Good day N'lander.
Have got this issue bothering which involve my former friend and my soon to be ex.
It all started when i met this Girl of 22yrs(300lv) mid last year during my Industrial training,ask her out and she accepted, along the line everything seem to be going nice and i somehow along the way i got to introduce her to my best friend Ola(nt real name) some of my family as per her request(A decision m regretting now).But i just notice something of her that she just want to know everyone that is involve in my life. little did i know she has this stupid mission which is anytime we have li2 misunderstanding,all she do z rush to my folks and start telling them everything that transpire between us, She don't even have the word PRIVACY in her dictionary, she will paint me the bad guy, but as a sensible nigga i try to control the issue but she still persist, from my coursemate,to my cousin, brother she no dey tire,she always find a way to involve them. (one of my course mate even has to come nd meet me and explain to me what she told him,i was just pissed like cn't we just handle the situation ourselves)need i mention that this same girl still has rappo with his ex which i fully know but wetin concern me as long as m getting the goodies, Kokanmi.
But as time goes on i try changing her orientation to always be free to discuss any issue with but she always come up with the excuse that she z always afraid if facing me, Her Issue just tire me,she keep tormenting my life i just decide to keep playing along.
During some time before i met this girl , this my dude hook me up with a girl b4 i met the one we talking about, unknowingly to me he has feeling for this girl but just want to use me to hook down this girl but me as a i don't even know anything cos he didn't inform me. the moment he saw thing are going rosy btw us, he start showing some attitude which led to me breaking up with the girl to avoid issue with him. we still settle the issue again. but during the course of my meeting with this new girl, me and Ola has a misunderstanding, borrowed d guy some money but keep failing to pay up many times,so i av to took some decision b4 he finally pay my moni,which led to us parting way after paying my money after which i told my suppose gf to cease all comm with this guy so as to avoid story that touch but he still keep tab on this new girl, so it all happen early this month i got fed up of her issue, so i decided to take some break from her some days to her birthday after i caught her red-handed with some random guy. So the issue here is that my supposedly ex best friend Ola is now shooting his shot at this same girl cos she still went ahead to tell ola what led to my decision, Now i was just surprise when i saw there chat where he told d girl i don't even love her statue in the first place, i was only using her.like who does that if you wanna bleep her fine,but not at my own expense, looking at the chat i someaw feel he has a thing for this girl and he was even full of hatred for me, telling her all sort of things, and moreover, this girl i don't think nothing is gonna stop her from going around and telling everyone her lies again, i can bear the thought of loosing her to my frd but the thought of her going around and bd mouthing me again is giving me headache,
So N'lander, Pls how can i stop her from her usual way of telling everyone what happen or should i forget and behave like i didn't see anything, and more ova the other side in me want to treat their fuckup cos i have everything within my might to wreck them if i want.
Thanks
Attached z some of the screenshot of their chats.
cc: Lalasticlala, Fynestboi, lefulefu

Aswerugaaawwd!!!! If you read this story from beginning to end and understand it, you can solve Nigeria's problem....

bad energy stay faraway and from your talk you don't love the girl why the headache then

really understand we all different level of interpreting words,but nevertheless,jst try and pick the point.

soberdrunk:
Aswerugaaawwd!!!! If you read this story from beginning to end and understand it, you can solve Nigeria's problem....

u may be ryt bt she is still going around tellin my folks all sort of things

luvyaself95:
bad energy stay faraway
and
from your talk you don't love the girl
why the headache then

Pls how can i stop her from her usual way of telling everyone what happen or should i forget and behave like i didn't see anything, and more ova the other side in me want to treat their fuckup cos i have everything within my might to wreck them if i want.
Thanks


So what's stopping you from using this might you claim to have? go date a mature minded girl, just look at the long article you wrote over a relationship you claim to have might over

need i mention that this same girl still has rappo with his ex which i fullyknow but wetin concern me as long as m getting the goodies






when you meet a hoe, treat her like one,should be used only at night

eat your part and bounce, you're having sleepless night because of this?

kingsman0003:
u may be ryt bt she is still going around tellin my folks all sort of things

that kind of girl go talk your matter so tey your enemies go hear am use am do you...
it better you break up with her now...

I give up. Can someone who understands explain?

lolz,cool down dude, read again nd dis tym read carefully.

LewsTherin:
I give up. Can someone who understands explain?

LewsTherin:
I give up. Can someone who understands explain?

I can't understand,
I cannot can,
I'm sorry, I am unable to can.

so na because of"farm tool" u dey write dis kind long epistle?

Firstly, you don't ask people to judge or advice from attached chat/document where you erased some chat for clearance...one sided!

Move over, life is too short to what on a relationship that leads to headache and pain

What ever been said here is of no use as much as free pus* is involved kindly advise your self.