| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by keryj(f): 1:18pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Thank you for sharing.
You need not pressure yourself, since u are comfortable now, try blending back in the society. You can start making friends from the church youth group, check your secondary school or uni days friends or chat group if u have any, try to visit them, close in on cousins that can help u to socialise and mingle with their groups, stroll along the beach, go to the cinama to book for movies, attend concerts etc. At first you might feel lonely but as time goes on u might get close to some people you meet and chat with along the way. Try to be open to conversations and warm approaches from people.
If u need more friends, am open to be your friend. Apart from location, we can be online gist pals. |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Omoluabi16(m): 1:29pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
The confines of your bedroom/space has offered you comfort so far. Now you need something more, so you need to go out there.
Love has no manual so forget the church/party or gym thing, people have found love in the most unlikely places. Just genuinely be that person capable of loving and receiving love back..then you will either find it, or it will find you. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by abumeinben(m): 1:39pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.
A brief rundown about myself.
I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.
Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.
I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.
Now my pain..
I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them. 
I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.
I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.
Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.
Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.
P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.
Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?
I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me.  I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.
I am open to questions. Any at all.
Calm down babe. Carry yourself go cinema. You go mingle there. Or if you're too "something" like you said, you should attend conferences or meetings or gatherings related to your hustling. Money nor be everything o. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala get husband, Omotola get husband, Missy Elliott get, even Nicki Minaj has retired from music just to get hubby. I also don't have friends in ma area, intact my close friends don move go Canada. But I still manage give masef a life. My cinema is in ma room, if I'm bored, na to go pool go swim be that. No clubbing, no bar or joint.......I dey come |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Kazeemakeem(m): 1:39pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.
A brief rundown about myself.
I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.
Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.
I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.
Now my pain..
I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.
I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.
I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.
Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.
Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.
P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.
Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?
I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.
I am open to questions. Any at all.
my sister u must marry it is sunnah |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by olabrinks(f): 1:45pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Do you know where I met my husband? I met him in a park when I was walking to my friends house, it was very random but that is life. I’m not the person who has too many friends or likes to go out too much. You can find your partner anywhere, even when you are just walking across your street. So forget about joining churches or organisations just to find a husband. The reality is that you will see 50 single ladies fighting over 4 men in those type of settings. Sometimes the men in church are more demonic than those walking on the street. Who has time for that? Stick to going out by yourself, men approach women who are alone than in groups. Try to look presentable each time you go out, even if you’re going to the market, you never know who you might bump into. And be open and friendly to guys that may approach you. Don’t force yourself to start joining churches or social events strictly for a husband, because if things don’t turn out your way, that’s when depression will kick in. Go for strolls, go out shopping, go out to eat etc, you can do all these things by yourself and you are still putting yourself out there to be seen by potential guys. Pray also. I would say 25 is young but it’s not too young to start preparing for marriage/settling down. Time flies by quick and before you know it you’re 30, so atleast you’re on the right track by acknowledging what you want. Goodluck  3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Kazeemakeem:
my sister u must marry it is sunnah And whats your comment supposed to mean? If you don't have anything to contribute, just waka pass. Tanchu |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Omoluabi16:
The confines of your bedroom/space has offered you comfort so far. Now you need something more, so you need to go out there.
Love has no manual so forget the church/party or gym thing, people have found love in the most unlikely places. Just genuinely be that person capable of loving and receiving love back..then you will either find it, or it will find you. Your last sentence...is GOLD! |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
keryj:
Thank you for sharing.
You need not pressure yourself, since u are comfortable now, try blending back in the society. You can start making friends from the church youth group, check your secondary school or uni days friends or chat group if u have any, try to visit them, close in on cousins that can help u to socialise and mingle with their groups, stroll along the beach, go to the cinama to book for movies, attend concerts etc. At first you might feel lonely but as time goes on u might get close to some people you meet and chat with along the way. Try to be open to conversations and warm approaches from people.
If u need more friends, am open to be your friend. Apart from location, we can be online gist pals. Too much sense. Thumbs up! |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 2:00pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:
Must you quote me? Drop your comments and get lost. I gave her a sincere advice. Good thing that your kinds who normally tag ladies ''beggers and oloshos''are here to see an independent woman, who has succeeded without a man's help. Many abound, she's among the few to speak up. Yes I repeat......OP beware of NL guys, if you must chose a guy here, go through his threads, if he is an alpha male or a misogynist who follows all the female oppressive threads on this platform, then keep off. I didnt know you were counting times i've mentioned you, even if she is d 1st independent woman to you, that is a norm in my circle. listen gud i can mention you anytime i fvckin feel like it, u've a choice nt to reply,so deal with it. ok !! it is a public faceless forum, who the fvck is OP to even select guys here, una don see hungry men  funny tinz |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Sambaby7640: 2:06pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:
Gosh you cracking me up real bad
@ picture ok sir. Any of the following should get you a guy or guys� 1. Upload your pics on nairaland and try to disturb our peace, trust me you will receive lot of PMs if you are not UGLY.(remember to upload an accessible Mail) 2. Go out and meet real peeps;go to cinemas,clubs,Youth gatherings and so on Getting a man should not be difficult as long as you do not form too hard to get and remember "Smiling" will always go a long way in helping you to achieve your goal. Now get to work. |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 2:24pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
I may not be perfect but I know I will fit in much into your life. All you need is a cool headed, focused and determined fellow of which I assure you but would have to attest to it ny yourself. saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.
A brief rundown about myself.
I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.
Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.
I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.
Now my pain..
I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.
I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.
I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.
Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.
Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.
P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.
Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?
I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.
I am open to questions. Any at all.
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| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Colehn1800: 2:30pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Hello girlie,
I want you to know that you're girlie, and you did a great thing by taking your destiny in your hands and determining you you want to be financially and you were able to do that. I can relate with you and your feelings. And I would advice you to take a break from work and unshackle yourself.
1. Dress nicely and stroll around in your street in the evening.
2. Talk with people in your place of worship and if you're an agnostic, connect with people through meetups.
3. Read how to talk to anyone by Leil Lowndes.
4. You have accomplish a part of living finance, but I think you need a purpose in life. Read The art of Non Conformity by Chris Guillebeau, The art of work by Jeff Goins, How to be sad in life by Amos Adedyoin These 3 books will help you have clarity on living and you might see where your skills and abilities are needed to add value to the life of other people.
5. Volunteer for a local charity.
Don't think you ain't doing the right thing by choosing to be good, and not like those small girls who choose to be someone's girlfriend, real men don't go after girls who don't know where they are going!
You just have to be humble when you see someone( when you're in a relationship ), and lie low so you won't attract gold diggers.
Lastly, I highly recommend that you should travel to the meditarranean, the Balkans, sou h east Asia and Europe especially the country side, this is to free yourself and be more free with people.
I know you will meet someone! ��� 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by keryj(f): 2:35pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
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| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 2:38pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Offpoint:
How does a university graduates sound?
If you can composed a good sentence after SS, university won't save your azz.
Self Development is the key, I dropped out year 1 when I realized Versity is a waste of time and resources.
my dear i did'nt mean to offend you. I am also a product of polytechnic and i never regret it. |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Offpoint:
How does a university graduates sound?
If you can composed a good sentence after SS, university won't save your azz.
Self Development is the key, I dropped out year 1 when I realized Versity is a waste of time and resources.
what about us being into something serious?? |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Ebusfun007: 2:44pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.
A brief rundown about myself.
I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.
Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.
I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.
Now my pain..
I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.
I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.
I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.
Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.
Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.
P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.
Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?
I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.
I am open to questions. Any at all.
First thing is, you don't have to chase a man, it is a man's thing to chase. What i'll suggest you do is when ever you're going out, look your best; try and be more accepting of people, forget about what you've heard or read online about people's behavior that is not humanity entirely. Trust me their are lots of good people out there and you'll be amazed on who God will bring to your part. I wish you the best. |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Emilycp(m): 2:57pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.
A brief rundown about myself.
I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.
Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.
I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.
Now my pain..
I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.
I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.
I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.
Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.
Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.
P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.
Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?
I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.
I am open to questions. Any at all.
. I am also looking for a serious date that would lead to marriage, let's give a try. |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Pharaoh4rin(m): 3:02pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
You're a pro. I like u already. I don't know d state u @ but if it were in this territory where I am, you'll get menn queueing 4 u. It's a matter of u visiting any ATM gallery by weekends. If u want guys to flood ur lane, just a simple dress of blue/black Jean and a white top will do d magic. Trust me! |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by fullofgrace(m): 3:10pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Start with church fellowship. Involved ur self in societies in the church God will give u multiple to make ur choice |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by SendAbroad: 4:08pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
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| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Georgekyrian(m): 5:33pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.
A brief rundown about myself.
I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.
Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.
I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.
Now my pain..
I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.
I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.
I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.
Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.
Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.
P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.
Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?
I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.
I am open to questions. Any at all.
i was not even able to send you private DM on your email. beep me i just want to corrupt you then introduce you to a group that will crack you up |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Mishinah: 5:51pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Please I want to learn ur biz, I.need something to do to fetch me money. |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:21pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Yes.....I hate your mentions becos you never say anything sensible. Suddenly successful women now run in your circle, smh, if you are seen in another thread now, you will call women names. Quit my mentions.......I don't want to derail this thread. ericsmith:
I didnt know you were counting times i've mentioned you, even if she is d 1st independent woman to you, that is a norm in my circle. listen gud i can mention you anytime i fvckin feel like it, u've a choice nt to reply,so deal with it. ok !!
it is a public faceless forum, who the fvck is OP to even select guys here, una don see hungry men funny tinz |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Fundamentalist: 7:01pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Wish you luck  . finding honest and sincere people in contemporary times , is quite difficult. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by blairfames(f): 7:36pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Gracealone:
Be positive, get involved in volunteering activities. If you are a Christian, join a church, if possible one with a large youth population, and get involved.
Don't carry it on your head so that no one will take advantage of you. true |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by blairfames(f): 7:37pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Jordanbelfort07:
sagittarius are usually very unemotional and cold hearted.. Thats probably the reason why you can't land a man.
OP I'm sorry but you will probably end up alone till you grow old and die.
So just live life as it comes. Marriage is not a must this is an insensitive thing to say |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Jordanbelfort07: 7:46pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
blairfames:
this is an insensitive thing to say But its true nah  |
| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 7:52pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:
Yes.....I hate your mentions becos you never say anything sensible. Suddenly successful women now run in your circle, smh, if you are seen in another thread now, you will call women names. Quit my mentions.......I don't want to derail this thread. wow!! av been on NL since 013 buh register 015, in 4yrs i've bin online for 2mnths20days ... someone knows me enough to hates me listen gurl u don't tell me what to do, rather stop fantazing numbers of time i quote u, if u had brain ur sense should av told you, your comment attract an insensible reponse becos yours are alway void of balanced reasoning. . that makes us the incrediblesinsensible couple of NL. 
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| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by blairfames(f): 7:59pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
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| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Shinapraise(m): 8:12pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.
A brief rundown about myself.
I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.
Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.
I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.
Now my pain..
I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.
I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.
I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.
Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.
Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.
P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.
Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?
I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.
I am open to questions. Any at all. Hmmm it quite commendable to see such persons of your calibre moving mountainim so humble to meet you I will like to take this time out to meet you physical I'm a diploma holder un able to finish my degree due to financial issues I had to save and use the little I have to start business I'm single and ready to mingle should u find my comment worth liking u can contact me by checking my signature for my digits looking forward to hearing from you (Oscar )
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| Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 9:24pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:
Ericsmith, the ugliest and most wretched guy on NL, I will ignore you becos I can't imargine descending so low to your level, a tout, you uploaded your pix sometime ago, you are a skunk of a man ........filthy ugly tramp. You delight so much bashing women, but I refuse to keep you entertained by my words. So I await more mentions, but take note, that everything you type henceforth is directed to your self. why use bedroom voice to call my name naw, even u wey ur mum stil dey decide d pant & bra u wear dey talk of levels. weytin buhari no go see 4 gate listen gud, for every compliment you throw @me there is an awaiting counter compliment frm ur aunties. choke on that 
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