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Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Lionrevolt: 2:29pm On Aug 22, 2019
Wow
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by ISHAQSD: 2:30pm On Aug 22, 2019
The one that married because of the oza room
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Nobody: 2:30pm On Aug 22, 2019
Thank you
KayCee92:
Can you turn around please.....frontal is beautiful, let me see the back. PS, am not looking for rental. grin. You look good. wink
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by hagjay(m): 2:30pm On Aug 22, 2019
Writercruze:
Marriage is one of the oldest institutions on earth. It’s as old as man himself. But people marry for different reasons. In this article, I will be sharing the 16 reasons Nigerian men get married according to “Ada Bekee”, a popular influencer on Facebook.

Even though it sounds funny, I quite agree with her on this. And ladies, after reading this post, you would be able to tell why your hubby actually married you. Are you ready? Let’s do this…


16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee


#1. The Ones That Married Because They Are Financially And Mentally Ready

The first category on the list are those who married because they are financially and mentally ready. Sometimes, these Nigerian men may not love the bride. But they want beautiful, tall, and intelligent children. After all, compatibility is everything.
https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/First-thread.jpg

#2. The Ones That Married Because They Want To Use The Wedding Ceremony As A Fund Raising Opportunity

These guys married because they believe it could be a fundraising business venture. In fact, they are hoping that Chief Obi would buy them a car and Emy Billionaire would give them money to build a house.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-2-400x400.jpg

#3. Those That Married To Appear Responsible In The Society


These ones marry because of the prestige that comes with being a married man.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-3.jpg

#4.The Ones That Married Because The Bride Is Pregnant For Them

These ones married because the bride is pregnant for them. It’s either because they want to do what they think is right, or because they are afraid of the threats they’ve received from her family.

#5. The Ones That Are Interested In The Bride’s Fame Or Fortune

It’s either the bride has personal fame and/or fortune or her family is powerful and influential. They don’t mind being houseboys for the bride and her family.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-5-300x168.jpg

#6. Those That Think They Feel They Are Doing The Bride And Her Family A Favour

Some of these ones have a very annoying attitude. Every small thing “I’ll call off this wedding!”

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-6.jpg

#7. Those That Really Love The Bride and Are Under Pressure Not to Let Her Go

If they don’t have ‘shishi’, they don’t mind borrowing from anybody and everybody. They will be owing photographer, decorator, DJ, and caterer. If people don’t spray dem money, ‘wahala’ go dey.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-7-600x324.jpg

#8.Those That Married Out Of Appreciation

The bride has been there for them through thick and thin and through lack and poverty. They want to show their gratitude by marrying her.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-8-600x524.jpg

#9. Those That Married Because Someone Agreed To Marry Them With Their Shortcomings

After being jilted many times, they are thankful that las las, someone agreed to manage them.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-9.jpg

#10. The ones that are just marrying for contract purposes

It could be that they need a green card and she has citizenship or they are pursuing a big contract and her father is in government.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-10.jpg

#11. The ones that are marrying the bride out of fear

They’ve dated her for many years and they are afraid of what she is capable of doing if they try to dump her. As a matter of fact, they are trapped already and there’s nowhere to run to.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-11.jpg

#12. The ones that married because they love their bride

They believe in happily ever after. And truly want to spend the rest of their lives with the woman they love and continue to make her as happy as they possibly can.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-12.jpg

#13. The ones that marry because their family (Including extended) contributed money to facilitate their wedding

In most cases, the family takes matters into their own hands after getting tired of waiting for the uncle to marry.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-13.jpg

#14. The ones that married because they’ve found very young or very timid girls

They want to snatch her before her ‘eyes will tear’. If they suspect that she’s a virgin, they die there! They want to be her first and hopefully, her last.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-14.jpg

#15. The One That Married Because Of Other Reasons


These ones married because they want a sex machine, baby factory, personal chef, house cleaner, baby sitter, and laundrywoman all in one person. Their lifelong dream is to be lord, ruler, master, commander and controller of somebody’s daughter.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-15.jpg

#16. The Ones That Are Marrying For Marriage Sake

For them, marriage is just a necessary evil and being married makes no difference. Their side chicks/dicks are not complaining. They get to eat their cake and have it.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-16.jpg

These are the reasons Nigerian men get married according to Ada Bekee! What do you think? Drop your comment below.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/16-reasons-why-nigerian-men-get-married-according-to-ada-bekee/
I don't have anything to say
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Nobody: 2:30pm On Aug 22, 2019
DarkJeddi:
Marriage is overrated. shocked
leave Dem...they are listing reasons why men marry...what about reasons why men don't want to marry??
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Ojugunrege(f): 2:31pm On Aug 22, 2019
grin
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by drealOyinade: 2:33pm On Aug 22, 2019
What about the ones that married due to pressure from parent
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by OhafiaUdumeze: 2:35pm On Aug 22, 2019
Some people just like putting themselves into big trouble.
Why must you put Regina Daniels with his husband Ned Nwoko there?

Can you please show us where it was said or published by Ned Nwoko that he married Regina because of money? ABI REGINA IS RICHER THAN NED NWOKO
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I thought your topic is on men, why targeting Regina here? ABI I NO GO SCHOOL AGAIN TO UNDERSTAND SIMPLE ENGLISH?

Thank God here is Nigeria, if na US, you go dey use your knee dey beg for court.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by makavelli80(m): 2:35pm On Aug 22, 2019
Ijaycool:
Hmmm so no one marry because of free sex
sex is always free except for the the ones that allow themselves to be scammed
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Mckandre(m): 2:36pm On Aug 22, 2019
drealOyinade:
What about the ones that married due to pressure from parent
no 13
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Anfieldboss: 2:37pm On Aug 22, 2019
Ijaycool:
Hmmm so no one marry because of free sex
How is it free sex? Do you know what it takes to marry a woman?
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by spiceadole(f): 2:38pm On Aug 22, 2019
Ijaycool:
Hmmm so no one marry because of free sex
Sex is free,without marriage.
How can a man marry for free sex?
Marriage that he will spend money when he he can get sex with little or nothing
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Nobody: 2:39pm On Aug 22, 2019
WalkerMichael:
THAT THUNDER SHOULD FIRE YOU FIRST angry
No sir, I am a Messenger of thunder.
Thunder can not fire me
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by NiRfreak(m): 2:42pm On Aug 22, 2019
I will mostly likely marry for marriage sake....I'm yet to see the long term merit of marriage...aside ending in cheating , financial wahala, divorce headache and woman stress and quarell.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by franchasng:
And every man must marry for one or two of the reasons above shocked cheesy cheesy

But some list are missing:

17.) Those that married because the girl is rich or she has a good job, men can also dig diamond better u know cheesy

18.) Those that married because the girl is a citizen of USA, Canada, Europe, Australia and other developed countries grin

19.) Those that married because their parents, uncles, relatives and friends won't let them rest with when are you getting married shocked


20.) Those that married for family political connection and business expansion, e.g. Buhari daughter and Indimi son, Dangote daughter and the other guy, Tinubu Son and that British man's daughter, let me stop here lipsrsealed
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by RexTramadol1: 2:48pm On Aug 22, 2019
I com dey read Number 15 over and again
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by lennsmart(m): 2:51pm On Aug 22, 2019
Lolz. Funny compilation. We wey never marry, make we shine eyes sha
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by viktor01(m): 2:53pm On Aug 22, 2019
What about us that married because of sheer pressure. My dad and Mun can't call you to hold a 2 minutes conversation without stylishly sliding into when are you getting married?
Make I kukuma marry make everyone rest.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by ZinoFasisi: 2:55pm On Aug 22, 2019
Jayslicky:
shocked
Marriage the biggest scam on Earth.
Category 16 Spoted
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Senatorlatido: 2:57pm On Aug 22, 2019
I belong to 1st Group and love my wife.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Angelfrost(m): 3:03pm On Aug 22, 2019
Number 1 is quite apt and true for some guys...

Generally, a lot of guys marry out of a need to join the age long bandwagon... Not necessarily cos they give 2 sh*ts about the whole marriage institution.

I admire men and women who firmly choose to stay single rather than cage themselves in an institution just to please family, friends, and useless busybodies.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by MrHistorian: 3:06pm On Aug 22, 2019
Marriage is needless and extremely overrated.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Nobody: 3:07pm On Aug 22, 2019
So Regina Daniel married Ned for fortune while he married her for fame. mehn
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by lollybizzu(m): 3:14pm On Aug 22, 2019
denkyw:
No sir, I am a Messenger of thunder.
Thunder can not fire me
grin grin
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Mypeople2(m): 3:35pm On Aug 22, 2019
Ijaycool:
Hmmm so no one marry because of free sex
Babe the sex free these days. Just get an apartment, put Gotv Zee World, buy I better pass my neighbour generator and mattress. Then you will know what I am talking about
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by Zanillo2: 3:47pm On Aug 22, 2019
Jayslicky:
shocked

Marriage the biggest scam on Earth.
Marriage is not a scam, it's the dictates of the society that has altered the true meaning of marriage. Everybody wants to be like everybody.

The biggest scam of all is adulthood, cause you will be compelled to do all of these and much more, and eventually die at the end.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by uthlaw: 3:55pm On Aug 22, 2019
Ijaycool:
Hmmm so no one marry because of free sex
this days sex is cheaper than pure water....many guys Will get married just for marrying sack!
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by bonnyhope: 4:09pm On Aug 22, 2019
LoveJesus87:
Which category do I fall into naw? grin
You don marry?
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by uuzba(m): 4:10pm On Aug 22, 2019
only 16 reasons?
I strongly believe it is 17.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by uuzba(m): 4:15pm On Aug 22, 2019
makavelli80:
sex is always free except for the the ones that allow themselves to be scammed
have the free sex now and pay for fornication in eternal life.
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by millionboi2: 4:16pm On Aug 22, 2019
dopedealer:
This list is not complete without adding us that got married to avoid sin and fornication . If you are with me , kindly indicate cheesy grin
thy are other sins
Re: 16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee by sweetness01(f): 4:16pm On Aug 22, 2019
Writercruze:
Marriage is one of the oldest institutions on earth. It’s as old as man himself. But people marry for different reasons. In this article, I will be sharing the 16 reasons Nigerian men get married according to “Ada Bekee”, a popular influencer on Facebook.

Even though it sounds funny, I quite agree with her on this. And ladies, after reading this post, you would be able to tell why your hubby actually married you. Are you ready? Let’s do this…


16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee


#1. The Ones That Married Because They Are Financially And Mentally Ready

The first category on the list are those who married because they are financially and mentally ready. Sometimes, these Nigerian men may not love the bride. But they want beautiful, tall, and intelligent children. After all, compatibility is everything.
https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/First-thread.jpg

#2. The Ones That Married Because They Want To Use The Wedding Ceremony As A Fund Raising Opportunity

These guys married because they believe it could be a fundraising business venture. In fact, they are hoping that Chief Obi would buy them a car and Emy Billionaire would give them money to build a house.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-2-400x400.jpg

#3. Those That Married To Appear Responsible In The Society


These ones marry because of the prestige that comes with being a married man.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-3.jpg

#4.The Ones That Married Because The Bride Is Pregnant For Them

These ones married because the bride is pregnant for them. It’s either because they want to do what they think is right, or because they are afraid of the threats they’ve received from her family.

#5. The Ones That Are Interested In The Bride’s Fame Or Fortune

It’s either the bride has personal fame and/or fortune or her family is powerful and influential. They don’t mind being houseboys for the bride and her family.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-5-300x168.jpg

#6. Those That Think They Feel They Are Doing The Bride And Her Family A Favour

Some of these ones have a very annoying attitude. Every small thing “I’ll call off this wedding!”

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-6.jpg

#7. Those That Really Love The Bride and Are Under Pressure Not to Let Her Go

If they don’t have ‘shishi’, they don’t mind borrowing from anybody and everybody. They will be owing photographer, decorator, DJ, and caterer. If people don’t spray dem money, ‘wahala’ go dey.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-7-600x324.jpg

#8.Those That Married Out Of Appreciation

The bride has been there for them through thick and thin and through lack and poverty. They want to show their gratitude by marrying her.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-8-600x524.jpg

#9. Those That Married Because Someone Agreed To Marry Them With Their Shortcomings

After being jilted many times, they are thankful that las las, someone agreed to manage them.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-9.jpg

#10. The ones that are just marrying for contract purposes

It could be that they need a green card and she has citizenship or they are pursuing a big contract and her father is in government.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-10.jpg

#11. The ones that are marrying the bride out of fear

They’ve dated her for many years and they are afraid of what she is capable of doing if they try to dump her. As a matter of fact, they are trapped already and there’s nowhere to run to.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-11.jpg

#12. The ones that married because they love their bride

They believe in happily ever after. And truly want to spend the rest of their lives with the woman they love and continue to make her as happy as they possibly can.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-12.jpg

#13. The ones that marry because their family (Including extended) contributed money to facilitate their wedding

In most cases, the family takes matters into their own hands after getting tired of waiting for the uncle to marry.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-13.jpg

#14. The ones that married because they’ve found very young or very timid girls

They want to snatch her before her ‘eyes will tear’. If they suspect that she’s a virgin, they die there! They want to be her first and hopefully, her last.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/number-14.jpg

#15. The One That Married Because Of Other Reasons


These ones married because they want a sex machine, baby factory, personal chef, house cleaner, baby sitter, and laundrywoman all in one person. Their lifelong dream is to be lord, ruler, master, commander and controller of somebody’s daughter.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-15.jpg

#16. The Ones That Are Marrying For Marriage Sake

For them, marriage is just a necessary evil and being married makes no difference. Their side chicks/dicks are not complaining. They get to eat their cake and have it.

https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Number-16.jpg

These are the reasons Nigerian men get married according to Ada Bekee! What do you think? Drop your comment below.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/16-reasons-why-nigerian-men-get-married-according-to-ada-bekee/
#11 weak me grin grin grin
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