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Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:20pm On Aug 28, 2019
Biingoo:
Dude is a vaginal worshipper
Yes he is a faithful one woman vagina worshipper, unlike your ilks who are community diicks brostituting about and still worshiping same vagina, who desperately needs HIV between both of you?
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m): 2:22pm On Aug 28, 2019
CeterisXVII:
No man can sow cocoyam and expect to reap coconut. If a man does infidelity, he cannot expect to reap loyalty or fidelity or faithfulness in return. The heavens abhor injustice.
but dont leave ur husband cuz u caught him cheating,he should be the one to catch u and drive u from the house so that u can go and marry another married man while ur husband picks a young virgin as a wife,as for me I cant marry a mother simple
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:26pm On Aug 28, 2019
1StopRudeness:
He means men are childish, immature, unforgiving and her very weak in the heart to handle the idea that another man is entering their wife from behind..
Lmao cheesy any cheat who sees your comment will be thinking right now grin
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Nobody: 2:29pm On Aug 28, 2019
abbey621:
Your post mentioned love, that is your premise. Do unto others as you want done to you! This premise does not apply without conditions especially in marriages, marrying more than one wife does not mean you don't love the first wife. Religion gives this right to men but not to women, this was what I pointed out, love alone will not prevent men from marrying other wives.

As for the other things you mentioned, stick to topics you understand. Christians and Muslims alike are guilty of murders and disrespecting women, one has just been polarized more than the other.
Religion ddnt give right to men... U see that’s where we are getting it wrong, we interpreted text out of context... how can a religion preach love and also permit you to hurt someone’s feelings...how can a religion preach peace and at the same time say it’s okay to kill infidels and kidnap their women and children...it’s contradictory and the reason is we humans interpreted it that way.. that’s not what religion wanted...
Just to clear, that wasn’t the premise of my comment.... the premise was “religion as a justification for men to cheat”.... my comment stemmed from another guy’s text I earlier mentioned who used religion as a justification for men to have more than one woman wives..and thus, make it right for them to cheat..and women can’t do the same...which is the direction of this whole thread

the Quran that permitted more than one wife clearly gave a condition of love equally... already for a man to bring a rival woman into the house where another woman already exist, has already violated the condition the Quran gave by putting the interest of the new woman above the one at home...there’s no longer “love them equally condition” in that....
Regardless of human’s selfish behaviour which is what is reigning today ...I’m just making it clear that relegion doesn’t put the right of anyone above another...we are the one making it look that way..
Equally in the Bible, women were called weaker sex... people have used that text out of context to rule over women for years whereas that context was only explaining women’s action in the garden of eden when eve succumbed to the devil’s temptation.. infact it further meant men also weak because Adam succumbed to the temptation of his wife against God’s advice...
Man can do wateva he likes, but it’s wrong to use relegion as justification cos all we do is misinterprete it for our gain...
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:31pm On Aug 28, 2019
osazsky:
but dont leave ur husband cuz u caught him cheating,he should be the one to catch u and drive u from the house so that u can go and marry another married man while ur husband picks a young virgin as a wife,as for me I cant marry a mother simple
And then the so called horseband cheats on the virgin, she leaves him and the circle continues, abi your brain forgot to tell you cheats don't quit their trade? las las when he realise his stupidity, he either stays lonely the rest of his life or he goes back to his first wife, go figure.
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m):
Fountainofyouth:
And then the so called horseband cheats on the virgin, she leaves him and the circle continues, abi your brain forgot to tell you cheats don't quit their trade? las las when he realise his stupidity, he either stays lonely the rear of his life or he goes back to his first wife, go figure.
that should not be your problem,just leave ur husband and marry another married man and u think d first wife will be happy,the bible supports polygamy,even Sarah had to intoxicated abraham so that he will sleep with a common house help it's normal,kind David,Solomon and so on,its how God created the world .u were brought out of a man so leave with it dont allow any feminist eyeing ur husband decieve u,though I dont cheat on my wife and dont support it,cuz of diseases and some other reasons but this shouldn't break ur home.men are like that,all u can do is advice him that u are not ok with it quarrel with him and see if he changes if not,then back it up with prayers,try to change some certain character then try to wear something sexy at night not leaving d house cuz u caught him cheating,d through of the matter is that either u marry another married man where the first wife will give u heat or remain a single mother,try to wash d movie,,,, prayer room or so its an America film,either prayer room or war room I have forgotten d title,note I cant cheat on my wife but if I fall into d temptation in future and my wife leaves me ,nothing to lose provided she goes and leave my children I go they alright last last,I have said my own be comparing urself with ur hus there,gbam
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Biingoo: 2:37pm On Aug 28, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Yes he is a faithful one woman vagina worshipper, unlike your ilks who are community diicks brostituting about and still worshiping same vagina, who desperately needs HIV between both of you?
Did I quote you? Attention seeker grin
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by mixta140: 2:38pm On Aug 28, 2019
But guy can leave his wife because she cheated abi undecided
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Nobody: 2:39pm On Aug 28, 2019
ngwababe:
.. ..And that's why they cheat too, right?
We women are adults, matured, forgiving and strong in heart to handle the idea that our men are somewhere enjoying themselves with other women, is that what you're saying?
As a matter of fact, your sarcasm is somewhat correct..tell me how a woman can adjust to having another woman or even several other women in the same house with her sharing her husband’s dic like a script from a pornn movie and she’s able to adjust to that condition...
As regards your question “and that’s why they cheat right?”
People cheat for reasons best known to them, the human mind knows how to create justification for wrong or right doing... excitement, conquest, adventure, boredom, revenge, satisfaction, desire, psychology...per time, u never can tell why a person act the way they do unless u can read minds
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by MiaB(f): 2:40pm On Aug 28, 2019
Davash222:
Poco might be excused cos we're already used to her 'sex starved' rants here, and for you to hide behind her to show your uncivilized, sadistic and unruly attitude means you're trading towards her direction. You've been bookmarked!!
Flaunting words out of context further deepen your shallowness. You sounded very stupid when you used the word 'sadistic' . Do you know what it means?
Dundee no be only bookmarked
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:42pm On Aug 28, 2019
osazsky:
that should not be your problem,just leave ur husband and marry another married man and u think d first wife will be happy
Why must it be a married man I will marry when there are other men out there? Infact why will I remarry at all? Survey says women can stay away from sex unlike men who will prefer to ejaculate every minute without caution claiming "if we don't have sex for long there will be stomach pain, balls will turn blue" bla bla bla which is clearly a lie, diicking is just an everyday achievement for some of y'all.
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Litmus1(m): 2:43pm On Aug 28, 2019
Cheating, cheating , cheating..No be small tbing oo!! But seriously, women are now outpacing men in this competition, and that's worrisome. Nevertheless, no matter how you look at it, infidelity is so wrong. It carries many risks... especially contracting a deadly disease
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:44pm On Aug 28, 2019
Biingoo:
Did I quote you? Attention seeker grin
Hellooooo, are you lost? Bark out of here bingo.
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by tot(f): 2:52pm On Aug 28, 2019
The comments on this thread, hilarious! grin cheesy Poco has slammed Davash on the ground.
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m): 2:53pm On Aug 28, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Why must it be a married man I will marry when there are other men out there? Infact why will I remarry at all? Survey says women can stay away from sex unlike men who will prefer to ejaculate every minute without caution claiming "if we don't have sex for long there will be stomach pain, balls will turn blue" bla bla bla which is clearly a lie, diicking is just an everyday achievement for some of y'all.
u can stay without men y do u keep going from pastors to pastors when at common 37 u are not married,have u seen any man going from pastor to pastor looking for a wife ,when they are ready they get married and who told u only men enjoy sex,u are a kid
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m): 2:54pm On Aug 28, 2019
osazsky:
that should not be your problem,just leave ur husband and marry another married man and u think d first wife will be happy,the bible supports polygamy,even Sarah had to intoxicated abraham so that he will sleep with a common house help it's normal,kind David,Solomon and so on,its how God created the world .u were brought out of a man so leave with it dont allow any feminist eyeing ur husband decieve u,though I dont cheat on my wife and dont support it,cuz of diseases and some other reasons but this shouldn't break ur home.men are like that,all u can do is advice him that u are not ok with it quarrel with him and see if he changes if not,then back it up with prayers,try to change some certain character then try to wear something sexy at night not leaving d house cuz u caught him cheating,d through of the matter is that either u marry another married man where the first wife will give u heat or remain a single mother,try to wash d movie,,,, prayer room or so its an America film,either prayer room or war room I have forgotten d title,note I cant cheat on my wife but if I fall into d temptation in future and my wife leaves me ,nothing to lose provided she goes and leave my children I go they alright last last,I have said my own be comparing urself with ur hus there,gbam
gbam
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:56pm On Aug 28, 2019
osazsky:
u can stay without men y do u keep going from pastors to pastors when at common 37 u are not married,have u seen any man going from pastor to pastor looking for a wife ,when they are ready they get married and who told u only men enjoy sex,u are a kid
What are you saying, do you have comprehension issues? We are talking of a wife leaving a cheating husband, why would she go from pastor to pastor looking for husband?
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m): 2:59pm On Aug 28, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
What are you saying, do you have comprehension issues? We are talking of a wife leaving a cheating husband, why would she go from pastor to pastor looking for husband?
go and question God Mrs feminist, God saw nothing wrong with Solomon,David,Sarah gave abraham alcohol so that he can have a maid .u were made out of a man,we are d head, my advice to u,pls dont listen to dat feminist deceiving u,she is eyeing ur home,how many women married different husband in the bible?, pls am only advising u o,even when the holy spirit put jesus there he told Joseph something,
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by abbey621(m): 3:01pm On Aug 28, 2019
1StopRudeness:
Religion ddnt give right to men... U see that’s where we are getting it wrong, we interpreted text out of context... how can a religion preach love and also permit you to hurt someone’s feelings...how can a religion preach peace and at the same time say it’s okay to kill infidels and kidnap their women and children...it’s contradictory and the reason is we humans interpreted it that way.. that’s not what religion wanted...
Just to clear, that wasn’t the premise of my comment.... the premise was “religion as a justification for men to cheat”.... my comment stemmed from another guy’s text I earlier mentioned who used religion as a justification for men to have more than one woman wives..and thus, make it right for them to cheat..and women can’t do the same...which is the direction of this whole thread

[b]the Quran that permitted more than one wife clearly gave a condition of love equally... already for a man to bring a rival woman into the house where another woman already exist, has already violated the condition the Quran gave by putting the interest of the new woman above the one at home...there’s no longer “love them equally condition” [/b]in that....
Regardless of human’s selfish behaviour which is what is reigning today ...I’m just making it clear that relegion doesn’t put the right of anyone above another...we are the one making it look that way..
Equally in the Bible, women were called weaker sex... people have used that text out of context to rule over women for years whereas that context was only explaining women’s action in the garden of eden when eve succumbed to the devil’s temptation.. infact it further meant men also weak because Adam succumbed to the temptation of his wife against God’s advice...
Man can do wateva he likes, but it’s wrong to use relegion as justification cos all we do is misinterprete it for our gain...
We'll just have to disagree on that, religion forms the fabric of our moral compass in today's socities, if it does not prohibit something then it is perfectly okay as log as it is not illegal. You talk about feelings and bringing another woman home but if you read the Quran or Bible properly, you would understand men were never prohibited from bringing another woman home as long as they don't neglect existing wife/wives. We must not let our modern interpretations distort what is allowed or prohibited by the holy books.

The Quran never said love equally but rather:

“But if you feel you many not be able to deal justly between them, then marry only one.” (Holy Qur’an, 4:4).

Justly does not mean equally rather fairly. If wife A puts in 70% and wife B only puts in 30% then they should get their rewards according to their efforts(Equity/Justly), what would be wrong is to give wife A 50% and also wife B 50%(Equality).

I don't support men cheating but I can never be against men having the right to marry more than one wife, you can love someone and yet have the need to marry more than one, kings do it for expanding their empire, some do it for child bearing, while some do it just for the sake of it.

Since all religions are interpretated by those with deep knowledge of it and then propagated to the masses, what makes you think your version is more right than others?
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m): 3:05pm On Aug 28, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
What are you saying, do you have comprehension issues? We are talking of a wife leaving a cheating husband, why would she go from pastor to pastor looking for husband?
its u dat dont understand comparison,y do girls get married,2 things
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m): 3:06pm On Aug 28, 2019
osazsky:
go and question God Mrs feminist, God saw nothing wrong with Solomon,David,Sarah gave abraham alcohol so that he can have a maid .u were made out of a man,we are d head, my advice to u,pls dont listen to dat feminist deceiving u,she is eyeing ur home,how many women married different husband in the bible?, pls am only advising u o,even when the holy spirit put jesus there he told Joseph something,
were are u ferminist
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Toks2008(m): 3:16pm On Aug 28, 2019
truthsayer009:
Lol, let's not start this discussion sha. Let the matter just end here o. I don wash my hand grin
Who get time for baseless arguments! Only kids will argue my point.
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Nobody: 3:19pm On Aug 28, 2019
osazsky:
that should not be your problem,just leave ur husband and marry another married man and u think d first wife will be happy,the bible supports polygamy,even Sarah had to intoxicated abraham so that he will sleep with a common house help it's normal,kind David,Solomon and so on,its how God created the world .u were brought out of a man so leave with it dont allow any feminist eyeing ur husband decieve u,though I dont cheat on my wife and dont support it,cuz of diseases and some other reasons but this shouldn't break ur home.men are like that,all u can do is advice him that u are not ok with it quarrel with him and see if he changes if not,then back it up with prayers,try to change some certain character then try to wear something sexy at night not leaving d house cuz u caught him cheating,d through of the matter is that either u marry another married man where the first wife will give u heat or remain a single mother,try to wash d movie,,,, prayer room or so its an America film,either prayer room or war room I have forgotten d title,note I cant cheat on my wife but if I fall into d temptation in future and my wife leaves me ,nothing to lose provided she goes and leave my children I go they alright last last,I have said my own be comparing urself with ur hus there,gbam
The way u people interpreted religious books is funny...lol.. how do u say the Bible supports polygamy when Jesus clearly said otherwise mark 10v11...even the Old Testament law clearly said a king shouldn’t have many wives deut 14-17..and also punished Solomon for doing it in 1kings chap11....when the Bible gives account of what happened years ago to show the imperfectiin of man and guide us against them means it is saying u can go ahead and do it ??... the Bible also give account of Herod killing all male children below age 3 for his selfish interest... oya go and start killing children, the Bible supports it...
Man will always do what he wants, God doesn’t force us to do anything or permits or or prevents us... everything has consequences eventually..th choice is ours
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by tot(f): 3:24pm On Aug 28, 2019
So basically Nigerian men want to dish it out but not be served the same thing they dish out.

If truly in your heart you are convinced there is nothing wrong with cheating then you should have no qualms with your wife cheating. If not and you know it is wrong, then WHY are you doing it?
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m): 3:26pm On Aug 28, 2019
1StopRudeness:
The way u people interpreted religious books is funny...lol.. how do u say the Bible supports polygamy when Jesus clearly said otherwise mark 10v11...even the Old Testament law clearly said a king shouldn’t have many wives deut 14-17..and also punished Solomon for doing it in 1kings chap11....when the Bible gives account of what happened years ago to show the imperfectiin of man and guide us against them means it is saying u can go ahead and do it ??... the Bible also give account of Herod killing all male children below age 3 for his selfish interest... oya go and start killing children, the Bible supports it...
Man will always do what he wants, God doesn’t force us to do anything or permits or or prevents us... everything has consequences eventually..th choice is ours
its painful being the second ,u are our helper and should nerver be compared to the head,u were made out of us,na we thay driving seat na,if ur son or bro wants to marry a mother will u agree,nobody is saying u should not go o,u will remain a single mother while d man continues his exploit without cautioning na u go lose,go and watch f movie war room,its a true story and learn what a wife should do when faced with challenges not running like chicken, were are u running to ? Ur fathers house or a friends house
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by osazsky(m): 3:31pm On Aug 28, 2019
1StopRudeness:
The way u people interpreted religious books is funny...lol.. how do u say the Bible supports polygamy when Jesus clearly said otherwise mark 10v11...even the Old Testament law clearly said a king shouldn’t have many wives deut 14-17..and also punished Solomon for doing it in 1kings chap11....when the Bible gives account of what happened years ago to show the imperfectiin of man and guide us against them means it is saying u can go ahead and do it ??... the Bible also give account of Herod killing all male children below age 3 for his selfish interest... oya go and start killing children, the Bible supports it...
Man will always do what he wants, God doesn’t force us to do anything or permits or or prevents us... everything has consequences eventually..th choice is ours
and how many kings in d bible married one wife
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Nobody: 3:42pm On Aug 28, 2019
abbey621:
We'll just have to disagree on that, religion forms the fabric of our moral compass in today's socities, if it does not prohibit something then it is perfectly okay as log as it is not illegal. You talk about feelings and bringing another woman home but if you read the Quran or Bible properly, you would understand men were never prohibited from bringing another woman home as long as they don't neglect existing wife/wives. We must not let our modern interpretations distort what is allowed or prohibited by the holy books.

The Quran never said love equally but rather:

“But if you feel you many not be able to deal justly between them, then marry only one.” (Holy Qur’an, 4:4).

Justly does not mean equally rather fairly. If wife A puts in 70% and wife B only puts in 30% then they should get their rewards according to their efforts(Equity/Justly), what would be wrong is to give wife A 50% and also wife B 50%(Equality).

I don't support men cheating but I can never be against men having the right to marry more than one wife, you can love someone and yet have the need to marry more than one, kings do it for expanding their empire, some do it for child bearing, while some do it just for the sake of it.

Since all religions are interpretated by those with deep knowledge of it and then propagated to the masses, what makes you think your version is more right than others?
Its not my version... ... it’s the right thing because we were first humans before religion came..and the law written in the hearts of men before any relegion came is equality and lov: do unto other what u want them to do unto u.....
there would be judgement one day and people who were existing before the Bible and quaran will be judged.. they are not all going to perish..... u think God is unjust...
Ddnt your Quran say u should kill christains, don’t live with them in peace, enslave their women etc...but why don’t u go about killing like it says..because there’s a law in ur heart that knows killing ur fellow man is wrong...will you call that ur own version of interpreting the Quran?? Will U say it’s civilization??
I’ve told u before and I will tell u again.. people will always want to interprete religion to suit them..a religion cannot preach peace and also say kill others becos they are christains amen want it to be that way... the same way.. relegion cant tell u to love and treat others the way u want them to treat you and still tell u to hurt ur them in the name marriage...like U said we will have to disagree on this
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Nobody: 3:45pm On Aug 28, 2019
osazsky:
and how many kings in d bible married one wife
How many kings killed people ??

I just gave u an example with Herod...it’s in the Bible..is that reason to go about killing..or say the Bible supports it.??
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Nobody: 3:50pm On Aug 28, 2019
pocohantas:
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"Sex starved" indeed.

Can a woman be sex starved in Nigeria? Except she willingly stays off sex na.

Visit 20 Nigerian men, including the married ones and 18.91234 would be willing to fck you. Them no dey hoard their prick. Zero artificial scarcity.
Mai chest! grin grin grin grin grin
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Nobody: 3:50pm On Aug 28, 2019
osazsky:
its painful being the second ,u are our helper and should nerver be compared to the head,u were made out of us,na we thay driving seat na,if ur son or bro wants to marry a mother will u agree,nobody is saying u should not go o,u will remain a single mother while d man continues his exploit without cautioning na u go lose,go and watch f movie war room,its a true story and learn what a wife should do when faced with challenges not running like chicken, were are u running to ? Ur fathers house or a friends house
See ur mind is already messed up... u don’t even know the Bible U are desperatly trying to use to justify men’s infidelity.... I give up on you
Re: “Never Leave Your Husband Because He Cheats” - Facebook User Says, Gets Replied by Nobody: 3:51pm On Aug 28, 2019
DennisEche:
IMAGINE THE WOMAN'S REPLY, SO MEN AND WOMEN CHEATING ARE SAME LEVEL. WOMAN WHO CHEAT IS ON HER OWN
ANY WOMAN WHO CHEAT IS A DISGRACE TO WOMAN HOOD AND FAMILY
have you not cheated before?
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