
ericsmith:




it as turn into do me i do kindof marriage but the facts remain, only a woman can be chase out of a matrimonial home.
in nigeria the man owns the house ,owns the kids ... so married woman wey go cheat with mechanic or wassup guy like me ... if ur husband chase you out do you think mokaliki or eric types will accept you in.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by ImaIma1(f): 5:43pm On Jul 24, 2019
So the woman that was locking and unlocking her phone, guarding it jealousy, raised the phone for you to have a clear vision of it so much that you saw that she was chatting with three different men and that he was part of some erotic groups.

Are you sure you are not the woman?

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jul 24, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
A man owns the child? Husband/wife own children, and in some cases child custody is given to the wife. A wife once upon a time came from her father's house. She can go back there or rent a place. I am not encouraging divorce, but if you feel that a man throwing a woman outta marriage is the end of her success/happiness, you are wrong.



wow !! Does it even make sense for a woman to return to her father house grin its only appropriate you rent a house.
definitely throwing a woman out is not the end of her sexual happiness if thats what yu are implying buh is the risk worth it.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by victorian(f): 5:59pm On Jul 24, 2019
doris4u:

I am a very faithful lady to a man I know has geniune intentions towards me.
U can't really generalise






Dont mind them, they feel because their gfs cheats, so every woman cheats.

Im extremely faithful to the end , especially to a man who knows my worth as a woman . Its all by Gods grace.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by carter009(m): 6:00pm On Jul 24, 2019
I just hope your telling they truth dear.
victorian:







Dont mind them, they feel because their gfs cheats, so every woman cheats.

Im extremely faithful to the end , especially to a man who knows my worth as a woman . Its all by Gods grace.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:19pm On Jul 24, 2019
Was I talking about only sexual happiness? Also, Family is family, especially a good family. A good family is always there as back up no matter what happens.
ericsmith:




wow !! Does it even make sense for a woman to return to her father house grin its only appropriate you rent a house.
definitely throwing a woman out is not the end of her sexual happiness if thats what yu are implying buh is the risk worth it.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by WoeBetide666: 6:26pm On Jul 24, 2019
Oluwasaeon:

Why e pain you

Guilty conscience
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jul 24, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
Was I talking about only sexual happiness? Also, Family is family, especially a good family. A good family is always there as back up no matter what happens.


lemme rephrase; as humans we are bound to have two in one, a family u knew & the family u created.
let's just imagine you decide to marry n creat a family .... are you saying you're willing to throw the family you created away over adultery. FIY no good family will condole adultery frm a woman be it there daughter ...its a man's world you can't live like us, pele grin

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:53pm On Jul 24, 2019
So as a father if your daughter was to commit adultery, and quits the marriage and you live in a mansion in your old age you would not accept her in? Well, not everyone have such fathers.
ericsmith:



lemme rephrase; as humans we are bound to have two in one, a family u knew & the family u created.
let's just imagine you decide to marry n creat a family .... are you saying you're willing to throw the family you created away over adultery. FIY no good family will condole adultery frm a woman be it there daughter ...its a man's world you can't live like us, pele grin

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by aviato(m): 6:57pm On Jul 24, 2019
1x2x3:


cheesy cheesy cheesy I pissed you off too?
Lol, I could care less about you being a busy body, looking at someone's private chats and judging the person when you might be worse BUT it was your hypocrisy in saying he was ranting like a woman that got my attention.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by victorian(f): 7:04pm On Jul 24, 2019
carter009:
I just hope your telling they truth dear.







No need to hope. Its the truth.

Thats why im selective and careful on whom i will spend the rest of my life with.

Its a choice ,im determined to see and follow to the end.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by 1x2x3: 7:32pm On Jul 24, 2019
aviato:
Lol, I could care less about you being a busy body, looking at someone's private chats and judging the person when you might be worse BUT it was your hypocrisy in saying he was ranting like a woman that got my attention.

Shove it up your asssss man. cheesy.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jul 24, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
So as a father if your daughter was to commit adultery, and quits the marriage and you live in a mansion in your old age you would not accept her in? Well, not everyone have such fathers.


Naa pikin wey papa/mama like dem go displine pass, i would av raised me daughter in a way she will know what to expect when she cross the line ... her coming back to my house must be for a reason i can defend her for .... even go to the extent of seeking legal justice.
i won't house such daughter.. you as my daughter won't even bank on me ..rent a house or pack to the man friend house naw!

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:29pm On Jul 24, 2019
That's for you. Yeah, she's a ''woman'', so you must not accept her. If your son should commit adultery, you see nothing bad about it. Take note that in this century, plenty parents treat their male/female children without prejudice. Am glad to come from such a family, with educated parents. Even if you discipline from now till eternity, a child can will still make mistakes. It's not a man's world like you claim, it's a world for both men/women.
ericsmith:



Naa pikin wey papa/mama like dem go displine pass, i would av raised me daughter in a way she will know what to expect when she cross the line ... her coming back to my house must be for a reason i can defend her for .... even go to the extent of seeking legal justice.
i won't house such daughter.. you as my daughter won't even bank on me ..rent a house or pack to the man friend house naw!

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by carter009(m): 8:35pm On Jul 24, 2019
Stop fooling yourself dear.
LilMissFavvy:
That's for you. Yeah, she's a ''woman'', so you must not accept her. If your son should commit adultery, you see nothing bad about it. Take note that in this century, plenty parents treat their male/female children without prejudice. Am glad to come from such a family, with educated parents. Even if you discipline from now till eternity, a child can will still make mistakes. It's not a man's world like you claim, it's a world for both men/women.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:36pm On Jul 24, 2019
Take it or leave it!
carter009:
Stop fooling yourself dear.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by harsysky(m): 9:07pm On Jul 24, 2019
doris4u:

I am a very faithful lady to a man I know has geniune intentions towards me.
U can't really generalise

this is the point I come in. I have learnt that no one should glory in what they can't control. what you did are things you could confidently boast about and not what you will do.

you would be surprised that most ladies who have cheated had also said at a point that they were very faithful. las las, don't glory in yourself
for me, I always say, " by God's grace, I won't or will do a thing.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by lagosminded: 9:15pm On Jul 24, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
That's for you. Yeah, she's a ''woman'', so you must not accept her. If your son should commit adultery, you see nothing bad about it. Take note that in this century, plenty parents treat their male/female children without prejudice. Am glad to come from such a family, with educated parents. Even if you discipline from now till eternity, a child can will still make mistakes. It's not a man's world like you claim, it's a world for both men/women.

This is the reason Nigerian men are messed up! Subpar upbringing, one set of rules for the male child and another for the female child. I hope our generation will do better than our parents did in raising real men.
Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jul 24, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
That's for you. Yeah, she's a ''woman'', so you must not accept her. If your son should commit adultery, you see nothing bad about it. Take note that in this century, plenty parents treat their male/female children without prejudice. Am glad to come from such a family, with educated parents. Even if you discipline from now till eternity, a child can will still make mistakes. It's not a man's world like you claim, it's a world for both men/women.


Its got notting do with avin educated parent or not, i know you feel civilized & modernistic buh if it is a men/women world.
- why avnt we see women marry two or more men under one roof since men do it.
-have you ever woo a guy outrightly before .. @least you claim to be modernistic
- babymama is trending ,buh do you know women keep it @ one man unlike men , why
i am tired of waiting 4 linda, tiwa or tonto to give multiple babydaddies a shot. will you promise me u wil try it. #Teammodern grin

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:27pm On Jul 24, 2019
Exactly......you are right!
lagosminded:


This is the reason Nigerian men are messed up! Subpar upbringing, one set of rules for the male child and another for the female child. I hope our generation will do better than our parents did in raising real men.

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Re: What I Saw In A Bus And My Worry About Marriages. by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:32pm On Jul 24, 2019
So going about fathering children from different women is what makes it a man's world? grin, check out your list, full of negativity. So negativity is what makes a man's world? I can't help smiling here. Well, most women are too responsible to join such a foolish trend if that's what makes a man's world. tongue I had better things in mind which I thought makes a man's world.
ericsmith:



Its got notting do with avin educated parent or not, i know you feel civilized & modernistic buh if it is a men/women world.
- why avnt we see women marry two or more men under one roof since men do it.
-have you ever woo a guy outrightly before .. @least you claim to be modernistic
- babymama is trending ,buh do you know women keep it @ one man unlike men , why
i am tired of waiting 4 linda, tiwa or tonto to give multiple babydaddies a shot. will you promise me u wil try it. #Teammodern grin

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