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frank417:
Words from a typical broke nigger

Anyone that read my comments will easily tell that my aim is to reveal to you that money can sum up all these the op has written. If you don't get the aim then u are intellectually slow.

Replies to the bolded:

1. I never said anything about worshiping women and being a slave to them and oblige to all their demands(bro puhlease! I'm the nigger with the money! It goes the other way round. Seems you really really slow )

2. How not to be a dundi like you and become uncle Sharwama why another guy is pounding her (lol niggerrr im the one with the moneeey. I do the pounding, not u the broke ass nigger! Ur babe cheats on ur broke ass with me the soft nigger)

3. How not to be enternaly tied in the friendzone like you why another guy is at the end zone ( no man, i'm at the KING ZONE because she will bounce ur ass for me)

4. How not to be a do as I say guy but a guy who gives the commands ( won't answer this cos by now u should already have known who gives the command lmao! unless u are slow ofcos)

You see bro, u are wrong at all levels. All I was trying to say is a sleek nigger with money doesn't need all this bla bla bla dynamislcs shit. Just get money and you will always come out on top with a woman. No dynamics

There is a reason why P.square in their song Bank Alert said " the person wey wan chop you run dey beg to stay"

Geofavor:
What is reality

Squirrel01:
Love doesn't exist. Stop lying to yourself. It's all game, mutual interest.

ubunja:
How To Choose A Girl.


BUILDING ON SAND.
If you see a girl that you like and you make up your mind to approach her for a relationship because she's exactly what you want in a woman; you've already lost the game before the game even started.

Going up to her, telling her how beautiful she is and how you'd be honored if she accepted you. Its the epitome of weakness.

That's not how you get and keep a girl.

Already you're chasing. Already she's the Prize. Already she has more power than you and should you date, the power difference will only increase.

BUILDING ON A ROCK.
The only way you start at the top with women, having all the advantage, holding all the cards, from the word go, is to do things the opposite way. The way that appears wrong but is actually the right way: instead of searching for a woman who fits your ideal, You should be a man who fits the woman's ideal. You should be what a woman wants. it must be about fulfilling the woman's expectation not yours. Desire must flow from the girl to you. It must not flow from you to the girl. Attraction must start in the heart of the female, not in your heart.

That's the secret to happiness. That's how you build a relationship on a foundation of rock: You make sure the woman loves you more than you love her. You must be the guy she feels she "can't live without". But She must not be the girl you feel you "cant live without". Be her fantasy don't Iet her be your fantasy. Let her chase the fantasy, but keep your feet firmly in reality.

That female who's "everything you ever dreamed of in a woman", that chick who's the "girl of your dreams", that one must be dealt with only on a lust level. As a short term fantasy. A pump and dump. Dick her, don't Heart her. Ejaculate and evacuate. Don't invest any emotion in her. No matter how beautiful. No matter how delicious.

You can not afford to love the girl that you want. You dare not chase the fantasy. Loving the girl your heart chooses is a luxury you just can't afford. Not if you value your happiness and peace of mind. If your goal is romantic success, your woman must be more invested in the romance than you. She must be the biggest shareholder in the company. She must be the one in love with you, not the other way round.

POWER DYNAMICS.
For the one who loves less is actually the one with all the power, holding all the cards and having all the advantage. The one who loves more, the one more committed, holds less of everything.

If a house is burning, the one who bought the most property cries the most. And so they're the one most concerned about preventing fires. In other words, the party most invested, most loving and most committed in the romance is the party that begs the most, compromises the most and sacrifices the most to make sure the romance stays on course.

The one who invests less of everything holds all the power for the simple reason that they can walk away any time. Never be involved in something you can't walk away from without losing gallons of tears. Women have been loving the right way since forever. When was the last time you saw a girl cry tears over a boy? Between men and women who commits suicide more over breakups? Of course the men. Because they don't know how to love properly.

HOW GIRLS LOVE.
Guys need to learn to love the way girls love.

When a girl enters into a relationship with you she's happy when you're the one that loves her not the other way around. That way she has more power in the relationship. But if it happens that she's the one that falls harder and deeper for you, she'll do the next best thing to retain some measure of power: she'll HIDE THE INTENSITY of her love for you.

A girl will love you with all her heart and be crazy for you, BUT SHE'LL NEVER SHOW IT. The girl you love never shows you the full height, depth and breadth of her love. She never lets you know the maximum temperature of her passion.

You give her your photo, she goes home and goes crazy OVER THAT PHOTO. She sleeps with it next to her heart, kisses it, even shed tears of love over the image of you. She keeps it safe and spends hours on end just looking at it, lost in adoration.

But when you come in person to see her she puts the photo away and she wears her "game face". The face you see is not going to be the face your photo saw. Gone is the dreamy look of complete total love. Gone are the tears of love. She looks at you like one who never missed you one second. Like you were not even on her mind.

A girl shows you less of the love she has for you as a strategy: TO PROTECT HERSELF. If she was truthful and did show you how deep her love for you is YOU WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE. You'll use it against her. You'll demand crazy things from her. You'll cheat on her. And because her love for you runs deep, she will find it hard to leave and easy to forgive.

So to stop you from having that power over her, she hides the true extent of her love. And because you have no idea how crazy she is for you, you never fully exploit her.

That's why girls have DIARIES. They pour their heart, soul and mind on the pages of that little book. They confess their loves, hopes and fears on it's pages. Not to the BF. And when a girl loses her diary or when another person reads it, she freaks out. Because she feels exposed.

Many a girlfriend that plays it cool before her guy is mad crazy for him in his absence. Why do you think when guys screwup, girls always say, "If only you knew how much I loved you".? It's because the girl knows the love she's been expressing is not the complete love she's been feeling. She loved the guy more than he knew and because he's leaving he'll never really know he's lost a diamond.

Men need to learn that lesson: Be crazy and drunk in love all you want, worship the very ground your woman walks on if you wish, be batshit mad for her - but whatever you choose to do DO NOT DO IT IN FRONT OF HER. When you meet her, put your "game face" on. Your poker face. Conceal your desperation. Let her be forever guessing how deep your love for her runs. Do not worship her to her face. You give her too much power over you, power she'll unfailingly use against you.

LOVE AND HAPPINESS.
The key to love and happiness is to Learn to love the one who loves you. Never try to make someone who doesn't love you love you.

That's how you lose.

That's how you spend 12 months chasing a girl who has her own eye on another dude all the while your stupid self thinking she's playing hard to get. That's how you buy a girl shoes and phones that she'll proceed to use to impress the guy her own eye is on. That's how a girl, during sex, ends up whispering another dude's name to your ear, because it's him her mind is on. Why? Because you're forcing yourself into her heart. But her heart is already occupied by another guy.

Now here is the girl you must occupy yourself with:

That girl who's crazy for you for no reason and blushes everytime she sees you. That girl who always makes excuses to hang around you. That girl always offering to do stuff for you. That girl always eager to be part of whatever you're part of. LOVE THAT ONE. She's CHASING you. You're on her mind and in her heart as we speak. She likes you already.

The women you yourself like, just pump and dump them. They're as useless as chaff. And will be as troublesome as the weeds.

Keep the women you like for LUST, but the women who like you, keep them for LOVE. A girl who likes you is a precious stone that you take and polish and adorn yourself with. But a girl you like is a common stone, one of thousands you lust after day in day out:

You take a corner you see a girl you like. You open your window you see a girl you like pass by. You enter the bus, there, sitting in the front seat, is a girl you like. You go to town you see 20 girls you like. At your school there must be 50 of these girls. At work almost every department has a girl you like. The girl you like is EVERYWHERE and what's everywhere HAS NO VALUE.

But that girl out of hundreds, who looks at you the way you have been looking at hundreds of girls, that one chick who becomes as stupid and as dumb infront of you as you become infront of the girls that you like, that girl is THE ONE for you.

You can never go wrong learning to love that one. Don't trouble yourself with the girl you like. Why? Because already HER HEART IS SET ON ANOTHER MAN. look for the one who likes you, for her heart is set on you. Such a girl's heart you don't have to win, because already its yours.

Girls are choosy as hell. But a girl who has already chosen you is a Penalty Kick you've been given, without the goalkeeper, without even the goal posts. You can't miss even if your eyes were closed.

And NO, a girl who chooses you is not cheap. A girl who's cheap is the girl you fvck for the price of a loaf of bread. That is a cheap girl. You can fvck her for a penny, even for free. But guess what? So will the next guy. And the next. And the next. On the other hand, A girl who chooses you will be easy BUT ONLY FOR YOU. She'll be cheap BUT ONLY FOR YOU. She'll be willing BUT ONLY FOR YOU. You see the difference? It's all about YOU sir.


If a girl doesn't look at you twice, there's no reason to look at her twice. Attraction is zero. The spark failed. A female knows with one look if she'll sleep with you or not. If she doesn't double check you, if her eyes don't linger, if her gaze doesn't keep coming back to you; KEEP IT MOVING. Forget her.

BUT REAL MEN DO THE CHASING??
When females chase you does it make you less manly? Less Alpha?

It does not. Don't you get jealous when women throw their panties and bras at celebs during concerts? I know you do. Do you want a girl to throw you her panties to show you she wants you? Yes? But then you'll call her a Slut! That's why she'll settle for throwing you a smile.

OK! BUT ONLY LOW QUALITY GIRLS SEEM INTERESTED IN ME!!!
If the girls whose eyes linger and whose smiles you keep getting are not of the class you want, that's an honest indicator of where you are in the Sexual Market. That's your level. You attract your class.

To get better, better yourself. To see an improvement improve yourself. To see an upgrade in the quality of girls that give you "the look", upgrade yourself. The women you attract are the women at your level. Go up a level, and the quality of females you attract will also go up a level. Simple as that.

And how do you do that?

Dress better. Walk better. Speak better.

Do everything better than you've been doing.

To top it, go get a better body. Look, You can't change your face or your height but you can very well change your body. Which is all good, for when it comes to sex, your body IS your face. Women don't lust after a handsome face. It's that 6pack and those biceps that make the vagina tingle. Why do you think women love watching Wrestling on TV?

So, hit the gym.

LET HER CHOOSE.
Letting a girl choose is how you choose a girl.

That way girls chase You. You don't chase girls. That way You play hard to get. You don't have girls playing hard to get to you. Players are Players because every girl who chooses them they accept even though they've a girl already. And girls who date Players can't easily walk away from the fvckery of it all because they fell in love first. They're invested.

That's the blueprint of dealing with women. Play the game this way and you'll be surprised how far you can go with women WITHOUT spending money. Love is free. If you do it right.

When you let girls choose you become the Prize. The Chosen. And a girl who chooses you will make it EASY for you because she wants you to win. She'll test you Yes, because she needs to assess your masculinity, but she'll root for you. She'll be lenient and give you more opportunities than you deserve. And that's very important for your chances with her.

So how do you choose a girl? By letting a girl choose you. Ignore the ones who ignore you. Pay attention only to those who pay you attention. Remember every girl wants your attention, but not every girl will give you attention. So save your attention for the girls who are prepared to give you theirs.

Your attention is free but it means a lot to women. The compliments you give willy-nilly are oxygen to their self-esteem. Your drooling looks are the validation they can't breathe without. So make sure you don't give them out freely. Be stingy with.

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This writeup lays the groundwork for the longer and more indepth "Approaching Girls With Minimum Risk Of Rejection"

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Gmasterp:
Just incase you decide to delete it in the future this is my copy. grin

ubunja:
like I told that girl earlier, sexual rejection is NOT the same as Professional rejection.


and since you talk about companies, do you just go interview with a company randomly or do you go when they advertise?

that advert = a green light.

this is game I'm giving you.

AussiePlayboy:
From my experience, every man must be focused on his purpose. Women are fun and drama. Period!

If you see them as that, you will always know and catch yourself when slacking. You never want to get your foot off the gas.

Brah, I don't wanna sound like I'm dickriding but you are damn good. I feel like we are or rather we were dating the same girl.

At a point I thought I was losing it when we sexed, so i started working out more and taking good fruit supplements to boost my stamina but later realised it was because I was becoming soft towards her and she lost that respect for me.

The sex wasn't forth coming, it's like she wants me to beg for what she usually wake me up with almost every morning when ever she visits. Always making up excuses why she can't have sex, we'll set up 'appointment' and she'll end up not coming and will just throw a flimsy excuse or just apologise without much care and when she eventually visits, it's usually when she's on red or she's very tired after a long day and would like to have a good rest or she comes with her friend and won't spend the night. I asked what's wrong and tried to be reasonable after pressuring her to open up to me, she just started telling me BS like "Even if there's no sex, can't I just hold myself, must we have sex? If I truly love her, I should respect the fact that she's not just in the mood for sex these days because she's stressed and always under pressure". After that statement, I didn't breakup immediately, but just withdrew totally and that's how what I felt for her 'died' instantly. She still kept on calling telling me how she loves me and all, also sending love/romantic/sex-related text messages but at a point she realised I'd stopped calling and sending her love texts messages, so She queried why I stopped calling or texting her as usual. I was just giving her different type of excuses.

What truly baffled me till date is how she cried numerous times, asking me if it is a crime for her to love me( truly, when we started dating, I was strict, unapologetic even if i was at fault and was still in contact with my ex). That she's never felt like this for any guy. Would even update her WhatsApp profile picture with my own photo, told other chykers blatantly that I am her bf( I found out on my own), always talked about what our future, kids will be like, even begged me not to break her heart else she might do the unthinkable. I felt weak, and let my Alpha status down. I completely shut other girls out, even my ex who wanted us to just be FWB.
What I am happy about is that even after all her crying, I still kept the remaining 58% of my heart in a vault. So I was just heartbroken for a week or so, then bounced back. but the unfortunate thing was that my FWB-ex also shut me out after she got into a very serious relationship, and I had to respect that. So I had to start p*ssy-hunting all over again

At the bold. What do you mean be calm? Like you shouldn't initiate the sex, rather you wait for her?
Secondly, if she indeed initiate it. By setting standard for her, will it be to refuse her advance or like flirting with other girls in her presence, picking calls of other girls in her presence. This happened years ago back then in the University. So since then, I haven't been in a serious relationship, mostly just hookups. So I need to get the 'right tools' when I finally decide to get back in

ubunja:
oh man, good to read this. Truth always sets us free.

Thanks my friend. The Sex Cartel is as real as the air we breathe.

And that thread you linked is painful to read. How men still chase women with their crazy demands.

CyberWolf:
The woman loves your money not you, get that into your head.

Bright12660:
you all have these knowledge but yo didn't post them. When you guys tell us the reason girls loose their virginity to agberos and exCon, and why rich married women are usually caught cheating with broke guys, i will take you guys serious. For now, that attention you guys need from NL women, they will rather give it to Ubunja than to you guys

AussiePlayboy:
A woman can never love you "for you" - or the way you want to be loved, they only love how you make them feel, and it changes.

AussiePlayboy:
NACE13



Bruv!
You need to know that your physical looks are absolutely one of the lowest of what keeps a woman (unless used well) They are quite good for the initial attraction, however, you only need to meet her minimum looks requirement to get her. To keep a woman requires more than looks. You cannot act feminine with meaningless arguments and still expect her to stay in line. You got to lead, be confident and she's got to look up to you. Also, more importantly, she has to feel like you also have other options.


I am sure, with a lot more education, you will never make the mistake of asking her what's wrong or trying to discuss when she is refusing sex. That is way too weak. You never negotiate sex with a woman. They have to be drawn to it.

She is spinning you with the "If I truly love her line ... " because she definitely is all soft and dandy with someone else. Women break rules when the attraction is high. This is why we always ask men to watch how she acts when she is with you. That's all that matters.
You already lowered her attraction beyond revival. Only a breakup 100% initiated by you could repair it.


The moment you understand that a woman can never love you, she only loves the way you make her feel. Then you will see why it was all good in the beginning.


Being calm means being in frame; After a fight, she will be defensive and masculine around you and this you never want as she has to be feminine. So she will throw you all manner of her shit tests to pull you off-centre. This is why you have to always be on your purpose, it will remind you that all she is only bringing drama. Also gives you the frame to set the tone when she returns. A lot of guys are rather the emotional ones in these situations and end up being pussy-whooped trying to get her validation.
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Let her see these girls interested in you, it increases your sexual value, also depending on how attractive the girls are. I never advocate for men to be truly monogamous. It only sets you up for disaster, because women will misuse it when they sense it. She always has options, so you have to keep looking for yourself.
Of course, if she initiates sex, then that's all it is, but she won't even be willing unless she is feminine.


You as a man have non-sexual attention(your time, money, resources, care etc) and it has a value in the eyes of a woman.

This is what they trade in for ultimately when the get married. Giving it away easily, like taking her early on for trips to the Bahamas reduces the value faster than sipping orange juice from a straw. She's got to earn it. The same way women make men earn the sex, she's got to earn the dates, calls and time with you.

You want to limit your non-sexual attention while showing more of your sexual attention.

frank417:
Like it or not money attracts and sustains love oga. Even ur girlfriend loves money and prays things get better for u because she knows if money is removed from d relationship, there will be serious wahala.
All women love money! Remove that nollywood mentality from ur head and face reality!


I still stand on my 1st and previous comments on this thread. Get money!

Peterosky:
To the best of my knowledge, what ever you wrote there is vise versa.Because I know of girls who will love and show it openly,same as men. So no need for all this long episode against the females. Although some of your points would have been valid if only you try to do away with your gender bias.
Guys don't let any one spoil your good romance skills when you find that miss right.
My candid advice is that we learn to love wisely instead of loving foolishly. The best to do is to love and watch when the other partner is trying to be funny. This will enable you adjust to suit him/her.
Love is Sweet when it is balanced and not the other way round. We can not afford to continue to subject our girls to undeserved torture due to one Man's miseducation, misconception and hate for the female folks.Let's say no to any form of miseducation.Do not allow yourself to be fooled by any body who intentionally wants to fool you. Otherwise, why is the topic tagged "Miseducation"
A word they say is enough for the wise. I am out.

henryobinna:
alright, you've been heard.
can you just move on please?

when2:
Message comming from a boy with low self esteem.

BLUEJAYY:
And now my age-long, reliable and successful strategy is exposed.

I figured out quite early during my teenage years that it was a lot easier when the girls do the loving and chasing stuff. I realized that I got a ton of the attraction from girls in my school due to my academic success and charisma and ever since, I've grown up with that mentality and expertise of getting women attracted to me and it's been so successful.

I still see women I'd like to have but they are no different from the ones at my beck and call, so I don't really see the need to chase. Also, I'm not used to chasing so it seems like a lot of work and stupidity for me, trying to get a girl to love me.

I've got a lot of good women who love me genuinely and would do anything in the world for my happiness. I really like these women and we're great friends and I have the utmost respect for them all but unfortunately I'm non-committal. But no matter how much I fvcked up so badly they'd still stick around and pray for me to change.

It made me so sad for them that I couldn't be the committed person that they've always wanted. I feel bad for them but I always wish they get to find a good man who'd reciprocate their love and be true to them.

Recently, one got a new fiance and told me about him and I'm really happy for her.

baby124:
Kai. What a sad life and existence you must live.

EmptyCoconutHead:
keep quiet there and face the true factm.
love is imaginary, this stuff is just mutual interest.
squirrel01 is very right

Martinez39:
Guy, how far? I am now online. How was it? Anything to discuss?

EmptyCoconutHead:
happy new month bro. i sent and wished u a new month text via WhatsApp but it couldn't deliver as my WhatsApp data expired.
after u were banned I can't come across your new moniker again.
how far na?

ubunja:
Posting by Friday:

1Pleasures Of The Cash [book excerpt]
2The Female Source Code
3Chosen
4No Green Lights No Approach.
5All The Sex In The World.
6On Shît Testing.

emmaodet:
Chairman, welcome back bro.
Really missed you.
As promised before and i still stand by it, which address am i sending your gift and name?
Pls be fast bro

lawrykings:
Thank you master Ubunja.

Squirrel01:
Love doesn't exist. Stop lying to yourself. It's all game, mutual interest.