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ImaIma1:
Notification of baggage will drive women away... whether a good or bad woman. No woman goes around looking for a man with baggage to be with.

The moment you are already talking about how and why your wife left you and how you are struggling to make ends meet, that is already forming a perception or idea about you in the person's mind.

It's best to give general and basic information and let the person get to know you without the tags you already added to yourself.

have u ever heard of D's sentence ***always speak for yourself***
is unintelligent to generalise a view....**did u just say no woman*** u don't even have any right to talk wat ur sister/daughter wants or can take in life not to even talk of people in Nigeria and u took it all d way to the whole women in the world haba!!!.....FYI D's might d type of man a woman is crying and praying for somewhere if u don't know

note: Always speak for urself at all times in all discuss anywhere.....11 commandment

ImaIma1:
He's good.

It's just common sense and a silent code of conduct not ro give away too detailed information initially. You don't introduce yourself with

"Hi, my name is.....my wife left me because blah blah.... I am struggling to make ends meet..."

Such information comes later after getting to know the person.

dat ur own veiw and the way u would av done yours......it makes no sense trying to undermine him or neither does he need to make sense to you cos u are not him......dere is no one way of doing things in life .....d only thing dat matter is d end result...... look up a woman has already show interest and dat wat important .

ur way of doing things is never the best way we will all have our different ways...wat is u wrong to u is right to someone else.....that is factual common sense my dear

Godoverevery:
dat ur own veiw and the way u would av done yours......it makes no sense trying to undermine him or neither does he need to make sense to you cos u are not him......dere is no one way of doing things in life .....d only thing dat matter is d end result...... look up a woman has already show interest and dat wat important .

ur way of doing things is never the best way we will all have our different ways...wat is u wrong to u is right to someone else.....that is factual common sense my dear

It's not about my way, your way or his way. It's about communication. And communication has stages. The first stage is usually superficial, void of too much information.

But I am not here to talk too much. If he doesn't want people to respond out of pity, curiosity,etc, it is better to give only necessary information especially in an introduction.

Godoverevery:
have u ever heard of D's sentence ***always speak for yourself***
is unintelligent to generalise a view....**did u just say no woman*** u don't even have any right to talk wat ur sister/daughter wants or can take in life not to even talk of people in Nigeria and u took it all d way to the whole women in the world haba!!!.....FYI D's might d type of man a woman is crying and praying for somewhere if u don't know

note: Always speak for urself at all times in all discuss anywhere.....11 commandment

Intelligence detector. You don't have to agree with me.

ImaIma1:
It's not about my way, your way or his way. It's about communication. And communication has stages. The first stage is usually superficial, void of too much information.

But I am not here to talk too much. If he doesn't want people to respond out of pity, curiosity,etc, it is better to give only necessary information especially in an introduction.

like I will still tell ......wat matter most is end result..... whelter u give all d info on first date or on the 10th date it doesn't guarantee anything.......d best thing is going with head,doing wat best for you and just d way u want....one thing I never do is tell anyone how to go about there business cos is non of my business.

Is this debate still ongoing?

kunleweb:
Unfortunately a few disagree even on this thread.


Anyways, that's why and how people end with people who don't deserve them. Caused by selling themselves beneath their real value



Happy Sunday

How do we know if the wife left him because he lost his job or it was something else? His introduction has invoked pity on him but isn't it possible that he could be bad-mouthing an innocent woman?

I am not quick to trust someone who is quick to paint someone in a bad light while painting himself innocent. The lady that has shown interest should tread carefully.

ImaIma1:
How do we know if the wife left him because he lost his job or it was something else? His introduction has invoked pity on him but isn't it possible that he could be bad-mouthing an innocent woman?

I am not quick to trust someone who is quick to paint someone in a bad light while painting himself innocent. The lady that has shown interest should tread carefully.

Not that alone my lady


Maturity reflects through perspectives. Deduce arguing with people


By projecting oneself in slightly dim light only attracts less than standard. Let the cheer leaders keep cheer leading. Simply tie toe away after making your statement. Even if one has a beau, a sorry attitude sends them away