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Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by DarlingEmojist(m): 9:33am On Sep 18, 2019 |
Ahh.. This one na case oh,the thing is that do you always call him almost everyday? And frame up something like ... 'You have start buying some wedding materials (then hear his reply). I also have my own to share Can I go on? |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by DenreleDave(m): 9:33am On Sep 18, 2019 |
Purfee: I kinda dislike a lady that has too many males friends. Cox I'm a guy and I no the kinda thought dos guys may be entertaining if they get any chance to be with you alone.. A lady I currently like, though she is not my GF but I just told her my intentions... The problem is that she keeps to many male friends, too much that she is distracted even when we dey talk.. We done get too much issues even as friends sef on top say we never date ooo. She's gonna be 22(second year) and I'm 26 (finals) . Purfee, honestly for my mind. I have planned to do same on her if she agrees to be mine, I cud be wrong though Cox it's her life and we are not dating. It does mean that I don't love her but wud just love to let her see how it feels too. I love her so much but I just let her experience what I experience too Funny enough she told me that not even her husband can't stop her from male friends and besties, I was shocked. Then I asked her, can your husband keep a female bestie, she said God forbid, she wud never allow such.. U see how life and women are... They love to be at advantage So it's happen like dt sumtyms sha.. Urs is different coz u guys were dating and u were keeping male friends, so this is time for payback which explain why he is also flirting with so many ladies too as a payback.. Just take heart like he did in ur own |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by KingKayxCee11(m): 9:39am On Sep 18, 2019 |
EphraimBoat: ur last paragraph says it all. Alot of young guys are mostly of that nature. But in her case, she has had a little experience of having ladies around him in his former workplace; and that fact and attitude she got is giving her serious worries, plus the little/zero attention she tends to get. Finally sis, hold the forth, your guy may be roaming or flirting, it's something that comes with that age range. But he'll come back to you. |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by farady(m): 9:39am On Sep 18, 2019 |
Laugh wan kill me with the kind of comments wey i dey read. @marvelous000 your tuition no loss. Sometime last year or so, a colleague who just resumed after wedding on stepping into our office was hailed by another colleague, extending his hand to shake him, saying "welcome to prison"! Everyone busted into laughter for a long time. Continuing, his colleague added "yes, na prison you just enter so" and the laugh continued. Months after when that occasion, I will just be laughing when I remember what the guy said. Maybe due to his own sad experience since he was married for just under 4 years before being separated from his wife. The point I am trying to make is that marriage is a serious business. From the man's perspective, it's not what he would just jump into. At 26, I don't think he wants to go into marriage, notwithstanding whether he has a very good job or not. Guy man want to still enjoy himself (not necessarily frolicking with other girls). He will need to prepare himself emotionally and psychologically. Again that both of you are into something does not mean he should be displaying your 'pinture' like signboard 'everywhere he goes'. Infact one the contrary some guys would prefer to keep such ladies in one reserved corner. I don't know why sha. No be say dem no love u oh or say dem dey ashame of u oh, ehen. A lady at 24, already out of school with even a masters is ready to take the important step in her life which is marriage whereas a guy man like I stated above is not ready. Very few guys will want to. I for one would have love to get married at 26, but at that time I was way far from it and my fiancee who was 24 was ready emotionally and psychologically. For my side bread-wise (financially). Due to strike and extra year I was just preparing to go for youth service. My brethren, that time during service our telephone calls that time (Nitel era) dey give me pains. She always pop up the question "when are we getting married" and I go just weak. I did not find it funny at all. Finally we got married 3 years after my service at the age of 30 and she, 28. In total we were in the relationship for about 9 years. It was a long one really and long distant for a period of 6-7years of the entire 9 years. Op remember your question was if he really loves you, but along along the line marriage things come enter. My advice is just keep an open mind, get yourself busy, thank God you said you have a business you want to run. You did not state if both of you have talked marriage. If not, both of you need to define your relationship and where both of you want it to lead to. If yes, please give him some space and pray for him and for yourself. If he is not coming out straight, please move on, no hard feelings. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by SouthSouth1914: 9:42am On Sep 18, 2019 |
mrblessed: Rightly said! He could as well attribute the mistakes to typos or English isn’t his first language and still get away.. |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Fantazy(m): 9:48am On Sep 18, 2019 |
marvelous000:LOLZ |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Fantazy(m): 9:49am On Sep 18, 2019 |
marvelous000:Lolz |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by BRATISLAVA: 10:04am On Sep 18, 2019 |
dview001:Lol. We were waiting for you |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by mrblessed(m): 10:08am On Sep 18, 2019 |
SouthSouth1914:That would be prevaricating at best and lame at worst. Learning never ends. However, only those who recognize and accept their susceptibility to error, continue to learn everyday. Whenever I read an English text, I am always looking out for ways to improve my proficiency of the language.There is no excuse for failure, but accepting a mistake is a symbol of strength, not weakness. This post is sadly replete with a lot of grammatical bloopers: beginning from the Op who claims to be doing a masters programme, and a raft of self-awarded "grammarians," whose posts are riddled with kindergarten errors.For example, one of the rib-tickling remarks of the Op which I cherish the most, is the gratuitous retort that she isn't "writing a formal letter," as an excuse to ignore (perhaps mitigate) her obviously poor language skills. |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by lyndaway(f): 10:32am On Sep 18, 2019 |
marvelous000:form one grammar to an other please oh some of us are still learning |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Purfee(f): 11:19am On Sep 18, 2019 |
farady:Thank you so much. I understand you perfectly |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Purfee(f): 11:44am On Sep 18, 2019 |
farady:Thank you.. I appreciate your contribution. |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by IamPlato(m): 12:51pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
Lamanii22:do not victimize yourself 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Phenomenal16(f): 2:03pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
Pennyways:... Fool get ur rotten ass off here.... Hu even invited u..... Mumu ode |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Phenomenal16(f): 2:05pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
Pennyways:.. M ready for u
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Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Phenomenal16(f): 2:07pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
Pauldollars:.... Best advice so far... U need to take me this serious 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by BobiNick(m): 7:49pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
desvi: Chaaiiiiii see the kind wife I dey find. A teacher to the teachless lol... |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Pennyways: 9:40pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: mgbeke u too fine Carry ur own go biko If you are ready for me I go come pay ur bride price carry u comot 4 Enugu befor red earth and dust finish u for this upcoming harmattan. What a beautiful babe Biko drop ur contact |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Phenomenal16(f): 9:42pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
BobiNick:... TEACHLESS...... No bi small thing |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by BobiNick(m): 5:50am On Sep 19, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: Correct babe.... |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Blissbath(f): 7:05am On Sep 19, 2019 |
Funny cenaman: |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by EphraimBoat: 7:36am On Sep 19, 2019 |
KingKayxCee11: Exactly! Bless you bro. We always do. |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by MiseryHimself: 11:15am On Sep 20, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: We (men) are not a monolith. She's just 20 - 24; she's only out for your money (not really interested in marriage). Hey, buddy, don't just waste your precious time, go for the late 20s or 30s. Women in that bracket are desperate. I think that makes sense? |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by MiseryHimself: 11:18am On Sep 20, 2019 |
olabrinks: Men are not a hive mind, sister. There are still men who want to get married below that age sef. Don't dismiss the guy solely for that reason. |
Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by Brunosamel(m): 2:02pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
What you are doing is exactly what my girlfriend did, seeking 100% attention but my own case doesn't have anything to do with women but rather money... I don't see any reason for you to be panicking when he has already let his intentions known.... You shouldn't be wondering whether he loves me but rather you should you asking yourself how can become a better person, find my purpose in life, build a happy life outside of your relationship, improve yourself and allow things to flow definitely if you get too attech to him you might end up losing him to another girls... Don't be a nice girl but rather be a bitch, do things your way when you guys are together enjoy fun and stay away from his phone If he doesn't call you frequently like he used to start calling him to let him know that you care irrespective he is giving attention or not. He must not always be the person to initiate things start doing things he used to do for you to him.... I believe you boyfriend is on his peek of his career building his empire, there must be temporary temptation unless you want to be a temporary girlfriend... Stay focus and stop seeking to much attention what is yours is yours..... |
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