tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

Bruh, whether u like it or not, if u can't make peace with her, jux know that this issue will alwz be there between the two of u.

When I broke up with mine, I broke up in peace and move on. here I am. we do talk as if we are together uptill now. but we r jux mere friends u know.

luminouz:

So?
What will happen? Armageddon?
Its a very myopic mindset to think you won't get hurt in life. Shiit happens,just move on or will u go diabolic because she/he cheated on you? Kill them perhaps?

Most breakups happen to make us better,so long you learn the lesson taught

CLEARLY YOU HAVE HARMED PEOPLE OR SOMEONE AND ARE SCARD ALREADY..IF YOU HAVE I STRONGLY ADVICE YOU DO THE NEEDFUL ..HMMM
IF YOU LIKE KEEP DECEIVING AND CONSOLING YOUR SELF

GOD SITS ON THE THRONE NOT THE DEVIL ..judgment begin here on earth

Mustsucceed:


My dear do u now what obj and babangida are facing roght now ??hmmm don't spew trash go and find out especially babangida ..then you will know ..his own kids don't give him peace then look at him right now ..what of obasanjo ..see the fact that you didn't see doesn't mean it isn't happening ..go and find out
Let me tell you when you are patient and don't retaliation as you are sitting down na so gist go hit you on what happened to someone who harmed you

Be careful don't start this thinking..you will destroy your self its as if you are consoling your self to continue doing evil

Lol,you haven't told me about buhari o? Are his kids giving him issues too?
I'm not saying doing evil is good but stop ascribing karma to every fuqin thing,its annoying. That shiit doesn't work. Or na naija the karma dey alone? Some Evil people live long and satisfying lives with no karma-anything! Or is ur karma selective?

Mustsucceed:


CLEARLY YOU HAVE HARMED PEOPLE OR SOMEONE AND ARE SCARD ALREADY..IF YOU HAVE I STRONGLY ADVICE YOU DO THE NEEDFUL ..HMMM
IF YOU LIKE KEEP DECEIVING AND CONSOLING YOUR SELF

GOD SITS ON THE THRONE NOT THE DEVIL ..judgment begin here on earth

Lmaoooooo
See yourself again...fear mongering!
Make assumption that I'm evil because I challenged your mentality.
Now you went all emotional on me,when you could be logical.
Think,hommie,think.

tohyorsih2:



It's me!!!

Yessssssssssss!!!

Ijebu babes like money o
And ikokore!
Never dated one though

luminouz:

Lol,you haven't told me about buhari o? Are his kids giving him issues too?
I'm not saying doing evil is good but stop ascribing karma to every fuqin thing,its annoying. That shiit doesn't work. Or na naija the karma dey alone? Some Evil people live long and satisfying lives with no karma-anything! Or is ur karma selective?

Grow up ..wish you well .have a nice day

Mustsucceed:


Grow up ..wish you well .have a nice day

Think deeper too.
One love!

Mustsucceed:


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SEE YOUNG MAN,SET ASIDE THEAT PRIDE AND BEG HER MAKE HER SEE SENSE THAT IT WAS HER ATTITUDE..let me tell u if that lady sincerely loved you and never cheated on you or that u hurt her more than she hurt you ,then I guarantee you ..karma will hit you .its either your marriage will never be a happy one or something else ..

Part on good terms .don't mind all those telling you to over look they won't be there when u start to face life hmmm...if that lady dies before u realise your mistake then you are on your own ..end it well ..we didn't ask you to go back to her we simply said end it on good terms ensure she forgives u

I went to her house to settle her grudge but she lock her self inside and said she don't want to see me and even swear that she won't forgive me, Harba!!! What else should I do na?? Even God knows I have done the right thing.

muyiwaadekunle1:




Niggas like you are worse than the devil. No offence brother. I have a friend like you, who is quick to hurl insults at us whenever we have issues with our girlfriends. He will never proffer solution nor will he ask us to improve ourselves in order to spur baes to jealousy but guess what : He was an insecure, flapwit mofo . We caught him one time when his girlfriend threatened to leave him. He took ill, lost weight, bed ridden and got depressed. All those time he lambasted us for small issues we never knew we had more control than he did.

If you're going to help him move on, insulting him is not a great tactic .

I don't even have a girlfriend, I honestly don't have time for it because making more money keeps me so busy. I hope someday I'll have time for that, and when I do I surely won't settle for an enemy that betrays my love and trust.

luminouz:

Ijebu babes like money o
And ikokore!
Never dated one though

You can say that again
I love money and ikokore

You need to date one ASAP. Trust me, you won't regret it

tohyorsih2:



You can say that again
I love money and ikokore

You need to date one ASAP. Trust me, you won't regret it

Lol,OK...
Too bad you're abroad!!!

I remember calling a girl to branch my place when she is coming from school so that i can give her bedroom coaching in da oza room. The line she knows does not have airtime so i used my second line to call and she said who is this,i told her to guess. She mentioned Uche ,John e.t.c when it got to the 5th name i just cut off the phone and the konji wey dey catch me turn to jikon. This is someone i called 2 days ago. Some girls are confirm public hoe

EditorsPalace:


Seriously. It seems he's still in love with her. And she's still in love with him or pretending to love him.

But it's better he forgets her & move on.

why i dont give relationship advice is because



the two of them go use all of una settle


they will get back together

tohyorsih2:



You can say that again
I love money and ikokore

You need to date one ASAP. Trust me, you won't regret it

who go date Ijebu girls...

Everything about them is juju.

They know how to turn their husband to houaeboy.

We no date biko��������������

niyidenrele:
the fact is that ,women always see dating game as their area of specialization,from wooing, going out to when they are ready to make a choice between marrying and jilting,they don't like reliquecsh that part of process to we men ,no matter how they are being treated or treating men ,u just must play by what they put for u on table ,.. that's why they can die for an alpha male,who can control the relationship ,cos he has ability to usurp their power,they dream about him always,..mark this,u will be very successful in dating game if u can control the relationship, always no when to start or stop , especially after the first sex......

Waooh, I appreciate bro. U re genius.

When you have a girlfriend try to be close to her, don't just fvck her and say bye bye, you guys meet and Bleep again. She needs you to be close by, she needs calls, she needs texts, she needs little gestures that show you care, go to a park where no money is paid to get in, read books, watch movies together. Talk and talk. Don't let life with her be about being happy only when she is unhappy, only happy when she does for you what she normally wouldn't do.

Don't just fvck her and say bye bye, say hi tomorrow and fvck again. That is not a relationship, it is not a marriage, it is not nothing bruh! She cheat on your ass definitely. Na sex doll, mstcheww.


Okay boys bye bye, I am going to take my drugs

Reelmii:
why i dont give relationship advice is because



the two of them go use all of una settle


they will get back together

Hmm, true

EditorsPalace:


Hmm, true

a guy who has moved on wont be seeking advice on his past, he would be more occupied now




he still has feelings for the girl, they will ger back together

tunjilee003:
what am saying is he should try and clear all grudges with here or else she might still have The contempt towards the op

Ok then, that's not begging.

Reelmii:
a guy who has moved on wont be seeking advice on his past, he would be more occupied now




he still has feelings for the girl, they will ger back together

Most definitely. He still has feelings for her.

TemmyT002:
Hahaha Plenty weird people for here o

james bay-let it go,thank me later

Iyajelili:

I know her

Really ..tell me sontin

ImaIma1:


How do you even date someone like that? What was the attraction? Do you guys share the same views about life? Sounds like you had a night with a sex worker and decided to convert her to girlfriend status

You can see vision sha

generationz:


Doesher name start with T?

Yes

luminouz:

Did u just say ondo girls?
Where do u stay bro?

I stay in Abk

nwanne kupuru dat gal....she is a fucking bitch,suffers the witch not to live.

folake4u:

lol. Are you from ondo too?

purples25:
When you have a girlfriend try to be close to her, don't just fvck her and say bye bye, you guys meet and Bleep again. She needs you to be close by, she needs calls, she needs texts, she needs little gestures that show you care, go to a park where no money is paid to get in, read books, watch movies together. Talk and talk. Don't let life with her be about being happy only when she is unhappy, only happy when she does for you what she normally wouldn't do.

Don't just fvck her and say bye bye, say hi tomorrow and fvck again. That is not a relationship, it is not a marriage, it is not nothing bruh! She cheat on your ass definitely. Na sex doll, mstcheww.


Okay boys bye bye, I am going to take my drugs

If only you know how I was always there for her but I just detest her cunning and manipulative nature and couldn't take it anymore, I just wanted her to move on peacefully but she has chose to be bitter towards me. What else should I do? She can go burn in hell with her bitterness, atleast my mind is free now and I have no grudges towards her infact I wish her well on life .

tommyken:

If only you know how I was always there for her but I just detest her cunning and manipulative nature and couldn't take it anymore, I just wanted her to move on peacefully but she has chose to be bitter towards me. What else should I do? She can go burn in hell with her bitterness, atleast my mind is free now and I have no grudges towards her infact I wish her well on life .

Its OK, please forgive her and since you have tried to be at peace with her, you should start the process of healing yourself. Don't rush too soon into another relationship, take care of yourself emotionally and physically, guard your emotions until you are ready again.

If you ever see her again just be very nice but keep things casual and not intimate. We can't win every battle.......sometimes we lose. There are some people we'll always be ' witches' to.

purples25:


Its OK, please forgive her and since you have tried to be at peace with her, you should start the process of healing yourself. Don't rush too soon into another relationship, take care of yourself emotionally and physically, guard your emotions until you are ready again.

I already have someone new yesterday and I will give this new girl a chance and I will adjust myself in every mistake I made in the previous relationship and try to give my best..

tommyken:

I already have someone new yesterday and I will give this new girl a chance and I will adjust myself in every mistake I made in the previous relationship and try to give my best..

Well, good moves then............i wish you happiness

Unik3030:
u self dey date ondo girls, they too like sex n money n they see no big deal about having multiple partners. the worst thing is if ondo girl born 10 children for u e no mean say she no go leave u

. Ondo gals bro I see them I run