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babakb:
I see men here are very angry probably because men here are unemployed or underemployed.......

The truth is if you want to share the bills with your woman then you are no longer the head of the family, you will now share that authority with her..........

Safitu:
Yes and they’re 18 and below. No working class women or student who have bills to pay will close her eyes to a mans pocket. Forget it.

always speak for yourself

LillyVal:
You say, we have many thing to offer

What have you personally to offer? Please speak for yourself

What have you personally to offer? Please speak for yourself

Obodo999:
What have you personally to offer? Please speak for yourself

Safitu:
Most women have cash in their bank accounts. Most women are in school/ trading/ doing some kind of business/hustling. The truth of the matter is that, if a man must come into your life, he must have something to offer. That doesn’t mean I don’t have my own money, but as a man you must show your capability to provide for me. That’s what makes you a man. How can I be paying for all my bills, and you call yourself my boyfriend? What is now your role in my life? Just to be looking at me and wasting my time? Ah beg jare.

is easy to know ladies with poor mentality.....D's how an average poor lady in Nigeria thinks so is nothing new .....dat why we have few ladies up there and in position of power.
the ladies in the western world don't think D's way dat why lot of them are in high places...... the rich will keep forcing dere kids to marry there fellow rich children......cos they no most poor Ladies carry D's parasite mentality......is not a crime or neither a sin if you pay all ur bills urself upgrade ur mentality.

Safitu:
Get this into your head that men and women are not the same. They do not have the same physically, mentally and emotionally abilities to handle situations. As rich as Rihanna is, she chose to date an Arab billionaire because she wants a man who can take control and be a man. No woman wants to date a man with no cash no matter how accomplished one is. Get that into your head and stop making excuses. We all want companionship, and companionship with someone who compliments us.

stop been sentimental...... you forgot same Rihanna dated Chris brown she was far richer than and even loved him more than any guy before the issh happened.
see speak for yourself .....wat you can take other ladies can.....not everyone will be foolish to fact that things av Change and only a foolish lady will depend on a man for survival

Godoverevery:
stop been sentimental...... you forgot same Rihanna dated Chris brown she was far richer than and even loved him more than any guy before the issh happened.
see speak for yourself .....wat you can take other ladies can.....not everyone will be foolish to fact that things av Change and only a foolish lady will depend on a man for survival

So what if the lady is rich and highly educated as well?What Aunty Safiya mean is that she can't date a man that is not up to her level.
It is simple let the rich marry the rich and the poor marry the poor.

Yes if u r fantastically good in bed and doing all the house choirs including cooking

I have a friend who never spend a dime on her girlfriend, he is not adequately financially okay.,. His gf buys him almost all he asked from her and she is always happy with him, Many handsome and richer guys woo her most times and she'll turn them down.... I'm not saying a guy shouldn't spend for his gf in a relationship but money is not everything and a girl should provide supports towards his bf, most girls in my community don't thirst for a man money, once you guys start dating they're ready to support you... Girls only brag and bark on social media especially nairaland but they're fluke in reality.

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which community is this?

Dollywood:
I have a friend who never spend a dime on her girlfriend, he is not adequately financially okay.,. His gf buys him almost all he asked from her and she is always happy with him, Many handsome and richer guys woo her most times and she'll turn them down.... I'm not saying a guy shouldn't spend for his gf in a relationship but money is not everything and a girl should provide supports towards his bf, most girls in my community don't thirst for a man money, once you guys start dating they're ready to support you... Girls only brag and bark on social media especially nairaland but they're fluke in reality.

Funmmyastic:
So what if the lady is rich and highly educated as well?What Aunty Safiya mean is that she can't date a man that is not up to her level.
It is simple let the rich marry the rich and the poor marry the poor.

Den dere no need for her rants.... nobody is stopping her from dating the man of are choice but is stupidity thinking everyone is like you or think like you please...... always speak for yourself alone she isn't Rihanna

LillyVal:
which community is this?

i reside at ondo city

na only warri boys fit catch bae with little money or no money. ND make her happy.i dnt knw they do it. trying 2 get one delta guy were dey wrk 4 gas shop 2 teach me. any waffi guy 4 nairaland abeg make u na teach me hw u na take dey do am.

sIf u want to woo a waffi lady on social media, don’t start with "hi" I repeat don't start with "hi" She won't reply u. Start with, "Do u use First bank, Access or GTB?

Ogaonos:
na only warri boys fit catch bae with little money or no money. ND make her happy.i dnt knw they do it. trying 2 get one delta guy were dey wrk 4 gas shop 2 teach me. any waffi guy 4 nairaland abeg make u na teach me hw u na take dey do am.

I'm that girlfriend who understands you are not a damn ATM and it's OK with the fact that you won't shower me with gifts. I'm with you cos I love you not your money

Obodo999:
What have you personally to offer? Please speak for yourself

#Speaking from experience.

Real guys invest on there girlfriend
Real men invest on there wife.
As a man or a guy you never can tell what will become of you tomorrow.
What you invested on her now might actually be what will take care of you and the family tomorrow.

When you fail to invest on her today you might actually be failing forever.

Meanwhile use your head
Sit down and Pounder on it if you are investing on the right Lady/woman.

Good day

Nice , but I hope you are telling they truth dear.

LillyVal:
I'm that girlfriend who understands you are not a damn ATM and it's OK with the fact that you won't shower me with gifts. I'm with you cos I love you not your money

Never test a woman’s memory She will remember things you never did

carter009:
Nice , but I hope you are telling they truth dear.

Safitu:
No man is loyal. Whether broke or rich. Most men cheat , most men stray. It’s something the rich and the poor deal with so please spare me the bs.

I won't ask for ur head no matter the temptation, ALOL !! as for "can a man make a woman happy without money" the answer is YES, u must be asking how ?
its quite simple i just exclude naija gurls from that context.

ericsmith:
I won't ask for ur head no matter the temptation, ALOL !! as for "can a man make a woman happy without money" the answer is YES, u must be asking how ?
its quite simple i just exclude naija gurls from that context.

Get yourself a white girl then.Not too expensive to maintain.

Funmmyastic:
Get yourself a white girl then.Not too expensive to maintain.

Oh thanks for ur affectionate concern ... must it be a white gurl am thinkin black american lady ...brownskin gurls.

ericsmith:
Oh thanks for ur affectionate concern ... must it be a white gurl am thinkin black american lady ...brownskin gurls.

You are welcome.

Funmmyastic:
You are welcome.

Did you just open ur door

catwalq:
There's no girl on earth,under the sun, wherever in this world who dreams of marrying a poor man.

Believe me, There's no man on earth,under the sun, wherever in this world who dreams of marrying a poor girl.
Believe me.
If we have the options, we won't pick broke and liability lady

In other climes maybe yes but in naija lai lai lai oo. I know some guys wey dey spend 300k weekly to maintain d love im babe dey get for am. As long as d money dey d babe go keep on lovin him but wen money finish babe go kawa. I also know one bros money wey im wan take travel out im spend d money on one Unilag babe in his despiration to make the babe to stay in the relationship and she stayed as long as d money was dere.

emmaodet:
Believe me, There's no man on earth,under the sun, wherever in this world who dreams of marrying a poor girl.
Believe me.
If we have the options, we won't pick broke and liability lady

eh really? Bro hope u know dere some educated guys who are married to broke,ugly jobless uneducated village girls

lefulefu:
eh really? Bro hope u know dere some educated guys who are married to broke,ugly jobless uneducated village girls

Yes bro but let us be frank, if such guy is given a better option of a governor's daughter and they will respect and support his dream, he will dump the ugly, broke and liability lady.
Option is the word bro, OPTIONS

[quote author=emmaodet post=80855297]Yes bro but let us be frank, if such guy is given a better option of a governor's daughter and they will respect and support his dream, he will dump the ugly, broke and liability lady.
Option is the word bro, OPTIONS[/quote

You just shot yourself in the leg. Good morning.

emmaodet:
Yes bro but let us be frank, if such guy is given a better option of a governor's daughter and they will respect and support his dream, he will dump the ugly, broke and liability lady.
Option is the word bro, OPTIONS

You just shot yourself in the balls.

babakb:
I see men here are very angry probably because men here are unemployed or underemployed.......

The truth is if you want to share the bills with your woman then you are no longer the head of the family, you will now share that authority with her..........

There is nothing like authority again. Respect each other is the koko

[quote author=catwalq post=80855583][/quote]Why and how?

LillyVal:
;DYou just shot yourself in the balls.

How?