XhosaNostra:



I'd rather not lol.

Alright then

Maybe your scared I'll win you over privately lol

Login12:


She came as a result of abuse

And I'm sure you don't chase her if you where in his shoes

Of course I would! Who wants to be a backup?

XhosaNostra:


Of course I would! Who wants to be a backup?

Just been human

Login12:


Just been human

No, no, no, I don't work like that. Once a door closes, it closes for good. I don't take humiliation & disrespect very well lol.

Bro, walk away. Never ever accept to be option 2. You will find your own true love in God's time.

Michaeljnr225:


Aptly put, because I don't have much to give ATM. She's got fees to pay, rent and a host of other things. She told me he's uninteresting as a person and she's only using him because I'm broke but she loves me still

story story upon a time time time...

Login12:



Your such a box of wisdom

I have a cousins who'se girlfriend left him for a weathy man but two years into the marriage she back crying woo as we speak she's in my cousins house begging to return

that always the outcome...

You can't fight a battle that is already lost na...

luvyaself95:
that always the outcome...

always

I been no want put mouth for this your matter,but see guy make I advise you, better free the babe oo!!. I was once in this kind of your situation and guess what?? "THE GUY WITh THE CASH AT THE MOMENT MOSTLY WINS". I nearly want die because I been date that babe for good 7years. So,I managed to give up (they got married,I change state) and let go ,focusing all my attention on making money. but guess what? ??,today she begs I pick her calls and very happy when I talk to her on phone. God answered my prayers, turn things around for me (now guy with cash income is just my 1 week take home). I am not saying this to praise myself, but to advice and encourage you. So be wise and decide on time. My opinion sha

Login12:



always

before i always wondered what wrong with all these girls for not staying with their man even when wealthy man come later i found out they always look for higher bidder...
since then i don't believe long term relationship again...

Michaeljnr225:


Do you think I should move on? It is interesting to note that she still texts and calls me on a steady and we get intimate still

bro ur babe is already creating a room for open relationship, just Google what open relationship means,and to an average 9ja man it doesn't end well,
my advice just still fin another girl down becus last last u and that ur babe might likely end d relationship, so let's assume all doesn't ends well in 4 years time probably d lots of money u are expecting doesn't turn up, I wouldn't b surprise if babe sends u her wedding card 2 weeks after breaking up with u, cus right now all I see is u are just an option to her,

by the way are u working?

Fidecoo:
I been no want put mouth for this your matter,but see guy make I advise you, better free the babe oo!!. I was once in this kind of your situation and guess what?? "THE GUY WITh THE CASH AT THE MOMENT MOSTLY WINS". I nearly want die because I been date that babe for good 7years. So,I managed to give up (they got married,I change state) and let go ,focusing all my attention on making money. but guess what? ??,today she begs I pick her calls and very happy when I talk to her on phone. God answered my prayers, turn things around for me (now guy with cash income is just my 1 week take home). I am not saying this to praise myself, but to advice and encourage you. So be wise and decide on time. My opinion sha

nice one bro,
I wish op learns from most guys advise and ditch d ladies here saying if u lve her u will stick to d plan,

Michaeljnr225:


Do you think I should move on? It is interesting to note that she still texts and calls me on a steady and we get intimate still

Otondo

Fidecoo:
I been no want put mouth for this your matter,but see guy make I advise you, better free the babe oo!!. I was once in this kind of your situation and guess what?? "THE GUY WITh THE CASH AT THE MOMENT MOSTLY WINS". I nearly want die because I been date that babe for good 7years. So,I managed to give up (they got married,I change state) and let go ,focusing all my attention on making money. but guess what? ??,today she begs I pick her calls and very happy when I talk to her on phone. God answered my prayers, turn things around for me (now guy with cash income is just my 1 week take home). I am not saying this to praise myself, but to advice and encourage you. So be wise and decide on time. My opinion sha

thanks for this

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you are.welcome. ,I also want you to know that many of those well to do guys you see around today were atimes push to success in one way or the other by mainly ladies actions. If as a man you are born poor or from a low class income earner level in our society (especially Nigeria) , just be sure that you must at least taste the bitter pills of heart break(as in a well to do man taking over a woman you love or a lady/ladies looks down on you) due to financial stance.
But , just make money and see how you will be treated like a VIP and see yourself as the law maker.
E.g,my law is "ladies don't call me, just sent text only. I choose to call whom i feel like and when I feel like calling.including my sisters too. (If women do you something enn)you need to see how this law is observed and followed by them. (Hahaha, abeg make I laugh small joor). Just have a nice day and take care , wishing you well .