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Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife , she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago , leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me , because I love her so much and I cant live without her please

Did you empathise with, and stand by her during these unfortunate losses? Why does the family think you responsible for the situation?

If you are not doing anything that suggests to others that you do not care about your wife's pains, then you should not burden yourself with the issue. Otherwise, you need to change your attitude towards her plight.

The miscarriages might be medical problem. Una go hospital?

Edited Post in light of new developments:
OP has spiritual problems true true

Read this link for details on this Rhesus factor issue:
https://americanpregnancy.org/pregnancy-complications/rh-factor/

The dumbness of your situation is mind boggling though. Sorry my dear.

Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife , she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago , leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me , because I love her so much and I cant live without her please

I wish I could talk to her. I very much understand. I have had 8miscarriages before I got a diagnosis. My ex in law’s accused me of being cursed, spirit husband etc. while all we needed was to find the medical solution. Sending you kind regards.

https://astrongnigerianwoman.com/2019/08/30/child-sexual-abuse-and-incest/

Wife please come back and sort it out with hubby in the hospital, church and bedroom please

Well, this public apology means nothing. I have seen men who crawl on their knees in public to beg their wives only for her to return and keep chopping beating.

If your wife's family called you a ritualist then
that is a serious allegation.

Of a truth, you shouldn't be bothered about getting her back first but clearing your name.

Go to God in prayer and ask him to vindicate you, if you are innocent.

When this happens, no one will tell your wife to return.

Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).

nigerians with this belief

kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).

omo na serious matter be this..karma dealing with him

Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier

kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).

Lol. Nairalanders and investigative journalism

ruggedtimi:
omo na serious matter be this..karma dealing with him

Guess this is his own cross

pocohantas:
Lol. Nairalanders and investigative journalism

I also advised him on that thread so the moment i came across this topic, his moniker rang a bell so i had to go confirm

kross01:
Dear OP, i guess she didn't leave because of the miscarriage alone but maybe also because she later learnt of your little secret which you once brought to us here on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5045895/child-brothers-ex-wife-please did you later seek help in a hospital as was earlier advised by people on that thread? What was the outcome? Only the two of you can come out of this and stronger too, if only you guys will realise you only have each other and no one else. Sorry for the loss of your brother by the way (i am guessing he couldn't get over his predicament then).

OP, you de craze ooo. I even thought your were a human being. Is this the same brother you are crying crocodile tears over his death? When you probably caused it. May God have mercy on you. Let me go and edit my first post!

baby124:
OP, you de craze ooo. I even thought your were a human being. Is this the same brother you are crying crocodile tears over his death? When you probably caused it. May God have mercy on you. Let me go and edit my first post!

Wallahi I dey gbadun you.

Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier

The boss. I hail u sir.

ruggedtimi:
omo na serious matter be this..karma dealing with him

Karma doesn't exist. The wife's condition is obviously a medical issue.

Also, she already saw his confession on nairaland and judging by the fact that Nigerians are judgemental she left him for that.

@Op this your matter tire me.

Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier

This comment simply shows how green you are.

Omojudy:
I wish I could talk to her. I very much understand. I have had 8miscarriages before I got a diagnosis. My ex in law’s accused me of being cursed, spirit husband etc. while all we needed was to find the medical solution. Sending you kind regards.

https://astrongnigerianwoman.com/2019/08/30/child-sexual-abuse-and-incest/

Care to tell us about the diagnosis

Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife , she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago , leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me , because I love her so much and I cant live without her please

You slept with your brother's wife. Now your own wife is taken from you. I smell Karma serving hot dish

AwkaetitiBabe:
This comment simply shows how green you are.

The person u quoted has mental problem. On behalf of his kinsmen we apologise for his lunatic display

You need to see a therapist just let your wifey be for now she just lost a kid and she is in pains .. now focus on getting closer to God more only him can give you comfort just know that ..

Might be Rhesus Factor issue.

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LadySarah:
Might be Rhesus Factor issue.

exactly. Most times we pay attention to Genotype and leave rhesus factor.

Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife , she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago , leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me , because I love her so much and I cant live without her please

Well her family fear their daughter would be made to nurture your late brothers children without having any of hers and they don't think she meant that when she said "...for better, for worse..."

Your wife must have had serial abortions in the past. Nothing medical science won't fix.

It's a hard knock life.

Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier

Ode

Your marriage is not working and you've already secretly fathered a child with your late brother's wife. Leave your wife be and let her go because she doesn't deserve to be in this mess. Too much has happened: your secret child, her miscarriages, your brother's death (idk if he knew about the child w/ his wife before he died) that it would be unfair to bring her any further pain if she returns. If I were a family member I would not allow her to go back to you. She needs to start her life with another man.

I wish you well too, OP.

Lalasticlala, help this oga push this to front page, may be his wife will see it. Most people that visit nairaland don't bother about all these sections.

Madam, if you're reading this, go back to your oga, konji wants to finish him.

U can live without her,if she loves u,she will not allow anyone manipulate her

Rosarie:
U can live without her,if she loves u,she will not allow anyone manipulate her

Maybe you should take a look at his profile and read the topic he created about impregnating his sister in-law without his brother knowing .

Who knows maybe his wife found out and she left because of that